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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why will she no longer let me cum in her mouth?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

5 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hello there, i find myself getting a little frustrated/resentful these days and have gone to counselling and been very open about the matter with my fiance. now i understand this topic may sound offensive or degrading to some women/men on here and i assure you that is no... (517 words)

How can I tell if I can trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5541 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Have been seeing a guy for over a year. We met on vacation (not the classiest of meetings I know, but has been more than a holiday fling) in a long-distance relationship. First he was very serious about me and asked to meet me all the time, he talked of a futu... (412 words)

Whenever I express my expectation to her she gets mad!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

5 August 2009 (M)

age - Girls, what all do you do in a relationship to make things happy and strong between you and your partner. I mean EVERYTHING..from getting up in the morning to the time you go to bed. I am in a relationship for past 14 months and I love her a lot and she says she does too. But ... (287 words)

How do I get her back, when I have blown so many chances?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How can I get my ex back after she has giving me so many chances to change? ... (17 words)

Boyfriend engrossed with work and now so distant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5538 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of four years has recently become so engrossed with his work that that is all he focusses on. We don't live together but a couple of weeks ago we were having a lovely time. Cuddles, laughs, talking about the future, great sex. Now he has become like a different ... (234 words)

How do I let my best guy friend know I am in love with him and not risk our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have this guy friend who i am very into but i dont think he is into me.....we are always flirting and stuff he has always been there for me when my rents were fighting he was there when i feel down a hill a spraned my ankle he carried me to the house he nos all my deepsest ... (138 words)

He totally changed and I need advice on how to improve things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5616 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help. I have posted my problem with my boyfriend's retroactive jealousy, and some advice was helpful. But ultimately nothing has changed for the better, however we are not really trying. What can I do?? How can I keep the man I love?? We were SO in love before any ... (106 words)

Is there some kind of insecurity on his part, that makes him tell me these things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently I broke up w/ my ex. we've talked alot since then and slept together.Last time we talked it was kinda iffy cos I asked if he was goin on a date/who he was hanging w/ and he felt I was pryin *he also said its not his friends/my biz who he hangs w/ - so he got mad *I ... (330 words)

We are trying to have a baby, with no sucess, any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey im 20 nearly 21 and me and my boyfriend are tryin for a baby. Iv come off the pill but just doesnt seem to happen for us as much as we try. I find after sex that half of the cum seems to leave me as soon as i get up from the bed. Its really gettin to the point where i fe... (96 words)

I flirted, he took it seriously, now I want out, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, ok so one day i was bored at my house, and i was in the mood to flirt with any guy, so i went on myspace and i started flirting with one of my guy friends. back then when i knew that guy,he was a player, but when i started flirting with him, he flirted back exc... (144 words)

Should I believe him, or continue with my plans?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help! Me and my boyfriend of a year and a half broke up a few months ago, and ever since then we've been on-off. I still love him with all of my heart, and he says he does too, but the way he treats me says something completely different. If we get into one of our arguments ... (295 words)

I broke up with my boyfriend because he was slating my mum... but now he says he'll change, I don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i recenetly borke up with my boyfriend who i had been with for 2 1/2 years. he was my first everything and i also lost my verginity with him. i spilt up with him because he was talking about my mam in a horrible way(shes disabled) so i broke up with him on the 3/8.09 and i just ... (215 words)

He is jealous of me innocently helping another man. what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm engaged to a great guy, however there seem to be some inscurities that pop up now and then. We were on trip with some friends and there waa a new friend who was going to stay with us in our hotel room. He's about 10 yrs younger and was talking about his new booty call and ... (228 words)

Is he oblivious to the fact that I like him, or is he uninterested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all! I've known this guy for a few months now but I still can't figure him out. He is an outgoing guy but he doesn't seem like a jerk, like all the other guys I have been with. I consider myself attractive and even his friend said I was hot and I think we would be perfect ... (142 words)

We work together and care for each other, married to others, she is being laid off, should I stay in touch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Help...I am a successful, 34 year old married man with three great kids. My 8 year marriage is average...fair share of arguing, not much sex, but happy kids and my wife and I get along about half of the time. Actually we are more like roommates at this point. If we didn't ... (309 words)

