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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I laugh, I cry, I love just like normal people, so why do I end up unhappy?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

28 August 2009 (?) age 30-35 - im in such a mess. ive posted here before and i cant find the question but i asked about a family problem. i will reexplain it. everything has seemed to get worse since then. its a long story but intersting, so if you cant help me then well, at least youll get some ... (1020 words)

Why can't I go to my boyfriend's place?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf refuses to take me over his place? What does this mean?!!!!Does he live with another girl?... (18 words)

Help me get over this inconsiderate, cheating jerk with no future!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone... I was wondering if I could get some advise, I'm not perfect... but I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 3years. In those 3 years I have waited for him to change. and recently we have been on and off. I love him to death... Im just a very ... (210 words)

I haven't contacted him for nearly a year, but I'm still in love with him! Should I make contact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) - i was with someone for over 3 years...rather than rehash all the tiny things that made me insecure, jealous, just didn't feel right etc...i can admit i was wrong on some of those things and reacted too jealous at times and should have been more relaxed..alot of my friends and ... (362 words)

Should I believe she doesn't remember her drunk-dial? And that nothing happened?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - ok, i was recently in a relationship with shall we say "x", we met online and chatted on the phine for about 3 weeks, then we met and had a really good couple of days together, we really hit it off, then the week after she came to visit me and again everything was good, until ... (446 words)

How do I get over an abusive relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. First off let me thank you for even viewing this question. I was in an emotionally [and occasionally physically] abusive relationship with a guy for 18 months. It was my first relationship. I finally gained the courage to leave in January 2008 [over a year ago] a... (248 words)

I'm not sure the relationship is more serious, but I don't want to be just used for sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Before I left college I was sleeping with a boy for a couple of months. We then broke up for summer and we carried on talking but because we live far away from each other I had basically stopped really thinking about him. I saw him recently out of the blue and we ended up ... (172 words)

I miss him but then I think about what he did..and I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I posted a question earlier about how I wanted to move in with my boyfriend, but didn't know how to tell my parents or my sister, whom i have moved in with. I moved in, and we hung out for a while the day I moved in. Later that night, he was out with some friends and he d... (559 words)

My girlfriend broke up with my last night, and I have a lot of questions running through my mind. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend broke up with me last night. I am a 5th year senior and she is a senior at our college. This past summer, we spent the majority of our time together because we were living up at school working, and most of the time we didn't have any other friends up here. We ... (534 words)

Why hasn't it ever worked out with someone I've dated?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Theoughout all my experiences with men I always find myself in the SAMe situation. The first few weekS are great, they won't stop texting,calling and trying to spend time with me, but unfortunately after those few weeks it All stopS. They all have said that Im the funny sexy ... (72 words)

What does it mean when our eyes get 'misty'?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (M)

age - In the past I some times looked really close at the eyes (more precisely, the irises) of my former girlfriends and I felt my eyes going sort of "misty" and almost immediately their eyes did the same. What causes this and what does it signify? Thanks.... (52 words)

Are women's aid calls confidential?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Does anyone know-if you call women's aid are they allowed to pass on information to the police or is it strictly confidential... (22 words)

We broke up, still see each other every day as friends; she says she just doesn't want sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, Well me and my girlfriend broke up about 1 month ago. More so to take a step back. We still see each other every day (live 200 M from each other), still love each other, and still loyal with each other (as in not interetsted in other people). I know for a fact that she ... (224 words)

What can I do to make her come back??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5559 days ago

28 August 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend of over a year recently broke up with me. She is 17, i'm 19. She said she wants to be single and date around and doesn't want to be tied down to one person right now, which I understand seeing how we are both young. I love her to death and I know she loves me too ... (207 words)

She didn't tell me her ex is drunk-dialing -- am I making a big deal over nothing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it your responsibility to tell your significant other if an ex is attempting contact with you? I have been living with my girlfriend of 2 years for about 1 year now. her boyfriend prior to me broke up with her about 5 months before we started dating. out of nowhere,... (373 words)

