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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

If I'm so "nice" why do I get treated so badly?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5512 days ago

4 August 2009 (M)

age - After failed relationships and a marriage, I have ended up alone, in debt, lost my home (to my ex-wife) and, apart from my mum, no other family. Women have never respected me or found me really attractive. When I met my wife, it was through a newspaper ad. I didn't want to b... (345 words)

I want to have more natural and mind-blowing sex with my gf and want to stop this masturbation.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (M)

age - I am not sure why but I am a guy with very very high sex drive. Normally i would make love 5-6 times a day and if i am really happy and things are going the way I want, maybe like 8 times. But I am concerned about something that is killing my mind too. I do not live with my gf ... (200 words)

What can I do to get boys to like me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I get boys to like me when im ugly? I need help... i feel really ugly all the time. Everyone around me is so much prettier. I get made fun of because of my short hair. I am 15 and a boy has never shown any interest in me, plus I am flat chested which I hate. What can I ... (69 words)

I feel needy. I don't want to have to rely on someone else to make me happy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I can't seem to know why, but I feel really insecure in my relationship. My past with boyfriends hasn't really done well for me as they have all ended pretty badly. I'm usually the one ending it because of the way I've been treated. It really sucks actually. At the moment,... (320 words)

Should I see what happens with the relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, i wonder if u can help me!! i have been speeking to this Turkish man for about 1 year now, we have got really close , talked everyday spooken on phone, msn, etc!. hes a really nice man with a wonderful personality, and also he lives no where near the holiday... (367 words)

Can I get pregnant from the clear fluid?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okayee, my boyfriend and i have sex quite a bit. Usually its like 3 times in a period of 3 or 4 hours. And most of the time its Protected. But today he put his penis in without a condom. And alot of the time when he gets an erection he leaks a clear fluid. But he never cummed ... (89 words)

He needs help, but for the life of me, I just cannot. Does anyone have any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hello. i grew up with a violent father and also suffered mental abuse. there were times as kids when we thought we were going to die and we also ended up on the at risk register. he would drink the money and then come home and beat us but mainly my brother who would have his ... (722 words)

My mate's girlfriend is expecting, I think he's unhappy and I don't know how to help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - dear all at cupid. this is really about my mate, his gf is expecting there first child together, one thing is im really worried about him, since shes found out shes pregnent shes moved back to other family members,and sent him a text saying all i can think about is me and my b... (187 words)

How can I get a pregnancy test kit without my mum finding out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello im 14 and i need a pregancy test how can i get one without my mum finding out? i want to make sure i am before i tell my mum as she will go mental if she found out... (44 words)

Sometimes I get the feeling that he's talking to other girls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is reading a book. He tells me this is the reason why he'll take long to reply. Sometimes I get the feeling that he's talking to other girls- as in flirting. Other time, I think of how ridiculous that is. Right now, its one of those time that I think he is talking ... (94 words)

How do I get what's mine and get the hell out of there without getting in trouble?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i have had failing relationships in the past. i have been married 4 times and i'm only 38 years old. i have a 16 year old daughter who, after 15 years, decided to move in with her daddy, and a 5 year old who loves me uncionditionaly. i recently met a man who has a good strong ... (338 words)

Help me, decide between two people...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been really lonely. So I find myself going back to an ex to get over the loneliness. I have been dating him for about three months so far. But I have known him for 9 years. We dated a while back, got married, then divorced. We were officially divorced on my birthday two ... (206 words)

Is it too hard to raise a child with an older man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Hi, I'm in a big dilemma here, my boyfriend is 30 years older,and we are very good couple, but I'm pregnant, and I don't know, if it is too hard for raise a child with an older man, and I'm not sure he wants it, maybe he would just do it , because of keeping me. Well he has g... (95 words)

I want some revenge over this ex who thinks he can still control me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want some fucking revenge! After eight months after a terrible break-up from a two-year relationship, I was finally able to walk away from a Friends-With-Benefits thing with my ex. This happened about a week ago and I just feel so awesome about myself for having been able to ... (171 words)

