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Archived questions from: 27 August, 2009 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Penetration, Pill, Orgasm and Virginity questions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - [Moderator note: four questions from the same poster were combined here for space considerations. I think he will be grateful if you can comment on any one or more of them. Thank you!] Hey, I need some advise on having sex with my partner! Q1: We are both large (fat) and my ... (193 words)

She's filed spousal support papers, does anyone know what could happen?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok here it goes my bf is getting divorced and the papers have been filed. She did not contest the papers now she has served him with spousel support papers. Does any one know what can happen? This is a never endidng nightmare. It's adding stress to our relationship. ... (49 words)

Is she really that over me? I'm so hurt.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Im in this bad situation and i feel like crap. I have been with this woman for 3 years and now it ended. I cant seem to get over her. She decided to cut me off and out of her life. She says she is doing much better and feels "wonderful" and "great", but i feel horrible and i ... (279 words)

Where to meet other lesbians?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm an 18 year old female. I realised a few months ago that I'm gay. I came out to my best friend a few days ago and she is completley fine with it. So now I have somebody to talk to about things which is amazing. Also I have somebody to go out with to try and meet girls. ... (141 words)

How long before you know it's love and not just a crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How long before you can tell that its love and not just a crush? I have loved someone for over ten years now, and I am very sure it is not, or has never been a crush. If it has been a couple of months and then you find you no longer feel as strongly then yes, I get that is a ... (96 words)

Does he not care if I have sex with someone, or is he hiding his feelings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy friend told me that he likes me, and he knows I like him. I also told him I'm a virgin and we plan on having sex sometime. Recently this one guy wont leave me alone about wanting to get together, I told my guy friend about it, and I asked him if he would be upset if I ... (123 words)

I've told her there's "plenty of room"... if things progress, do I get out another bed or invite her to mine?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a girl coming up to see me for a night out this weekend. We have been friends for a few years and have always had abit of chemistry, but never quite got together as we were both in relationships. Now we are both single. I said to her she can sleep round mine as theres ... (97 words)

If I go help my ex, there'll be no going back to my current love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently in a relationship with a man, living together. The problem comes in that my ex girlfriend needs to leave her current boyfriend (he's abusive and they have a child, he's even made the child cry.) And I love her, as much, if not more than the man I am with. I want ... (241 words)

I have this weird situation with my ex-boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Sorry-it’s a bit of a long story. It started 3 years ago-me and my boyfriend had a physical fight and I had bruises, a few days after that I started seeing him in places he shouldn’t have been-like near my mum's when I never took him there I kept seeing the same people on the ... (414 words)

I'm straight but hooked on gay porn! How can I stop watching it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 15 and I have a porn problem. Im straight I believe I am, but I looked at gay porn once just to see how it goes and I got hooked to it. I belive thats why I have gay fantasies and stuff because I like girls but when I first hit puberty and started masterbating tha... (143 words)

How can I be more assertive to get a girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - [MOD NOTE: Multiple questions from same poster so I have combined them] Q1. Im a 15 year old boy and im kinda nerdy and quiet and don't get out much because I get so nervous thinking of the people im going be around and if someone is going to pick a fight with me or talk ... (130 words)

I'm pregnant, but I'm not sure which guy is the father!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 26 and just found out Im pregnant. The thing is, I have slept with 2 men - one 4 weeks ago, just a day after I finished my period and someone else 2 weeks ago. Im unsure who the father is but I think it is more likely to be the guy I slept with 2 weeks ago because this was... (149 words)

In love with my best male friend. Should I wait or just give up on him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5574 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. Im in a bit of a situation. I am in love with a very old friend of mine. I have known him since we were at school, and we are very good friends, who can talk to each other about anything. We chat nearly every day, even tho he has a girlfriend - I dont know what she th... (257 words)

He thinks I don't like him! Should I make the first move?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I need some quick advice because I want to know what i'm going to do! Please help I know it's long!! Okay so here's the deal I really like this guy that i've known all my life and he likes me back. A few weeks ago we kissed for the first time at a party and spent ... (274 words)

I'm 8 days late could I be pregnant? What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - After everything has happen in our relationship we are still together and strong. umm the only problem I have now is that I am 8days late and I dont know if I should wait and go to the clinic next month or what should i do? This month is almost over and my body is changing ... (102 words)

My new partner can't understand why I let my ex see our daughter when he gives me no support