Should I be patient, waiting for her to change her mind, or should I just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex girlfriend of a year broke up with me about a month and a half ago. We were great together and had a lot in common. It wasn't a bad breakup and she said that she needed time to work on herself and I needed the same. About two weeks after the breakup, we started talking ... (322 words)

I gave head to a friend and now I have a sore throat. Could I have an STI?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently gave a guy I know head and he shoved it right down my throat. He is not a partner and we did not use contraception. He is a mate though. Three days later I got a really sore throat and it has got so much worse and now I can not swallow. Im in horendous pain and I ... (112 words)

My life is a mess! How can I sort it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - help big time!! I have been with a very emotionally unstable man for two years on the first of september. I have a child with another man. I am in debt. so there are my three problems. this man has an unforgiving heart. he meet me and was impressed with th fact I w... (345 words)

Me and my husband have been having arguments about a vacation to see my friend, should I still go?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - About 3 months ago, my husband and I had a fight because I wanted to take a little vacation to visit my good friend. Reason of that fight was he didn’t trust me, and he dislike that friend of mine because he feels that I have changed since I met this friend, he said I become ... (571 words)

Why do you think my abusive boyfriend is stalking me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry-it’s a bit of a long story. It started 3 years ago-me and my boyfriend had a physical fight and I had bruises, a few days after that I started seeing him in places he shouldn’t have been-like near my mum's when I never took him there I kept seeing the same people on the ... (424 words)

I'm now with someone who I could spend the rest of my life with, so why do I keep thinking about my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - right, well i broke up with my ex 3 years ago and during that time ive got with someone who i believe i could be with for the rest of my life, who i love with all my heart like ive never loved anyone before. but for some reason my ex still bothers me. he was my first prop... (237 words)

Am I wrong in thinking that my boyfriend shouldn't be hanging out with his ex, even if it is with his kids?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Am I wrong that my boyfriend is spending time with his ex wife and sons? I think he should be doing things with his sons only not including his ex wife?????... (32 words)

Help! I kissed my sister's boyfriend, and I think I'm falling in love with him!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey im 13 and my sister is 18 she is also pregnant to this guy whos 22 well there was this one night when there was the three of us and my mum downstairs watchin a film and my sisters boyfriend let me lie on him for the film well the film finished and it was quite late so my ... (241 words)

Am I out of line for insulting my neighbour after my husband said 'I love you' to her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband came home from his parents house last night stinking drunk, talking on his cell phone incessantly with all of "his boys" saying he wanted to go out with them to the bar, then I hear him (in our bed) talking with the neighbor saying "I love you and can't wait to see ... (165 words)

Should I borrow money from my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age - Does anyone have an opinion about whether one should ever ask to borrow money from your bf, especially if it's a sensitive point? I am nearly broke and don't know if I can last till next paycheck. I can't ask family at this point, and have already borrowed from my fr... (110 words)

Unsure about dating and feel really cold..don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I find myself in a bit of a dilema and would like some advice/help. I'm very nervous around guys and never feel good enough for them, but there is a guy I really really like and he is really keen on me for some reason, we have kissed but I felt really self consciouss, he wants ... (185 words)

How can I make him change without hurting him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about half a year but we've been best friends for about 4 years. At first, everything started out great but soon i began to notice things that really bugged me. One, he doesn't drive so I'm always driving us around (he never pays for ... (113 words)

Oral sex with cousin and I want to do it again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

28 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - ok guys, basically what happened was a few months ago me (im 14) and my cousin (shes 13) were alone. we started making out and one thing led to another and i was performing oral sex on her and she was performing oral sex on me. i want to stress we didnt have sexual intercou... (83 words)

Is there a way to fake your virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i would like to know if there's any women out there that have lied about being a virgin (especially if anyone's married a Muslim guy) but really they were not and have had to come up with a way to fake loosing their virginity to a man on their wedding night or if anyone ... (81 words)

No intimacy in my marriage!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my wife for 5 years now. there is no intimacy in our marriage she does not want to have sex, and it is ruining our relationship what should i do, i want to ask her for divorce. or get separated... (45 words)