Do many women "sow their wild oats" just because they can?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

4 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've always enjoyed this site and have really benefitted from the insight offered on other peoples questions so I figure I'll ask one myself and see if you can shed some light and offer me some piece of mind. My serious girlfriend (who I will marry very soon) has had, i... (306 words)

Where do you draw the line with a drug addict?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) age - My son is a drugaddict, We tried to help him several times, but he is always back, where he started. We, love him so much, he was a great kid, but nw he is 25 , and drugabuse ruins his life ,so ours. We tried and tried , rehab, living together with him,councelling ... (135 words)

Should I tell him I'm 2 years younger, and if so how?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

4 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - hi, i need some advice from someone who knows. i am a 13 year old guy. sometimes i have kinda thought i might be bi cause even tho i like girls, i also feel attracted to some guys sometimes. last weekend i was hanging out at a park with mostly kids already in high school. i ... (180 words)

How to I initiate phone sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - 0k.. i am very young so i havent experienced most things and i want to have phone sex but i just dont know how to start it off or anything can someone help me??... (34 words)

He's taking me for granted, what should I do?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my boyfriend for a year and a yalf now. I don't know what is happening. I think he is getting too comfortable with me. He doesn't appreciate my time. Like yesterday-he said he would do something with me today. I call him and he is with his friend. I ... (70 words)

Should I let my friend have him? And how do I have phone sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - 0k.. i am currently talking to one of my closest friends bff and he is very very sweet and i am starting to like him but yesterday i was talking to my friend and was like y u didnt tell me u was talking to my bff i didnt know what to say because i like her bff and she likes her ... (134 words)

Girls keep trying to stirr things up between me and my boyfriend, but it happened with my ex too! What's going on?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Boy friend complications its happening all over again..... Now what to do? Please help im scared? Ok, in june I broke up with a guy because he was cheating on me. In may some guy called his law firm and tried to get us fired. I thought it was my ex but my ex said he didn't d... (500 words)

What should I do about the guy I met on holiday? He lives far but I want to make this work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So here it goes. I'm just back from a two week holiday in which i wanted to get away from a breakup back home. I couldn't wait to go. When i was on holidays i met this boy just under a year younger than me, we clicked straight away and there was something there from the... (310 words)

Do we all have a bit of a split personality or is it just me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Do we all have a bit of a split personality,or it's just me? I tell my husband ,that I love him, at the same time, I'm reading about divorce advices on the internet. Hm,, Also, I tell him ,sure it is for ever yet I fantasize about living on my own..Also a few years ag... (146 words)

Why haven't I gotten my period yet? We had unprotected sex but he never came!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay , so i lost my virginity a day after my last period . it's been approximatly 32-34 days since then , since my period. the 1st time we ddnt use a condom , but he never came/finished. whats wrong? why havent i gotten my period??? :(... (47 words)

Please help... I need advice on post-break up issues.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So recently I broke up with a girl after a 14 month LDR relationship where everything seemed perfect, to the point that she was telling everyone, including her parents, that she was about to move in with me. She tells me she can't continue because she is scared, even though she ... (228 words)

Where are the best places to to meet older women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

4 August 2009 (?) age 36-40 - This is partially a relationship issue and partially a life issues/opinion on life issues question. Why does society like to poke fun at men who date older women (even slightly older than them, not huge age gaps)? If a man dates a much younger woman, society tends not... (287 words)

I'm pregnant, but our relationship is on the rocks and I don't want to lose him. Please help

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Heya guys, Well to start from the beginning I have a nine month old little boy. My sons biological father left me during the pregnancy as he wasn't ready for fatherhood and couldn't accept the fact I wanted to keep the baby. So i went it alone and braved life as a single moth... (463 words)

Should I wait for him to call, or should I call him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy on Friday night and he seemed to really like me. We talked a bit and he asked me what my plans were on Saturday to which I responded I was working. And then what I was doing on Sunday and if i could hang out during the week. He asked for my phone number and when ... (180 words)

