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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I don't think he's being fair to his heavily pregnant girlfriend... what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I've got a boyfriend who I've been with for 5 months but about 3 months ago i got friends with a guy on the net, we hit off right away, swapped numbers and i got a crush on him. Me and my boyfriend are really open so i told him and he was supportive in helping me get over ... (296 words)

Always the friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, ive never really been great at relationships and all things attached and usually find myself as being a "just a friend" guy but over the past couple of months iv started talkin to this really great girl (shes so great, really cute and would never say a bad thing about ... (124 words)

I've had my period but could I still be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 16 and lost my virginity on july 8th, I had sex 3 times that day WITH condoms, my period was suposed to be on july 16 or 17th. Its was 10 days late. My period came on july 27th and was only 3 days long and very heavy. In JUNE before I lost my virginity, my period c... (94 words)

I know I love my husband so much, but something's not right...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5540 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I know I love my husband so much, but something's not right, I never felt secured and never felt loved, whenever we have an argument we always end up to stay low, and never had the chance to give a stretch in to my point, His mom and I doesnt agreee with each other and that ... (329 words)

I like her but I'm scared she'll reject me... help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 years old and i fancy a friend who is 15 and i am frightened to tell her what i think in case she rejects me due to our age and in case she doesnt fancy me back (however i think she does)... (44 words)

I'm a female in love with my female friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Okay, I'm only 13 and I'm a female, and yet I'm completely in love, but the problem is, I'm also a lesbian. I'm in love with my best female friend and she is straight. She's always talking to me about her male crush and it kills me. If you've read Twilight: I fell like I could ... (148 words)

Commitment issues?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this guy only about 4 months now. We've only known each other for about 7 months. One week after we started dating he asked me to move in with him. I was reluctant to say yes but my lease expired in a couple of weeks and I was having some money problems ... (399 words)

Did he do this just to play mind games with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey guys i really would appreciate some advice. just an update on this ok so my ex fiance got in touch via facebook 2 weeks ago and when i responded to his request i added a note which he never replied to . so imy mind worked overtime thinking all sorts. it does seem weird th... (220 words)

Is he just using me as a rebound?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok...i was seeing this guy but we broke up because he wanted to get back with his ex. So he stopped all contact with me in case i ever said anything. He told me a few days ago that they broke up but then they got back together and he says he will never get back with her again. ... (128 words)

Am I the token boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with this girl I love deeply for quite a while now, I love her more than anything. the thing is that I just never feel like I'm part of her life, she's an incredible and amazing person but sometimes I can't help feeling that she cares more about herself an... (94 words)

He wants us to live together but NEVER to marry!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I need advice so badly! I am 41 an he is 50. We have been dating 2 years and we both have had 2 divorces each and we both have kids. I have been divorced 6 years and he has been divoced 8 years. We get along great, we love each other we spend all the time we can together. I ... (528 words)

What can I put in this resignation letter?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Not really a relationship or love question, but advice is required. All i want to know is, what on earth do you put in a resignation letter. Things where i work have become unbearable, and i know i should be grateful i have a job, as so many people these days have not,... (110 words)

What do I do to win him back!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my bf have been broken up for a week. we have had a little contact. I miss him so much and I am deeply in love with him. I dont want to sound naggy or clingy and i really dont want to beg him to get back together. So what should I do? He is one of those people tha... (110 words)

Help!!! Is she lying to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok let me start by giving some background info. I really wanted to be with a popular girl, i finally got there, she is now psycho, she has tried to tell me she is pregnant 3 times now. Ok ok ok, now i stayed away from her for 4 weeks. Broke down had sex with her. Mistake!... (194 words)

An open sexual conversation with my fiance has lead me to regret and depression!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My fiance and I were having an all out truth be told sexual history with eachother last night. Questions such as where's the weirdest place you've done it, with who and what did u 2 do and etc.(he has only had sex with 4 ppl incuding me). Talking about sex makes me want it... (489 words)

Is what I'm doing harmful longterm?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently, I have been taking painkillers, like a mixture of paracetamol and nurofen. I'd take as many as 5-9. I get really unwell, and might even throw up. But now I am taking them because they make me sleep. Is what I'm doing bad? How does it affect me long term.... (51 words)

Why is she ignoring me???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey so i just got a phone finally yay i got a few weeks ago! Anyways so i have this best freind who always texts she texts 24/7 and she always has her phone on and with her so when i got my phone i texted her the first day and we talked an talked and then the second and third ... (160 words)

