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writes:I'm sad every day because my guy friend is ignoring me. We used to text ever day romantically and hang out now It feels as though my heart was ripped out.I can't grasp the fact that he changed. That he was able to intentionally hurt me and feel no remorse.He won't even call, e-mail, anything. He just doesn't care anymore. I am dead to him. I bet he doesn't even care how that makes me feel. It makes me cry when I think about how perfect everything used to be. He was the perfect gentlemen. The last bit I saw of him caring for me was March. It hurts my feelings when he talks to his other friends who are girls and asks them how their doing and how their summers going!After that...he was - gone. Forever. He never showed he liked me again after that. Not even in the littlest way. After that...he was - gone. Forever. He never showed he loved me again after that. Not even in the littlest way. I'll be seeing him in a couple of weeks and I don't know how to act towards him? Should I ignore him? Pretend like I hate him or that I never knew him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): Are you absolutely sure he felt/feels the same way you do? He might not be intentionally hurting you if he doesnt feel the same way, he might just be under the assumption you two are just friends.
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reader, neaj +, writes (5 August 2009):
i there. first of all i am sorry you are going through this! i am going through the same thing with my ex and it really hurts. just today i decided to block myself from receiving text messages from him b/c all he wants to talk is business and i am so in love with him all i want to talk about it "us"...even though there is no more us. i would say try and give yourself some space from this guy...i know it will be really hard but if you can stop calling him, emailing him, etc it will be for the best. you never know if you stop doing all those things he might come back into your life or you may find someone better. good luck with whatever happens and just try doing things that make you happy. take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): I would ignore him if he ignores you. Do you know why things went wrong, you must have some idea why ? If you see him just say "Hello stranger, do you know me ?" See what will his response be. He might tell you what went wrong if you didn't know it already. Good luck, hope he calls and emails you again.
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