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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

G/f always saying she feels trapped

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17 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost a year now. we love each other. and we our falling in love. but she always talks about feeling trapped and wanting to go with someone else. she is so confusing. we can be together. and then next thing you know she is like i d... (148 words)

Boyfriend? Or his best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for 2 years. We are high school sweet hearts, we went to college together for the first year and decided to stay at home the second year, to save money. At one point of our relationship, I thought this guy was the one for me, but now, I'm thinking ... (222 words)

He has a high sex drive and I don't!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Help! My boyfriend has a very high sex drive and I don't. We have been together for nearly 5 years. Whenever he asks for sex and I say no he always speaks to me like a piece of crap or hardly speaks to me. I try the best I can but he doest understand. I need ur advice is u can ... (66 words)

I accused him of cheating and really messed up our relationship

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I started seeing this man Ben in may. I have known off him and to say hello to for the last 2 years. I before was in a relationship after being single randomly ben started getting in contact with me via email. he seemed very keen and asked for my number and we me... (673 words)

Is it odd for straight girl to watch gay men porn?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok this is going to sound odd Im in my mid 20's and im not in the head place to be in a relationship right now so ive started to pleasure myself to porn (not alot but fairly frequently). I came across a gay porn site the other day and there was a video of two beautiful blonde ... (77 words)

Cousin attacked me in a jealous rage and I broke his arm

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

17 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I was at a BD party just drinking and lounging, my cousin had brought a girl around he left her siting by the pool where i was he went some where. I began talking to this girl she was kool she filled up the beer cooler for me and even helped get more ice, i asked her if she... (548 words)

I'm married and hiding the fact from husband that I'm attracted to other women!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm 40, married and have children. I don't feel any attraction to my husband anymore and I've been hiding the fact that I'm attracted to other women. I think I'd be happier with a woman, yet I've never had a relationship. My husband's first wife died and I raised his kids,... (190 words)

Is a strong sense of love enough for a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year. He is without a doubt the nicest man I have ever been with, and I think he is the only one that truly loves and cares for me. He has often said that he feels differently about me than anyone else he has been with. The pro... (520 words)

Can I find happiness with our age difference?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5547 days ago

17 August 2009 (M)

age - I am posting this question for a second time -as I have left out some important details the first time around. I am currently married for 16 years and we have one child, a boy. During the 16 years, my wife packed her belongings and moved to her parents at least twice a year. I ... (851 words)

What can I do to not lose her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

17 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend broke up with me last nite. she said that she needed some time to herself, we have been together for a year and a half and never argue. she has been under alot of pressure with exams for her job aswell as family life. i love her so much and i dont want to loose ... (143 words)

He's asked me to marry him but I just can't see it happening

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i'm a 44 yr old woman, in a relationship with my friend first since 88 and just two years ago we started dating. we were good as friends but i think that being together or married i can't see it. he ask me to marry him all the time he seems to think he can't live without me ... (128 words)

"I'll give you a call this week" is he blowing me off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating a guy for almost a month. We've known each other for several years through mutual friends. In the past three weeks we've gone out four or five times. We've had fun each time and I think he's into me. The thing is that I went on vacation out of the country ... (193 words)

Is it out of the question that I could be pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, im 19 and engaged to my boyfriend (21) we live together and have been together for 4 years, we have recently started trying for a baby, ti is what we both really want! we have been having unprotected sex ever other day for the past 2 months. for the past 2 weeks ive bei... (230 words)

He's 7 years older, is it worth pursuing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Let's just get straight to the point here. I'm 15, like to think i'm considerably much more mature than the usual for my age, and I'm in like with a 22 year old. See. I notice this huge age gap here, and I do realize it's stupid to hope/wish/think that anything would h... (283 words)

If I'm on here asking, does that mean I don't like her enough to ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok. I think I like a girl, but am not sure if I should ask her out! I have two schools of thought and not sure which to go with: 1) If I'm on here asking questions like this I can't like her enough and therefore as I already have doubts anything is doomed before it... (122 words)

I think my best friend loves me but he has someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a best friend that I fell in love with but he says he is in love with someone else. He moved to Texas, and Im in California. He constantly calls me and wants me to visit him. I have a feeling he loves me, but is afraid of it. We were very close when he lived here. How do ... (94 words)

