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writes:This problem can be blamed on many things. I am the one that is to blame the most though. I have known this girl for over 10 years now and I can honestly say I love her. Don't look at my age and discriminate. I'm not naive, I know what this is. I've loved her for years, but I have (on many occasions) not been exactly clear to her as to how much I love her. I'm a very shy person and I find it very difficult to diplay my emotions toward people. Most people refer to me as heartless, but this is so far from the truth. The love i feel for her is overwheilming, and she just recently told me that she thinks she is in love with someone from Austrailia. They met over the internet...they have never met face to face, but she is dead set on moving to Austrailia as soon as she gets out of school later this year. When I learned of this, I could harldy talk anymore. It was all I could do to say "Alright I'll talk to you later" before I hung the phone up and spent the rest of my afternoon alone in my house, crying.The days following her news were hell for me. I felt like my soul wanted to leave me. I just wanted to breathe out...and never breathe in again. I don't know what to do about the situation. I've tried telling her how I feel, but words just don't seem to do it justice, and I never seem to get the point across to her. She seems so desensitized to the word love...probably because people use it way too much these days. I cannot even begin to cope with the idea that she doesn't love me like I do her, even though it's apparent. When she moves to Austrailia....that'll probably be the day I die. If not literally, then inside there will be nothing. A hallow shell ready to be cast away into a pointless life of loveless existance.
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reader, Love is all you need  +, writes (8 August 2009):
 yeah like she said txt how you feel or write a letter or something. But if you do deciade to let her go 'if you love something then let it go' you'll love again absolutly sure of it.
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (5 August 2009):
 if you can't express face to face try the net or text.
just let her know how you feel otherwise you'll kick yourself for not knowing.
at least if you know she doesn't feel the same you can move on without ever thinking i wonder what would of happened?
or how we would of been together?
i don't think she'll go to austrailia there are too many psycho's nowadays on the internet she don't know who he is.
her parents certainly won't let her do that!!!
hope this helps good luck :)
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