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writes:Ok i have an issue. My boyfriend really wants me to give him head but I am really nervous. He says "I eat you out every time so why won't you do it to me?" I told him I am nervous to do it but he says ill always be nervous and i just need to do it and get over my fears like we did with my fear of sex. How do I get over the fear?Also how exactly do you do it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): I think you are nervous because he pushing you.
With the right guy it is easier to relax and just give it a go!
The first time feels a bit funny, but isnt half as bad as you might expect.
But dont be pushed into it...
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (5 August 2009):
 Grab it in your hand, kiss the end and take it from there. It's really hard to go too far wrong. Like ice cream there is no such thing as a bad blow job just good and better ... best do it for the first time after he has just had a bath or shower.
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reader, ButterflyAway  +, writes (5 August 2009):
What exactly is it that you're afraid of? You should never do something you feel uncomfortable with, regardless of what someone else has done for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): I think you will get advice on technique from others and about relaxing etc but all I would like to say is that I don't think your boyfriend sounds very mature or kind. Its not a favour he's doing you and then expecting in return. He is supposed to care about what does and does not turn each other on and he is pressurising you (hassling you actually) into doing something you have been honest and brave enough to say you are very nervous about. Here is a warning: If you give in to being bullied in the bedroom now it paves the way for more of the same later in life. A decent man gives you time to get used to the idea of something and for love to come naturally. By dismissing your concerns and telling effectively to just 'get over it' he is using you. Do not be forced to do something before you are ready.
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