He's a player who talks to me about everything and even sleeps naked with me, but he doesn't want sex?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

There’s that guy who is my neighbor and we get along really well. The problem is that we physically attracted to each other but he has had bad experience before hooking up with neighbors so he comes in my room sometimes and sleeps naked with me he won’t do anything except hug me and kiss me and a little foreplay but no sex. I found that fun at first cause I just came out of a relationship and am not looking for a relationship yet however now I’ve started to get feelings for him. He is a player but tells me everything every time he goes on a date and stuff and also tell me that we neighbors and don’t want to screw things between us. He talks to me in a really flirty way and the other day I texted him telling him that I want to see him so he ditched his date and came back home but didn’t say it was because of me but because he wanted to watch rugby but he didn’t even watch it, he slept in my arms and when I told him am going to my room he asked if he could come. My best friend asked him if he likes me and he said as a friend nothing more my friends concluded that he is too shy and when I was teasing him he told me I get nervous around girls. I can’t understand why would a guy talk to you about his dates, his past, come in your bed and sleep naked with you if it’s not for sex??

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