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writes:is it a good idea to text your ex telling him happy birthday and what is a suggested text?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): Of course this will very much depend how things stand between you; if you're on good terms/ how long it's been since, and if you're still friends etc, and if there are any leftover hopes/ expectations on either side, and especially whether he has a new partner, but generally speaking-What harm can there really be is wishing anyone a happy birthday? I'm not saying follow it with kisses or even expect a reply, but presuming that you're on good terms, could you ever be offended anyone texting you a happy birthday. Who knows- you might even make him smile!(Of course if you've already texted him 5 times today its another story!)
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (5 August 2009):
 There's nothing wrong texting your EX on their birthday as long as your both still mates.
Just write the usual
" Happy Birthday, hope you have lots of fun, enjoy the day! "
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): Depends are you friends with your ex? If so there is no problem. Do they have a new partner now? If so you might create an issue. Do you have a partner now? If so, why bother. I think you are using it as an excuse to test their reaction. Like the other post suggests - maybe better to just leave it and not text. An ex is precisely that.
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reader, sarcy24 +, writes (5 August 2009):
 Mmm..no , don't send anything, let it go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): Why not? Just "Happy birthday! I hope you'll have a nice day! x" or something can do no arm.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): yes bcos he wont think you fancy him again just from one text especially if it only says happy birthday
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