Why do I always get cheated on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im going to make this question short and sweet... why is it every relationship ive been in theyve cheated on me? i mean is there maybe something im putting across? ... (31 words)

Does anyone else find this odd?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23, my partner's 44, and recently he's been wanting to go out clubbing more and more. My parents like him, they understand this is just a phase and that I have to experiment. I just don't have the energy to do this ALL THE TIME! He wants us to go out together EVERY W... (230 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'm a liar now and I don't know what to do about it.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, Right then basically i need some advise, me and my boyfriend met on a flirting website now we split up a few months ago but are back together now after having a heart to heart and everything has been great until now. While we split up he was using the flirt site (... (442 words)

I want sex but I'm afraid to put myself really out there.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a shy girl. I wouldn't say i'm a prude because i'm open minded to everything, but i just don't put myself out there. And if i do it's trace amounts. Well just recently i have had this intense craving for a sexual encounter. I've been having phone sex every night for the ... (139 words)

Anxiety is ruining my relationship. Please help me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I would like an outside point of view for my problem, I live in USA, I am inmigrant, from third world country, I came to this country after has suffer a lot of missery in my country of origin, my first years here were awfull because I didn't have money, and I wanted to ... (323 words)

Help.. I can't stop thinking about my boyfriend's buddy..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I hope you can help me and not think of me as a horrible person for what I'm about to say because I'm trying to deal with it... :/ I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months now. He's lovely, adorable, sweet and caring. The problem is that I'm not very physically attracte... (262 words)

She read my e-mail, about her weight, and dumped me, any advice?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 11 months invaded my privacy, went through an email and saw an email I sent my best friend which said exactly this: "I love my girlfriend. She has a beautiful face, but she is letting herself go. How can I get her to drop 15-20lbs?" Now she has broken up with ... (95 words)

I feel my wife wants me to compromise too much. thoughts please?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - We all know that marriage is about giving and compromising, but what should I do if the compromise I have to make is against the personal values i hold dear, and I have to give in to demands that don't make sense to me? My newly married wife and I have been having this issu... (375 words)

I did many things for her, though she care for a married man, nothing from her in two months, was I used?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - The big question Have I done the right thing and have I been used I met a woman about 3 years ago and we got on from day 1. She was seing a married man who she had been seing for 2 years and she used to talk how she felt and how upset she was. We started to see each other m... (349 words)

How do I reduce the number of periods I'm having?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i used to be on the birth control yaz, but my dad thinks 60 bucks a month is a lil over doing it so i switch to a cheaper brand tht we only have 2 pay 25 a month. But ever since i switched iv been having a period every time i turn around. i know this cant be normal. i have this ... (156 words)

My boyfriend had sex with my ex-boyfriend, I can't cope with this, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 24 year old with a 3 year old baby. Me and my new partner have been together for 18 months now. I'd been on a girls night out, and left my partner in with the baby, he agreed to it. However, when I came back from my night out, what happened shocked me - my partner... (186 words)

I don't know whether I should leave him or not, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - iv been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs now. Im a senior in highschool n i know i have my whole life ahead of me but i really do love him, but at the same time i wonder wat it wuld be like 2 be with someone other than him. i mean iv dated before him, but he was my first on ... (311 words)

My BF likes to kiss other people.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is great we get along great but he's a heavy drinker (not an alcoholic). We've been dating for 7 months. He's a forgetful person, even more so when he drinks. He really lets lose and has fun when he's drunk but sometimes does things that make me feel uncomfortable. ... (201 words)

We broke up but he still seems to want me, what is going on with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - we split up nearly 18 months ago after being together for over 2 years and being engaged. we split as he dumped me and he wanted space didnt know what he wanted his head wasnt clear - he lost about 3 stone in weight and everytime i saw him he broke down in tears. we didnt ... (691 words)

Need some good advice on getting and keeping a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I;m an 18 years old girl, turning 19 very soon,and I feel very sad about my future boy- friend issue. I' don't know what am I doing wrong, but everytime,I have a ""chance'' it turnes out nothing at the end... Usually ,the guy already has a girlfriend, and he just telling me... (144 words)

I fell hard for my therapist.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I went to a psychotherapist last week and when I was filling out the questionnaire in the waiting room he came in and it took me about 5 seconds to fall for him. I immediately knew I was attracted to this man. I even thought about leaving and looking for a different ther... (223 words)