The lying has stopped... or has it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married now for over 8 years and in that entire time, we have been fighting over the same thing: trust. He has broken that trust to the point that it can never be repaired. For the rest of my life, I will never trust him again. Period. Being as we ... (607 words)

I cant stop worrying that I'm pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well me and my boyfriend had sex but we use a condon EVERY time. Im a week late but im stressing like crazy, My step dad wont get my a prego test because he doesnt think iam because every time i have sex i stress out and i become late or early. So this isnt the first time ... (214 words)

Am I pregnant? When should I take a test?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im so paranoid if i could be pregnant or not?..I was on depo for over a year my last shot was in dec 2009. i got my period july 19 09. i started taking bc pills that day to. then i could never take them on time so istopped and that next week ik had my period again but only for... (257 words)

I like this boy, but I'm worried my cousin will tease us and ruin everything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, So i met this boy last week at out static caravan where we come every weekend. We got to know each other and soon, We found out we both felt strongly about each other. He asked me out over msn and I said "i dont know because we will only see each other every month alth... (147 words)

If we are still good friends, why would he ignore me? I don't get it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy friend has not been talking to me. I just got an AIM and thought that I would IM him. I didn't want to tell him who I really was because I thought he would ignore me on that to so I talked to him on there and he figured out it was me. He talked to me for a half an hour ... (112 words)

I'm scared to have sex, but he told me there is nothing to be afraid of. Is that true?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5111 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this boy i like i told him i loved him and he said he loves me too. i was like omg he loves me, and he sed that he wants sex with me all the time and i said im scaird to and he said thers nothing to be afraid of. is that true i have nothing to be worried about? xx... (62 words)

I want a proper girlfriend but am worried about my small penis

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

28 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Will she be disapointed by my small penis? My penis is 4 inches when its hard and I have very little pubic hair. I know I'm a late developer but I've been seeing a girl recently and she is coming over, I think its going to go past the 'kissing stage' if you know what I mean... (126 words)

What do you talk about on a first date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i recently joined dating website and tlked to lovely man and we exchanged phone numbers and have bee txting last few days. we have prty much covered everything bout each other our likes dislikes family everything and now am afraid if we do meet up we wil have nothing to tak ... (91 words)

Is this guy he's talking about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm not sure if one of my guy friends likes me, he texts me everyday, hugs me alot and a couple of days ago he put his arm round me. we were talking and he said that he couldnt tell me who he and his friend were talking about and then i asked could he tell me who it was and he ... (108 words)

They say he doesn't like me but why does he show interest in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5560 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked this guy a long time now from school and we alwys had this atmosphere with one another i left school and we went our seperate ways i went to a different college and i didnt see him as much only on the weekend and he was so mean to me as yrs went on he became to grow ... (220 words)

I'm ok with gays but feel confused

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

28 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I used to find girls attractive or at least pretty, now they just dont do it for me ...I'm completely besotted with attractive guys. I can no longer get an errection over a woman, I recognise they are pretty but ...when it comes to guys, I'm hard straight away and lust after ... (122 words)

Am I going to have to pay for the entire trip? If so, I think its the end for us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been seeing eachother for 3 years with a couple of months break this time last year. When we got back together things were great except he was having money problems so I lent him some. Which I did get back. He's now earning a better wage and on his ... (254 words)

How can I make our time together even more romantic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hai, My girlfriend is coming round my place very soon, Last time when I was with her we relaxed in this hammock in the forest near by, This then gave me the brilliant idea of having the same sort of thing near my place, Seeing as school starts back soon, And we both know, This ... (146 words)

Will my relationships never survive without me sacrificing my friendships and career?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend of three years yesterday. He is the only man I have ever loved and he made me feel more loved than anyone could possibly explain. I broke up with him because even though our relationship was so fantastic, other aspects of my life were crumbling ... (243 words)

I'm worried that my son may not actually be mine

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

28 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I heard off a good friend of mine that my son is apparently not mine. When I met my girlfriend about 5 years ago she was a single mum, who had a 3-year-old son. Two years later, we moved in together, our life was good, we then decided to try for a baby. Eventually sh... (244 words)

Why am I so consumed with jealousy 2 years after we broke up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