B/f no longer has sexual feelings for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age - my boyfriend 20 years is suddenly loosing interested in our relationship he said he still loves me but has no sexual feelings for me what can i do since im still inlove with him.please help me.... (39 words)

We can go 2 days without speaking. Is this because he's busy or because he doesn't care?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. Lately, I feel he has been acting distant. He is busy with work and school, so there are times we go 2 weeks without seeing each other, and I am understanding about that. But what frustrates me is that we hardly talk. He hates the ... (122 words)

What is it about commitment that scares me, and how can I get past it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right then, I have a major problem (well, it's major in my eyes...) Anyway, I'm seventeen and I have MAJOR commitment problems! A load of people find this surprising since I'm a girl, but I just hate being tied down! I've had four boyfriends since I was thirteen, the lo... (414 words)

What was the reason behind his rude behaviour??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age - I met a man on a site I was networking on. We began talking on the phone and we seemed to hit it off. I am a single mom of two and I have a life. I noticed this man started being demanding and rude. He got angry with me because he assumed that we were going to meet on a certain ... (176 words)

Is making out with my sister incest?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

17 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I could use advice. I was playing with my sister and we started to make out i kissed her and she didnt pull away or get mad.I kissed her more and touched her breast and began to suck them she was just wearing a tank top and tight shorts i began rubing between her legs my ... (174 words)

More Info added: Should I get out of this marriage and take a chance with the younger woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

17 August 2009 (M)

age - I am posting this question for a second time -as I have left out some important details the first time around.I am currently married for 16 years and we have one child, a boy. during the 16 years, my wife packed her belongings and moved to her parents at least twice a year. I ... (828 words)

If you had a hot partner, would you still look at porn?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I would really like to know from guys... If your girlfriend/partner/wife is like really hot,(And i mean not only you think so, but other guys as well!) do you still need to look at porn? Or is she enough?... (42 words)

How can I get my boyfriend to clean up his appearance without sounding rude?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright...so my boyfriend and i have been together for about two years and i lovee him. He’s always a gentlemen and is such a sweet guy to me.however his style, haircut, and lack of shaving has been driving me crazy lately. There is no doubt I love him no matter what, but it’s ... (103 words)

What is this horrible smelling discharge?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know it's really gross, but I have really vulgure smelling vaginal discharge. It's horrible, I can smell it all the time and I honestly feel like other people can smell it. I sent of a urine sample to the doctor and it came back with "no further action" But it is still there, ... (124 words)

Is his hot female friend more than just a friend??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this one guy (who I really fancy) for half a year now. Officially we're not a couple as we both were very busy and I am originally from France so I go back home a lot. All this wouldn't bother me that much if there wasn't this extremely annoying best fr... (265 words)

I don't know who to pick...what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - sorry for all the writing but this is important for me to get your opinion.so please take time to read this.and tell me who is best for me? thanks. ok im stuck.i dont know witch boy i want or need. ok so theres eric who is my current boyfriend was very confused at firs... (383 words)

I have a problem - I sweat too much! I want to try Drysol but I'm unsure, has anyone else tried it?

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i have a problem,i sweat ALL the time. its very embarrasing. it happens mostly on my armpits and hands and i cant stand it.ive heard that i should get Drysol but im not sure, im going to the doctors this week and im going to ask her about it. I wanted to know if anyone here has ... (68 words)

Can how I make my boyfriend understand how important having a child is to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23, and engaged, to man who is 39. There is no question about the fact we are very much in love. We've already been through much together in the years we have known eachother, including both having abusive relationships, and being there for the other. He thinks he's... (225 words)

It seems as though my husband has lost interest in our children's welfare and that there's 'nothing we can do'. What do you think?