I want to get close to him but I'm afraid of catching something!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ok i have this really gig problem i am with a guy that is alot older than me and i like him so much but im so scared of getting close to him and have any kind of sexually contact with him because im scared of catching something and afraid that he is only using me please ... (72 words)

Already had sex is it going to hurt this time too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so i already had sex before well my first time it was pretty painfull. I gotten fingered a few times. But my main concern is will it still hurt this time? Should he finger me before we have sex.I dont think we can use a lube because we are using a condom. But help please!... (57 words)

13 and lovesick!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay, to start things off, i am 13. yes, yes i know very young for love, but the more we become closer the more i begin to relize hes not worth my time, he could care less, iv tried and tried i have enough stress, i cant b around him and his friends" bcuase he wont treat me the ... (96 words)

How to celerate 2 years of togetherness

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend are goin into 2 yrs in our relationship next friday,any advice on how i could make it special for us ... (24 words)

My widowed GF can't get over loosing her husband, what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age - my girlfriend has broken up with me after 5 months and i am heartbroken,she is a widow of 2 years and says she cant get her deceased husband out of her mind and says its not my fault and dosent want a relationship i am sad and cant get her out of my mind... (56 words)

How can I trust my husband? His words and actions do not match

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) age - How do I know,that my husband is tellig the truth,and I'm not going to be just a ''victim''? Well,a few years ago,he stopped being sexual with me, what left me totally puzzeled ,specially , because it came so suddenly. Now, he always looks like he has no feelings or attr... (180 words)

Why do I feel I need a boyfriend so much?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I don't know the reason why, but i feel like i need a boyfriend, i really want one! People would say i'm desperate, or being peer preshured, but it's not like that, i really want somebody to be able to cuddle and kiss and just be there for me, i know i have my friends but i ... (90 words)

Married People: How often do you have sex and how often would you like to have sex if possible?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5527 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - A few friends and I were chatting the other day about our sex lives. For the most part, we feel they are ok....maybe a little more time for sex would be nice and a little more foreplay, but overall, not bad. Our husbands, however, feel they are being neglected. They... (214 words)

I know he still loves me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Im 23 and had been in a relationship for the past three years. A month ago he told me it was over through a text. Over the past three years Me and him had been through so much and talked everyday and night. I was heart broken that he could actually up and leave me with out ... (146 words)

Is it normal for him not to care about sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, so i've never been the type to be in a serious relationship, and here i am almost two years with a guy. without skipping all the details we both decided we were ready to lose our virginity, about 7 months ago. i do not regret this deision at all, and neither does he. ... (116 words)

She is a widow and my parents don't approve.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 25yrs my problem is i'm in love witht a girl i love her so much but my parent don't alow me to marry her b/cos shi is a widow with two son... (33 words)

His ex told me things that she could only know if she was with him, but he denies everything.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello.. I have been with my fiance for a lil over 4 years now. we are supposed to be getting married next year. At the beginning of our relationship i had some problems with his ex girlfriend. (he was with her for like 3 years). well the beginning of this year she writes me a ... (566 words)

What can I do to make our sex life more exciting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - okay soo...me and my boyfriend Awhile back had sex and he started talk dirty to me while doing it and i loved it!!!!!!!!! i meant really loved it it made it so much better for me i cant stop thinking about it...i want him to do it agian but im scared to ask him to do it agian ... (155 words)

I think he likes me, can you confirm what I'm thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi so there is a guy i really like he;s same age as me we've known eachother for years. i've known him since my younger days in primary school. anyways. i think he likes me when we talk we get really into depth of conversations he has told my friend he can see himself being... (237 words)

My pregnant partner is pushing me away and I don't know what to do anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My Partner is about month gone with her pregnancy and she is isolating herself away from everyone. I call her up out of the blue and she turns around and asks me why i am calling her and calls me all names under the sun. She doesnt want to talk to anyone, not me not her m... (95 words)

Am I truly ready to fall in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, here's the story. I have been dating this guy for a year and 3 months now. He my 3rd serious relationship and the first guy I am seeing exclusively since me and my ex broke up 3 years ago. For a time period of a couple years I was single. I liked a lot of guys, but only ... (644 words)

He told me he wants to be with me but I havent heard from him in days!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this friend, we both want to be more than friends but we are taking it slowly, starting as friends and seeing if anything develops. there are two reasons for this 1) he is getting over a marriage breakup (6 months ago) and 2) i am already married. I am unhappy in the ... (226 words)