28 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am very confused, partly because I don't know where the problem actually lies. I broke up with my girlfriend of three years after drunkenly cheating on her- the only time I had done so. I didn't tell her this, instead saying that I wanted time to work on my projects (I a... (393 words)

The dreaded past...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

28 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello. I was wondering about something. Lets just say my current girlfriend has slept with around 30+ guys/girls. She used to be into group sex, threesomes and one night stands. I ask her why and she said she was heavily intoxicated or under drugs like X, cocaine, pot. She ... (200 words)

How do I make sure I never lose my boyfriend and show him how crazy I am about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in involved in a serious relationship with a guy who is so crazy about me for a year and i want this relationship to last for ever. so far i have not seen him doing something that really hurt me but he always does good to me. i need some help,how do i keep him by my side? ... (98 words)

Was I right to break my girlfriend's ex's leg and jaw because he used to hit her and cheat on her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

28 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - look im a 15 year old kick boxer. i been with this girl ever since elementry i really like her. I broke her ex boy friends jaw and leg because he cheated on her and he hit her a couple of times. am I right or wrong.... (47 words)

I'm worried the condom may have split and I cant take the morning after pill!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex with my bf last night and it was dark and we arent sure if the condom split.i am on a type of drug for my skin so i cant get the morning after pill and we arent sure if it split. What shall i do?i have no idea!... (51 words)

How do I approach girls to get their phone numbers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've always loved to have a girl to share my life with but anytime i meet a girl i am interested in, i do find it difficult to approach her even to the point of getting her phone number cos i don't know what to say. plz how do i approach them? ... (54 words)

Should I message him or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok this guy i like alot sort of went hot and cold when we went camping the weekend just gone. my friend has told me he said he can see a future with me and stuff which is really good and we've always had little moments. anyways camping he was blowing really hott and cold... (464 words)

I don't know what to do if I discover I am pregnant

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am sixteen. I think i might be pregnant but i don't think i am?! I've missed my period twice. Always tired but nothing unusual. But instead of having food cravings i don't want to eat, smell, or see food. And when im hungry i eat a little bit when i thought i could of eaten ... (162 words)

Problems between friends, isn't it better to be truthful than to act like nothing is wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F) age 30-35 - a while ago, me and my best friend had a falling out because she betrayed me. ever since then, sides got formed, more people became more bitchy and there was obvious tension in the air. not wanting to stir up any drama as all of us had been a big group of friends, we avoided it ... (175 words)

Should I tell him I want us to be more than just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - alright...ive met this boy at a pool hall and hes so cute and such a gentleman.well on our first date i told him i was looking for a relationship and he said im not.well we've since then just been friends with benefits well now hes saying he really likes me and everthing but he ... (116 words)

I was trying to make him jealous but now he won't talk to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, my problem really buggs me. Im 14 and i went away for a while and I made a friend named "Chloe", shes a girl and shes 17. Shes pretty hot but i think im prettier. While we were there we met a guy, "Bob" hes 18 and i told her i liked him and he liked me too. Now that I am ... (203 words)

Looks like my wife is cheating on me, what do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - is my wife cheating on me she has been in a job for 12 years she used to come home at 5:30 on the dot till lately she has not been getting in till about 6 reason i post this because my mate went into the news agents were she works and the bosses son was out the back and he said ... (185 words)

How can I let her know that I'm willing to wait until she is ready for us to be together again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i broke up the other day on good terms after a long good relationship. She says she just needs to figure some things out, we are still friends and still see eachother. I'm just wondering how to let her know that I am willing to wait till she is ready and be ... (83 words)

How can we avoid catching STI's/STD's when having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

28 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im 16 years old im a male and im wondering about a question. my girlfriend is worried about stds and i need some advice about avoiding problems like that i was wonderin if anyone can help me with advice about hygien what should i do? i know about condoms but i need to be really ... (74 words)

I am a virgin, but an ex took the "cherry" from me in another way, should I tell future boyfriends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I know there's lots of posts around here about men and women being uncomfortable about their partners sexual history, and usually everyone just says to either not ask, or not give out details. I've never had sex before, so I am a virgin. I have fooled around with anot... (174 words)

