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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Two questions: How do I get rid of these spots? And how can I spice things up on his birthday?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5617 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got two questions. I'm going on holiday with my boyfriend next week and i have suddenly got load of spots on my chin. I never get spots normaly so its typical for them to come up now. I've tried everything from spot cream to face masks and even putting aftershave on t... (145 words)

Please help! My sister slept with two guys and doesn't know who the father is

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there. I'm hoping someone can help me out here - well my sister. She is about 4 weeks pregnant and is not sure who the father is. On the 4th july she slept with her partner with no protection and on the 11th she slept with another guy, She then took the mornning after ... (97 words)

Why won't my family and friends except my interacial relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - For over 3 years I've been in an interacial relationship. I'm white, and my boyfriend is from Bangladesh. I love him deeply, he's the most amazing person I have ever met, he always makes me laugh and happy, he does so much for me and he's so sweet and kind it's almost ... (325 words)

How do I get noticed by boys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 15 year old girl with long brown hair and blue eyes are medium height and average weight. Why when i walk down the high street does no boys turn round and take a second look and me or smile and me or look like their looking at me? How do i get noticed? and dont worry i... (120 words)

He did it on purpose! I don't want to be pregnant

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i really need help guys! pls. pls. pls..... me and my boyfriend had sex 3x. the first one is the night when i got home then the morning and the last one was when we arrived home back from the mall. the 2x we did it, he withdraw it just in time before he ejaculate but unfortun... (190 words)

Should I tell my dad the secret I've kept for two years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - this question is about family problems.. 0k.. i have a problem.. when i was growing up my dad had ah gurlfriend and they were together for about 7years and they have been seperated for 2 years now and i dont get along with my dad very good because i dont think what he di... (138 words)

I need confidence to talk to girls!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem which is that I can never seem to be able to start talking to a girl I like when I do not know her or when I see her in a shop or something. What do I do?? Also I need some tips on how to gain more confidence. Thanks in advance.... (62 words)

Bestfriends boyfriend said he loved me then kissed me! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - HI i in huge trouble i think. my best boy mate and best friend are going out and she is on holiday at the moment,today i met up with him at the local park and we had a great laugh but then it went really strange. he looked and me in this really sweet way and said " you look ... (170 words)

The pulling out methord. I don't want to get pregnant. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok... my boyfriend and i had been fooling around during this weekend. we had sex when on the night i arrived, then the morning, well he withdraw just before he would burst out inside me. but the bad thing is that we had sex again the night before i am suppose to leave the same ... (104 words)

My bestfriend doesn't like me being friends with his twin

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i really like my best boy mates twin, but my best boy mate hates me and his twin being friends and i got really upset about it and he knows i did. My best boy mates been telling me his twin hates me and thinks i ugly and never wants to see me again but i dont know if i c... (127 words)

How do I get over the older, flirty guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15, and have been having a crush on this guy in his mid-20s, I think (no, he's not my teacher, we only met once) for about 2 months. We almost certainly won't meet again, but he was the most good-looking guy you could imagine, and seemingly flirty. And I fell in love with ... (237 words)

Have I ruined my chance of possibly dating him because it started out as a FWB thing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, my question is whether I have immediately set up fuck buddy relationship status with this guy. I am generally promiscuous and have had some FBs. I have also had long-term relationships. I know what feelings need and needn't be present for FB-type relationships. I.e. there ... (290 words)

The thought of my partner having sex with me makes me feel sick! Is it me or the Implant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have been with my partner for nearly 2 years, we have two children one 15 years old and the other is nearly turning 3. my partner works away and we only see each other a few days a month but we are used to this and it isnt a problem, i have been on the contraceptive implant ... (242 words)

How can I decide who to be with? My boyfriend, or my ex-girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have an ongoing problem that i really need help with.. I am a girl and have a boyfriend of 3 years. I am bisexual before i met him i was with a girl for 4 years. Before i met him, i moved far away from the girl and she was supposed to move with me but never came. we were very ... (120 words)

While I was away my girlfriend shared a drunken kiss with someone... Should I take her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear cupid I(27) have been dating and living with my girlfriend(21) for 2 years. I have a son from a previous relationship whom she appeared to love and care for him genuinely. She had been absolutely wonderful in our relationship and showed true marriage material an... (147 words)

