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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He said he wanted a girlfriend but when he came bacl home, he changed his mind. why??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i started talking to a boy 7 weeks ago on the internet. he is in the army based abroad but doesnt live that far from me back home. we were chatting every night and started to like each other alot. he has just come back home for 3 weeks and i met him the first night and stayed ... (138 words)

Since our son's birth...no sex and I'm frustrated! Please help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I are now in a sexless marriage after the birth of our son, six years ago. Over the last six years we have had sex on no more than 10 occassions. I have tried speaking to her about this but she doesn't want to speak to me, she just goes all silent and I am told that ... (131 words)

Is she feeling regretful or guilty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My partner of 17years left me. And I found out three weeks later she was with someone else. She has only tried to make contact one and I have not heard from her since. I think that she was cheating on me. What I cant understand is if she would be feeling any remorse or regret? ... (64 words)

A young, healthy female and I have a chin hair! Where is this coming from?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am twenty-two years old, and a female, and I just got my first? blonde curly chin hair today. I have not been diagnosed as a diabetic, and I exercise everyday. I jog on some days, and walk on others. I know that there are many methods for removal, but my question is this- Why ... (65 words)

She's so happy and has forgotten all about me.. why am I left in the dust?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been in love with a girl for almost three years. We have been pretty good friends, but then last year she did not come back to school. She had told me her parents might make her switch high schools but sort of pushed that from my mind. That was two years ago. I have not ... (131 words)

How have other women overcome the constant abuse of their man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age - I have put up with my husbands abuse for too many years and have asked him to leave. Now he is refusing and seems hellbent to bring me down to his level by psycological tactics eg starting arguments before I go to work being rude to my friends etc...I would love to hear how ... (60 words)

Infatuated With The Wrong Girl - Wasting My Time And My Feelings.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - 18 months ago I became infatuated with a girl I had never met before. She is a wonderful person in every way and I completely adore every part of her. We have always been good friends and I have always pushed for more - something she has made clear she does not want through her ... (431 words)

One week he wants me to never leave him, the next he ignores me, then he loves me,the next ignores me...??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice or I might do the wrong thing..I met the perfect guy in Sept 08, he was engaged and has a 7yr old boy from another relationship.He always turned to me for help since the engagement wasnt going well and they used to fight a lot.He left her on 4Dec08 and that same ... (394 words)

Was I right to break it off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi aunts I am separated, i met this guy, we had an instant connection and got on really well. I separated 5 months ago and he broke up with someone the same time. My problem is i had to break up with him due to him not putting in much effort, he did at first but then... (262 words)

Love of my live - mother of my son, Everything seemed fine! Then suddenly she broke it off! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, this is the first time ive done this. so here it goes. i met this girl, and for a couple weeks we flirted and just kind of picked on each other.it finally came about that we liked each other, so we started hanging out. we went on a couple dates. she lives 4 hours away fro... (331 words)

So much criticism...rarely do I hear a good word. What can I do to improve our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I think I need some help. I am in a pretty good relationship - at least most of the time... When we are not arguing! We've been together for 12 years now... I am 28 now, we met when I was 16. He is 14 years older. That he is that much older is a fact that seldomly... (203 words)

I would just like opinions on this situation with my ex, please.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've written about my situation before - it keeps progressing. My ex and I have been talking/slept together.We broke up cos he was "no longer feeling it".It made no sense to me seein he was contacting/seeing me daily,made sure I met his fam etc - on his own.To me actions ... (301 words)

My friend is comfusing me with her sexual orientation and her attitude

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - One of my good friends(who is a girl) is confusing me. So, she says shes not gay or bi, but stated that she would do stuff with me. Now, let me tell you that she has a bf which further complicates things. Whenever she brings up the subject of us its ok, but whenever I do it... (107 words)

I'm in love with a married man...I'm torn and confused about what I'm doing here. Any help?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and i'm in love with a married man. We met once, and we've just been talking over the phone. He sends shivers down my body to the point to where i don't know if i want to cry or have some type of sexual release. I'm a little worried, because i do feel it's wrong, but i ... (209 words)