Would it be proper to ask this Turkish man out for coffee?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age - Hi, I live in the us and I've met a really nice shy Turkish man ...I have to visit the store he works at everyday. He is very nice and polite is proper in the eyes of a guy from Turkey to ask him out for coffee.... (51 words)

My girlfriend has changed for the worst

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

4 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I can't really decide what to do, What I mean is, I've been with my girlfriend for aprox a year and 2 months. But she has changed, A lot, Now she has no respect for me or anyone around her. Sometimes she is really mean and sarcastic to me, And it really upsets me. I br... (168 words)

I find it difficult to be outgoing around my confident friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16, and starting Sixth Form next year. It's in the same school I'm at at the moment, so I will know most of the people. But most of my friends have all these friends in the year above (who will be with us next year) and I don't. I mean, I know who they are and stuff, b... (161 words)

How can I help my sister get over her break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5510 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) age 30-35 - How can I help my sister get over him? Hi, this isn't really related to me, but to my sister. She is devastated because last night, her ex broke up with her. He is by no means her first ex... but her previous relationships ended either in mutual break ups or because she ende... (440 words)

I'm 28, He's 66. Do you think the age difference is too great?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4303 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need to know other peoples opinion about my current relationship. I am 28 year old female and dating a 66 year old male. Nobody in my family knows about it because I am quite sure they are not going to approve. I really love this man and someday want to marry him...he... (70 words)

We broke up but now I want to give LDR a go

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and I broke up just over a month ago now. we were in a very close and serious relationship, we loved each other very much and always had fun together. we didnt break up because of arguments or cheating, basically its because our relationship would have turned long... (284 words)

Her parents won't let her date, how can we approach this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i just started dating 3 weeks ago...i really feel like i love her...we talk all night, and we never run out of things to say to each other...i live in north carolina and she lives in north dakota, im moving out to nebraska soon to see her...we met online and ... (195 words)

What's the reason for all these mixed signals?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have finally "got in there" with a girl (I'll call her Holly) who I've fancied for a while.....so I thought. I presumed I was friendzoned before until just recently. She had told me (a few months ago) that she would like to go out with someone who she had known well and h... (535 words)

He does not return my texts, do you think I'm too clingy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met him two days before I left and now that we are gone I think I am being clingy. Ok so before he would text me, but now we are on break I text him and get no reply, does this mean he is busy or is just tired of me being so clingy to him?... (57 words)

My husband wan't a threesome with both men and women, but I don't want him with another woman.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age - Well my husband wants a boy toy for the both of us since I have been giving him a hard time about wanting to be with another woman I think he will still want another women in bed with us should I do anything about this? We did have a three some with another man and I was and he ... (351 words)

I'm pregnant, can I still have sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello i m 12 week runing pragnant this is my 1st pragancy so dnt know about sex during in pragancy could u tell me please can i sexual intercorse with my partner? i dnt know if i do any sexual activtes can effect my baby or not, i did my 1st scan as well.... (56 words)

I'm bi but I can't seem to show affection to the girl I am attracted to.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok basically, me and my best friend are both bi and we both have feelings for eachother. we're both 15, girls and too shy to try anything. The other day she told me she loved me, and i love her back but I dont know what to do about it, or if i should do anything about it! i ... (135 words)

My wifes lover dumped her now she's depressed.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

4 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Cupids, can anyone help me, my wife cheated just over 6 months ago and the OTM dumped her and then broke of all contact. We have remained together to work at saving our marriage,but the problem is that she seems constantly down and depressed that the OTM used her for sex. I ... (160 words)

My sex life is drying up and I can't stop it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for over 6 years. For the first 3 we were living separately and the sex was great. We made love almost every time we saw each other. But since we moved in together the sex has kind of dried up. We went from 3-4 times per week down to about ... (441 words)

He says no one compares to me, then why does he keeps leaving me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - If a man loves you and wants to be with u .and they r saying that u make them a bettter person. And he has never felt this way b4.hes lucky. I only no the true him. Why would he keep leaving me.then begging me back wks and months later saying how wrong he was he has a problem ... (351 words)