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17 August 2009 (F) age - We have grown children , but they are very troubled. Drugs.etc.. And there is a lots of bad news about them, but my husband started to not care about them.He refuses to care about them. He was always trying to keep himself away from painful stuff, , but in the last few year... (202 words)

Do other ladies enjoy being 'fisted'?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a very large viginia. So large, that my boyfriend has no trouble fisting me. Although I enjoy being fisted, I was wondering if other ladies are the same way. Also do they enjoy being fisted... (40 words)

Now that we've set a date I'm having doubts!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years now. We started dating when we were 18 years old. We've now been engaged for about 2 years. Recently, we set our wedding date... March of next year. My problem is this: I've always had fleeting feelings of doubt about whether he's the ... (518 words)

What's my ex trying to do to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone Please help me its really comfusing me, my ex bf dumped me last october to go bk to his other ex gf, but that never happened, Anyway we have stayed really good friends and since then he has a new gf who is pregnent with his 1st child anyway, since then ive n... (222 words)

I have a beautiful boyfriend but I'm not into having sex. At all. What's wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and i fancy the pants off him. I'm just not interesed in having sex and it's starting to become a strain on our relationship. I thought it might be because of the pill which ive been on about a year now, but how would you know that wa... (171 words)

Was I wrong to ask her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

17 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've dropped a bollock! I was friends with a girl and I've asked her if we could ever be more than that. She said no but she also said that "maybe we shouldn't hang out as much" which basically means "get lost! I don't want to be your friend any more!". People say that the best ... (98 words)

He hasn't said "I love you" or introduced me to his parents! How long is too long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been going out with my bf for the last 2 and half years. He's amazing and great to me..but he has never said I love you to me. He has not told his parents about us either yet. I feel as if its been way too long, and I'm slowly starting to feel resentment towards him. When ... (83 words)

I don't know what's going on with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im not sure if im doing the right thing. My friend and i fell out mostly to do with our "relationship" He would tell me he loved me then he would back out. We eventually ended up making love and i was his first. A few weeks later he said he wanted to remain friends. I tried but ... (147 words)

She's not into me anymore, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Correct me if I'm wrong but is it not ok to want more out of a relationship if your giving your all and your choice in partner isn't. Like am I wrong for desiring another woman if my current isn't being real with me regarding her sexual interest in other men. This is entirely ... (276 words)

Why in the world do I always give in and let him contact me and start believing in him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am sorry ahead of time for how long this is going to be, but I am totally at a lost.....Me and my ex meet online 4 yrs ago. He totally swept me off my feet. We dated online for over a year, seeing each other on weekends etc. After a year, I moved me and my kids to be with ... (538 words)

How does it make you feel when Valentine's Day comes around and you're still without that special someone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This question is for the single women of the dearcupid community, any age also k. K, so ladies, let me ask this to you, being single is hard sumtimes I know, but what goes on in your mind when your wishing you had someone to hold you in the early morning on cold nights? How ... (142 words)

What's up with the sudden "booty calls" ??!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey there. I'm so confused as to what has happened in the past six months. I'm very inexperienced with guys (yes, even at my age!) but have had three occassions lately where I've received "booty" calls from diffent guys! What the heck!? I know the laws of attraction is very ... (397 words)

Will this constantly be hanging over my head and causing more harm than good for this marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - Caught my husband cheating on me in my own home while i was sleeping upstairs....with my cousins girlfriend who is about 15 years older then me. I welcomed them in my home for a night of drinking and fun, my husband was really drunk and High on cocaine (which my cousin brought ... (205 words)

I'm in great shape... so why doesn't he french kiss me or give me oral?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age - my husband won't french kiss me at all or perform oral sex on me. He just wants to have sex. I am in good shape and have great grooming. Is there something wrong. I am sure he does not run out on me. We have been married for 33 years and he has always been that way. We ha... (112 words)

Should I take a chance and visit him and see where things go, after being apart for 15 years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age - 15 years ago I sent the love of my life packing. I am 15 years older then him, back then he was in his early 20's and I was in my late 30's. Now he's in his late 30's and I'm in early 50's. A lot has happened to both of us during the last 15 years, I was married for 9 of those ... (375 words)

How can I bring back the sexual attraction in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5573 days ago

17 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend and I have been together for about 6 years. Most of that time has been great. We have had an awsome sex life. For about the last year or so I was not a very good boyfriend. I got myself into a routine of being lazy about housework and that sort of stuff. She was ... (290 words)

Do I deserve to be treated like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 22 and I have been with my bf for over 4 years, after about a year of being together he said that I had to choose him or my friends, and that if I forgot my friends he would forgot one of his mates who is always nasty to me. 3 years later he still talks to his mate but I ... (322 words)