What can to a boy I've never talked to but reeeally like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i like this boy, and he likes me too, i guess. im planning on talking to him for the first time, and i dont know what to say. btw ive liked him since last august, . so my question is: what to say to a boy that you've never talked to but have a huge crush on.... (60 words)

My "best friend" asked out the girl I like just to spite me..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with this girl whose been like my best friend for years, and all my best friends knew about then one of them spitefully asked her out on a date and she said yes even though shes told my friend she dosent like him in that way. They dont act like a couple even though ... (113 words)

Is he just playing games or does he actually want to see me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, so it's been a long time and I'm getting into the dating game. It's been fun and challenging, but I'm not serious nor am I trying to find my next husband. But, I went to a family gathering a month ago and my cousin's friend attended. She introduced me to him and "B... (390 words)

He's going out with a "friend"... Yeah right!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5613 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been tryin to give my ex a lil space*been broken up almost a mo*.. but then I felt it was silly and decided to call him 2 days later *last wk i didnt call for 2 days and he was bothered/thought I was having sucha a blast that I couldnt call/txt*.After we broke up... (421 words)

He loves me, he love me not.. which one??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5619 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my bf for almost 3 years and a week ago he split up with me because he felt we grew apart however after a hour he decided he made a mistake and wanted to come and see me so he did and we talked he said he couldn't live without me and that he loved me so much ... (144 words)

He lies and then blames me for finding out!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months and i love him a lot. He was a first and I do plan to marry him. One problem though- he lies to me without thinking I know about it. He looks at porn and lies about it, keeps pictures of other girls on his computer and looks up... (154 words)

What's her problem?

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2 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who iv been talking to for almost a month would be longer but the problem is she will talk to me for one day or 2 max and then not say anything for a week or more... and when she does message me its not till like 2 my time 1 hers. What could the problem be? i ... (72 words)

I keep thinking about my husband's ex partners... How can I stop this insecurity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - What is the reason ,that I'm always so jealous of my close partners ex girlfriends? Even in long relationships,I'm obsessed with the thought ,they loved someone before me.And I keep hearing people go back to their high school sweet heart ,and that freaks me to death. My husban... (150 words)

How could my now ex-fiance throw away our relationship like that? It's like she doesn't even care...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, Thanks for listening to me... Well my fiance of 7 years walked out on me the other day. We didn't really argue, there were little things that I did that ticked her off, and vice versa, but I was never a flat out jerk to her ever. I loved her and cared about her ... (544 words)

What to do for the best??? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My bf of 8 years and I have broken up (his choice) and I need some advice on how to play it - I don't know whether I should play it cool (would he just forget me?) or fight for our relationship as I love him with all my heart, and would love to hear your experiences/advice ... (608 words)

How can I move forward with my broken heart in pieces...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'm Steve I broke up with my boyfriend almost 2 months ago and I still miss him a lot, he dumped me in a very bad way, he really broke my heart with all the things he said, I'm trying my best to move forward but every day it gets harder and harder, I need advice please ... (200 words)

Is it normal that when my boyfriend acts cold, distant, and makes me feel rejected that I feel sad and want to cry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it normal that when my boyfriend acts cold, distant, and makes me feel rejected that I feel sad and want to cry? I plan on talking to him today about how he makes me feel sometimes like he doesn't care and that he needs to show that he loves me and be more affectionate ... (105 words)

Chucked out the house for being seen naked!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 28 years old male. I used to live in my aunty's house and i was in a lot of stress due to studies, work and my father's health. I had some very bad cases with my cousin sister in laws and aunt. I had my bathroom door unlocked and my cousin's sister in law saw me fully ... (160 words)

Help! I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I met this guy 5 months ago and we talked on the phone every day and we were texting each other all the time but he lives in another state, sometimes we had some fights over the phone because I blame him when he didn't call me back. I made mistakes, I was so aggressive and ... (228 words)

I was falling for him and then he told me he had a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - 0k.. i Started out talking to somebody named M and we were really close we used to go over each other's house and he used to walk me home and stuff like that but he had a girl friend at the time and he didnt tell me UNTIL afterwards and i think that is the worst thing that ... (106 words)

It reads like womensense for 'not interested' - but the connection seems more real

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5618 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - experience pays. I am recently back in the dating world (9months) and ive gone thru some changes and grown in some ways i guess. ive been in a few relationships in that time, and was really so happy to revisit these feelings i sort of just 'went with it' - all fine and goo... (1361 words)

