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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I need help in what to do, my ex boyfriend is asking me back but i dont know whether its a good idea. We met when i was 14 and he was 16 and since the day i saw him i wanted him this was in the summer on my trip to see my family. He finally asked my out on the new years when i went over to see my family again. We saw each other non stop for two weeks until i had to go home, we were seas apart i was here and he was in mexico, we spoke everyday through the internet and every so and then i would go over again which was amazing seeing him again would just bring back all those lost feelings. This carried on for two years until we both had enough and we broke it off, i got cautious by things people were telling me which knew him over there and we became distant. it was for the best but i was left heart broken, i couldn't stop thinking about him and missing him but i knew it was difficult because we lived so far apart, the next new years i met another guy who i fell for he was gorgeous lived near by and was really into me. He asked me out on new years once again (a little coincidental) we went out for six months and i ocacionally heard from the mexican guy. We then broke up because of his religion which were different to mine and him dating me was a very very big chance on his families reputation as well as his own. A week or two after this happend news got back to the mexican dude and he was back again pleading for me to get back, he was telling me it was his worst decision, he loved me, i was his one a true love ect, i was very wary of this but what if we went out again and in two years time it would happen again.? What if we get bored again, he is assuring me that he wont and he knows this is deffinately it, i love him i do even after all of this time. But he is assuring that he will come over once he graduates which is in three months, i dont know whether to go for it or not, beacuse its just a decicion , beacause i dont want my heart broken again. Weve been talking for a while now just like old times but with alot more maturity, it is nice to be back to familiar grounds with someone and know that person. I need to know if its better to return to this loving relationship or not, whether it has a future or it will fail again. Now that were older and able to do what we want, like move away.
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reader, Lovebug9  +, writes (5 August 2009):
I would say stay friends with him for a while so u can c if he still feels the same way about u he did before......just be catious about ur heart and dnt throw it out there to him if u dnt kno if he is going to keep it safe or crush it again....... If he comes and see u then u can try and patch things up and try dating but dnt put ur self in a situation were u can possiably get hurt
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