Should I tell him how I feel and risk losing him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex boyfriend and I broke up just over a month ago now. we were in a very close and serious relationship, we loved each other very much and always had fun together. we didnt break up because of arguments or cheating, basically its because our relationship would h... (320 words)

Seeing her for 10 months, making a ring for her, good idea? Any other gift ideas?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, im 16 and my gf is 15, we've been goin out for ten months now, and we're goin back to school in a few weeks. we really miss eachother, and i really wanna make it special when we i see her, so i started making her a ring, yes, making one. anyway, i wanna know if giving her ... (119 words)

He is very territorial and we have sexual problems, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - At the end of May of this year, my ex got back in touch and we eventually decided to try again since the reasons we broke up 8 months before was mainly due to lack of time because of his career. We have now been dating 2 months and already I feel like I am back in a major ... (274 words)

We are in a difficult, troubled relationship and I need help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay i dont wanna say i know what love is; i think i know what love is. Ive been dating this guy for a while now and things are so messed up, and ive tried everything i can to make things better, and it sucks vecaue everything stays the same. so, i first met him in grade 9 a... (746 words)

I have a constant need to urinate, even after I relieve myself, what is the problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - right... i have a small problem. i constantly need to pee, and when i do urinate, after i have finished, it feels like im still peeing/need to pee still. has anyone ever had any thing like this/ know what it is? thanks loopyloo x... (54 words)

He says the sex is still amazing, so why would he not want to see me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need some advice. Have been seeing this guy casually for about 5 months. We always met up once a week to hang out and sleep together as we were friends with benefits and we both did not want a relationship. He used to text me around 3 times a week to ask how I was etc ... (400 words)

Should I keep the one I'm with, or go back to the one I had before?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everybody! I live with my bf right now,he is 41 years old.My ex whoe is 57, is now chasing me again and sent me and engagement ring. My ex is a wealthy man, my bf does not even have a job. My bf gets $ from his parents. My bf wants to marry me and I told him NO! for all ... (94 words)

This relationship is all very one-sided and I want SO much more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I feel like I am in a one-sided relationship. I love my boyfriend, but he only has said he loves me when I found out he was on a fling site. Now I do not trust him, and he lied before so how do I know he is not lying now. he is going on a motorcycle trip by himself in a few ... (245 words)

So many things have happened and we can't trust each other. I need advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5616 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for going on three years now. To most that doesn't seem like a long time but we're young, and this was both of ours first relationship. When we got together, we really hit it off, as most couples do when entering a new relationship, I guess. ... (907 words)

He says he loves me, and I love him so much, but I don't know if he means it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - This guy says he loves me but I don't know if I believe him. We went out and then just out of nowhere he ended it cause he 'just found someone else' and after three months of us not talking he texted me out of the blue. We started talking and I have never stopped loving him ... (105 words)

How can I convince him I'm not cheating or playing games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i am a 22 year old woman who has 3 kids and i am in love with a 36 year old man who has 3 kids of his own but because of the age gap he thinks i am cheating and playing games with him due to the fact we do not live together he is very jealous and worries of what i am doing ... (79 words)

I'm sick of being hurt yet I cheat on the good guys, what should I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im so over all men. im so sick of being hurt. i have had so many men in my life i cant hold on to them. im not clinggy im not one of those annoying girlfriends like my friends i try to be the oppisite. i always choos the manwhores and then when i have a good one i cheat on him. ... (77 words)

My husband's yo-yo diet is stressing me out!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, my name is Kayla. I've become very concerned about my husband recently, he seems to be yo-yo dieting, and constantly binging on food, then only eating very little some weeks. He does drink a LOT of Diet Coke; I don't buy it when we go shopping but he somehow manag... (220 words)

He's a player who talks to me about everything and even sleeps naked with me, but he doesn't want sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There’s that guy who is my neighbor and we get along really well. The problem is that we physically attracted to each other but he has had bad experience before hooking up with neighbors so he comes in my room sometimes and sleeps naked with me he won’t do anything except hug ... (269 words)

Is this the beginning of the end of our life together? I feel disgusted with him since he told me his fantasy.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for 18 years. I know he had one partner before we married and I had also. The other night after a drink he asked me my sexual fantasy. I gave some chicky answer....on a beach or somehting. His was....Since I am turning 40 this year I want ... (156 words)

