New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in August, 2009, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day)

1 (99), 2 (96), 3 (127), 4 (115), 5 (123), 6 (125), 7 (103), 8 (82), 9 (88), 10 (141),
11 (115), 12 (130), 13 (125), 14 (87), 15 (94), 16 (115), 17 (122), 18 (120), 19 (115), 20 (99),
21 (79), 22 (91), 23 (103), 24 (96), 25 (111), 26 (118), 27 (123), 28 (89), 29 (87), 30 (82),
31 (117),

Archived questions from: 18 August, 2009 (see latest questions)

(More questions from August, 2009)

Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Do I have to meet a thoughtless colleague of my husband's on his retirement party?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age - My husband has been a wonderful provider for myself and our two children. He has always worked hard, and I have stayed home with the children, moving countries when necessary to follow his career. He was successful in becoming the head of one of the companies, but has now ... (232 words)

I wanted his friend, but he won me over. Did I make the wrong decision?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a problem Let me start by saying me and my boyfriend have been together for 6months now and before we began dating I had sex with his bestfriend I feel bad sometimes but others im like Its not like I planned this. At first I knew My boyfriend liked me but I was going ... (145 words)

Please help me spice my relationship up with some roleplay.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my partner almost 10 years and its been almost 3 since we've made love.I dont want anyone else-though i have had a couple of offers and i trust my man completly.I want our sex life back,but i dont want to get into a rut-which i think was the problem was the 1st ... (175 words)

Miscarriage, period, or implantation bleeding?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, my age is not 13-15 I messed up on the registration crap im 20 yrs old and im trying to have my first baby with my husband of 2 years. Ok simple question am I having my period, implantation bleeding or a miscarriage? I had unprotected sex for the 1st time on Augus... (183 words)

I can't stop thinking about how he once left me for another woman. Is it going to work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years now. He has broken up with me a few times then comes right back to me apologizing and claiming that he didn't know what he was thinking. Our last break up was because he left me for another girl. Almost four mont... (144 words)

There's just too many guys to choose from. I don't want to hurt any of them.

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im alittle confused. I like to many guys. I like this boy that i just met a month ago. we talk on the phone all the time and we just "clicked" but he is also my brothers best friend and i am afarid of messing up their friendship so we are keeping "us" a secret. Next, we h... (146 words)

Dating! How do I get this guy interested in me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - alright... so afew months ago i met my "dream guy" (like seriously, the guy who i've been hoping to find for like ever) and of course i had sex with him on the 3rd date. I know ur supposed to hold out, but i didn't. since then we went out afew more times and things were ... (153 words)

My boyfriend is going off to uni soon. I don't know how to cope.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5571 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 8 months and im totally in love with him. we spend every day together and we know each other inside out. however hes going off to uni in september and its hitting me hard. i spend every day crying when hes not around just thinkin about ... (159 words)

My cousin and I love each other, but my family won't let us be together. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i love my cousin; but i have a boyfriend. ma cousin lives with me and my family. my love for him grows every day. i have so much love for him that i dont even know if i love for my boyfriend. i no that my cousin loves me back cause he tells me everyday. he kisses me and he is ... (169 words)

My girlfriend wants anul sex, but I dont, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

18 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend have seen each other for a year now, and we have been sleeping with each other for half of that. The thing is, she asked me about anul sex, because she wants to try it, but im not sure, i dont really want to try it. i know it sounds stupid cause normally ... (76 words)

If he's lying about little things, is he capable of more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I found out my husband lied to me about a few things. They were things he didn't really need to lie about, like talking to his ex and going on pornsites. If the conversation with her was innocent, I don't see why he should hide it, and it really hurts because now I don't know ... (73 words)

I'm cheating on my wife with my best friend's wife

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

18 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am falling in love with my wifes best friend. Her husband is my best friend. We both have 2 kids from our respective spouses. We have never had sex but we have been to third base two times. I know I am a horrible friend and husband, but we were talking one day and she ... (226 words)

My past makes me nervous about sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, I REALLY need help! My explanation is quite dark so...be warned if you happen to be under 16 (just in case, don't want any tweens getting freaked out) I am 19 and my bf is 21 and we are going to have sex for the first time...soon. And I am a virgin...kind of. (This is ... (424 words)

