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writes: iam so sad wateva i do i feel like is againt me. i try hard to do my uni reports and i always get grades i dont deserve, however my best who dnt try hard she always get better marks then me cuz i feel like she gets my idea. especially when i help. im not jealous wen she gets better marks but i just feel down. i also feel like she uses me to get wateva she wants. wheneva i wana buy something e.g bag, laptop or holiday, she goes ahead and gets it before me. i feel like she dnt she wana be better then everyone. i hate to say this but she makes me angry and upset when she does this to me. how can i tell her about everything she does to me it upsets me.plz help
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you guys for the advice and im gna start doing wat u just told me.thnx again
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (8 December 2009):
 Your friend is only able to distress you because you let it happen...sorry to be harsh but it is time to not accept this passively. If she is always making you feel bad re-evaluate the friendship...surely it is not worth it! We live in a competitive world and she can only steal your ideas if you tell her what they are to begin with. It sounds to me that she is a bit lacking in self confidence and imagination if she constantly 'borrows' your ideas. You are feeling depressed and it is easy to put everything in your life in a negative frame when your mood is low. If you are genuinely rubbish at your college-course, find another one - do some aptitude tests to see what you are good at. I had a couple of career changes before I discovered what I wanted to be 'when I grow up' (still waiting for maturity to kick in though!). There is nothing wrong with recognising your own weaknesses - just keep it in balanced perspective, you have lots of good stuff going for you...or else your mate would not keep stealing this from you!
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (8 December 2009):
 Maybe you should get an account on here and help people out.Other then that i think i kno what you mean some people seem to have it easy in life like they came from the womb of Lady Luck, lol but hey this may be the only life you have your only chance to see sun rises and sunsets to feel ocean breezes to experience the first snowfall of the season to love and give life. So enjoy the good experiences learn from the bad ones. If your around someone that upsets you stop being around them your spirit is conflicted by hers im pretty sure you will feel better if you keep her out of your life.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 December 2009):
This happens frequently to everyone. She will feel the same way about someone else she knows. I've just set up a company, and so did a person I work with. Without any effort or advertising, he has already done far more than me and his company is going well. I've done advertising, I've spoken to people, yet it's not going well for me. but I haven't given up. The point is, you will always meet people who seem to have it easier than you. Maybe they do. All you can do is fight for yourself and your own life. You can't tell her she upsets you, she's your friend. But you can just keep fighting for yourself and one day hopefully it'll work out.
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