Have I ruined our friendship because of our one night stand and my drunken behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5610 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have known this guy for 25 odd years. I was best friends with his sister and our mums were good friends. A few years ago we got back in touch as he started working at the same place as me! Which was the second place of work that he has followed me to! I swear he was stalking ... (1177 words)

Update: I put myself out there and not I'm not sure if the shy guy likes me anymore! What now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - please read my first entry [verification/log in code blocked]. it explains the background. I decided to take the advice I got and now I feel more confused. As I said in my last question, this guy is extremely shy. I have gone to two concerts with him and think he likes m... (503 words)

Want to lose my virginity and the most likely candidate is a married man! Should I go for it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i grew up believing that virginity is the best gift u can offer to ur husband so up to now im still waiting for that lucky guy to come. but until when should i wait? im already 41 yrs old and still a virgin. there are times i wondered and curious what it would feel like to be ... (112 words)

I'm falling for this boy on Habbo and not sure if this is normal because I've never met him! What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Q1. Hey, im 15 yr old female, i went on habbo few months back and i met this boy tht was just interested in talking to someone and we got chatting. I was bored and just felt like meeting new people and we've got to know eachother quite well and we were getting along great. I... (203 words)

I'm on what I think is my period, but it's different to the ones before! Could I still be pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I'm a little confused and would appreciate any advice given to me. I have been ttc for nearly a year and on my "most fertile days" (25th-30th July) i had regular sex everyday with my partner (sorry tmi). For the past 2 weeks i have had sore breasts that feel bigger... (198 words)

Is her decision to move on final or is it a test?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf recently moved back to france and i will be visiting her in 3 months, till then i suggested we stay in a relationship but she seems to want to break up although she said she still loves me she wont get with anyone till then she doesnt want to feel like she has to talk to ... (121 words)

I lied to my fiancee about why my phone was off all weekend but he's not convinced. What can I do now?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - During the weekend i spent time with my ex boyfriend and i had switched of my phone. my fiancee tried calling but could not get through.When he asked why my phone was off i told him i had a lot on my mind and just did not feel like talking to him, now he is worried and i do ... (108 words)

How can I tell if these feelings I'm having are real love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well i dont know where to start a friend hooked us up and it led to me the first kiss and i cant quit thinking about her. I love the feeling when were together but when were away i get tears to my eyes when i think about her and how much i love her. Even when we are together i ... (140 words)

I just want to know the truth, how do I get her to come clean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a serious question. I know that as men or humanbeings in general, we have a tendency to over react or feed into our doubts. Let me tell you the story. I meant and married my wife via the internet. When I met her I was done. Totally in love. We both came from the same typ... (549 words)

I love her but I love my space too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I don't know why, but she is just so clingy, and her emotions are seriously unstable at times. If I don't say I love you enough, or Ill miss you when i go to work enough, or hug/cuddle her enough, and more along those lines, she gets serious depressed and wants to send me on a ... (421 words)

My wife finally confessed about her affair, do you think we could ever be happy again?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2076 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age - i am married for the last twenty two years to a beautiful woman who i taught was my soulmate for life. for the first fifteen years we had a wonderful marriage and have five beautiful children. seven years ago my wife started a new job and everything changed, my wife is a ... (694 words)

How do girls feel about shy guys?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi! how do girls feel about shy / quiet guys? just thought id keep this one short and sweet! ... (19 words)

Should I break my no-contact with my ex or am I using my dog as an excuse to contact him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of over a year broke up with me a few months ago. I tried to get him back but couldn't. Then I tried just being friends with him thinking something would re-spark (kind of a lame plan since this is long distance.) didn't work so I told him I can't keep in co... (162 words)

How will this physical attraction die?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - A girl joined the company i worked for, a year and a half back. I didnt use to find her attractive physically or intellectually. I came to know through my female colleagues that she really liked me. Since I always had a tendency of falling in love, when i came to know about it, ... (332 words)

I'm scared I might be pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - im on my period . im eatong less and im scared about being pregnant , i barely sleep . could this be worrying about stuff so much or what ? HELP!... (35 words)

I feel like I'm being pushed away by my friends because of a silly argument on holiday!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really not sure what to do anymore, i went on holiday with 3 other girls 2 of which i haven't known that well. but i get on like a house on fire with 1 of them even tho we haven't been friends that long, for this i'll call her beth. the 2 that i've been friends with the ... (776 words)