I have feelings for him and for her...Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am really confused and need help. I am dating a guy, he makes me happy, he wants to move in and he does act like I am married to him. I am happy with him and see a futre. My problem is he does not like me talking to a female friend of mine he says she has the hots for me. At ... (375 words)

Her severe mood swings are bringing ME down. Ideas on how to deal with this better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I need some help on how to deal with somebody who has mood swings. There's this girl who I have feelings for. She has also told me she has feelings for me. She also keeps telling me how nice I am to her and how great I am for dealing with her mood swings. The problem is ... (186 words)

My hubby's sex drive has decreased. I just found out he watches Asian gay porn! Help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age - I've been married for 4 years now to my husband, our life has been good, and we often socialise with friends. However, recently, for the past few months, my husband's sex drive has been on the wane. We went to the doctor, and the doctor said there was no medical reason... (214 words)

Many of the right symptoms...I think I might be pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel as if im pregnant!! every day at around 3 pm my stomach starts to really hurt. i am due on my period around the 17th and my boobs are starting to hurt all ready at it is only the 9th. The stomach ace i get daily is really bad but the pain isnt as bad as what it was. am i ... (64 words)

Is it me? Is it her family? Why wont she talk to me anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there. I'm 18 years old, and there's a girl I like who is 16 years old. We'll call her Claire. We met in February and became friends. At first, I didn't have any feelings for her. We were just "friends". She would do things that made me think she had feelings for me.. such ... (885 words)

What can I do about this boy I like? He has a girlfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so i have liked this guy for quite a while now. i told him i liked him a while ago. Now... he had a girlfriend and still does. She puts him through hell, and i have to listen to it all the time. not that i care though. i would do anything for him. Then a few weeks ago he ... (101 words)

He still hasn't phoned. Is there something wrong with us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey My boyfriend texted me last night saying "Do you think were working x" i was in tears , Later that night he phoned me up and said im sorry i took it out on you my friend from collage has died . I was abit happy to hear this news but i also felt upset my for my boyfrien... (128 words)

He says at his age a relationship "needs" to have sex. I'm not ready. Advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I am 16, and the guy that thinks im totally amazing; we really like eachother and sorta go out. He is 19. In 5 months he will be 20. He says that at his age a relationship needs to have sex. Im totally not ready for sex. I have told him my view on this and he always says ... (142 words)

Has anyone gotten pregnant by having sex 4 days before ovulation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Has anyone gotten pregnant by having sex 4 days before ovulation? My periods are regular 28 day cycle. I had unprotected sex with my husband August 2, and late night on the 3rd. I tested for ovulation on August 6th but I was not ovulatiing. August 7th I was. we are trying to ... (58 words)

Is it too early to tell or does she just want to be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently got back in touch with a girl I went to school with. We spoke at school but not that much but for the last two months we have emailed and text pretty much everday. Our conversations have been great, we have so much in common and she is a really interesting person. I ... (216 words)

My b/f wants to see me having sex with another, but I fear it could ruin our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello i am just wondering if its normal that my boyfriend wants me to f__k another man i love him even though i am into kinky shit...and i love sex and 3 somes which i have done lots before but only once with my boyfriend who i have been with for over two years i love him so ... (134 words)

How long should you wait before dating a friends ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - how long is it until it is ok to go out with a friends ex, if ever? we are in love and both want2 know how long we should leave it before getting together.... (34 words)

When we have sex my GF is tight at the start then loosens up, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - when having sex with my girlfriend she is tight at the start but then after a litte bit her vagina is much looser. it doesnt feel as tight around my penis as other girls have in the past. my penis is 5 and a half inches circumference so it is bigger than average. does this mean ... (80 words)

I fear he may leave me for someone younger, should I marry him anyway?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am with a man who is 17 years my senior. This has no so far been a problem for us but as the relationship gets more serious (we are going to get married next year) I keep thinking that he will leave me for a younger woman when I get a little older. He has ALWAYS dated wom... (118 words)

