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How do I get her back, when I have blown so many chances?

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Question - (5 August 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 August 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, *ner writes:

How can I get my ex back after she has giving me so many chances to change?

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A female reader, pinktopaz United States +, writes (6 August 2009):

Make sure you've actually changed before you even try to pursue her. Guaranteed, one foul up that shows that you're still anything like you were in the past and she'll dump you on the spot.

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A female reader, MissesConfused United States +, writes (6 August 2009):

Your question is sort of vague, doesn't provide enough detail, and since I don't what exactly your situation is it's hard to answer. But I'll take a whack at it.

For starters, you care about her enough to ask this question which shows you have some level of dedication to your ex, so go from there and build your bond with her. Change whatever needs changing, and sorry, but I'm going to assume it's your personality since that's the usual story. Again, sorry if that's not it. Once you've made this change, try to rebuild the bond you had with your ex, but don't go out of your way to prove yourself to her.

I hope things work out for you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009):

You have provided no details on how you "blew it". Therefore, no sane minded person can 'help' you with your dilemma.

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