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm in need of advice. I've been separated from my ex 3years now and I have a daughter by him. Now I am in a relationship with a man who can't understand why I let my daughters father see her when he gives me no money. He does not want me talking to him other than just about my ... (105 words)

I love her, she doesn't love me, I'm desperate!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - She was my girl friend about 4 years back and now my very good friend. I love her more than words can say but I'm thinking of how 2 open up to her. I feel like she loves me but I don't want to tel her cos I don't want to lose her as my friend. Last night she said I should ... (209 words)

My fiance said he would leave me if I got pregnant and now I am - how do I tell him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my fiance have been together for awhile we just recently got engaged a few months ago. We have talked about our future a lot. I have 3 kids and he has accepted them. He loves them very much and they love him. We have talked about having kids on our own and we decided ... (267 words)

When should I give up on him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know when to give up on someone? I've been kissing this guy who shows no sign of wanting a relationship and it drives me insane thinking he could be with someone else when I'm not around! What do I do?... (44 words)

Girls seem attracted to me but I don't know how to approach them.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Whenever i meet a girl i am attracted to or is attracted to me i find it difficult to approach her or even ask.i hav seen several cases where girls seem attracted to me but i don't know how to approach them.i nid help on how to... (47 words)

Help all female readers! We got into a fight and I forgot an anniversary...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Lets say that I was in a bad mood one night, we got in a huge fight I said some awful things, and may have forgotten an anniversary. Now, apologizing does nothing. What can I do to show her I really do love her, and didnt mean to f this up so bad. please help -iydm... (67 words)

I'm having problems with our sex life...what can I do?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - [Mod note - both were from the same poster, so have combined both] Q1: I have been in this relationship for a few months now, and our life inside the bedroom is so drab. I am not even aroused any more. She will start to initiate and I quickly lose interest. I know this ... (237 words)

What is the exact trigger point for an affair in the work place?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello there! Just conducting a quick poll amongst those naughty rascals out there who have indulged in an office romance. Not the usual romance. I'm talking the one where both parties are married. For those of you who have experienced this, what format did the romance take: 1) ... (207 words)

I spend my life dreaming of life without him...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 10 years and am completely miserable. He's a lovely guy however we don't seem to have any common interests, everything I do seems to irritate him and he never wants to have sex with me. I spend my life dreaming about being divorced and very often sit w... (143 words)

Am I supposed to be paying the photographer or the other way around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i was wondering if anyone would be able to help me on this,, well the thing is i made a profile up on a modelling and photography website, just to see if anything would come out of it !! i made it aware that i didnt have a portfolio, a few minuts later a photographer in my ... (108 words)

Is squirting possible or just faked?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I guess this question is more pertaining to any personal encounters... But never the less, I was wondering is squirting real, is it staged, or faked in some fashion? If it is in fact real, how is it achieved thanks... (49 words)

I took a pregnancy test and it was negative, but I've missed two periods! Could I still be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello im 20 and in a bit of a pickle i could be a mum to be im showing signs or pregnancy im feeling sick in the morning and sometimes in the afternoon, gone off certain foods, and one minute im ok then the nxt im moody and in tears for nothing at the moment im not on any ... (88 words)

I've started feeling really bored, and like a really boring person! Has anyone else felt this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about seven months now. In the past two years, my life has been a roller coaster of emotions. I previously was dating a really bad person that was nothing short of a sociopath, my parents divorced each other on violent, angry terms, and ... (302 words)

I'm a virgin but I told him I'm not

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

- ok im turmoil here :( Im seeing my bf, we both in love, making future plans together ect... thing is im lying to him. Im still a virgin! even tho i've told him im not. Infact im lying to everyone about this, im like the 40 yr old virgin. i hate it, but i cannot tell anyone you ... (309 words)

Too clingy! How do I control it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am almost 4 months pregnant, and the baby's father and i are currently broken up. we are trying really hard to work things out because we've both come from broken homes, and we feel a child deserves both parents. plus, we are still so in love. we lived together for alm... (135 words)

Why do guys who are walking past on the street stare at me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Fistly, I think I made a mistake signing up because I'm 21! Anyway... I don't mean staring at my boobs or butt or checking me out. Some guys (usually ugly!) stare into my eyes on the street and say nothing and I'm sick of it and find it scary. Do they want to f*ck me , kill me ... (125 words)

