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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:i loved a girl form 2004 till now i love her but i have never talk to her she stay behind my house. in staring i use to go to her collage she notice me there .after that she pretend to me that she has a boy friend .she also show before me that she has a boy friend she has gone to a park with him showing me .after that i stop going to her college then from my roof top i use to see her she also reacted and a eye contact started between us. if i use to wear red collar shirt she used to were red colour dress .like this a year pass in Decemder 17 2005 she started going in front of my house at evening as i think she want me to go before her and talk. she continued for 1 month then as i do not go she stopped and our eye contact continue then after some time i stopped going to roof because i think she is playing wih my emotion after then when ever i go to roof top she come and show some style in front of me. i think she had also told about this to her mother brother wife (mami). her mami is staying close to her and my house i know now after 5,6 year she also respond when ever i go to roof or when she see me out side while driving. i do not know what to do still now i see her once a day hiding from my window i want to forget her i am fed up i think she love me she has also given me opportunity to talk but i have left because i think she had a boy friend now what to do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): i'll start by saying that was really hard to read.
i get this question a lot from my mates. they get with a chick who has a boyfriend, then they want to pursue a relationship. it's insane to think anyone would want to pursue a relationship with someone they just saw cheat on their partners first hand! NO NO NO! if you can cheat once you can cheat twice. so whats to stop them from doing it to you? i know she hasn't cheated but if she loves you and she has a boyfriend, its possible for the same situation to reoccur when she's in a relationship with you.
on the issue with you loving her and her loving you. well i think thats a little absurd since you havent even spoken. you're using the word love way too lightly here. all there could be is a physical attraction and lust. do you even know her name?
personally i think you should just suck it in and go talk to her and stop putting it off. find out if she has a boyfriend then maybe you can do something about your problem.
i hope i helped
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