Should I get out of this marriage and take a chance with the younger woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

17 August 2009 (M)

age - I am married for 16 years and we have one child, a boy. during the 16 years, my wife packed her belongings and moved to her parents at least twice a year. I kind of put up with this for 16 years. I took her for therapy and we could not get to the bottom of why she keeps doing ... (655 words)

I can't have sex because I'm afraid of eye contact... has anyone else had this problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - This is unusual problem to have, but I've only had sex a few times because of this, and I hated it. I can't make eye contact with the other person. For some reason I have very piercing intimidating eyes, it actually feels like people get scared when they look me eye to eye. For ... (176 words)

I can't get my girlfriend to climax!! What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi. no matter how hard i try i cannot get my girlfriend to orgasm!! It doesnt matter what position we do, how hard, how fast i go, or how long we do it, she never comes. she also never comes through oral sex, however long i do it for or anything. Its really getting to me. S... (303 words)

I want to know how to stop thinking about this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - 2 years ago I met a foreign guy who was on a short holiday in my country. We stayed in touch by email (always as friends only) and he invited me to visit him in his country. I visited him and during my short stay he was very friendly with me. I thought he found me attractive ... (487 words)

Girlfriend broke up with me... Shall I try to contact her? I don't want to lose her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend broke up with me last night. she said that she needed some time to herself. she has been under alot of stress with exams lately and family life. she said she still loves me but she doesnt expect me to wait around for her, i love her so much that i cant picture ... (89 words)

Could my friend be gay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend whos is 40 never been attracted to girls but has feelings for a girl now is it possible that she is gay or could she just be feeling like that because they are such close friends. the girl also has feelings for her.... (47 words)

My husband gives lifts home to a younger colleague when it's unncessary. Is something going on? Should I tell him to stop?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age - My problem is that the other evening on a night out with my husbands works colleagues, he admitted to me that he sometimes gave a lift home to one of the office girls "as it is on the way home" now I was most surprised to hear this, as firstly it is not on his way home, it is a ... (330 words)

What can I do to bring our relationship back to life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for about 9 months now and i love him more than anyone, or anything. I feel so comfortable when im with him and i can really see us being with each other for a very long time. The thing is i feel the spark in our relationship has gone, when i kiss ... (175 words)

Did he just want to see how I was doing, or is he having second thoughts about our separation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my ex contacted me over the internet to ask how I was. He asked me to "please don't just ignore" him. We broke up about 4 months ago and haven't spoken in about 3. We had a great relationship. It was wonderful.. we broke up because timing/maturity, etc. We were together for ... (153 words)

I confronted a girl my boyfriend knew, but nothing was going on! Now both are mad at me, what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5573 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i feel really bad right now. my boyfriend and i been going out for almost 2years. i trust him but sumtimes i have doubts. so i went throu his cell phone and i found this girl who recently call him. i checked for the second time again and as stupid i was, and afraid, i ... (147 words)

Is this relationship able to work? Or am I crazy for even considering it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Apologies in advance.. this situation is very complicated. There is this girl.. my ex girlfriend / what I thought was my girlfriend. I was with her (fakely) for 3 months a while back until I found out she had been secretly in contact with her ex boyfriend wanting him back and ... (696 words)

I think we are at a different stage of life and I'm not sure she is the one I want to settle down with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I fell head over heels for my girlfriend a year ago, I'm late 20's she's early 20's. I thought I had never met anyone as mature and as suited to me as she was but in hindsight I was blinded by my love for her. In four months we were certain we wanted to marry quickly and start ... (712 words)

I love my wife's sister!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

17 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am a 40 years old man and have been married for about 15 years. My problem is, I am mad about my wife's sister. She is sooo gorgeous and entirely sexy. I cant stop thinking about her. She is also married and has 3 kids. But she is a wonderful person. She is about 2-... (206 words)

Is she still into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, to make it quick, I'm in the military and was away for some time in Afghanistan, I returned home after 4 years, but I noticed somehow my girlfriend rejecting me in some way, she isn't returning my calls, she doesn't answer my emails, could there be something wrong? I... (67 words)

