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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:At the end of May of this year, my ex got back in touch and we eventually decided to try again since the reasons we broke up 8 months before was mainly due to lack of time because of his career.We have now been dating 2 months and already I feel like I am back in a major rut of waiting around for him to have time. Also, what makes matters worse is that he is still rather protective of himself and his life. I have never visted his home, he has never managed to meet with any of my friends on occasions and he wont do things like hanging out all day or meeting for brief work lunches. Infact, I'm all together terrified of stepping into areas I know are his "territory".This was due to a past experience with an ex of his who was obsessive and stalked him as well as broke into his email accounts and address books.In the past, the first time we were together, I tried very hard not to make him feel I was a "bunny boiler" but I also wanted my time with him but found as the months increases, our time together decreased.Also sex is a problem on which at the moment, is bothering him. I have never climaxed with him in any shape or form and can only climax with my own hand. He is well equiped and knows how to make me feel amazing but the final act never seems to be.Please please help.
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reader, guywithlove  +, writes (5 August 2009):
what is your question? ..to be with him or leave him?...i am not sure..looking at your situation ..you are having sex with him and still thinking if u should be with him or not? to be honest..i dont get it?
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