Trust issues are ruining our relationship

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ive been going out with my gf for over 3years now and her trust problems are causing us to argue and i feel us moving apart. She had trouble in her previous and first relationship so told me she was a bit hesitant about men, basically the whole trust of the relationship. ... (267 words)

My pregnancy hormones are making me want sex all the time, but I'm worried my boyfriend will be unsatisfied once the baby is born and my urges go away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5612 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 7 months pregnant and about 900 miles away from home with my fiance because he's a worker for traveling company(welding co. )and so obviously in a hotel. Well, since we have been up here I've had this sex kick to where I'm into porn and masterbating and more kinky with ... (224 words)

My friend stopped talking to me when I told her I had feelings for her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I told a friend i liked her i had emotions towards her. she stopped talking and doesnt want anything to do with me. what should i do?... (27 words)

I think I'm addicted to dating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - after a certain period of time i get really depressed. and i know what makes it go away. if i have a girlfriend i never feel this way. i think its that i feel alone and un-loved but i cant ever keep a girlfriend very long. i think that i'm addicted to dating. is this bad?... (56 words)

I don't know if I still love my husband

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been married for about 3 yrs. 2 yrs ago he has started gambling and we have lost everything. I have tried to stop him but now we are at the verge of losing the house, car and everything. We argued so much, there seems to be no communication at all. I detest h... (222 words)

How can I slow myself down and have a serious relationship?

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11 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Every girlfriend i've had said i move too fast and because of this i've never had a serious relationship. Every time I seem to find a girl that I start to fall in love with I get dumped and hurt. I don't know how to slow down myself and i'm tired of the constant cycle of date ... (86 words)

His ex is always going over to his house and I feel she is getting in the way!

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have recently broken up with my boyfriend of 6 years for an old love from interstate. My new boyfriend has also recently broken up with a girl with whom he was having a casual relationship, yet they are still spending a lot of time together. Whenever I bring this up as... (207 words)

Should I stay with my boyfriend if I believe he is cheating on me?

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Should i stay with my boyfriend if i believe he cheats and lies? here's the story i've been with this guy for a couple years now we live together we have a baby she six months i started getting these feelings around the time i was pregnant he acts weird turns his ringer off ... (135 words)

We've started to fool around in the bedroom, but I have no idea what I'm doing!

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 2 months now, we're both 16; so of course we're a little 'sexual'. I dont mind when he does stuff to me, but when it comes time for me to do stuff to him, im cluess. I dont know how to give a handjob, never have. Im not ... (110 words)

Husband's affair, where was I?

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11 August 2009 (F)

age - these two people knew each other from other parties. the woman come over to my 24yr old husband and said I don't have any place to sit, it's her house! He says sit on my lap and we will talk and she did. She sat on his lap and they french kissed for abt 20 minutes they be... (220 words)

Am I Crazy, like he says I am, or is it some one elce hes giving it to?

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im not stupid i think i know whats going on, but my husband says im crazy and its all in my head so I would like to ask some one else there opinion. I have been with my husband for 3 years, over the past few months his sex drive has gone from full blown to he wont even let me ... (237 words)

I've been cheating on my wife because she won't blow me.

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11 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. my problem is i love blow jobs so so much but my wife doesn't like to give them (she says it hurts her mouth too much cos I'm quite big, which i don't think i am) i have even on a few occasions gone else where for them but would like to receive them all the time preferably ... (71 words)

I don't know how to go about this now I'm pregnant!

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just found out i am 2 mths pregnant....i dnt kno how it happened he used a condom an i am on the pill.......what do i do keep it and put it up for adoption get an abortion or just keeP it how do i tell my boyfriend tht i am pregnant....i am so confused what do i do?... (59 words)

Is delusion and Denial the only answer?

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11 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Is delusion and denial the only answer? Let me start by saying that I wouldn't consider myself remarkably good-looking, I have no confidence, and the women I'm interested in don't ever seem to be interested in me (probably because they're above my league). I have this obs... (245 words)

My girlfriend is always sad and I can't seem to make her happy!

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11 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been dating my girlfriend for just over 2 years now and I am really happy with her but it seems thats my girlfriend is always sad or depressed about one thing or another. She's expressed the desire to be married a bunch of times and we've talked/fought about it numerou... (747 words)

I feel ready for a more serious relationship, but not for sex. How do I make guys understand that?