Am I being a nagging wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband of late has been distant we don t talk as we used to. he seems to think i m trying to run his life especially with Female friends issue.He works all the time leaving no time for his family when he is home he is too tired to do anything of late he just disregards my ... (113 words)

I like this guy but my friend's have dated him and would hate me if they found out! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy but to off my friends dated him and he likes one of my best friends and if they found out i like they would hate me like they did when they found we were talkn so i have to act like i dnt like him when i do like him what should i do?... (58 words)

Our sex life is drying up...What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello,my name is ashley im 23 my boyfriend is 20 we have bin daiting for about 3 1/2 years and we have a lot of fun together...we used to have sex like every other day as time goes on and we get more and more used to each other we dont have sex as much,well try maybe once a ... (122 words)

I hate my clitoris being touched...is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i absoloutly HATE getting my clit touched, i can't stand it. the only way i enjoy sex is when i'm fingered. is this normal?... (24 words)

Even though we are taking things slow again, shouldn't I have the right to be upset that I found his profile on a dating site?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I was seeing a guy for 3 months last year that I met online. We live in the same city, have the same interests and outlook on life. He had just broken up with his fiance when we got together so I started to realize that I was the rebound girl (we were sleeping together), just ... (418 words)

Wanting to "spice up" the times we make out. Any tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (?) - So i'm wanting to spice up the kissing a bit. You know, don't want to just keep doing the same thing every time we make out. Any fun tricks or things you like to do while making out that really gets your guy going?? I'm up for about anything! thanks in advance! :-)... (56 words)

Since our weekend plans got muddled up he's been cold with me! What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy a few weeks back and we really hit it off, we swapped numbers and we've been texting, he asked me out on a date and telling me how much he would love to take me out and spoil me, he was rally nice, i text me all the time non stop. We arranged to go on a date at a ... (188 words)

If it goes from a relationship to casual sex, shouldn't the issue be discussed first?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all got a relationship question if a u go steady with someone and the relationship goes down and only becomes a sexual one am i right by saying that the person introduces it by saying he/she just wants sex because they hoping that some how they can work things out?... (51 words)

How can I fix my overgrown labia??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i think my labia sticks out too much. is it possible for it to stick out? is there something wrong with it? if there is, can i fix it somehow?... (30 words)

How do I get him to realise that enough is enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age - Ok, I think I have had enough. I am a 46 y/o divorced woman, mother of 2 kids. I have been with the same man for 6 years...6 very long years. We are not married nor do we live together. I am at my wits end. I have been through so much with him and stuck by him through t... (442 words)

Does he like me or is he playing around? What should I do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been flirting with a guy now for a few months but he has been seeing someone else.He used to text me and come see me at work all the time and until he stopped i didnt know i liked him. Recently i had a drunken encounter with him nothing happened but my mate said he was ... (177 words)

Is it a good idea to text my ex happy birthday?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is it a good idea to text your ex telling him happy birthday and what is a suggested text?... (19 words)

None of the condoms fit him! Where can we get larger ones?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my man to bits and, if I may be so bold, the sex is out of this world! But we have a problem. We can't find condoms to fit him. Have tried Pasante Kingsize which are wider than even the Magnum XXL. They leave him with uncomfortable bruises. Any help? ... (61 words)

How can I ask him if he wants to hang out without making it obvious that I like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'll start by explaining I am an extremely shy person. I have decided i am going to message my crush (of almost 9 years)and ask him if he'd like go climbing sometime (we both rock climb). I am extremely nervous about this i get nauseous. I used to see him every day and bl... (158 words)

Shall I persue this girl or let it go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hey guys i am in dire need of help... ok so i lost my ex and was a wreck till i met this girl. we hit it off right from the start. so much even that i thought i was ready to date again... so i did i dated this girl for a few weeks... dinner movies... we had sex twice and she ... (126 words)

How can I keep this jealousy at bay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am going away tomorrow to a music festival with my boyfriend and some of his mates. One of them is a girl and I know that my boyfriend fancies her. She's gorgeous, funny, slim and cool, and every bloke I know that knows her fancies her, a few have even gone so far as to say ... (350 words)

