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Help for my sex addiction...

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Question - (8 December 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 11 December 2009)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I think I may have a problem in that I think I'm a sex addict. I want to stop and I'm ashamed to get help for it. I find it hard to end it with these men that I am fb with. I dont want to hurt anyone. What can I do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009):

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I am removing myself from my sexual contacts and making a fresh new start. Im going to break free and start living my life the way I should happy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2009):

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Its like I have two sides to me a good side and a bad side. I hate to say it but it feels good to be bad. I dont want to feel that way.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009):

Growth requires courage. By admitting the problem you've got a good start. The next step is to talk with a specialist and break your shame that is holding you back. You're not 'bad' because you've been sexual with a number of people. Call 925 780-6700 and check out our website

www.SexAddictTreatment.net We know therapists all around the country

Don L. Mathews MFT, Director

Impulse Treatment Center

2940 Camino Diablo ste 110

Walnut Creek CA 94597

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009):

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Thanks I will take this all in consideration :)

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A female reader, bitch United States +, writes (8 December 2009):

SAA Sex Addiction Annoynmous and SLAA Sex and Love addiction annonymous are groups designed to help sex addicts in recovery. Look them up online and see if there are any local groups in your area that can support you through meetings

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (8 December 2009):

Ask yourself why you do it. Is it the attention? Have you been hurt in the past and don't want to get too close? There will be a reason you do it. Maybe some counselling would help? Or a chat with the doctor, who can point you in the right direction.

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A male reader, Male20 United Kingdom +, writes (8 December 2009):

are you sure its an addiction?

the first step to recovery is to realise you do have a problem and then you must seek help. i imagine speaking to a doctor will point you in the right way to help with your issue.

to be honest, its your life, you have to take control of it and under certain circumstances if it mean upsetting people along the way then so be it!

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