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am 14 years old. i have never really been in a serious realationship. but when i am with a guy they always want to do more than just kiss. when i say that ive never done anything they dont exactally believe me. not because they think im a slut but i have dated some assholes ... (80 words)

I've found a girl that I really like but I don't know if she likes me back!

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11 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi my names Chris and I live in American. Maine, to be more specific. Now, about three months ago I met a girl at the campground that I go to. Well technicaly I met her before then but we didn't talk much before then. Anyway, I fell for her the moment I saw her but I didn't ... (314 words)

Would you share your experiences of losing your virginity with me? It would really help!

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im a young person really looking for some answers about life and sex...i myself is a virgin and i kno this boy like it will be two yrs we kno each other..we started off on a really bad friendship and now we are pretty close and we kno each other very well..he is like my best ... (183 words)

No sign of a period, but the pregnancy test results have confused me! What do you think?

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay im 18 years old and when i was 14 i had an abortion and every since then my period hasnt been regular....but the past 6 months ive been keeping up with my cycle and it seems like its regular now cause its every 32 days....but my last period was on may 30 2009, and it didnt ... (282 words)

My mother in-law is causing my marriage to deteriorate. What should I do?

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - we have been married for almost 7years and have 4yrs old daughter. but from day one continous interference from my mother in law side. she has created such a misunderstanding between us that our relationship is deterorating day by day.she creates a problem and thereafter comes ... (110 words)

I lied and made mistakes, but surely he shouldn't treat me that way? Is he the worst kind of person to be with?

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is my first time to get sme advice, suggestions or ideas. I have a troubled relationship in which has a long story behind it. My boyfriend and i are deaf. I grew up with the public so i have alot of experience with hearing people and i know what is polite or what is i... (1330 words)

Please help me learn how to intimate with him again.

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I am 22 years old and I have a boyfriend and we have been together for over 5 years, we have lived together for the past year or so and are both finishing up university (he's in a 5 year bachelor and I'm doing my master's). Lately (he says for 2 years, I haven... (534 words)

Why would a man tell you he wants to see only you and then cut off communication?

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11 August 2009 (?) age 51-59 - I was dating this man for a few months. Everything was going well. We had met families and our children had become close. Then I had a feeling things weren't quite right. Like he sometimes wouldnt return texts or calls etc. So I comfronted him and told him if he would like to ... (167 words)

My criticism has hurt girlfriend over years-- I've changed, need advice!

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11 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She is 23, I am 30. She has loved me very genuinely since almost the beginning. Very sweet, good-hearted, supportive, loving woman, who has expressed that she sees herself marrying me. We are a great match, we have a lot of fun ... (529 words)

The awkwardness remained

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there... just went into "just friends" mode with a boyfriend of 3 months. We are both very well suited for one another, but a degree of awkwardness always remained. We were exclusive to one another, but he was only able/willing to get together for a few hours a week. ... (220 words)

Does this mean he cheated on me?

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been with my boyfriend for three and a half years and i got tested for s.t.d.s two years ago and was clean. Now I just got chlamadia and he's the only guy I've been with. Does that mean he cheated on me?... (43 words)

Boobs.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boobs are the size of a 15 yr old is there something wrong with me?... (16 words)

I need socialization tips.

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11 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, I'm a 14 year old guy and I'm going to be a freshman in high school. I'm real smart, and I'm not gonna boast or anything but I'm hot. The only thing is that I don't know how to get my "dream girl." She's always with someone else, and when she's not, she ignores me. I don't ... (64 words)

Need advice on how to go on with life..

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11 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been in love with a women for 15 years ,and for 15 years living a life full of lies,She was a friends girlfriend at the time,He introduced her to me and for some reason we had this connection from the first time we set eyes on eachother.We are both very kind people and ... (317 words)

What is a foreplay?

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - What is a foreplay? Like sex style foreplay... (8 words)

Do I keep trying to get him or get over him? How can I get over him?

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there,I need some help please. Well,I like this guy a lot and I've known him for almost a year now.I liked him when I first met him but I got over him real quick.Well,we both have the same friends and I get along great with his little brother and I'm really good frie... (348 words)

How do I forget about him?

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so here it is..... I've known this guy for like 10 years and it wasnt until 3 years ago that i started to like him. he lives or should i say lived (he just moved) two houses down from me. He was always there to hold me when i needed someone and he'd always kiss me (on the ... (175 words)

Did I do something wrong, or is this a one-way relationship?