How can I convice my daughter that she'd be aborting for the wrong reasons?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My 17 year old daughter is pregnant. We have always talked openly about keeping the baby should she ever become pregnant. Her boyfriend does not want her to keep the baby. I am so upset she is now considering abortion. We took her down to her appt. and she couldn't go ... (119 words)

Does her reminiscing mean she's interested again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

5 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi.........i broke up with my Ex well she Dumped me about a month ago after going out for Four months....and being best freinds for 4years before that. lately she has been acting weird.......she jus started asking me things like.......do i think about the things we used to ... (132 words)

Is there anyting I can do to help him get out of of this situation as I love him so so much?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been seeing this married bloke for 4 months now and he has a son and a wife in another country which he has recently gone back to, however what me and him had was good he was loving caring thoughtfull and really nice and good looking. his wife always puts him down about ... (240 words)

I think she loves me but I think she has a boyfriend. What do I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i loved a girl form 2004 till now i love her but i have never talk to her she stay behind my house. in staring i use to go to her collage she notice me there .after that she pretend to me that she has a boy friend .she also show before me that she has a boy friend she has gone ... (304 words)

Oral Sex and my gums...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - whenever i give head..my gum's feel weird is it just me? lmaoo !?... (13 words)

I think my boyfriend likes to make passes at girls who where glasses.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is it possible my boyfriend might have a fetish for girls with glasses and dirty blonde hair? whenever i talk about getting contacts he's always like no! i don't mind since i can't get contacts in anyway because my eyes are really sensetive and they "spaz" when anything... (161 words)

He treats me so well but dosen't want a relationship, should I wait for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had asked a question previously about a situation between my good friend and I. This may be long so bare with me, but I really am confused about this situation and would appreciate any input! Basically the sum of it is, we had been friends since high school but he is 2 year... (765 words)

My friends are making a joke about the only good thing about me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - recently i feel like my friends see me as a stupid person. i dont want to come off sounding conceited, but i have always done better in work than most of my friends. recently, ive noticed them making fun and laughing at me because i havent been doing as well, and its like ... (163 words)

Is it bad to share your feelings with the girl you love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it a bad thing to share what your really feeling with a girl you love? even if your insecure? im so afraid its a turn off and hurts more than it helps.. Not big insecurities just talking to her about how much u really want to be with them. like spilling your heart.. telling ... (81 words)

I'm overly sensitive, how can I control my emotions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i think im too sensitive. whenever someone makes a mean or rude remark about me, whether it be about my appearance or my work or anything else, i take it to heart and i remember it. sometimes when its something really hurtful i get teary eyed and i cant seem to control my ... (70 words)

I don't want him seeing other girls, how can I stop this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - heya i need help i think my bf is in love with someone els!! when i ask him to meet me he saiis he will but dusnt and the other night he told me he went out with his mates and they met up with thes girls and this girl askd him if he was single he sed no but she grabbed his hand... (100 words)

We had a nice night together, then he never called me again.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age - Did I do the right thing? My ex and I seemed to be getting back together, we had sex afew times. but the last time he put on all the romantic moves, dinner, opening up, talking about our times together. We had a wonderful night and I stayed over but then I did not hear from ... (312 words)

She's sending mixed messages but I want to be with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I was with my girlfriend for almost five years. We lived together for a long time, but we recently decided to call it quits. At the time it seemed like the correct decision, as we both had questions/concerns about where our relationship was going. We are still relatively young, ... (394 words)

Do you think she really means it? Do people really change? I have lots of questions..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - What does it really mean when someone says there not ready go be with anyone right now, but everytime your together its like youve been together for a long time? If someones feelings are strong enough should it really matter? or do people really mean it when they say they ... (235 words)

Ladies: do you think it's still there for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I honestly am a very confused man who longs to make his wife happy. I thought my wife and I were happily married for many years and with 2 beautiful children things appeared to be working out well. She stays at home and although money is tight we are getting by. Unti... (502 words)

I need to leave an impression when I leave, but I don't know how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

5 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I split with my ex 18 month ago I found out she was seeing someone else, I caused no trouble I walked away, we both work together etc as does the other guy but that hasn’t worked out. Since the split we have no really managed to find any common ground I have tried my very be... (285 words)