I'm a victim of "sexting"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i really need help i am a victim of this "sexting" and i have been for the past 3 months i hate it and i regret doing it i did it coz my bf wanted a pic of me nd he sed he wld never ever show any1 but when we split up he sent it 2 his mates it was round the whole school,peopl ... (136 words)

Want my ex back but had drunken sex with another guy..worried ex will find out!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my ex broke up five months ago, after a miscarriage and him saying he didnt love me anymore. we have still carried on seeing each other, like we are in a relationship, although we are not. we argue quite a lot, and recently i have become attracted to a guy we both know, ... (179 words)

How do I explain to my b/f how I feel about porn!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5581 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - how do i explain to my boyfriend how i feel about porn! it gets me really depressed that im not the only person he wants and he wishs he could have sex with these girls! i ave low confidence and my confidence is completely gone because of this! its al i tink about and i cnt ... (84 words)

Why won't my heart listen to my head?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 months over 2 months ago. He was never going to be the one for me and I knew this at the time. I relly liked spending time with him though and we got pretty close. Im having a hard time dealing with being apart from him though. When I see and... (230 words)

For one day to the next she ignores me WHY??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, this story might sound famliar to some of you. About a year ago, I met a girl at university. She's four years older than me, (she's 25. I'm 21). We got along very well, and stayed in touch after the school project was over in December. Last month, we had two dates t... (229 words)

Should I text him this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically i was sort of seeing this guy a few of months back, and i liked him soooo much, but after like 5 months he treated me like dirt and really hurt me so i dleted him out my life and he didnt seem to care or anything. (I havent stopped liking him, even after no contact) ... (265 words)

Do people ever get back together after breakups?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Do people ever get back together after break-up? What's been your experience? What factors were involved if you were successful in getting back? thanks!... (27 words)

Could two sexually inactive people pass along an STD?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My fiancee and I are about to get married and have sex for the first time. We are both virgins and both come from a religious background with some pretty strong views on pre-marital sex. Neither of us has been sexually active with anyone beyond kissing (only on the mouth). ... (95 words)

How can my pregnant girlfriend control her hormones?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my partner is pregnant and her hormones are really bad because she was a moody person before a little bit. We sat down and talked about this and we said we'd try not get stressed out. She just suddenly gets moody at me and then I'm thinking ok I'll stay calm but then it just... (76 words)

Does his sexual request reflect his level of respect for me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My new bf and I are having a long distance thing, we see each other every other wkend. We mainly communicate through daily txts. Naturally sometimes our txts turn abit dirty : ) We have told each other our sexual requests for nxt time we meet up. The only 1 of his that bot... (177 words)

One day he wants to leave me, and the next, wants to marry me! What am I supposed to believe?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I delusional? He says he wants to marry me. He has seen a therapist for the names he calls me and is trying to stop. I am seeing a therapist because a few months ago the mean names and accusations drew me to a point of making an attempt at my life. Things are supp... (194 words)

Why is he putting his new girlfriend before his kids?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone, my partner of 20 yrs recently left me and our children for another women, what i'm finding really hard is that he is putting her needs before his childrens an example is that my kids wanted to see their father on a tuesday night but he told them he couldnt because ... (113 words)

Why doesn't my fiancee want sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5567 days ago

4 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am 27 years old and recently engaged, everything in our relationship is awesome except one thing: We dont have sex! I want to and I feel i need to, but my fiance never wants to. She always makes some kind of excuse or says something like "we definitely will ... (177 words)

Should I carry on talking to my ex's friend? He wants to be more but is afraid of what my ex will think!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5586 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - heyy everyone, just got a bit of a dilemna and just dont know what to do. My ex broke up with me 4months ago and has been trying to get me bk but ive refused, i just dnt want anything to do with him, hes really abusive and controlling and ive been having counselling to work ... (348 words)

How can I approach my ex when we get back to school?...and is there a possibilty of us getting back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend broke up with me 2.5 weeks ago and I'm still not sure i understand why. So he told me first that we don't have a future together because "he is a big pussy and doesnt think he could tell his parents about me." Now, we come from very different cultural and religious ... (684 words)