I am confused whether to text him or not about the money

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I were in the middle of settling what he owes me. While chasing him to pay, at first he was rude in replying to my messages. So I told him that I didn't deserve to be treated that way coz I didn't do anything to him. I just wanted my money back. He replies with a m... (357 words)

Tell him... or stay friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4953 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

- Heeey Guyssies.. well ! Omg I have a big problem.. the thing is i change my mind a lot.. My ex boyfriend.. (lets call him fred) well he and i are like really good friends now i'm really comfortable around him and we talk about everything.. well.. wen we were together it was ... (435 words)

Need to get my rocks off before settling down... but it may be too late

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, so my fiance has pretty much made me feel as though I'm Satan himself for even considering asking questions like this, but here it goes. We got engaged in February and I really love this girl, I want to marry her (hence the engagement... duh). But I'm only 23 and my list of ... (257 words)

Am I being irrational thinking that my boyfriend will cheat on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm obsessed that my boyfriend wants to cheat on me even though I know he never will. He has never cheated on any of the women he's been with, yet every girlfriend he's had (including his ex-wife) has cheated on him. His mother told me that I would never have to worry about him ... (620 words)

We have a baby together, but conflicts are pushing us apart...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have a child together (3 months), we live together. But, there's constant conflicts that take place...I've tried writing letters to her, love letters, offered to go out on a date while someone watches our son. And she would write back and it would seem ... (443 words)

He said he needs time to mend his ego and now he is back on the online dating site!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age - I met a man two months ago online. On our first meeting, I didn't see him as my type (looks and views). But, he had something that drew me in. With every date, I grew more fond of him. He seemed loving, sweet and treated my like a princess. We practically saw each other 2-3 ... (406 words)

Do I have Phimosis?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all I was just wondering if this was phimosis. Sorry it might be a bit long. Iv'e just turned 17 and only jst relised how far a normal foreskin should be pulled back. When my penis is flacid, you only just see the tip of the glans. I was a little bit worried how it w... (152 words)

Advice sought regarding a girl who has a partner!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I write this seeking confirmation that what I am doing is right more than anything, but also to gauge opinion and see what other people think as well. Sometimes when you’re in the middle of something it’s easy to lose a sense of reality! I apologise if it all sounds a bit ... (939 words)

Do looks really matter to get a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi friends.i agree that i dont look superb.but have a cute face.still i am not proposed.do looks really matter to get a boyfriend?i see girls who look horrible too get someone or the other.is it me only who is facing such fate?please reply.although i know i have not such a big ... (61 words)

I'm 17 and she's 24....What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently really good friends with a girl on facebook and MSN, we have never met but we text like 24/7. I really like her and she likes me, I have never felt this way about a girl before I feel like I just want to f*ck her shes so fit and I think I love her. Maybe I just ... (71 words)

I don't know what to do about the two guys I like... please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so lately im pretty much always in a love triangle. theres this guy i met in school, we hung out and stuff, we even kissed, but then he went to florida to visit his family. i understand that and i wasnt mad at all. over the summer though my friend wanted to go to ... (304 words)

My boyfriends much more serious about our relationship than I am, and I don't want to lead him on. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I’m really confused could really do with some advice please, its doing my head in, cant bear to talk to anyone I know about it, thanks in advance for any feedback I really appreciate it! Well… I’m in a relationship with this guy have been for 8 weeks now it’s pretty full on, he ... (360 words)

I'm having doubts that I'm the biological father of my son... How can I approach this subject with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age - I have a 22yr old son, and have always had suspicions about whether or not I am his biological father. My ex-wife (of 20 years) and I split when he was 7. I later discovered she had been having an affair around the time he was conceived. I love him, am proud of him, an... (348 words)

How can I help those around me....and how can I help myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello everybody. I have since realised that Im a confused man.I discovered this in my present relationship. I have been in this relationship for nearly four years now. I have read a lot on relationships, manipulation, deception, personality disorders.My relationship has been ... (331 words)

How can I explain what was going on to my friend? And what can I do about my guy friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys I have 2 problems here..I was at a party last night and one of my friends kept grabbing me and messing with me. He always grabs my ass and boobs and stuff but that's just how he is.. I'm almost sure we don't like eachother cuz he's talking to someone and so am I. ... (157 words)

In the space of 1 week he went from being in love with me to leaving me for his ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i was with this guy a month, he spent 3 months chasing me, mainly texting me, telling me he loved me, i took it slowly, we started sleeping together, he said it was the best sex he ever had, then all in the space of a week he went from telling me how much he loved me, on ... (123 words)