I don't see how I could be in love with him..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months now and everything has been ok up until the other day (we've had the occasional argument but what couple hasn't) but the other day everything changed and now i don't know what to do. Me and my boyfriend had both decided we ... (443 words)

How can we have a relationship that includes his kids along with mine if he is gone every weekend to see his on ex wife's terms?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Any advice would help me! I am in an unusual situation. I have met the man of my dreams and I am afraid to lose him. He was married for 20 yrs and has 2 young kids who are his world. He has recently (less than a month) moved 2 hours away to live with me. He wants to see his ... (319 words)

Help, I don't know when / how to start Potty training my twins?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey i am 15 i was 13 when i found out i was pregnant and i was 2 mounth of being 14 when i gave birth anyways i was wondering i have got twins boy '[names removed]' and girl ' [names removed]' and they are one and a half and i do not know when to start potty training or when ... (81 words)

Why doesn't he initiate conversations?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i just needed to ask a small question- if a guy likes you,he would initiate conversations,right? if he talks normal when the girl initiates,but he himself doesnt initiate,what does it mean? ... (37 words)

I have been forgetful with taking my birth control pills... what is plan B?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been pretty forgetful lately with taking my birth control pills. I ended up spotting for a few days, which was weird. I took my pills at the right time for a few days, but I missed one day so I doubled up the next. A few hours after doubling up, I had sex. Stupid, I know. ... (105 words)

My partner prefers brunnettes but I'm blonde?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need to talk to my partner about this but he gets angry however this is driving me insane i need to talk to him about it or write him an email in a away that he can fully understand me and not shout at me. I have been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years.... (342 words)

I need smart opinions on how to handle this jerk

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

5 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so me and my ex were finished 3 months ago. Somehow we managed to still keep in contact because of some important things. Sometimes we would be rude to each other on texts and send harsh words to each other. Later we will realize that we should just wish each other ... (411 words)

He used my insecurities against me!

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 20 years old and right now i feel ruined! i know it's my fault i shouldn't have been so stupid. i met a guy on the net! worst mistake of my life. we had an internet thing going on. we texted talked on the phone etc but we never met. i talked to him for 2 years i don't kn... (532 words)

I'm so into him but I don't know if he is into me!

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i used to like this guy and i knew he liked me he would always hug me more then once in one night and he would try to make me laugh and show off in from of me.something happened he wasnt into me anymore...months ago one night i went to a dance club and i was dancing his friends ... (375 words)

Lonely in a new city, any advice on how I can make friends?

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5 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone im really down right now i moved to cali about three months ago to live with my father and left all my friends behind and yada yada but i have been lonely all summer no friends no nothing people here think your a freak if you ask them out after flirting wit them at ... (187 words)

I want to ask her out but she has been having family problems.

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5 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I really like this girl at school, we have been talking to eachother for what seems like months now, and it has been. We have got to know a lot about our minds and just what we do in general, but i have learnt about all of her problems with her family aswell. I want to be there ... (194 words)

Whenever I run my throat fills with phlem, is there a way to stop this?

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. So, on a regular basis i do light to moderate exercise. But i never ever run unless im forced to in p.e (im still on summer break). But whenever i do run my throat fills up with phlem and it makes it harder to breathe. ive never smoked before and im not aware of and health ... (74 words)

I caught my mum cheating!

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5 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi all, i just want to talk about my mom and what happened to me. nearly a month ago I came home and i found out that my mom is cheating on my dad. i saw her having sex with a youngester and i can say she was really enjoying it. i didn't know what to do, even thou... (158 words)

I need ideas for a romantic date night!

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5 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, this weekend is mine and my girlfriend's last weekend before school starts back...I want to give her the best, most romantic date night ever, but I'm not a real romantic guy, so any ideas? ... (35 words)

I've grown apart from my wife and am thinking of leaving

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5 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been married for the last seven years and been together for 12 years with my wife. Since our marriage we have 2 wonderful children. The first years were really good but over time with pressures of work and children we have grown apart. We have not had a great sex ... (572 words)

How do you kiss someone?

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have never kissed anyone before, how do you kiss someone? this sounds so embarressing ... (15 words)

I'm rethinking my decision to break up with my boyfriend, do you think there is still a chance for us?