His mother's comments have put a huge hole in my confidence about our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriends mother invited me round for dinner while my boyfriend was away, and got talking about various tings, after a few drinks she asked if we were using 'extra protection' as my boyfriend has a son from a previous relationship that wasnt planned and has had massive ... (247 words)

I'm worried that my boyfriend has slept with other women behind my back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there am going to meet my boyfriend after a quite time but am too worried he might have slept with other women behind my back , i am planing to go for an hiv test before something more intimate between us.. am afraid we might have unprotected sex and i might contract hiv.. ... (104 words)

Am I overreacting to her actions or does she like me but wont admit it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (?)

- Help me make sense of this!!!! Two years ago I told a friend of mine I had feelings for her that went deeper than friendship. (We are both females) She said she was SHOCKED when I told her. Now keep in mind we live 1300 miles apart and she is in an unhappy marriage and has been ... (293 words)

How to tell my man that grunting during sex is a turn-off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I enjoy sex w/ my man and I like a little noise (moaning/sighing/etc.), but the last time we had sex he must have felt more free/relaxed and began grunting. I didn't know until it happened that I find this a turn-off. I looked online and I see that some other women also... (354 words)

Should I give this boy up now or carry on living in a pretend world?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well in April i was with my ex.. then my boyfriend and his friend from wales came down with is about two hours away from where we live. When he went home i added him on bebo and we got talking and then when me and my bf broke up we got quite close (we didnt break up because of ... (167 words)

I thought teenage boys were supposed to be very interested in sex; why does my boyfriend not want it anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months but he's not been wanting to have sex as much as he did. Whenever I want it he says not today (but not in an angry way) or 'Lets wait til another day' I dont get it because we're both 16, aren't boys suppose ... (102 words)

My new boyfriend has stopped turning me on and I don't know why!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (M)

age - I have new boyfriend who is amazing. He's really cute to look at but for some reason he has just stopped turning me on and I dont know why. He tells me all the time he thinks Im sexy and always wants to make love but I just dont want to even though he is cute and fit with a ... (122 words)

If I leave her I will walk away with nothing, but if I stay I know I can expect more humiliation!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im 24yo Irish lesbian and until last year i owned my own hairdressing and beauty salon and had everything i ever wanted.Then it all went wrong i was losing money and struggling to pay my bills,i met this woman online from London ,she was a lot older than me but really gorgeous ... (438 words)

She said she wasn't feeling it, what did she mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5587 days ago

4 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a 27 year old guy. And I was out on the town last weekend, And this guy that I know had her sister and her mates out with us. I got the feeling one of her mates was eyeing me up some of the night. And when we were at the bar my mates sister came and grabed me by the a... (207 words)

Neediness in relationships... I can't have it happen next time! How can I calm down while still showing interest?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5586 days ago

4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I broke up with my ex-girlfriend around 2 months ago and I'd say I've done a pretty good job about getting over her completely. I even get happy when I see her photos on Facebook, etc. with her new girlfriend because they suit each other really well. In the ... (625 words)

We're dating, but he doesn't demonstrate much affection! Does he really like me?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i've been seeing a man for 2 months, he's attractive, never married, no kids, but doesnt express how he feels about me. i'm not expecting love or anything as he's 43 and i'm 42 and taking things slow, as we are both getting over ex's. but he doesnt appear to find me attractive, ... (280 words)

I like him as more than just a friend, but now he has a girlfriend!

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am confused about my guy-friend. I really like him as more than a friend, and for a while, thought he liked me too. We are pretty tight, we text every day, we talk on the phone for hours (i "make him feel like a girl ;)" for talking to me for 3-4 hours at a time) and we just ... (218 words)

I miss my teacher and I feel bad because I think about him more than I do about my family!

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4 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I miss my teacher because he moved. I cry at night thinking that I will never see him again. But i feel bad because I think of him more than I do about my family members that have died. what should I do?... (43 words)

What can I say to make my GF stay away from this guy?