How do I ask this boy from school out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is a guy I like at my school... I haven't seen him much through the summer holidays and probably won't because he is on holiday. I want to ask him out when we get back to school, but don't no how. I have never had a proper bf before... I dont no if this boy is interested ... (78 words)

Do you think he meant he didn't want a relationship, or just not a relationship with ME?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i really like this boy, we met on the internet and chatted for six weeks and then he came home ( hes in the army) for a few weeks and told me he doesnt want a relationship, he says his ex hurt him really bad and that he wants to be on his own. but when we were chatting on the ... (109 words)

Would there be a problem with a 19 year old going out with a 15 year old?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

17 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, I met this girl at a party I recently went to. We had a good laugh and joke plus a nice talk together, cuddle and kiss. Last night I took her to the cinema to watch a film she wanted to see, paid for her and everything including picking her up and dropping her off. I wo... (124 words)

Is there anything I can get from the doctor that would enhance my breasts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im so sick of being depressed about the size of my breasts. Ive hated them for years as they are to small. And I promised my parents i'd hold back on surgery until I was 20. But even now I still hate looking at my self in the mirror I want clevage. Does anyone know of a... (93 words)

What's the difference between love for a friend, and the love for a partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi there can someone tells me how could you know if you are in true love or you just love as friend how can I know I'm not loving someone as friend or as a lover??... (38 words)

Threesome turned sour....how can we improve our sex life without resorting to that again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I seem to be in trouble. After repeatedly cheating on my boyfriend of 2 and 1/2 years, we had a good chat and I confessed that it was only sexual stuff and nothing emotional involved and that whereas I never climax with him, I did with the last guy I slept with. Bear in m... (390 words)

I feel like a failure because all my friends have settled down but I havent found the right girl yet!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Hi, Quick one for all you aunts out there. Im 29, single and feel like a failure because all my friends are either in committed relaionships or married at this stage. My question is, am I putting unreasonable pressure on myself to expect that at this point of my life I shoul... (104 words)

Can't let go of my ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in luv with a guy who's 2 years younger than me. I'm working and he's doing his final year at university. He loves me and is everything i'd ever want from a guy. Problem is i still love my ex and i know he still loves me too (he's been begging me to give him another ... (121 words)

Has all my talking put him off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

17 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello Can i can some peoples opinions please! ok I'll try keep it as short as poss, just wandered HONEST if i have completely ruined all hope!!! I don't know what it is with people i like but i either can't say 2 words to them or i just babble on and on about rubbish!! here go... (370 words)

How do I stop my feelings towards this married man?

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i like this man whose married and have two kids. and i am jealous of his wife and can't see him with her. i know very well its not her fault but mine and his. even he likes me and we've had many good times together. we still continue to see each other even if we know its ... (77 words)

He is starting to be more honest about his sexuality but he still wont introduce me as his boyfriend

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17 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. He is a few years older than I am. Since I was 16 I have been out of the closet. I have fully embraced my gayness. I am in the military and most of the people who know me know about my sexuality and don't have a problem ... (444 words)

I want to spend the rest of my life with this woman but I'm afraid of another failed marriage!

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17 August 2009 (M)

age - I have two failed marriages behind me, the last one I felt railroaded into and didn't have the courage to back out of. I have now met a wonderful woman who has asked me to marry her. I said yes but that I want to wait for a while as I am only just divorced and not ready to... (177 words)

How do I avoid appearing to 'try it on'?

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17 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I've just been to a wedding. Over the course of the weekend, I got speaking to a girl, and think I like her. The problem is, at said wedding, in the evening, another guest got rather drunk and caused a rather big scene, after which I spent a bit of time comforting s... (179 words)

How do I stop caring about him talking to another girl?

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - could some one plz help me.... i dont know what to do i love him but i dont know how to forget all that has happened... i asked him not to talk to this unnone chick but he has not stopped but he say that it is nothing.. i was told to keep faith and it will be okay he will soo... (145 words)

Do you think she has feelings for me despite being in a relationship with another guy?

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17 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi there, i am a 23 years old virgin never have a gf in my life, i love women but for the reason which i don't they know, and sadly, they have never entered in to my life. i have been with this girl for more than a year, we have been very close, we are working in the same ... (505 words)

How long is sex supposed to last?

