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writes:hey everyone, ok so one day i was bored at my house,and i was in the mood to flirt with any guy, so i went on myspace and i started flirting with one of my guy friends. back then when i knew that guy,he was a player, but when i started flirting with him, he flirted back except he was serious and i wasn't. we started talking on the phone alot, and i think he thinks it's becoming serious, but i don't want it to be serious because i don't like him.(just think he's cute) what should i do now ?? should i tell him how i feel or tell him we should be friends with benefits or what ?? how should i tell him ?? please, any advicewill be necessary, thanks so much and god bless you
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reader, cheerwhore23 +, writes (6 August 2009):
sounds like something I would do lol.. How bout next time you talk to him be like you know I'm kidding right or tell him your talking to another guy. That always works and its not mean.. If u wanna be friends with benifits then go for it! Lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009): First of all, I hope you've learned something from this. Flirting just to be cute and pass the time can come around and bite you in the ass!I think you should be honest with him and tell him the truth. At your age, making it a FWB relationship is going to do no more than label you as a slut.Furthermore, if he sees you as more than a FWB, you'll wind up hurting him. As you said, you don't like him, you just think he's cute. Not a good reason to have sex!You are playing with another persons emotions. Turn it around, would you like it if someone did that to you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009): Tell him what you want to tell him. If you want to be "friends with benefits" then tell him you want to be friends with benefits. If you want to tell him you are just not interested in anything beyond friendship, then tell him you are not interest in anything beyond friendship. If you want to order the Filet o' Fish meal with a carton of 1% milk, then order the Filet o' Fish meal with a carton of 1% milk. If you want to stay at home today to watch some cartoons, then stay at home today to watch some cartoons.You choose your own battles. Cause and effect. The more you sway towards something that is untrue to what you want, the more drama it will cause. The more drama it will cause, the more difficult your situation becomes.
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