I hooked up with former porn star and now my ex wants me back, and I can't tell him what I did

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years, we were high school sweethearts, and after our first year of college decided to give it a break. After 2 weeks of being sad and lonely my friend and I decided to go out and party a bit and let loose. I met a nice guy at the ... (350 words)

I lied and told him I'm a virgin and now I can't tell him the truth!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i need advice from anyone out there. im engaged getting married in a few months he thinks im a virgin i told him that i had a medical procedure and they kind of broke my hymen so i dont think i have a hymen told him its easy for me to insert my finger without a problem he ... (218 words)

Brother in law is abusive and a jerk and I don't want problems in the family!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband's brother abuses his wife, he is an alcoholic, and gets a really bad temper, but is in denial. About 7 years ago before my husband and I were married (we were just friends) my husband's brother got in my face and screamed at me and called me a f-ing bitch and ... (542 words)

Leading a double life from my family

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27 August 2009 (F) age 30-35 - i feel like i lead a double life. my dad is an expat and i have moved to three different places. my family has always had a view that children should respect their elders,parents are always right,doing well in school is most important, and romantic relationships can only come ... (337 words)

He's STILL unemployed! Is he just feeding me empty promises?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - so my boyfriend and i have been together close to a year and a half now. he has been unemployed for a loooooooong time. i love him so much but my patience is starting to wear thin. he is not very motivated to find a job. he is living with family who are paying the bills and ... (153 words)

He always has to be the one to make all the moves

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay I was dating a man for a little while and it was great! He was kind handsome attentive and basically just awesome. Unfortunately we had a misunderstanding which first made me pull away and then my distance made him pull away. I also told him that if he wanted friendship I ... (428 words)

Do I accept his brutal honesty? Or get out?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So a couple of days ago was my 2nd anniversary with my boyfriend. It's been an odd two years - mostly happy moments but with a couple of major unhappy ones. I'll give the full history and this might be long: We had a happy relationship for about 4 months - then one weekend... (934 words)

Do I stay with my boyfriend or leave him but run the risk of being alone forever?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi im 22 and im so confused....I dont know if i should leave my partner or stay...im a single mom off a gorgeous little boy...my partner used to be such a nice guy...now his dad has terminal cancer hes changed so much...a few hours ago i refused to let him in my house after a ... (287 words)

Did he fancy me? We are not as close anymore and I don't feel I can be myself around him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - there is this guy that i have been friends with since i started high school...we were so close for about 3 or 4 years but then i felt he started dropping hints that he liked me very suttle hints..his friends used kinda tease us when we were laughing together and he then started ... (183 words)

How do I tell my friend I think his girlfriend is a lesbian without him thinking I have been fooling around with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - basically yeah my friend is really inlove with his girlfriend and i was fine with that untill i started speaking to her one night things turned alittle hot. Now like i know your probably thinking "He's Fooled Around With His Mates Girl" But i havent, i never would, i'm just ... (171 words)

Looking for something extremely dirty and adventuresome for the bedroom

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, me and my fella are rather adventurous in the bedroom, and i live by the rule, ill try anything once. hes told me he wants me to do something so dirty and filthy he is stupendously turned on and will come in seconds. this is great, and id love to do this for him... o... (143 words)

I have been fooling around with a guy and now I cant seem to get an erection when I'm with a girl!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Im a 23 year old guy, and i have a couple of problems that i think are interlinked. I lost my virginity pretty late, i was 18, with my girlfriend at the time. We had sex a few times and then broke up after a month or two. After that i started getting big into the rave/dance ... (301 words)

My husband lied about being a virgin and I feel I cant move on from this!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age - After 25 years of marriage, and during a horrible row, I found out that my husband had lied to me when we were young and told me that he was a virgin when in fact he wasn't (only 1 other partner). This lie has really put a strain on our marriage. I know that I am overreacting ... (132 words)

If I get turned on by both men and women, does it make me bisexual?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - If i get turned on by both men and women does that make me bi-sexual? becuase welll when i see a man naked or topless i get really turned on, but also whenever im flirting with a girl or just see one i get really turned on..so like yeah i dunno if im bi or just going through a ... (62 words)

Why would a woman who's recently changed her appearance start going out all the time with friends instead of being at home with family?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Why would a married woman of 10 years loose alot of weight and start staying out with her friends rather than come home to her family. She says she hasn't done anything wrong, but in her words "she looks so good she just wants to go out with her single friends".... (52 words)