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17 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - probably a silly question, but how long do women prefer men to last in bed??? i suppose l am asking because in myself l dont believe l last very long at all. what got me thinking more about this is when my wife and i had separated for a period, she had slept with a couple o... (240 words)

How can I stop the pain?

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years..we havnt had sex yet..I'm a virgin he's not...I'm ready 2 have sex with him..he's ready to..but I'm soo scared its gonna hurt...is there anything I could do to stop the pain?... (41 words)

Should I go to the police about my uncle's inappropriate behaviour?

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17 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - From an early age I was very fond of my uncle . However he used to do things that worried me , he was extremely fond of me is well and kept showering me with gifts . Anyways I thought it was only me and that I must be wrong . I mean he appears to be a good man very kind ... (715 words)

Should I stay or should I go..I think she's cheating

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17 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - me and my grl have been together for15 years. ive been laid off for 6 months. money is tight. her 28 yr old daughter and 3 yr old son are living here for free for over a year.i had a drug problem for a while. weve been arguing bout everything and anything for the last.every ... (195 words)

Ex can't be with me because he's taking care of a baby that isn't his

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, i would really apreciate if you guys will help me out with this.. my ex-borfriend was in the army, nd during the time he was there he told me he loved me for the first time. i believed him, and said it back bt i meant it.. now that he came back.. he tld my friend that h... (223 words)

Would she respect me more if I just stepped back?

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17 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - this girl im talking to has a boyfriend.. we talk and hangout a lot. but now im just wondering, would she respect or like me more if i said lets just stop everything and be strictly friends, because she said if anything ever happen she would always want to keep in touch and i ... (87 words)

He's going away for 6 weeks and I can't survive without him!

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17 August 2009 (F)

- My bf is going away for a long time- 6 weeks overseas. I wont get to talk to him much, because hes not taking a phone due to how expensive it would be. He said he will try to find a internet cafe when he can, but hes not sure how often he will be able to get one. I am sooooo ... (101 words)

He blames all of our problems on me or my insecurities

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17 August 2009 (F)

- Is there something wrong with me? My bf says there is. He blames all our relationship problems either on me and "my insecurities" or he blames our problems on my ex bf and claims I am judging him based on how badly my ex treated me. I find it hard to trust my bf. I admit, ... (279 words)

All of the sudden, he doesn't "want a girlfriend". What do I do?

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so my ex boyfriend and me still hangout and hookup..tonight i gave him head and i swollowed for the first time thinking that it would show him that i care!..WRONG..after i did that we talked about us and he said that he has to much going on for a relationship and that he ... (163 words)

Is a bed and breakfast a good place for having sex?

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17 August 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I have been going with a good man. he asked me to get away at bed and breakfast for a few nights. We have not make love/had sex. Is a bed and breakfast a good place for making love/having sex? Other romantic places and ideas for us? A concern about the bed and breakfast is... (74 words)

Ladies! Do you have favorite sexual positions and why?

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17 August 2009 (M) age 30-35 - Are there some favorite sex positions among woman? Ladies, please tell what sex positions you like and why? ... (18 words)

He still doesn't call me his girlfriend. Won't even refer to us as a couple!

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Theres this guy that I met in January.We initially met online in December,and then met and had dinner together a month later.Anyways,we have been going out since that time.Usually on weekends because of our work schedule,and also because of babysitting needs,because I have two ... (282 words)

He seems to be losing interest in me. Does he even like me anymore?

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - wow my boyfriend... he was really great he was my first kiss but now it seems like he doesn't care about us first he never calls me and i have to call him and when i do he justs sits there and tells me how much he doesn't like talking on the phone .He also told my friend that ... (106 words)

My fiance has been seeing someone behind my back. What do I do?

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17 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiancee has been seeing someone else behind my back. She has not had sex with him (according to her). She did tell me that she was attracted to him, and I let her know I was uncomfortable with her spending alone time with him. She bookmarked her inbox on my computer, and... (845 words)

Can you can tell by a girls vagina if she is a transexual?