Problem is , I don't feel anything for him anymore, how can I let him down easily?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so confused. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 months, and I do love him, but I don't feel like I want to be with him. I like spending time with him, watching a film, or going to the pub etc, but I can't look at him the way I should when it comes to anything ... (179 words)

Help me out of this mess, he loves his best friend ,what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5564 days ago

28 August 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Hi all, A little while back I send a question, but did not word it very well I have been with this guy for nearly 2 years the last ouople of mnths have been great fantastic, see he has been a bit of an asshole sometimes and about 5months ago I left him. well he chased me and... (390 words)

Do happily married people have affairs? is this possible?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Do "happily married" people have affairs? I have a guy friend who has told me that he is in love with me and wants to have a relationship with me, but that he would never leave his wife. I've refused because I think having affairs is one of the lowest things anyone can do to a ... (163 words)

What are your stories on getting revenge on a cheating ex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I would like to hear some revenge stories for a cheating ex and the affair partner... I promise I am not planning on pursuing anything... just want to live vicariously through your story. So what is your best revenge story?... (44 words)

She found out about us, but she's crazy, advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my friends girifriend and him have been together for about a 2 years and have a kid on the way. well he has not been happy for a year now, he told me last week she is not atractive and anoying, well just this weekend he and me went to a party and had our share of fun.(if you ... (238 words)

Now he wants to go out with friends by himself, am I right to be suspicious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband and i have been together for 8 years now. we have always been the kind of couple that went out to social events together, whether it was with his friends/family or mine. in the last year he has not joined me to most social events that i've invited him to and now he ... (89 words)

His ex is still splattered all over his Facebook page, is this nornal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm seeing this new guy. It's early, but he seems pretty great, and sort of weirdly crazy about me. Which is nice. Here's the thing about the new guy. He added me as a facebook friend a few days ago, so of course I checked out his profile. We already talked about our... (181 words)

I'm not sure how long I have to wait - after I take the pill - to have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night, I had sex with my boyfriend and I'm on the pill. I've been taking it for a while now, about three months, but I'm not sure how long i have to wait after I take it to have sex. I waited an hour, was that enough, or am I screwed? HELP!! 3 l.a.... (59 words)

What do you do when you find out the father of your kids is staying at another womans place?

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28 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What do you do when you find out that your baby daddy is staying at another females house? You want to try and work it out. Everytime you want to talk grown people talk he says I'm grown i pay my own bills I stay where ever i want? Is is really worth the try to start over and ... (64 words)

Is that normal or am I hot?...

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28 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - okay I'm 22 6,3 with brown hair and I never had a girlfriend because I'm really shy for some unexplained reason so lately I have been noticing that wherever I go if there's a girl they almost always look at me like if im at a store and I pass a girl I always see her eyes look ... (71 words)

Random marriage question, what to make of it, HELP?

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28 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was just hanging out with a guy that I have been dating for 4 months and he asked a random question that really caught me off guard. Hoping to get some perspective on this. We have only been officially in a relationship for a little over a month, so we haven't had any of ... (168 words)

We're back together, but he goes to school with an old fling, will I get hurt again?

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28 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for two and half years and everything was great until about a year ago when he (pretty much) out of the blue decided that he was to young to be in such a committed relationship and wasnt sure about us at the moment. (he's in college last year, i ... (325 words)

I can't get over him, what do I do?

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28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need some advice. I have been apart from they guy I was dating for just over a year now, and I can't get over him. We were together for a pretty long time (about three years), and he was the first and only guy I ever truly fell in love with. He was sent back to his country ... (153 words)

I want to leave my b/f but don't want him to be with someone else!

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28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heres my story i want to leave my bf but i just dont want him being with someone els after me i feel like leaving him because he is the most selfish inconciderat loser i have ever meant he does nothing for me or our daughter i really need to leave him i bin trying for 2years ... (102 words)

Girlfriend basically making me chose between her and my parents

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28 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, This is a difficult one and i really need some help and guidence. My girlfriend hates my parents so much she is letting it drive a wedge between us. She has hated my parents for a long time because she disapproves of the way they treat and manipulate me. They are f... (1556 words)

Not sure if my girlfriend was a virgin or not?