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4 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I think I may be having trouble with jealousy. I've been dating a girl that I'm crazy about for nearly a month, and there's one situation that's bothering me. Prior to being with me, she was "seeing" another guy, but they weren't dating - they apparently never even kissed, they ... (189 words)

All he wants to do is play his x-box!

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello aunts...ive been married for about 8 months now and he's not the husband i married..he doesnt hit me or anything like that. But he was really sweet at first and did everything with and we always had sex everyday. But now all he does is work sleep and play the xbox. We ... (269 words)

Why doesn't he get divorced?

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4 August 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I rarely ever ask questions, but this problem is a bit confusing to me. I have been with my boyfriend for three years. We both talk to our previous significant others except he tries to keep his contact secret because he knows it irritates me. He is also still married ... (481 words)

How can I tell if he's interested?

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4 August 2009 (F) - Me and my neighbor have always had a thing for each other. We always considered ourselves best friends or good friends. After 6 years of knowing each other we have finally hooked up. However, when he drinks at parties he tends flirts with other girls including my friends in ... (292 words)

They chase me and then when they got me they drop me!

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've noticed the same pattern repeating itself with me and guys. It's happened more times than I can count so I think there's something I must be doing to cause it, because not all men can be like this! They'll chase me, obsessively, for whatever length of time it takes me to ... (138 words)

I got rejected!

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I got rejected by this guy that showed interest in me. After I met with him for our date, I couldn't eat or sleep normally for a week because I was that into him. He said he just wanted to be friends. I'm still hurt and I don't know how to get over it. I keep asking myself am... (124 words)

He said I was acting like a girlfriend but I wasn't trying to!

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok ppl...Im having a little boy trouble.. I'm at a point in my life where i want to have a boyfriend and be "in love"..Thats not exactly working out as i planned.. I was beginning to talk with this one guy..and we had a lot in common..our birthdays were three days apart, we ... (192 words)

Did he really like me or just want sex?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I have just started hanging out with a guy and there is real chemistry between us. The other night tho he was teasing me that one of our friends said I liked him and I got defensive. He basically made me feel like a stalker coz he doesn't like me back. Then las... (139 words)

Why don't I want him to date even though I dumped him?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well.....I dumped my BF for my EX and well.....he put on his profile that he was single on his website and im jealous cause i still have feelings for him and it seems like i just can't let go of him and i got REALLY jealous and i talked to him about it and he said that he ... (104 words)

Online dating. Should I give up on this fantasy?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well theres this guy i have been with for about 3 months now.. we are online dating. we never met but we promised we will no matter what... he is great and he is the best guy i ever met and i hope one day we will actually end up together.. i know i should be careful but i know ... (256 words)

I'm affraid he will leave me if I stop acting like a pornstar for him

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend/fiance of nearly 3 years has always been very kind to me, but I do not know how to get him to treat me like a woman rather than a sex object. I will dress sexy for him and do my hair and makeup, and yes I am very sexual, but he is taking it to a new level. He wants ... (194 words)

He said he used me, what meassage should I get from this?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, I got deeply emotionally involved with a guy about 3 months ago. We were pretty much dating but he was about to leave to go to Japan for 2 months. I told him i wanted 2 wait til he got back 2 start something and he was ok with that. The 1st month he was there w... (290 words)

Hes already dating but had sex with me last night!

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, Last night I slept with a guy that I have liked for only a few days. We had an intense connection and both felt like we had been together forever. The problem is that I found out that he has actually started seeing someone a couple of weeks ago. He says he really r... (104 words)

Is my friend in trouble? Do you think I should call?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend who´s in military and living across the country wrote me down today asking how I was. He´s married and I do know his kids from his 1st marriage went over there and payed him a visit. Well, his daughter told me she didn´t spent a nice time. So, I updated on my life and ... (107 words)

I need a faithfull man in my life but I'm scared of getting hurt

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have a fear of getting hurt, eventhough right now im badly in need of a guy in my life (A faithful man, not just a passing wind) i always keep away from guys just because im sacared of getting hurt. I feel that every guy i meet wants to have sex. I dont want to let each and ... (130 words)

Irregular periods but I have pregnancy symptoms! Help!!