My boyfriend is pretty much constantly high!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend smokes a LOT of weed. I knew this before we started going out, but I suppose I didn't quite know the frequency of it. I don't have a problem with weed in general, I'll have a little myself occasionally if I wish to chill out. It hasn't sapped his motivati... (197 words)

I should hate him but I don't, I can't move on.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok, so here I am. It's been 6 months since my break up with the guy I was with for 5 1/2 years. There have been some mean and nasty things said back and forth and there has definately been some sh*t talking and now his whole family pretty much hates me and things I am crazy. ... (174 words)

Could overworking be the reason for our family troubles?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) age - Does spending too much time with working ,but not enough time with family and wife,can cause family crises? Can it be the reason of my kids drug addiction,and my husband's impotence? He works 12 hours a day,7 days a week. Is this possible that this is the main cause for this ... (55 words)

A man 20 years my junior is interested, what to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i am 40 and a guy of 21 is interested in me, what should i do... (16 words)

Will I still be a virgin if I masturbate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

9 August 2009 (?) age 41-50 - hi i want to know that if i masturbate i am avirgin or i lose my virginity and i want to know when do a male lose his virginity... (30 words)

I'm confused...would this be an incestuous relationship or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Please help, im am seriously confused. My half brother has a half sister who i really like and who really likes me. my half brother and her have the same mother and i have the same father as him but not her. me and the girl do not have the same mother or father. i dont know ... (104 words)

Is the married man I'm seeing the one for me?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really don't know how to put this without seeming like the bad guy or appearing incredibly stupid. But I am going to try as I really need advice even though it seems so stupid. I have been seeing a married man for over 2 years now. He is slightly older than me but it dosen't ... (535 words)

We have so much chemistry... but he has a girlfriend! Should I wait to see if he breaks up with her or forget him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I've met a guy I really like. He made it clear from the beginning that he had a girlfriend and that he didn't want anything other than friends. I accepted that and we went out. But it became very clear that there was chemistry between us. He flirted a lot, he told me I was ... (217 words)

I know my guy friend still likes me, so how can I make him jealous?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy friend and I haven’t been talking. I texted him the other day saying that I heard he was going out with someone and he texted me back twice asking who I heard it from. I never answered him. I know that he’s not in a relationship! When I go to school I won’t talk to him ... (210 words)

I'm back with my ex... but he's giving me mixed signals! Should I stay or go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age - Mixed signals. I am back with my ex. His actions say love and commitment. But his words say he does not want a commitment. He says he does not want to see or be with anyone else exceot ne, but he does not want a commitment. I do not realy understand the confusing messages ... (233 words)

My boyfriend has a hard time opening up to me... how do I approach this subject with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So I have been seeing this guy for a couple of months now. I like him and he seems to really like me but a few things concern me. He is very quiet and seems to have trouble opening up. I have tried to get him to open up but he doesn't say much. I have a hard time trusting ... (93 words)

I don't think he'll like me because I'm of mixed race... how do I get him to love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Agony Aunt, My biggest problem right now is that I'm crazy in love with a very handsome guy, but the thing is, I'm mixed race, half-black half-mexican, and I don't think he'll be into me cause of that. Please help me find a way to get him to love me!!!!!!!!!!!... (54 words)

I know my girlfriend wasn't to blame, but I'm still really upset. Should I say something to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend recently went to a party and got really drunk. I wasn't there at the time because she decided it'd be best if I didn't join her because we've argued a bit recently, and I was fine with that. She knew all the people were there, none were a danger to her whatsoever. ... (363 words)

I lost my virginity recently... why does it still hurt when having sex? And why did I bleed the last time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have recently began having sex, i lost my virginity to him. It hurt the first time which i expected and i bled a bit that time as well as the second time however it continues to hurt each time we have sex. I am prepared before we start and the pain goes away ... (155 words)

Why did my ex call, then not pick up when I rang him back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I have been broken up since April/May. He broke up with me after we had a misunderstanding and fought verbally. I did the usual, called him, sent emails, love songss and all, till June 25th, then stopped and decided to move on. I was not expecting to hear from him ... (191 words)

