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writes:i used to like this guy and i knew he liked me he would always hug me more then once in one night and he would try to make me laugh and show off in from of me.something happened he wasnt into me anymore...months ago one night i went to a dance club and i was dancing his friends kept pushing his chair so he can see me dance and then in school the next day my friend told me that shes been talking to him online and got his number and he has a girfriend (months ago ..they broke up now) i really hope he has never messaged her because on the computer every time i would try messaging him but he never wrote back.feeling frustrated i deleted him as a friend then at a concert he didnt even say hi to him after bumping into him a lot of times.now months later that i've returned from cali for modeling fashion week he wrote back being in Europe i felt special him remembering me and he only replied two times and two straight days saying how when he comes back to USA that me and him should hang out and stuff i said of course we can hows Europei feel like i'm regretting replying soo soon each daybecause now he probably is like watever i'm bored wit this chick. and never writes bakevery morning i pretty much check online to see if he wrote back and nothing.is there a chance that he was just checking if i'm still into him or does he really care but cant get to a computer.should i let him go or just hope day by day that he might write backplease answer and also how do i get him off my mind,clearly im into him but i dont know if his into meplease help i understand this is long but pleaseee help me i'm in tears and broken hearted just wishin im not some board game his playing and i'm about to get played..i would appreciate all answers thanks
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reader, Original shiraz!  +, writes (5 August 2009):
Who knows whats going on in his head? Maybe its a guy think they run hot and cold so much not even realising what it can do to a girl, theres only really two ways you could show him, either be honest and say look i really like you but you confuse me in how you feel or cool it and see what happens, if his feelings are genuine hell be writing back as soon as you cool off.
Play him at his own game type thing and yes it does seem to me he is playing a game, youve figured that one out know youve got to do something about it. Choose a way to go and follow it through, you seem into him so why not try being honest about it? If he handles it by ignoring it then you get the message, dont stick around and wait living in hope for the what ifs. Youll be the only one hurting in it all unless something gives, either decide to walk away with your head held high or give it that one last choice, its up to you but any guy that treated me in this way making me feel insecure? I know exactally which id choose.
Everyone needs a sense of security and that feeling of being wanted, it makes us human, he never has given you this so whats to say hell change?
Best of luck
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