Am I crazy for wanting my nipples to be sucked?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Why my nipples are forever yearning to be sucked I love sex but i always fantasize abt having my nipples sucked by two men then wud reward them by f*cking me. I think i am crazy. Currently I am not in a relationship and hoping to fulfill this fantasy before i meet so... (59 words)

They want photos of me with no clothes on!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - 0k.. I am currently single but i talk to a LOT of guys they always send me dirty pictures of themself but they want me so send them a dirty picture of myself and i take some HOT pictures but i have clothes on and they want pictures with my clothes off and i dont take pictures ... (71 words)

He's drawing conclusions without having met me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I met this man through a dating website he lives in my city, I asked him to be friends with me so he said yes. He told me he has a disabilty, his left hand has a nerve problem so its not easy for him to type and he even stopped to drive. We went all well for 2 weeks, I told him ... (163 words)

Best friend told me it was ok to go out with her ex, but it really wasn't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'v been very stupid and already im regretting it!! My best friend split up with this guy that she absolutly loved in november because he treated her badly and then soon after in february she started going out with this guy that she met at work. He fell in love with her bu... (376 words)

No sexual chemistry anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F) age - I'm afraid,, me and my husband has no sexual chemistry anymore. We never hug in the bad,and never make love. He never says I ;m pretty,and he never looks at me nice. He had erection problems ,no medical reasons,and the relationship slowly turned cold. I'm so scared ,th... (114 words)

Did I do the right thing? Or jump the gun?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age - Did I do the right thing this time? My ex and I have remained friends i.e he is always there when I need him. but in the past month we fooled around. i was ok with it but not this last time. He took me to a fabulous romantic dinner every thing seemed like a go. I stayed ... (342 words)

Sex in less than a week!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Last night I got into a little "activity" with my new boyfriend... He wanted sex. But, we just got officially together less than a week ago. Do you think I should've had sex with him?... (35 words)

What does the G-Spot do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - What exactly is the g-spot? i kno where it is and stuff but what is it for and what does it do?... (22 words)

I didnt feel any physical attraction to him on our first date, am I worrying to much or leading him on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age - I have been alone for about a year and haven't even gone out. Last week, I ran into some one I have known for years and he asked me out. I had the best time talking to him--we know all the same people and it was fun having dinner and talking. I know I'm just a worrier, but ... (177 words)

Should I believe that he is working all weekend hence why he cant see me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - If you partner didn't text you back when they told you they would then would it be a deal breaker for you? I am getting increasingly frustrated with my 36 year old partner. We are in a long distance relationship. Just recently he has become very non-commital to making plans ... (320 words)

I just cant give up on this relationship, is there any hope for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 years..we met at work. and he was the man of my dreams for the first time in my life I felt completely whole. I had never had someone who satisfied me in every way I felt so lucky! He wanted me to move in with him 2 years into our ... (403 words)

Terrified to ask her out...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - You see there is this girl that I like. She always makes me feel good about myself whenever she talks to me and she is very beautiful and kind. I can never pick up the courage to ask her out for a number of reasons: 1.If she says no I could really hurt myself or someone ... (149 words)

Question about bi sexuality!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Why is it so acceptable for women to be bi sexual, and when men are bi sexual women seem to think it's wrong?... (23 words)

He's showing off his genitals online and getting paid for it!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out that my husband was uploading movies and photos of his genitals to the Internet when I clicked on the browser (it was my day off from work, and he'd left the browser open after he'd put the computer on in the morning!). He'd set out for work by then. I was disg... (301 words)

I love him but he has a girlfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have known this guy for about 1 1/2 years now but we'd never really talked, I mean at first he was good friends with one of my friends and they kinda liked each other. I always thought he was cute but i never really knew him. my friend talked to him alot and i would often go ... (710 words)

Scared of getting toooooo close...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I was like 9 or 10 when I met this boy who was a little younger than me and he moved in to my street. My mum and dad got friendly with his mum and dad so I saw him a lot. One evening I went to his house and was playing a gGame with him but it led to more and I was s... (153 words)

Help! My relationship seems to be going downhill...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age - Hey - I am a 45 year old male. I met this fabulous woman who is just a few years younger online. When we met both she and I were going through a bad patch in our respective relationships with other partners. Like birds of a feather flock together we got along famously online. ... (405 words)