How can I get my husband to see that he needs to work full time for us to be able to live comfortably?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age - i have been remarried for almost a year now , my problem is my husband just wont work a full time job, but has very bad spending habit, he loves to eat out , i am a very good cook and he says he enjoys my cooking but he would rather eat out , we spend about 20-25 dollars each ... (236 words)

We've been broken up for a year, remained friends but I'm still in love with her. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, i would appreciate anyone's guidance here, it’s very much needed! ive been broken up with my ex for about a year now, shes 19 and im 20. weve remained really close friends ( after we had some space ) ever since and my problem is that i still care deeply for her, not just as ... (202 words)

How should I feel about my girlfriend constantly talking to her ex-husband?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with this woman for 6 1/2 mths. we seem to get along about everything. she moved to my city to get away from her ex and start a new life. when we found each other we instantly clicked.we have been living together for a while now.recently,after a trip back to her ... (214 words)

How do I get rid of these feelings that I want to be with a woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am not cheating, nor do I plan on cheating on my boyfriend, but I have been with women before and he knows it. I've been feeling lately that I want to be with a woman, and I really want to tell my boyfriend without him wanting to join in (again). I love him and he is the ... (80 words)

Really think my ex may be the one: how should I approach him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age - I dated a man for five months and things were going great. He had a physical problem that got in the way of having sex and we broke up due to that. He told me it was due to chemistry, but I tend to differ. We have been broken up for three months and are friends. I have ... (163 words)

Being stalked by my ex's new girlfriend: what's the right way to deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - She wants to know everything about me. Where I stay, what kind of car I drive, where I work. She passes by every chance she gets to see if she can see me. She's my ex boyfriend's girlfriend. Why is she going through all this trouble. If she has him why can't she leave me alone. ... (81 words)

Feel like I'm second-best: how do I convince him that I'm the one?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5603 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Let me just get to the point. There's this guy that I have been in and out of a relationship with for years. He says he loves me, and I will always have a place in his heart. He also says that he would never let me go no matter what obstacles may come. Yes, how romantic and ... (160 words)

Do you think it's a waste of time for me to hope and wait on this girl? I really hope not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So... I'm a very active person, and have been looking for a woman who can keep up with me and that has similar interests as me. Well, during one of the sand volleyball leagues I played in this summer, I met a girl who was cute, and also very competitive, and we started talki... (412 words)

Everything is going great with this guy, but I want to see him more often. Am I asking for too much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I have a new guy I have been dating for about two months. Everything is going great. I Love him so much and he says he does too. He treats me well and does all the things a woman would love from his man. The only problem is I miss him more and want to see him more often but he ... (257 words)

Does he want me back, or was he just horny?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I broke up with my ex month ago We still living together in our place , I tried to get back to him twice, but he rejected me, and I felt my self so cheap, and I forgot about him totally and started focusing on my life and try to enjoy it But , tonight he came home a... (273 words)

He's not a good friend, but if I don't talk to him I'll be seen as the bad one! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have this male 'friend' and he is a liar, moody and not a very good friend. He doesn't want to talk to me and i don't know why. What should i do? should i talk to him? or not because i know he is not very nice and not a good friend but if i don't talk to him people will ... (76 words)

I don't know what to do with my life since my girlfriend went back to her ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - met a divorced girl just under 2 years ago with a 3 year old boy she been through a tough relationship with her ex im not rich or well off but i did offer her love and affection always and made lots of effort with her son..i took him to thomasland on his birthday even out ... (432 words)

Should I continue this friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have recently got in touch with an old friend by e-mail. We used to be very close friends about 20 years ago and we have known each other since childhood. We had a few problems and we lost touch all that time. She rejected me once when i got in touch with her, but second ... (212 words)

Problems with the wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been married for almost a year and I am so miserable. I try so hard to keep my wife happy and I know she is so happy. Before she meet me is was just living and not happy, she is like a new person. I made a connection with her straight away and in fact I would spend all my ... (192 words)

Why am I so attached to my girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - We started dating about 8 months ago and it was the most amazing relationship i had ever been in. we did everything together, we were both very deeply in love. But things got a little rough over the summer considering we are both 16 neither of us have jobs or cars, so we didn't ... (137 words)

