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writes:Some advice or reassurance! pweaseeWhen me and my boyfriend have intercourse he can never come. He often loses his hardon aswell. He tells me it feels good but it obviously doesn't, he's fine during foreplay but sometimes can't get fully hard but can always come he tells me he prefers playing with me and doesn't seem keen on me touching his penis at all until he's got it out.is it because im not very good? i think i do okay at bjs/hjs why doens't he like me starting to rub him etc do i not feel any good when he's inside me do most men come from intercourse?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): It has been a week and my usually very sexually attratced bf to me cant seem to get hard at ALL! I seem to want to blame myself for his minor problem,on the other hand i'm a very sexually active woman and i still have very real sexual needs i know that he cant help his not being able to stand up,but what am i suppose to do with myself in the mean while?I love him with all my heart i dont want or desire to cheat on him,but i cant sit around and pretend i dont have sexual needs to be meet now can I??please any feed back would be helpful!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your help! It really made me feel better I'm going to talk about it with him x
cheeers!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (8 December 2009):
No, nothing to do with you whatsoever. He just might be nervous about it all or stressed, both of which can affect an erection. It isn't you one bit. Don't worry
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2009): Oh sweetie so sorry!
Try to get him more comfortable with you and you touching him? Sorry dont have many suggestions here.
Love,
Lilly
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