Why has she contacted me again to set me up with other girls??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5616 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - we are both in our 20,s We never went out but had serious chemistry. We were on the verge of going out then her ex came back into the picture. She never got back with him but I guess talking to him made her like him more and me less. She played mind games with me. She had... (255 words)

I'm pregnant, but I feel that if my boyfriend doesn't want a baby with me then he shouldn't be involved. Is this right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age - I was planning to get married shortly but my boyfriend has 2 children and doesn't want anymore. I did want another child and have tried everything to get him to change his mind but he will not budge. Although we have been very careful and used contraception I am now pregnant. ... (253 words)

How can I get over him while living in the same house as him?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'll get right to the point cause this is a long one. The relationship I have is a relationship that started in a very bad way. We BOTH were engaged to other people and we became good friends while he was doing work on my house. We were both unhappy in our relationships (m... (620 words)

He can't stop drinking and complains about watching the kids. Should I marry him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and this guy have been dating monogamously for about 2 years. He proposed may of this year. I am 24 he is 42. I have two children and never married, he has no children and married once. We have a great relationship other than a little struggle on the trust issue part. No he ... (372 words)

I am SO in love with her I feel like crying!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl, who is very important to me. Every time I think of her I want to cry. I've known this girl since kindergarten. In the 3rd grade, she told me she liked me for a friend, because that's the same year she found out I've had a crush on her since I met her. The ... (226 words)

My friend is committing benefit fraud while my sister really needs it! Should I report her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay here goes this is a bit long. I have this friend who has never really been that nice to me, or been there for me. She gives my number out when she's drunk, nearly got me dragged in as a witness at court and harrassed one of my good friends who is a well known name where... (390 words)

Aaahhh I can't talk to girls!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi all. I like this girl. But Im having trouble keeping up a conversation with her. any one have any tips on how too have a good conversation?... (28 words)

We're going our seperate ways plus I'm scared of rejection; should I ask her out?

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2 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know if I should pursue my crush... I recently worked up some courage to finally talk to her, we had a good conversation on the phone. And I was thinking of going on to the second step of asking her out for some coffee where I could get to know her more. But here is wh... (171 words)

I'm trying to make our marraige work so I had sex with his brother..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - so i met my husband and 9 month into our relationship i found out i was pregnant and either get married and keep the baby or get an abortion so i chose to be married. well a month before i found out i was pregnant i was cheatin on him with his brother (kiss no sexualy acts)and ... (281 words)

Why do opposites attract?

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2 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Why do relationships seem to last longer between people who have very little in common? I had everything in common with my girlfriend, and yet it lasted less time than the relationships where the guy is a total abusive d*ck..... (43 words)

I end up feeling dumb everytime someone compliments me..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I know this is a weird question, but it's been an issue for me for a while. I can't take compliments. Whenever someone compliments me I turn it into a joke somehow, or make a witty comment, and I feel dumb afterwards for avoiding it. I have my first serious boyfrien... (173 words)

Am I really ready for a baby? How should I approach my boyfriend about this?

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2 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well this is my first post here so I am not sure how I should ask this and I also know peoples opinions differ but what I am wanting to ask is how would I go about asking my bf how he would feel if I said I wanted a baby.....weve only been together 6 months but it feels like ... (203 words)

I feel dirty and like a dumb bimbo to him when he watches porn. Please help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - heres the deal. i am in love, i know it for sure. my boyfriend and i have been dating for almost two years, the first year was amazing. i lost my virginity to him .. as a real sexual experiance because i was raped so hes not technically my first.. he knew that happened to me ... (399 words)

The way he treats me makes me feel like a slave. Should I move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys. I'm sorry. My story is a little bit long and I'm not good at English but I try to write as well as I can. Therefore, it might be hard to read for some guys. Pleaser read this story all and give me a good advice whether I should move on or not. To be honest, I don't ... (878 words)

How can I make my boyfriend orgasm during dry sex?

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2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there, ok so when your boyfriend doesn't orgasm during dry sex, does that mean that he's not getting any pleasure ??? how can i make him orgasm ?? thanks so much =]... (37 words)

Girlfriend goes out clubbing/drinking with friends and disappears. Am I wrong to wonder what she's doing and why I don't' hear from her?