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and I broke up just over a month ago now. we were in a very close and serious relationship, we loved each other very much and always had fun together. we didnt break up because of arguments or cheating, basically its because our relationship would have turned long... (285 words)

I have never given or received head before, I don't know what to do!

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 18 and still a virgin, my bf and I are getting very close and sex is on the horizon. Thats not my problem tho cause I know ive waited till the right time. But we were sitting talking one night in bed and the subject of giving head came up, I just let the subject die because ... (85 words)

How do I let her down gently so she won't turn nasty on me?

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Im a gay female, im quite isolated in the gay community and amd alone and am attempting to make friends/dates through a dating website. over a year ago I was chatting to X on an online dating site, X seemed nice initially and we were going to meet in person, then... (463 words)

How do I get rid of the bad feelings I have towards making out?

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been reading articles and looking at things and just thinking about my relationships and questions have kinda come up. A few months ago, I dated this guy who was a close friend and who would say things that I believed were true (like he'd walk to my house in the rain in ... (473 words)

If I fantasize about heterosexual sex and breasts, am I a lesbian?

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 14 year old girl. When I masturbate, I often look at pictures of women. When I fantasize, I always think of a man and a woman having sex. I am neither of these people, nor do I identify with them. Although I usually make the girl about my age and the man older. I ... (122 words)

Should I forgive his short temper and rekindle things?

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - When I first saw him three year ago, I thought he was the most handsome man I’ve ever laid my eyes on. He was charming. Very loving and caring. I thought because it’s a new love, he’s trying to charm me and after some time in our relationship, things will change. No more trying ... (659 words)

How do I get it through his head that it's best to wait before we get married? And how long do you normally wait before marriage?

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This summer was crazy, and I don't know where to start. Well first, My boyfriend is in army basic training, but because of a medical discharge he's coming back. He's done with the army for two years (his choice if he comes back). But has said he wants to study a differen... (251 words)

I'm 13, I want this 20-year-old to like me, is this OK??

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5 August 2009 (?) age 26-29 - So im 13 going to be 14 and theres this guy that i like but hes 20 and he always come over or we always text my uncle knows that i like him and he says im not supposed to but i seriously like this dude and we he always listens to my problems and trys to protect me i guess ! So ... (83 words)

Will he ever give me a second chance?

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5 August 2009 (F)

age - I was seeing a guy very seriously who had been single for many years...(18) and we were talking marriage, etc and I got nervous and just broke it off...NOW, I'm beating myself up for it.....I thought I was doing what was right by my kids, but didn't realize that they wanted him ... (143 words)

My boyfriend does nothing to help! Am I being used?

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im 23 with 2 kids. i got with my new boyfriend just over a year ago. he as 2 kids he was grate at 1st but i feel like he's babysitter now as he is never in and when he is in he on the laptop. he dosnt help me do owt or look after any of the kids. am i been used ???... (64 words)

Why do my parents think I'm a ladies man? I'm not!

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5 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My paents have always said all the girls would be chasing after me. That was a few years ago. Even now, thry are telling people, all the girls fancy me. I know they don't. I talk to girls but have never had a relationship and am not close to one. Why do my parents think I'm a ... (120 words)

The love I feel for her is overwhelming...but she loves someone from Australia and wants to move there

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5 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This problem can be blamed on many things. I am the one that is to blame the most though. I have known this girl for over 10 years now and I can honestly say I love her. Don't look at my age and discriminate. I'm not naive, I know what this is. I've loved her for years, but I ... (345 words)

I just found out that my boyfriend slept with my mom!

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This may sound a little sick and twisted and that's cause it is. My boyfriend was my brothers best friend growing up (he's 10 yrs older than me). He's been a friend of the family for years. We have been together going on 4 yrs (no kids or talks of marriage-he doesn't believe ... (235 words)

I'm afraid to go down on him..

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok i have an issue. My boyfriend really wants me to give him head but I am really nervous. He says "I eat you out every time so why won't you do it to me?" I told him I am nervous to do it but he says ill always be nervous and i just need to do it and get over my fears like we ... (86 words)

It makes me so sad.. it used to be perfect and now he just ignores me..

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sad every day because my guy friend is ignoring me. We used to text ever day romantically and hang out now It feels as though my heart was ripped out.I can't grasp the fact that he changed. That he was able to intentionally hurt me and feel no remorse.He won't even call, ... (217 words)

Should I accept my coworkier's matchmaking invitation?