I cannot carry on like this: I've been in love with my friend for years and I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in love with my best friend but she has a boyfriend we have been seeing each other behind his back for the last two years "I know this is wrong" but it seems impossible to break off from it, its been on and off so many times she said she wants to be with me and me only but ... (353 words)

Why would a girl go through so much trouble to let you know she's interested, if she's in a relationship?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, i'd like some opinions plz if it's not too much trouble. Why would a women get to know you, go all out to make you realize she's interested in you, even to the point of exchanging phone numbers, and risk it all by telling you she's single when in fact she is in a steady ... (58 words)

How can I stop feeling so nervous when I first meet my Internet date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi all, id like to ask for advice on an internet date, blind date if you like. weve been talking for a month and a half, internet and phone calls. now were going to be meeting next week. il give you some background on the situation. We have both fell head over heels for ea... (309 words)

What are the signs that an ex might get back with you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you know for sure if your ex boyf is not going to come back to you?? I have been with my guy for over a year..and well we had many breakups in the last 6-7 months..nearly 1 each of those months. I think he broke up out of fear...cos the dynamic in the relationship is ... (200 words)

Is this man playing me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, here it is, I will just shoot from the hip here and maybe get a bit more insight into my wondering mind. I met a guy about 6 weeks ago. had coffee and talked. nice man and he asked to meet again. during the time before we met there was texts etc. anyway we then m... (403 words)

Which guy should I choose?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 19 years old and only had one boyfriend. sounds stupid but i only want a b.f that i can see a long term future with not no fun or short term etc.two guys liek me Guy A knowin him nearly for a month i;ve fancied him from word go hes 23 and had problems in his life.we both... (395 words)

Why would my wife be taking testosterone?

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27 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - For the past 5 weeks my wife's been getting moody, irritable and fed-up and I've had no idea why. Talking didn't help, she just ranted. I, however, found out why, on a day I had off from work (it was a training course, but I didn't need to attend since I had the relevant ... (226 words)

My soulmate has 2 children and an unstable ex wife, please help me/us!

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I know it's long, but please read and help! My boyfriend has 2 little girls, ages 6 and 7. We have been together for 8 months. I feel as though he is truly my soulmate, and he feels the same. We are both the kind of people that lead very simple lives and like to keep things as ... (826 words)

How do I approach the guy I like?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help! There's this guy that I've seen around and I think he's really good looking but I don't know how to approach him. When I do see him, he appears to be in a world of his own; either daydreaming or listening to music, so there never seems to be an appropriate time to ... (98 words)

Why would he bring his gay friend along on dates, is he gay himself, or is there something else? help!

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi I started seeing this guy from the Middle East and really enjoyed him . The thing was he was always with his friend. His friend is married and 'bi' and would show up on our dates and call if he wasn't there! I mean it felt like his friend was his boyfriend and jealous of me! ... (366 words)

My girlfriend completely overreacted when I couldnt send her money! What should I do in this situation?

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27 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi viewers. I have this problem. My girlfriend and I are in our relationship for six months and we have had our ups and downs. Until one day last week, she was robbed at knifepoint while she was in the Philippines with her family. When she told me that, I was so worried and ... (313 words)

Relationship gone wrong- Pakistani and Canadian woman cultural conflicts or what?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - About 8 months ago I met a Pakistani man and we became friends. He was a total gentleman and we really enjoyed getting to know eachother's friends an cultures. We were seeing eachother almost everyday for about 5 months and after awhile it eventually led to intimacy. We ... (384 words)

Girls: How do you feel when you have aroused a man and can tell he has an erection but he is trying to hide it?

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27 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Pls ladies, how do you feel when you see that you have arouse a guy and the dick is standing but the guy is trying to hide it.... (30 words)

Do you think caring about me as an individual will come in time? Or am I just kidding myself?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm well aware there are different levels of love. Lust, being in love and then over time that deep caring and shared bond.the man I'm seeing says he loves me. I genuinely feel like he does. When I'm with him he says all the right things and it doesn't feel like they are just ... (208 words)

I've lost the man I love over something so stupid!

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well this is gonna be quite long (sorry) but I desperately need some help. Please be honest with me, I can take any criticism where it's due, but please don't judge me. Ok, so, last year, Id just gone 18 and I was going out with someone . and he's a nice guy. But he... (495 words)

I don't want to lose him again but he is recieving sexual messages from a man! How do I confront him?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is gonna be long sorry. but i gotta explain the whole story. in 2005 i got with this guy, everything was great until last year around valentines day, he started drifting off. well around march we split up. it was horrible breakup i hit him. but we worked things out and ... (152 words)

Is the feeling of being ignored common in threesomes?