Confused about how HIV can be transferred!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok So i wanted to ask this question because a friend said that u cant get infected with aids if u swallow blood and u dont have cuts or sores I was like noway man u do get aids from swallowing blood I said that coz i've read that u can get aids from giving oral sex..if u d... (191 words)

Deeply troubled with sexual past, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am almost 20 and have slept with 7 different people. I find myself thinking about it each day more and more and its depressing me to the point that I cry about it for hours. I am so troubled with it and have so many different issues I just dont know how to deal with it. My... (536 words)

Boyfriend trying to change me too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I just wanted to share some concerns I have about my 3 year relationship. About a year and a half into our relationship my boyfriend started trying to change little things about me. For instance, he decided he really didn't like my reddish/brown hair (the colour it was ... (495 words)

I keep making the same mistakes, having affairs, what can I do to make this right?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I keep making the same mistakes and can't seem to stop myself. I had an unhappy first marriage and after having my children I had an affair with my Husband's best friend and left my husband for him, he then didn't want to know me once I was single, although he said he loved me ... (208 words)

Girls: WHAT are the signs that a girl wants a guy to approach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - girls: WHAT are the signs that a girl wants a guy to approach her? help me out here! is there a general sign or does it depend on the person? and do girls want guys that they've just seen to approach them?... (42 words)

Ex boyfriend wants advice on his current girlfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ex boyfriend is now confiding in me things with his current beau aren't going well. they have been together four months she is nice quiet and kind of cold (his words) Apparently she isn't affectionate and he is wondering whether he needs to stay with her. Apparently he wants my ... (116 words)

Could this be an STD?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Well i last my only sexual experience in may... and till now everything is fine... But now there is a small buldge near my scrotum and im scared what to do... i mean i used a condom and everything and even went to the doctor in May and everything was fine.. I mean... (130 words)

He says it's over but I'm not sure if he means it. Do you think there's still hope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I had an arguement 5 weeks ago and says it over. We've been together 2 and a half years and have fallen out before and have sorted things out. I can't work him out as he answers my calls sometimes and if I ask him to do jobs around the house he will come and... (123 words)

Should I try to make amends with my ex ?

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9 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated a guy for about a year.. I lost my virginity to him and we even ended up moving in together,Forever the case may be we or I went through soo much shyt with him because my parents dissaproved.. At the time i was young and he was older and had a whole lot of experience ... (377 words)

I cheated on my boyfriend with this other guy I like, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently cheated on my boyfriend, we didn't go all the way. I really like the guy and he likes me, I don't want to hurt my boyfriend. What should I do?... (32 words)

I need help?! My dad stares at my breasts and down there, is this normal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok hi my parents are divorced and my dad likes looks at me at lot 2 times i saw him looking at mt breasts and he always hugs me and if he sees that i have make up on he tells me im beautiful without it and i also saw him stare at me a lot and once he was staring at me like my ... (97 words)

Boyfriend is infertile... is there away for us to have a child together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my botfriend is sterile. hes 24, im 39. weve been together for 4 and a half yrs. how can he go about having a child? he doesnt want me to be artificialed inceminated. is there any way to get his sperm cell count back? i dont know why hes stewril. he was sexually abused by ... (106 words)

How do I go about making a threesome in the best way for both of us?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my fiance have been together for a long time and had our ups and dwns and I want to make things interesting by having a 3 sum before we tie the knot to make up for the too low of a budget for bachlor and bachlorette parties. I'm fine with fulfilling his fantasy of 2 ... (180 words)

Help...I don't know who the father is! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I'm 8 months pregnant and I'm in a pickle... I've been with J for a year now, but sometime around christmas we had a fight and I went to my exs house (T) and u can do that math on that, well I went to Ts house christmas eve and then christmas morning me and J got back ... (260 words)

Underage next door female coming on to me

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, I am a 20 year old male, and I moved to a new neighborhood about three years ago. Over the last three years we have become friendly with everyone on the block and my little brother enjoys playing with the neighborhood children. One of my neighbor's daughters is 16 ... (389 words)

Golden shower fantasy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have this fantasy of having a girl urinate on me (Golden shower) I am single at the moment, But I worry that if I meet a girl she might think I was weird asking her to do such a thing. I don't want to scare anyone off. What should I do. Can some girls get turned on by doing ... (61 words)