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hii, Im 16 in a few months with a problem.. I have a VERY irregular period (3 months between them normally),but I think im pregnant! I took a pregnancy test which came out negative but I think I took it too early (I month after unprotected sex) its been about 2 months sinc... (128 words)

If I say something bad about her ex she protects him!

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4 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I met my girlfriend about two months after she broke up with her ex. In the beginning she was protective of him whenever I said something about him. It was then because I thought she just broke up with him and it might take some time for her to get over him. Now we h... (229 words)

I'm going on holiday with him so how can I stop his feelings hurting?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The thing what is troubling me is my best friend got abused as a child by his father and his mother was also very strict locking him in rooms and such although they spoilt him moneywise and he was treated well but strict by his Mum he blocks his pain by being really tough an... (444 words)

My parents have split up, what should I do about everything?

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4 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - im 21 years old, i live with my parents for the time being until i graduate school, my parents have been married 29yrs and are very happy, everything is going good....... This was my life a week ago. my mom just recently droped a bombshell on me, my sister and more import... (290 words)

He said he might date me if he broke up with his girlfriend. What do I do with my feeling for him?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I dated my cousin who is 4 years older than me for a while until he broke up with me for another girl. Then I dated his friend. I just started talking again to a different one of his friends and I realized I like him. I said as much to him and he said in not so many words that ... (209 words)

Do you think this could be my orgasm?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year and we've been having sex almost as long. However, I don't know if I've ever had an orgasm... Anyways, when I'm on top I can make sure it feels good and sometimes it feels so good I feel like I've got to stop or I'm ... (107 words)

Nervous of what boys will think of me

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i want to meet other guys and be flirtty but im really scared ill be a slut or theyll think that im looking for a relationship when im looking for just fun.i really am nervous guys will reject me aswell i know im preatty but I don't think guys will like me like that:/... (55 words)

Why did he break up with me and how can I get him back?

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4 August 2009 (F)

How do I tell my FWB about the girl I want to marry?

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4 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am seeing someone on a regular basis and we have discussed marriage already. We have been seeing each other for about 3 months now. The problem is that before this I was seeing someone on again and off again for 2 years. We were the classic friends with benefits. The ... (259 words)

He's not interested! How do I tell her so I can ask him out?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend's boyfriend broke up with her the other night. He made it pretty clear her wasn't into dating her, yet she seems to be in denial. I'm not saying she's acting like an idiot, but she believes she will get him back,but I don't know how to explain to her that he wasnt ... (83 words)

It's early, but I want to tell him how I'm feeling without freaking him out..

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How much do you tell a guy about how you're feeling (in the early stages of going out) to let him know you're interested but avoid freaking him out? I'm fairly new to dating again after a long relationship (and over a year of being single after that to build my own life again ... (218 words)

Is it wrong that for once, I want to be happy too?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is long, but I feel so miserable about this. And please don't answer unless you read the whole thing. I'll know if you didn't read the whole thing. My best friend in the whole entire world is a guy. I love him to death and we've been friends since freshman year. (I... (805 words)

He's not the man I married.. or I just didn't know who I was marrying.

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4 August 2009 (F)

age - OK Folks - this worked before, so I am hoping to hear some feedback and that I will be able to understand what happened in my marriage - I wrote June 26th - titled 'He was sweet before our marriage, now he is abusive' and received some great insight. I was truly heartbroke... (726 words)

I don't want him to think i''m no in to him, but I don't want to be clingy.. where's the line?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I’m just so confused at the moment but I don't know if I'm just being paranoid. I met a guy online recently and about two weeks ago we met up. Things went really well and he asked me out on a second date. So far we’ve been on our third and fourth date (movies and then a drive ... (423 words)

I'm lesbian and she's straight, but could she still like me?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I told my friend I was lesbian and she is straight.. she knows i'm an emotional person and everything.. and she's always like flirting with me.. and she told me" I thought about you boo"... and like two weeks ago i told her i had a boyfriend and she was avoiding me. I told her ... (104 words)

I like my friend's ex but I don't want to cause any problems!