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27 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Recently my wife and I carried out a threesome with my best friend that she had been fantisising about for some time now.She had this night all planned out with a dinner and drinks to follow.She was dressed in a transparent white spandex dress that just covered her ass cheeks ... (220 words)

I'm confused - is this guy over me or is there a chance he never really got over me?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've liked this guy for 2 years. and now i'm just confused.2 years ago we liked each other i went to a party hooked up wit some guy and the guy i've liked never spoke to me again and i understood i guess.then year ago i see him he doesnt say hi to me or anything and he flirted ... (360 words)

I don't know if I can trust my boyfriend, I'm scared he will leave me again!

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know if I can trust my boyfriend. We were a couple for 15 months before and it ended badly and we didn't see or speak to each other for 8 months. We are now together again for 11 months now. The way he told me he was sorry about everything was very special and very ... (208 words)

I just want to be a normal teenage boy!

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27 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im 15 years old and i so lonely and depressed in my life im the only child so i have no one to talk to or hang out with i don't get out much because i really don't have any friends i can just hang with (at least good people) every since i turned a teen my life has been ... (706 words)

My fiance wont have sex with my anymore, what can I do?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my man and I have been together for almost 3 years now. we have a 7 month old daughter as well. he never wants sex anymore! in the last month we've had it like 2 times. I try to initiate by changing up my look or playing but the second vaginal penitration is brought up he ... (183 words)

Does it make me a bad person if I have feelings for my ex's brother?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i am really not looking for any criticism so please dont do that. i have a friend i have had for about 5 years now and 2 years ago he hooked me up with his older brother. we didnt last havent been together for about 7 months now. he became a bad herion addict and i just ... (216 words)

How do you learn to accept that you may or may not find someone to spend your life with?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you learn to be content with yourself and not fear being alone? How do you learn to accept that you may or may not find someone to spend your life with, or your current relationship may not work out, as much as you want it to? How do you learn accept and be happy with ... (94 words)

How do you know if a guy just wants you for sex or something more?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Are there any signs that suggest whether a guy wants you for sex or something more? It's a month before I can see him to talk about it face to face (I'd rather not ask by email or on the phone) but I need an idea of where we could be heading before then, for the sake of my ... (60 words)

How do I know if he really likes me or if he is just playing games with me?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I recently reconnected with an ex boyfriend, I am the one that ended it. Well anyways we have been doing ok so far. We hung this Sunday and went to the same restaurant where we had out first original date at. We had an amazing time; we went to see a live band after. I am an ... (201 words)

How do I tell my boyfriend that I want to be with a female without him wanting to join in?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am a bisexual female and i do have bouyfriend. now the thing is lately i've been feeling like i want to be with a female. how do i tell this to my boyfriend without him wanting to join or something stupid like that?... (44 words)

He's proposed before, why not to me?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 yrs already we have a child together and everything. i have proposed to him before but he doesn't want to get married because he feels that were moving too fast. he has proposed to two other women who have children but not his by someone ... (72 words)

Does he really want to get back with me?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My exboyfriend keeps telling me he wants to get back together but things need to change first...such as my jealosy issues, the fact that I don't accept some of his friends..and that I annoy him some times He says he wants us to be together but to me he acts others wise. Whe... (137 words)

I really like my friend but I am worried about losing his friendship if we ever broke up!

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a guy friend that i really like. i've known him for a while and he's been with me through the ups downs and arounds. i don't know what to do really. i don't want to lose our friendship if we have a bad break up but i dont want to pass up this opportunity. nice guys are ... (86 words)

Me and my boyfriend had a fight, I turned to my guy friend and ended up cheating with him! Now I'm confused about my feelings...what should I do?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a 8 year relationship. Something happened over the weekend with one of my best guy friend. I quarreled with my partner and so went out to rant with this guy friend. We were quite intimate (but no kissing nor sex) although we almost had! He is also attached but his... (171 words)

Do you think I could be bisexual because of my past?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - recently when i watched the trya banks show[lesbians it was about on this episode] i have been wondering to myself are you a lesbian!but to me i aint cuz i have a boy friend and stuff! so now im wondering if im a bisexual becuz when i was small,my aunt,everytime i... (212 words)