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2 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Sorry in advance for the length of this, I want to provide as much background as I can to help set the mood for my question. I have been seeing my girlfriend for about 10 months and I'm concerned that something is wrong. We don't live together and probably spend 2-3 eveni... (1048 words)

My b/f doesn't satisfy me sexually

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2 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ive been dating my bf for 8 mths now, we have a great connection.We are in our mid to late 20s with previous relationship experiences prior to us dating. We have reached level of intimacy, though I'm hitting a stale mate at a point in which makes me really sad. He doesn't ... (213 words)

My boyfriend is obsessed with licking my toes!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend has this weird obsession with licking my toes and it kinda creeps me out when he licks my toes but im afraid that if i don't let him lick my toes he'll break up with me and go out with some other girl who will let him lick their toes and i don't want this to happen ... (75 words)

How can I help my friend who's using weed as an escape?

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2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please someone help me. my best friend is depressed and he is mentally addicted to weed. he explains to me that its the only way he can escape. he knows its stupid and he knows its ruining his life. hes 17. and i just know that its a cry for help or else he wouldnt be telling ... (91 words)

Nervous about my penis size

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

2 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, im 16 and my penis is nearly 6 inches, is this normal for my age. if it is, will it grow much more? im nervous about it.... (29 words)

Will he ever ask me to be his wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been divorced for nine years and i have been seeing a guy for almost the same amount of time. he is the only guy i have dated since my divorce. i love him so much and he still takes my breath away when he passionately kisses me. he has been divorced two times and it has ... (115 words)

She perfers us talking in person

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5616 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a male friend who is in need of some assistance on this girl he likes. He has liked her for a long time. They've been best friends for three years. Right now, he's away at college for the summer, and he's planning to come back for the remaining two weeks we don't have ... (156 words)

How can I move on and be happy again.

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2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in love with this guy for almost three years now. We dated for two of those three years. We broke up a year ago and I cant seem to stop loving him. He has told me that he no longer has feelings for me and that there is no chance of ever getting back together. I ha... (139 words)

My wife thinks that another woman will cure my erectile dysfunction!

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2 August 2009 (M) age 51-59 - I'm having erectile dysfunction ,and my wife thinks ,some other woman will turn me on.And than I will be horny and sexy again.. I have this 3 years ago, the doc says its a mind over body thing... I wonder, could she be right? I don't think it is right, but I don't want to be... (79 words)

Do actions speak louder than words?

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2 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm quite confused here and I need help! I'm starting to like a guy at my workplace. He started flirting with me and I wasn't very interested. I thought he was attractive but I was still in recovery from my ex and I wasn't paying much attention to him though I did think he... (989 words)

My girlfriend is late, please help!

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2 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright listen everyone, me and my girlfriend had unprotected sex about 3 1/2 weeks ago. I thought she was on the pill and didn't wear a condom but it turns out it was a misunderstanding..she takes BC but its a ring thing that she puts in her vagina..and she didn't have it in. ... (211 words)

Not cheating, but accused of it...

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2 August 2009 (M)

age - I know I'm not perfect, and don't pretend to be. My girlfriend of several years is convinced I have been cheating on her, when in fact, I have not. What should I do? Thanks... (40 words)

How much do parents really contribute to their children's adult lives?

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2 August 2009 (F) age - My children are all 18 years older,but they are making huge mistakes, like they never learned anything good from us. We tried to teach them good values, but they are clearly not showing any good results, there is drugs and drinking ,trouble with the law, and other stuff. ... (168 words)

Is my discharge normal?

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2 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have had a muscus like vaginal discharge i havnt went to the doctors becasue i am nervous and i think it might be something bad i researched and some say its normal but i'm not to sure it doesent burn or have a bad oder but i get self consious is this normal? ... (54 words)

Take a second date or take a break?

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2 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im mid thirties and six weeks ago ended a 3 month relationhip with someone I had totally fallen for as he wasn't really available (he is going through a divorce and his wife wants him back/children). I want to meet someone and thought Id just get back in the swing of things, ... (132 words)

I found out my crush has a girlfriend, but I still want to be friends! What should I do?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

2 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok, i just got back from church camp yesterday! There was this boy, Jared, hes super sexy!hes really nice too! he danced w/ me once too! I really want to be his gf, but hes already got one! I was sad when i was told that! I still want to be friends! I dont no what to talk ... (82 words)

Was my instinct right about this?

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2 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - im very confused at the moment. 7 days ago my ex fiance from 6 years ago contacted via email to do this facebook thing. i was happy to hear from him because i thought at last it was a chance to clear the air from the past. we had a very bad split whch resulted in me l... (271 words)