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writes:I was seeing a guy very seriously who had been single for many years...(18) and we were talking marriage, etc and I got nervous and just broke it off...NOW, I'm beating myself up for it.....I thought I was doing what was right by my kids, but didn't realize that they wanted him in our family as much as I did. Now, he's seeing someone else, who, from the outside at least, appears to have a lot in common with him. I've left him a couple of 'missing you' voice mails and text messages and most recently sent the 'dear john' letter telling him that I want him to be happy but if anything should happen to his 'current situation' I pray that he gives me another chance.......??????? I vowed NOT to contact him again.....that's up to HIM. HELP!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): How about if you get the kids to write to him as well? That might tip the scales in your favour. Worth a try, but if you haven't heard anything for a year start looking for other distractions.
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reader, Your friend  +, writes (5 August 2009):
 If you do anything more you will look like you are begging which won't look good. If he changes his mind he'll call you can't do anything more for now.
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