I feel like I've got nothing to show for my teen years! How can I change this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - In a few months i'm going to be 17, and i just can't shake the feeling that i have wasted the prime of my teen years. I've only ever had a gf for like 2 months, only kissed one girl, have barely been to any parties or stuff like that. I go out like one weekend i every month if ... (162 words)

I'm in love with her, but she's with my friend, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright. So I've known this girl since I was in 6th grade (now a Junior) and I've always loved her. At one point, I told her how I felt, and we went out. For a day. She said it didn't feel right since she had just gotten out of a relationship, and I can get that. I told her it ... (152 words)

I still fantasize about my ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - It has been three years now scince i split up with my ex, we had been together 2 and a half years before we split up, She is still one of my best friends, and we hang together alot with other friends, and i now we are nothing but friends yet i still fantasise about her, and... (103 words)

Will puberty ever happen for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i am 17 years old short, hair no where except my head i do not see no sign of puberty ...am i ever going to go through it?... (29 words)

My Aunt's husband wants to marry me. Is this possible?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Regarding marriage: My aunt is my fathers' cousin, so she is related to me. My aunt husband want to marry me, is it possible if i want to get married?Please i need your advice. Thank you so much.... (41 words)

Utterly confused about my feelings towards him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm new to the dating scene, so I'm quite clueless to all the dos and don'ts. My situation might be a bit complex but bare with me. There is this guy at work that I'm not sure if he is interested in me or just want to be friends. He gave me a cute letter stating that he ... (365 words)

Does he not find me attractive enough?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I have been with my husband for over three years, married to him for just over six months, and in this time he has only been able to get to the over excited point of orgasm maybe three times in total..all of those times its been through oral sex. he is a large man about ... (343 words)

I feel so stuck...why can't I just stop loving this guy? Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, sorry this is going to be a looong one. I have been with a guy off and on since I was sixteen. At first everything was great and my family life was horrible at home so the day I turned 18 I moved in with him. Then, I ended up pregnant. We were happy, so I thought anyway, ... (696 words)

She lied about her past lovers! Should I trust her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i have been married to my wife for 13 years i just found out that she lied too me about how many people that she had sex with prior too us getting married she told me that she just rembered about one more person about five years ago but just now told me should i trust her... (58 words)

I have herpes and I'm pregnant...should I have a C-section?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5614 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have genital herpes and am eight months pregnant. My entire pregnancy, I've been contemplating a c-section because I don't want my child contracting it when she's born. Would that be a good idea?... (34 words)

Help! We have a LD relationship, but her lack of contact is so hurtful! What can I do?

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9 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Readers, Thank you so much for reading this.. My girlfriend and I have been on a long distance relationship for over 2 years now. I met her when I was studying aboard in Japan, and after my term has ended at that school, I came back to the US while she stayed their. ... (1202 words)

Guys distract me way too much from my life goals...how can I stop doing this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Every semester, I always let some sweet talking guy derail me from my goals. The main reasons is that I can not really make friends at clubs because I want to transfer soon and have to stay focused. I also get extremely lonely and just allow a guy to take me away from my goals, ... (190 words)

Problems having sex with my boyfriend! Help!

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9 August 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I'm having some sex problems and I'm very embrassed . every time me and my bf go to have sex we can't . my vag its to tight because I'm a virgin . we have tried everything possible . I really want to do this after we tried like 5 time but its not enjoyable. because we ha... (84 words)

I have feelings for him that go deeper then friendship..should I tell him?

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9 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing an amazing guy for a couple months now but it’s become more of a friend with benefits relationship then anything else. We are both totally comfortable with each other and could just sit and talk for hours but at the same time there is an undeniable passionate ... (235 words)

I'm bi sexual and want to experiment sexually with my friend! How do I ask him?