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17 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im just wondering if you can tell by a girls vagina if she is a transexual. Would it look, feel, smell, even taste the same? Anything would be great thanks!... (30 words)

I'm getting fed up with the "gossip" in her. Otherwise, she's a wonderful person!

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend loves to talk about other people. It can be something small to big. I'm the opposite. We are really close and I love her to death. Beside this problem, she has a huge heart. What can I do and say to make her stop. I'm also a christian and this gossiping really... (70 words)

Dominant and submissive...I'm afraid that I'm not going to be able to give him what he needs!

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really need advice. Stat. I am a 33 year old straight woman. I just found out today that my new boyfriend is pretty submissive. I'm submissive too (as in I like a man to be in charge), so that creates issues right there that neither of us are a dominant. What's more conc... (449 words)

If he hugs you when he normally wouldn't, does he like you?

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How likely is it that a guy likes you if he gives you a hug goodbye at the end of a night out and he doesn't normally hug people? I've only met him 3 or 4 times as part of a small group, though we've had some one on one conversations.... (51 words)

Why don't I squirt with the new boyfriend?

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I used to squirt while having an orgasm with my ex but with my new bf I cant...and I don’t know if it’s because of my masturbation or him or if I did it too much with my ex??... (39 words)

The deadline for telling his wife has come and gone. How do I tell her anonymously?

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been carrying on an affair with a married man. He is going to leave his wife, I do believe that. The thing is, the original timeline for him leaving her has already come and gone. Circumstances have just naturally happened that have caused him to have reason to stay ... (120 words)

Am I crazy to be waiting for him to be ready still or might I have a chance?

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - In every relationship I've had (and there have been a lot, from 3 weeks to 3 years) I've always instinctively known that we wouldn't last. Until the guy I'm sort of with now. I just know we will always come back to each other. We've been close for a year and share an incredible ... (308 words)

He works out for many hours a day, leading to our long distance relationship troubles!

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a long distance relationship for about two months now and everything has been going great until the last couple of weeks. At the beginning we used to talk ALL the time, everyday about 4 hours a day till we fell asleep on the phone together. The beginning of ... (268 words)

Case of bad luck or a curse?

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17 August 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Everybody thinks I'm crazy, but I really think,I'm not I think my family is cursed by someone. The most horrible things are happening, and my parents does not cause this, but if it goes like that my whole family will die or fall apart. Can't write a very long list, but psyc... (82 words)

Why does he only love me when I walk away?

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been on a rollercoaster with my boyfriend of 16 for the past nine months. We've had our highs and lows, happy moments and definatley the sad.. Sorry this is long.. but bear with me. Our relationship started out long distant, phone calls were all we had, but it gr... (471 words)

Is masturbation ruining my sex life?

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17 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, Lately I have been in a relationship with a 41-year old woman. I have known her for a few months already and we get along wonderfully, there's a lot of chemistry and fun being together. We have great compatibility too and want more or less of the same things in life. ... (360 words)

How do I get over wanting my father's approval and affection?

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I've been though a lot this summer with my father. He has told me that unless I am willing to be around my step mother he will not see me. And I am not allowed to be around her because she emotionally abused me, I won't get into details. What I need to know is how can I get ... (74 words)

I want her back, but she has trust issues, is there any hope?

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17 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I need some advice. Me and my now ex girlfriend broke up 4 months ago. It was a really nasty breakup with me admitting to not being exclusive until we had the talk...her manipulating me into letting her go through an old email account, facebook, and myspace. She caught me ... (278 words)

I'm not the kind of girl to admit I like him, but I want to know if he likes me!

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - sorry for the huge wall of text!!! i would write more but i don't want to write a damn book =\ if you manage to read the whole thing you must be bored but i would really really appreciate this! Okay, my friend and me talk alot, he moved to a different state i have f... (437 words)

I want to lose my virginity but how can I stop being nervouse?

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17 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im nearly 15 and i havent lost my big V yet and my gf whants to have sex with me i want to do it too but im nevrous what can i do to not be nervous?... (37 words)

Why can't I get over it?

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I were together two years and have a child. We were having trouble and spent 6 months apart but HE decided to give it another go. I took him back only to have him break up with me via text message and move on the next week to a girl he had met a few months earlier. ... (272 words)

My son keeps showing his privates to little kids?