When I go away for a year, I'm afraid his feelings for me will fade! What can I do?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am a female and I am 23 yrs old and I am bout to go off to school for a year. Well, I am currently dating this guy who i really truly love but i'm scared that while i'm gone he is going to stop lovin me and not want to be with me anymore. I dont want to lose him. We've ... (100 words)

Do you think it's too soon to start trying for a baby?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16 years old and I really want a baby. My fiance and I are planning our whole future. I am graduating a year early, we're moving in together in a year and are going to the same college and working part time jobs. I figured our finances and I know (with his military ... (144 words)

We split up with the intention of getting back together, his parents now wants him to move on, I thought they like me, what gives?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My longtime boyfriend and I recently decided (mutually) on a break in our relationship because there are some issues we need to resolve as individuals first if we want things to work in the long term. We agreed that if we wanted to see other people during this time, so be it, ... (290 words)

Do you think I could be sexually frustrated?

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27 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i got a question. am i sexually frustrated? im going to tell the truth. when i was 16 i went out with a girl she took my virginity. woopty-doo right. well i broke up with her. and now i miss her. im 18 now and still miss her and havent had a girlfriend since. or had sex since. ... (177 words)

Do all these things mean he could like me?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay. I need help. There's this guy I like named lewis. I need help knowing if he likes me. He is in one of my classes but I see him around a lot and always talk to him. When I'm at my locker and he walks by me he always pokes me and asks "Are you excited for American History" ... (220 words)

Can you stop taking the pill, then start again when you know when you are next having sex?

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27 August 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hello, I have a very simple question. I am on the Pill (Yaz) and have been for the last 4 months. I will only be seeing my boyfriend in 4 months (december) and was wondering if I could like , pause on the pill and then start re taking it again. I tried looking it up but couldn... (82 words)

I fancy him, but am worried about him thinking I am easy, help!

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a date with a guy and we didn’t kiss at the end of the date. He then went away for 4 weeks and we were in contact daily and would talk on the phone for hours. He came back recently and we had dinner at his place. He kissed me first and we then made out a little. I was ... (296 words)

How do I get my friend to see I'm the one she should be with?

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27 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok I asked a very good friend of mine out, and she said she wanted to but she was afraid of losing me as a friend if something happened between us, and now she is dating another guy. How can I get her to change her mind and realize that I'm the person she should be with?... (59 words)

I don't like the fact that he has slept with about 40 women. But I'm falling for him. What should I do?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have been talking to this guy for three weeks. He tells me he really likes me and wants us to be together but we are taking things slow. We get along great and he has shared things about his childhood and life with me that he has never shared before. I really like him and ... (113 words)

I love someone who lives 1000 miles away. How do I find out for sure how he feels about me?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Normally I feel in control of my own love life, but at the moment I seem to be drifting. I love someone who lives 1000 miles away. I think he cares for me too, but I don't know how to find out for sure - any ideas? I miss him so much and although I've been dating other, ... (79 words)

How do I tell my girlfriend how I feel and get the spark back?

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27 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for around 6 months now and I love her to death, but we are exact opposites. I'm almost 6' tall and shes about 5' 2" maybe, I'm around 250 LBS and shes less than 100 LBS. I'm 16, shes 14. I listen to country, rock and roll, 19802 rock, ... (243 words)

This guy won't stop staring at me. How can I feel better about myself and move on?

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27 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - There is this guy at work, in which he and I have been staring back forth at each other for a long time. We have spoken and few times and I feel that we are physically attracted to one another, but we would never get to that point. I wanted to keep it as a mutual relationship. ... (193 words)

Does one person have to control a relationship?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In my relationship my boyfriend controls everything for the most part. We broke up a few times..and he is always the one to break up with me. He always chooses when he wants to see me. Neither he nor I are working right now so he never wants to go anywhere without money ... (260 words)

My boyfriend will be going to a college with the same people who caused drama at high school. How do I deal with this?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are soon to start college. Well, I already started, he's starting tomorrow. However, he isn't going to the college we planned for weeks that he'd be going to. I was okay with the idea of him going to this college (out of state), the only problem with that was ... (351 words)

How do I deal with my jealousy and not drive him away?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't consider my self to be insecure or have low self esteem but I do have a jealousy problem. In honesty I don't know where it comes from. I'm working on figuring it out..I don't know if I'm just afraid to admit to my self. But I don't feel insecure. I hate females aro... (152 words)

Which guy should I date?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys I hope you can help me... This problem has been bugging me for a while now but I feel that I really need to sort it out lol Well basically I am trying to choose between two guys. I have recently turned 17 and they are both 17 as well. I will call the first guy 'A' a... (432 words)

How can I get my ex to to stop playing with my emotions?