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11 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I dont know what to do... my girlfriend is always lashing out at me for no reason, and im beginning to get sick of it. For example: She keeps in constant contact with all of her ex's. While this makes me uncomfortable I dont make mention of it, I accept it that she want... (363 words)

Go with my ex or stay with my current?

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'll try to make this long story short. I'm 31 years old. I was with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years before he got a great job 2,000 miles away. I moved to the job location for him. We ended up having a lot of problems and he left me. That was in November. Since then, an older ... (191 words)

I feel as though marrying her was a huge mistake. Help!

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a 39 yrs of age, a barber and married. I've done 5 years in prison. I moved to sc and met a young lady and as of this year married her. at times I feel as if that's been the biggest mistake of my life. she's very demanding, controlling, and irritable if things don't go her ... (142 words)

How do you know he is "the one"?

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I am currently with the love of my life, but due to my young age I am wanting to hold off on marriage until I am atleast 20. I think he is "the one" but because of my young age, I do not want to jump into things too quickly and regret it later. I have thought about and ... (101 words)

Everything's broken...

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11 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, Just to warn you, this is a long one. Bsically I am in a weird place right now, I was with my ex girlfriend since the age of 16, we spent over three years together,some happy and shit times. We were both each other's fist love and sexual partners, we always had a... (872 words)

Are we compatible, or do we just like each other?

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - 0k.. i have an named JW and we went together about 2 years ago and today we were just flirting and stuff.. Everytime we seen each other we just hugged and flirt.. I called him(what i dumb thing to do) and was talking and he was like text me i wasz like ok.. So he asked me do i ... (156 words)

I might be in love with my female teacher...what should I do?

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so here how it goes. I am female! I am 16, 15 when it happened, 2 days before my 16th birthday i think :/ I had to swop tutors because mine was away for a little while. And i had a new tutor for about 4-5 months... At first it took a while to Get used to her wa... (414 words)

What's the proper thing to do about previously shared furnishings when moving in with a man?

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11 August 2009 (F)

- When you move in with your man, isn't it bad sexual karma if you don't buy a new set of sheets, new pillow cases, new comforter for the bed you are planning to share -- especially if the old sheets, old comforter and pillowcases were shared by the woman he was involved with ... (92 words)

How can I deal with my jealousy so I don't lose her?

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11 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello all, Its hard for me to admit this but i can be a very jealous person. Especially when it comes to other guys and my girlfriend. Now im only 15, about to turn 16, and i no im gonna get some people who are gonna think im not in love with this girl, but i truly feel like ... (249 words)

He said he would be with me if they ever broke up, but I haven't heard from him. What should I do?

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy that i've been liking for quite a bit now and he was the year above me at school, although we've both left now. And i met up with him and everything was great but on that same night after i'd gone his ex told him she wanted him back. So i told him to go back ... (209 words)

My abusive ex won't let go. Help!

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need a little relationship advice! Ok so a while ago I broke up with my abusive boyfriend. I'm happy with my decision even though he hasn't accepted it yet. He is still contacting me asking for another chance. At other times he's angry and blackmails me if I don't get b... (392 words)

Am I overanalyzing, or is he really just not that into me?

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - you know the movie/book "he's just not that into you?" well I'm kinda thinking thats the case for my situation, but maybe I'm just overthinking/analyzing it after watching the film/reading quotes from the book. First off- I like that he's taking things slow b/c I prob ... (649 words)

He never wants to go out anymore. How can I fix this?

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been in a relationship for just over a year now, and up until recently it's been going great. My boyfriend and I get on really well and we're friends as well as a couple. The only problem is that he's very lazy and never seems to want to do anything anymore. When w... (126 words)

Why would a man hide the fact that he has a girlfriend?

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11 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - When a man is dating or involved in a serious relationship, would'nt a man talk about the woman he was involved with, when he talks about what he did for the weekend or his vaction plans for the summer??? Or does a man with-hold that information because the he wants people to ... (59 words)

I just found out my best friend is a lesbian. What should I do?

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11 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My best female friend just told me she's a lesbian, and that she fancies my girlfriend, what should i do ... (20 words)

My friend and I kissed, and may have done more but I can't remember...what should I do?

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11 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was round my mates a few nights ago drinking and well, he turned and stared into my eye's stroked my leg, i was taken by the moment and let him kiss me. I woke up in the morning in his bed naked, i snug out, i dont remember what happened after that kiss, but i know i was... (109 words)