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my 7 year old has been having trouble for years with showing his privates to other kids and will not stop no matter what is said or done. what do i do? ... (34 words)

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend is making my life hell!

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, here goes.... I found out just under three weeks ago that I was pregnant. I'm 22 and have been with my boyfriend (whose also 22) for nearly five years. It was a complete shock as I was on the and using protection, can only pin it down to a sickness bug I had in early ... (736 words)

What's wrong with my ex's new gf?

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex fiancee is the father of my child. His latest gf he met online and after meeting her a couple of times in person he introduced her to our son without even consulting me first. He took photos of her with our son and she put them up as her facebook profile pic. She also ... (172 words)

I wish my boyfriend was better but he's the father of my child.

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i have been with the father of my child for almost 4 years.We met my senior year and it was great we broke up about 6 months into the relastionship but got back together because we thought i was pregnant. I wasnt it was a mistake but he changed after that. I know i should ... (133 words)

I can't seem to communicate with him

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, So I had dated this guy for about 8 months maybe longer. We broke up and didn't contact each other for about 5 months. We were in love, it's just something happened with family issues and I didn't blame him at all for breaking it off with me. I asked him after it ... (285 words)

I have horrible anxiety and need help!!

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I need some advice. I am at my wits end here. You see, I suffer from anxiety. I have had this problem since I was a child. It would start out as a tight feeling in my throat, and that would convince me that I was about to be sick. I found that it would occur only when ... (308 words)

Should I lost my virginity? Should I just end it?

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I started liking this guy months ago. At first he didn't know if he liked me back or not but then he started liking me and we've had a thing for 9 months on and off now. When we do have a thing, it's always me and some other girls. Well just this last month we've been ... (133 words)

I really want to have a romantic relationship but I'm terrified!

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone- I'm new here! (sorry about the length in advance) I guess I found this forum after having a rough couple of days. I think I needed some reassurance, or some advice! A bit about me. I'm 20 and nearly 21 years old. I'm nearly finished University and am a dri... (923 words)

Am I too controlling?

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Am I too controlling? I've been married for a little over two years. My husband and I are both in our mid-twenties. Every couple of weeks, he has to travel out of town for work on the weekend and stays overnight sometimes - depending on the distance. I'm fine with that. I kno... (336 words)

Depression caused big problems, Break up. Now getting better, need advice!

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17 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Got together with my girlfriend about 3 years ago. I was happy and confident then, funny, charming and social, enjoyed going out and having drinks here and there. She fell in love with me. I also fell in love with her. She was similar - also happy and confident, funny, social, ... (730 words)

How can I be more outgoing?

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im shy, quiet, and not very funny. i waanna be more outgoing and more funnny but im not reaally suure hoow to?hoow can i be more outgoing ?... (28 words)

Can I make myself tighter

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like my vagina is looser than most womens even though I do kegel exercises everyday and exercise plenty. How can I tell if I am loose? I think I am because I can not feel when my boyfriend cums inside of my vagina, but I can feel him cum during anal. Is there a procedure ... (78 words)

I just want them to notice me.

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17 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i guess im kinda cute.but being a ginger really hurts my confindence really bad.i want attention from boys really bad.i guess its because im tired of them alwaays chassin after my bff and being her "third wheel" all the time.i want boyys to like me for once. hooow caan i get th... (54 words)

She doesn't love me back .. will she ever..?

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17 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - The prettiest girl I've ever seen... the girl of my dreams, a year ago she broke up with my cousin who used to be very close to me, a few months ago me and her started talking and we became inseparable. There literally isn't a moment in the day when we're not around each ... (428 words)

Can you say things drunk and mean them? If so why hasn't he left his gf yet?

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17 August 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I’ve liked this guy for ages but he has a gf so I backed off. We have late night conversations and are fairly close. He gets jealous when I am with other boys. I went on holiday for two weeks didn't see this lad except the odd text which he would initiate as I never send firs... (353 words)

Is having an interest in female feet normal?

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17 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I've recently noticed myself having an interest for female feet, my friends say that I'm sick or it's gross or all that, I keep my opinions and everything, but it hit me "Is it normal?" That's my question, and many thanks in advance.... (45 words)