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27 August 2009 (F)

- My ex bf publically humiliated me through facebook. He wrote a message so everyone, all his friends etc, could see, making fun of me and putting me down because of my values, such as not drinking, wanting to wait for sex etc. Why would he want to hurt me like this? I feel so ... (271 words)

Friend doesn't talk to me since we were intimate.

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so I have this bestfriend.. Or atleast he was.. Anyway..we were crazy close and talked everyday!! He started messing with me like grabbing my ass and stuff and I started liking him.. I knew he was a huge player but I still liked him.. One night I let him finger me and we ... (96 words)

Please give me some input about how I can permanently leave this loser!

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have asked this question a couple of times. Why do I keep going back to a guy who has been an abuser, physically and verbally and who has cheated on me..Every time, I try to leave him, I end up with him..I've been with him for 4 years off and on and when he's not mad he's ... (176 words)

How do I get my mind off a crush who isn't gay or bi?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't take this anymore! I really needs tips on how I can get over someone I love. I am a girl, and so are they. They know I'm bi and they know I love them, but I'm starting to become a bit jealous because she is flirting with a guy who is flirting back, and I really don't ... (98 words)

I'm in a relationship temporarily, but my friend says I should give in to other women. I take it this would be wrong?

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27 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi I've been out with a close friend tonight. We're both in relationships. Unlike him, I'm in a relationship that will be ending (mutually) soon due to circumstances (being that we are both going to University in just a few weeks time). Tonight in a club we were both approa... (258 words)

Was the waitress hitting on me?

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27 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I was at a waterfront restaurant with my friend and our waitress gave us food and all and there was another hot girl painting kids faces for some reason idk and the waitress asked while looking at me if we would like to get our faces painted I said I think will pass then ... (143 words)

I need peoples' thoughts on how I took him back after he cheated please..

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was dating my boyfriend for a year before he proposed we moved in together and things were good. We fought like any other couple made up like any other couple. Then we started fighting more he seemed different. One night(at this point it was 3 months before our wedding) he ... (358 words)

Please tell me to go see a doctor immediately..

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, another probable. This is kinda embaressing. Emmmm, today i have noticed after going to the loo, that the water was all bright red!!! This has never happened before. Lately its been difficult going to the loo. Well not diffficult, more like nothing is coming out. It t... (104 words)

Should I step in with my opinion?

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27 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I started seeing my best friend whom I fell in love with though it never worked out the way we would have liked we are still friends but its not the same there is a point to me telling you this. . . Anyway that's not my question. . . she told me her biggest secret that she ... (373 words)

I feel really ashamed of myself.. how can I get over this event?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Last weekend was the worst weekend of my life. I went to a concernt Friday and Saturday night (same band). I have been in contact with one of the crew guys and we were going to get together after the shows. Friday he ditched me, no biggy because I has having too much fun ... (300 words)

I'm 38, she's 19 and she wants a relationship.

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27 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am 38 years old and have recently been getting quite close with a very very beautiful 19 year old work colleague ( I am not her boss ).She is very mature, and works part time as a fashion model. She has told me she wants a relationship. We haven't exchanged so much as a kiss, ... (171 words)

Should I continue to try and get him back?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, it's a long story but i need help with this. I thought everything was fine in our relationship, it was pretty much out of this world to me and i thought he felt the same. He told me everyday how much he loved me and that he didnt want to lose me for a long long time. Th... (332 words)

Can you help me think of the right job?

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27 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well how shall I start. Im a 22 year old mother to be. I've graduated from high school and put a pause on college but after my baby's born I intend on going back. I live at home with my parents and I share a room with my sisters. Im a very private person and Im use to working ... (223 words)

I love her, but she's a bit younger, more than a bit.

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27 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I've known this gal for some time, she's a cutie pie, very lovable and all, and I'm sure I have feelings, I think she has for me, she shows it, but my problem is, I'm very worries about age difference, there's like 13 and a half years of difference between us, is it a ... (92 words)