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5 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I’m 24 and I have a fantastic coworker in a neighboring cubicle that around my mom’s age. Recently, after sharing some laughs about some funny/“bad” dates I went on the weekend she suggested her son’s good friends and sent me a group photo. Her son stopped by to meet me at ... (285 words)

Do you think he's using me since he's from another country?

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5 August 2009 (F) age - My boyfriend is 14 years younger, I'm 47, maybe playing a game with me... A week ago he asked me to marry him, what was really making me very happy, as he is a dream come true to me, but when he saw I changed my status on facebook, he got mad ,that everybody knows about it... (105 words)

How much is too much to tolerate?

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of a year and a half wants to go visit his family far away. In order to do so, he insists that i do not stay at our apartment on my own - none the less in the CITY on my own and tells me that I have to go to my family's house in another state and take six vacation ... (195 words)

My boyfriend is obsessed with sex!

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is obbsessed with sex thts all he talks about and i aint ready.........the thing is he lives in cali and i dnt.......i dnt wanna talk about sex let alone do it he is always trying to make me horny what should i do?... (45 words)

He asked me out to dinner but keeps making excuses?

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I meet an exboyfriend for cofee at his request on sunday. He was apoligizing for past mistakes and wanted to date again. I was ok with trying again, we had a great couple hours and before we parted he said maybe we can go to dinner on monday or tuesday. monday he text and ... (124 words)

Don't average people get real love too?

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5 August 2009 (F) age 30-35 - i'm so sad! no one likes me enough for me to be their girl. I met a guy once, but he stopped contacting me after a few dates, another made it clear all he wanted was sex, another was way too clingy and i had to let him down. and so it goes on and on..... I am 20! i am not... (172 words)

I need to get over him, I'm too old to feel this way

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Honestly, I don't know what my question is. Maybe I'm just hoping for reinforcement that I made a half-decent choice? Maybe I want someone to explain this silly boy's behaviour? Mostly I just want to get this out of my system. I cannot get over a silly boy. I think it... (957 words)

I can't stop thinking about what it would be like to make out with him!

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I think I like this major player..we're like good friends and I go to his house alot.. When we r alone we just hang out and have fun.. But at his parties he grabs me and always holds my hand and makes me kiss him on the cheek blah blah blah lol but he's talking to ... (124 words)

I made up a boy friend to fit in, and now I feel badly..

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - basically, i need help... most of my friends have a bf. i got quite jelous. so i made up a fake guy so i could fit in and feel better about myself... but now i feel bad for lying to my friends. plus i no i will never get a bf cause all the boys call me ugly. and now i am ... (93 words)

Am I being played in this love triangle?

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5 August 2009 (F)

age - Hi! Has anyone out there been in the following situation? I'm a female and part of a love triangle at work. The guy has expressed his love for me but the other girl won't let him go. Now I'm leaving the company, he's kinda dropped out of sight, and the other girl has been ... (91 words)

My husband took me back after I cheated, but I don't want to be with him.

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for eleven years now. We have a five year old daughter who is my world. In the past two years my marriage has been on very shaky ground. I do not respect my husband because he has made selfish decisions and has not included me in any of them. He ... (301 words)

He was "the one" but he cheated.. should I forgive him?

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5 August 2009 (F) age 36-40 - This thing is eating me inside out for almost a year now, so I decided to seek advice here. It is a long question, because it is a devastatingly complex issue for me. We met 6 yrs ago, clicked right away, talked for hours, ending eachother's sentences. After 3 years we becam... (1082 words)

I love her, I hate her, I'm losing my mind over her..

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5 August 2009 (?) age 30-35 - hey,this isnt exactly a direct question but i just feel like i need some opinions on my situation...i met a girl about a year ago, and we've been quite serious for a good 4 months, im however leaving the country in september and we both knew this from the beggining..she is very ... (318 words)

Should I go back to this relationship? Will it last or will it fall apart again?

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help in what to do, my ex boyfriend is asking me back but i dont know whether its a good idea. We met when i was 14 and he was 16 and since the day i saw him i wanted him this was in the summer on my trip to see my family. He finally asked my out on the new years when i ... (489 words)

Is this normal? My dad's behaviour toward me?