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9 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - how do i 'come out to my best mate'? im not gay, i might be bi, at the moment though im just abit curious and would really like to have sex with a man. My best friend seems to be the type of guy thats the same as me, i've not asked, he sometimes jokes saying there a part of ... (134 words)

Carrying around this wounded heart...how do I work this through and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there...Well I dont really need help!...I know what to do,I have been thru this kind of experience... But I feel like I need to scream,to cry,to explode... So I had this bf for almost 2 years,and we also work together.So one day I spied his cellphone(I know it´s a very sick... (173 words)

Two cultures...one wedding! How do we do this?

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9 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been together for six years and five months today. We're actually getting married in exactly seven months but we STILL have not compromised on a theme to the wedding. He's Mexican-American and I'm Irish-American and we want to integrate aspects of both our ... (66 words)

She lied to me and cheated! Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I’m a 34 year old blk male I’ve been with my girlfriend for about nine years I ask her to marry me about five years ago she said yes but she started cheating on me. for about a year and a half till I found out she said she would stop but she kept cheating with the guy and some ... (208 words)

Thanks to Agony Uncle RCN! You helped me immensely!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My last post didn't show up because I guess it wasn't "question" related. But it is an update from what I posted on the first of August. rcn was a major help and I would like to thank him for everything he told me. I did exactly what he said and it paid off... in a big way. The ... (210 words)

Saw my friend kissing the girl I wanted to date! I feel betrayed..what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl that i really really like right and my mate said he'd help me with her because I'm quite shy when it comes to relationships. But all of a sudden, he doesn't want anything to do with it and told me shes seeing someone. Then I saw both of them together kissing. ... (144 words)

First date questions! Help!

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9 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a guy recently. Although it was a very vague meeting. We were at the same party. He introduced himself, and we didn't really talk the rest of the night all though he did sit next to me at one point before getting kicked out of that spot. I had to leave early, so I didn't ... (207 words)

Our relationship is dying and I am trying to save it! What else can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - yesterday was year number 4 with my partner (not married) I got divorced while starting a relationship with him and i admit it was the worst possible thing i could have done. i dont think i did the right thing , but ok we did continue and its been 4 years. i dont know if i love ... (306 words)

She won't remove this guy off her MySpace!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

9 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey... my girlfriend had a guy message her that she said she talked to like "that" before we met. but once we met she stopped talking to him. he wrote her on myspace when she was at my house and said "hey whats good, i miss yu girl i want to see yu". she turned him down and ... (174 words)

My cop boyfriend is obsessed with me! How do I get out of this relationship?

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9 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Complicated... I am in a relationship with a veteran police officer. This relationship sucks. We started off while he was married, (yes it was wrong) and he left her to be w/me. Problem is ..to me..he's obssessed. I am not sexually interested in him because of his weight a... (215 words)

Committing to someone scares me! Any advice?

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9 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm going to try to say this as best as i can, so bare with me. Okay, I'm currently single and i dislike it like mad, i really would just love to find a girl, some-one to hold ect ect ect. For awhile I didnt get why i couldnt, I'm not ugly, girls tend to say im hot, cute, ... (164 words)

I want to leave my husband after 20 years of marriage but I have nothing! Any advice?

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9 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - me and my husband have been together for nearly 20 years and have 4 children. we have our own busissines, he works and i don't anymore as two of my children have learning difficulties. I feel as though i have given up my life for everyone else and have suddenly came to realise ... (236 words)

He has a gf but I love him! How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid i have loved this boy for ages now. but he has a girlfriend. the girlfriend is totally in love with him but she doesnt treat him good. me and him always flirt with each other and i like it because i know what ever happens it wont get out and we are still friends.... (100 words)

Help! My boyfriend thinks I am a flirt and as a result, keeps breaking it off with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

9 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I could really use some help, I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months now and I really love him, more than anything. We only ever have one problem. He thinks that I am a flirt, but I'm not and I would never do anything to mess this up, he breaks up with me a lot because of ... (82 words)

How do I win back the trust of my former mistress? Will she take me back?

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9 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm 40 years old and will be married for 12 years this month. Last year, I had an affair with my Exec Assistant, who is 8 years older than me and a truly sophisticated lady. It started as friendship, but then I lied to her and told her my marriage was dead, because initially I ... (690 words)