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My friend just broke up with her boyfriend, who I secretly liked. Now I would never want to hurt her by trying to take him from her! Don't get me wrong, I'm not like that! But I'm not that sure they'll get back together. Something about being "uncomfortable" since they grew ... (121 words)

I've dated, inpregnated, in love with, and proposing marriage to a possible half sister!

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4 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi. i'm 23, male, and looking for some advice for a situation that could be really great, or really awkward. i was adopted and raised an only child. i had a vague recollection of my birth mother having another child before me, by a different bio dad, and he/she was probably ... (297 words)

I'm experiencing pregnancy-like symptoms... Help!

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm really confused and would benefit from any answers i receive on this following situation. I had unprotected sex 4 weeks ago, since then i've experienced pregnancy-like symptoms. This includes; bloating, fatigue, cramping (often mild but sometimes very strong), light b... (262 words)

Am I giving her mixed signals?

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4 August 2009 (F)

Why does he always cheat on me?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age - Six of you kindly replied to my question dated 31st july 2009 about my cheating husband, while i write this my so called loving husband is in bed with the woman who has caused most of my problems. I thought i was just being paranoid about his attitiude towards me being ... (368 words)

How can I feel more positive and stop feeling so down?

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4 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm think I'm really depressed. I've been thinking about life, about how the good guys die. MLK-shot, JFK-shot, John Lennon-shot, Reagen-wounded. I think about how there's no god. I'm the funny guy in school, everyone thinks I'm happy. Reminds me of a joke. A man goes to the ... (104 words)

Are we friends or could we be something more?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Bear with me...I feel like I'm in high school again. I have a guy friend who I'm very in to. We've been friends for about three years. Recently we have gotten closer. We've been spending more time together and last week we spent an evening together talking about very ... (199 words)

Can two opposit people have a relationship that works?

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4 August 2009 (F)

- Can two opposites in a relationship really work? Me and my bf are so different. Hes 25, im 20. He likes to go out partying, drinking all the time(every night of the week, he doesnt have one alcohol free day a week), where as i rarely drink at all. Hes very loud and out goi... (430 words)

He will have sex but won't kiss me. Is he gay?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age - I'm having a relationship with a guy who doesn't kiss me either in bed or out, apart from a peck on the lips as I drop him off at the station. He also doesn't stroke me or caress me, and yet we really get it on sexually and I have been making massive allowances for the fact ... (262 words)

Hes mad with me because of a text. What to do?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ex and I broke up 3 wks ago.We've txted frequently.Broke up - claims he wasnt feeling it anymore *he gave numerous random reasons*(during our relationship he never acted unhappy/called and saw me daily - on his part, had me meet his fam/they loved me and hed talked about ... (470 words)

He says I can't leave him or he will do things to me. Should I believe him?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i just wanted some advice, im in this relationship with this guy is been 2 yrs, and im not happy with him we dont do anything but stay home. i work and he doesnt so when i have a day off i go see him but since he is so boring we just stay home smoke weed and i watch him play ... (196 words)

I want to stop masterbating

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4 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - okay im teen 15-16 i masterbate ean though i promise od i wont and i say things like if i maasterbate ill lose intrest in this and that so far two things come true im just so sick and scared i want to stop i dont want to lose anymore i wana quit i know but im christian and ... (71 words)

Was this ment to be or am I on rebound?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help deciding if I am on the rebound.. so here is the situation. I was in a relationship for 3 years during which my partner and I were not a good match. He physically and verbally abused me, but the worst part was the fact that he tried his hardest to distance me f... (518 words)

Why am I jealous about him spending time with his cousin?

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4 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm hoping someone can help me.. My boyfriend's cousin has come to stay with him for 2 weeks from another country and I wont be seeing him at all in this time and I'm finding this really hard because i'm quite an emotional person. I see him alot and I'm not used to being aw... (182 words)