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28 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I know that some girls bleed and some don't when they have sex for the first time. However before i could have sex with my girlfriend for the first time it took a while mainly because even if she was aroused i could never penetrate her, it even hurt when i put more than one ... (211 words)

She said she doesn't want a relationship with me and it's driving me crazy! What should I do?

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28 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, theres two things i need help with. theres this girl that i rly like. im gd mates with her too. i asked her out a while ago and she said that she didnt feel that she knew me well enough to have a relationship with me, even tho ive known her for nearly a year, is she telling ... (97 words)

What can my friend do legally with unfaithful husband?

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28 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a friend that is being married for about 30 years, she recently find that her husband was cheating her with her roommate. She never found them but this lady became pregnant. Everybody outside said that this kid was from her husband but they refused. This women steal ... (179 words)

Wife and sex leave bitter taste in my mouth!

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28 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been married to my wife for 8 years.Over the past year I have become repulsed by having sex with her. I love her very much and and married her because we get along very well together. Sex with her in the beginning of our relationship was fine, but over time I have just ... (85 words)

We were cheating, I left my partner she hasn't left hers!

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28 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - We were cheating on our partners and we got caught I finished it with my partner because I felt like it was the rite thing to do. She wants me back but I only feel like I would hurt her again so I cant. She went back to him but she wont stop texting me saying she miss's me an... (242 words)

I want to ask him what's going on but don't want an argument!

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28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for a year now and have a baby on the way but what worries me is the fact that this girl that he works with keeps messenging him on facebook and by text and the other day he swapped his car for hers and I dont believe this is right ... (135 words)

Not happy with my b/f's action and now I'm seeing my ex

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28 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating a guy i work with for almost a year, we both have 2 jobs and the time we spend together is mostly late at night when he comes over to sleep. I've been bothered for a while about him having a lot of female co-workers numbers and the list keeps growing. He has ... (327 words)

Brother molested me as a child years ago but acts like what I remember never happened!

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28 August 2009 (F)

age - I am 52 yrs old and was sexually molested by my brother between ages 7-8. Recently this conversation conversation came up and he told me he had never really abused me. He says that he spoke to other people and that touching me thru the sheets was not abuse. I was stunned-... (243 words)

Is 19 too young to want a baby?

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28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well.. ive been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years and i love him more than anything. ive recently started a new job where the majority of the girls are either just married, engagaged or pregnant so all the office talk is about weddings and babies. ... (248 words)

I don't know if I'm gay or bi or what?

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28 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i know i have feelings for girls but the thing is dunno if im bi or gay. i think guys are nice looking but not attractive really. i've never been totally comfortable wit kissing guys either. so.. am i totally gay? i dont wanna b a freak... (47 words)

How can I get my friend's number or email without it being obvious?

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28 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Heya, so the deal is i just met this amazingly beautifull smart girl in 9th grade, 3 days ago. We both connect really well. She doesn't seem to have many friends(from my knowledge, i dont know her personal life)I never see her talking to many people, and she sat by ... (244 words)

I've tried it all to get over her death! Help!

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28 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I got married at 22 and when 4 years passed, my wife had a problem and she died, it's been 3 years I can't get over it! Knowing she's dead keeps me awake all the time rendering me always afraid, worried, I love her that much that words can't describe it! I tried ... (88 words)

How do I be more social? I feel like I'm living under a rock!

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28 August 2009 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend suggested me to improve my social skills. This weekend we went on a trip with some of his friends. Well, I'm not a wallflower per se, but I've never been that social. Anyway, I talked with them and had some fun. Although sometimes it happened that I said something ... (492 words)

Why do women flirt with me and then think I'm a loser for asking them out?

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28 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi. I have a question about flirting. Why do women do this and then seem so surprised to be asked out? I've asked out a few women over the years, thinking they were interested. In the majority of cases the women have then proceeded to completely ignore me/blank me or actually ... (405 words)