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writes:I'm engaged to a great guy, however there seem to be some inscurities that pop up now and then. We were on trip with some friends and there waa a new friend who was going to stay with us in our hotel room. He's about 10 yrs younger and was talking about his new booty call and that he was developing feelings for her I told him to have all the fun because when you find the one, like I did, then that's it just like me and my fiance, (who was in the room). Later on that night, I made a comment and said, "oh, he's soo cute" I should have added like a puppy cute. At night, when my fiance and I were getting into bed, I placed a blanket on the sofa for the friend to sleep. Well my boyfriend did not like the "cute" comment and was angry at me for putting a blanket on the sofa. Saying that his lady shouldn't be taking care of other guys. I told him it was common courtesy. He's telling me that his feeling are hurt because no one has ever done this to him...what did I do? I did apologize about the "cute" however, putting a blanket on sofa for HIS friend? HELP!! My chest is really tight and feeling like there is more to this??
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (6 August 2009):
You didn't do anything wrong so what you said he was cute well hell if he is cute for a fact then what was the problem. Now I can see if you were like oh he is so fine. There is another issue with your man that he just isn't saying I am sorry if no women has ever put out a blanket for him but what the hell does that have to do with you. You have done all you can do tell him to get over it and move on he is acting like a child period. If he was so jealous why was the young man sleeping in your room period anyway put the blame back on him I bet he would shut up then. If you don't want your women around anyone then you wouldn't let him in would you. Honey you just keep being you if he is insecure that is not your fault.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (6 August 2009):
 Oh geez, I think your fella overreacted. Unless there was more to this situation than what you wrote - if you might have been giving off flirty vibes or maybe eyeing the guy when you thought your BF wasn't watching... what you describes sounds totally innocent. I think you were being a courteous host and that your "cute" comment didn't cross any line. You apologized for the cute thing, okay that was nice of you, but no way do I think you owe an apology for putting out a blanket. That's just being considerate, not overly friendly!!
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