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My parents are divorced, and my Dad moved out 3 years ago. When I was younger, my Dad touched me and looked at me in ways that I'm now slightly nervous about. For example, he'd walk into the bathroom when I was having a shower (we didn't have a lock back then) and begin brushi... (332 words)

For women 50 and upwards, I need ideas for a fragrance for my partner!

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5 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - ..... For the attention of women between 50 upwards.... What sort of fragrances do you think you like to wear in the evening? Other than "Lilly of the Valley", I would like to get my partner something a bit more different.... (47 words)

How do I make time for her?

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5 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Lately ive not had that much time for my girl friend. I work 5 hours a day 4 days a week, I have 5 gigs a week at the comedy club, and the occasionaly i play at bands nights. How can i make time for her?... (46 words)

At 9 pm he said "I love you" and at midnight, he said he never did!

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I was seeing a lad for 4 mouths, right then before we started going out, I told him I was moving to Scotland and he said it was fine. I fall in love with him and he fall in love with me. We was great together but then I said do u think it was be better if we ended coz it ... (141 words)

My boyfriend broke up with me in a very mean way, my mom's not accepting that I'm gay and I don't have a job! I feel like my life is falling apart!

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5 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm new here and I need help, I'm gay and I have a bunch of problems now, I feel really stressed and lost, first of all my boyfriend broke up with me in a very very mean way, he told me really mean things that destroyed my heart, I really miss him and I'm dealing with ... (306 words)

How can I gain this weight?

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m 14 years old 5'5 and about 100lb. I’m too skinny. My parents were skinny till they were in their late 20s; my mom didn’t like eating and my dad ate alot but didn’t gain weight. I don’t eat alot and don’t gain weight. I don’t have much of an appitite but I want to. I want my ... (130 words)

I'm wondering about my body...

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - [Moderator note: Two questions by this poster combined into this post.] Question 1: well i want my boyfriend to finger me and perform oral but what if im not wet enough? i get turned on by him but i only get a little wet. Question 2: well im a virgin, but when i finger myself ... (78 words)

I need ideas for a job for me!

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I am a 13 year old girl and I am looking for ways to make money. All the jobs I have found so far appear to be scams and they ALL turn out to be just that. I need money because my mom is married to a jerk and he won’t pay for anything so and she works a minimum wage job and ... (84 words)

I fell in love with a married woman. Should I continue being around her? Or should I stop any contact with her outside from work?

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5 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I fell in love with a married woman, we started as a secret but in time we both fell in love, her husband found out about us kicked her out of the apartment and stayed with the kids, she was heart broken about not being able to stay with the kids but she went and stayed with ... (271 words)

I'm tired of him being a liar and a player and I just want him out of my house.

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend has lived in my house 3.5 years. At first I paid his way, then in the last 1.5 years he paid mine. I own the house and he pays all the bills. At first I had money, now I don't and he has money. When I got tired of his daily emails and abuse saying I don't m... (158 words)

Why is he taking pictures of his co-workers or random women in semi-seductive poses?

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5 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I hate feeling insecure but my b/f travels for business and each time he goes away, I later find photos he's taken of young attractive women. He always puts all his work photos on our computer in a file we both use and have access to. It's not like he's hiding them, but I ... (232 words)

How do other people deal with the annoying ex?

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5 August 2009 (F)

- When is enough, enough? My b/f's ex girlfriend of 15 years ago still tries to contact him when she comes to town. He says he doesn't know why she won't "move on" and claims he has nothing to do with her. It upsets me when she tries to contact him; he says I should just ignore ... (170 words)

How do I keep my "skinny jeans" skinny?

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5 August 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I have a few pairs of "skinny jeans" that are pretty loose, especially around the ankle. They look like regular jeans. Would you know how to make them tighter around the ankle? When back to school shopping time comes, I don't want to buy ones that fit tight in the store, and ... (64 words)

I feel so bad for my daughter, Any advice on how to help her?

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5 August 2009 (M)

age - My daughter is 22 and has not had a boyfriend since she was 17. A boy she went out with for a couple of years broke up with her. She is a pretty girl and a little bit overweight (size 14) not huge. She is starting to feel like something is wrong with her. Most of her friends ... (113 words)