Please take a moment to help a devastated mum save her family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I really really need help! Please take a moment to read my dilemma - I have 2 little girls and I desperately need advice... :( ITS LONG I'M SORRY BUT ANY ADVICE AT ALL WOULD BE SO WONDERFUL My partner and I are on a break. We have been together 3 years - 1st year he was an a... (573 words)

Should I talk to these much older boys?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok.. i am a freshman in high school and most boys that sum and talk to me are SENIORS and I LOVE the attention but i dont thank i should talk to them or even have a friendship with them JUST BECAUSE they are seniors i dont know what to do.. somebody please help! =)... (55 words)

Friend disappeared to do a job in the middle of my 50th bithday party

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (M)

age - Last sunday I had my big 50th lunch for a lot of friends. My best friend is unemployed, and does some taxi driving for people he knows to earn some extra cash. During the lunch he just disappeared .I asked where he'd gone and all anyone knew was he'd received an urgent phone... (178 words)

Does this guy like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres a guy named Blake that rides my bus and he acts kinda weird. Ok he is always staring at me. Like on Friday I was sitting on the bus with one of my friends and he came on and looked at me then looked away really fast and went and sat close to the back. I looked back to ... (162 words)

Should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

18 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm kinda iffy about this. I've know this girl for like 2 years...I don't really know if I like her, but I want to move on and get over this other girl. She's so damn cute, artistic and athletic just like me. She's the spoiled type, but that's ok with me. It's not like I... (211 words)

We're always arguing, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been n dis relationship for 2yrs and we hve a 6 month old bby now. we don't c eye to eye on thngs, hve 2 many diff opinions, don't share da same ideas or thoughts. our outlook on almost EVERYTHNG is not the same! WE R JUS WAAAAAAAY 2 DIFF so for that reason WE R ALWAYS ... (96 words)

Wanted more replies for my previous question ..

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age - I posted a question and saw it on the site this morning. I received one response - which was appreciated, but had hoped for more. Now its late afternoon and my message has already been removed from the August 18 list of messages. I have a code to find it, but, if its no l... (128 words)

Are looks really that important?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - To sum the whole problem up, everyone thinks and says my boyfriend is ugly. We're in a long distance relationship, therefore most of my friends haven't even seen him closely, but when they see his pics they all start screaming at me about how ugly he is and how I deserve much ... (313 words)

He's cheating on her with me, she's pregnant and when they argue it makes me happy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - oh my god i know this is going to sound really strange but i was dumped my guy last year for the gf before me the reason because he still loved her and the oher thing she told him to get rid of me Anyway after we split carried on sleeping together and since then hes got this... (137 words)

Do you think this dream about pregnancy means something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm fifteen years old, and I'm almost two months pregnant with my first child. I have been planning on getting an Abortion, because the father is a dead beat and I don't have much support other then that. Lastnight I had a dream, I was holding a baby girl. She was dressed ... (195 words)

Am I scared of commitment or just not old enough for something serious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a fifteen year old girl, going into year 11 at high school. Most of my friends are in a 'serious relationship' or have been in one. I've had guys interested in me before, but I've never been compelled to start a proper relationship with any of them. My close friend says ... (107 words)

Do you think I'm wrong for wanting to call our relationship quits because she won't let me move back in with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my girlfriend has been together for two years. I moved with her into her place. we got into a fight so she kicked me out. she still wants to be a couple(you know go out together, i come over every other day, still have sex...ect) but she don't want me to move back in. I ... (85 words)

Should I move on from my ex for good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okaayy so basically i cant get over my ex boyfriend i broke up with him in july and he found a new girlfriend right away but their relationship only lasted for weeks while he was with her he wanted me to send him nude pics but i wouldnt so he got really mad and didnt text me ... (179 words)

I'm sick of fighting and want us to break up... how do I do that without killing him inside?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and going on nine months now. Since the beginning, people have wondered how we've been able to stand each other this long. Sure, we have a ton in common and we now know way too much about each other, but we get on each other's ... (235 words)

Do I hang on in there in the hope it is a blip or end the relationship? I feel like I'm in limbo....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Have any of you ever been in a relationship where you feel like you are no longer going out with your partner yet nothing has been said by the other person? For the last year I have felt like my boyfriend, who is in his mid-thirties, is completely uninterested in me. We never ... (348 words)

Should I ask her out even though she still loves another guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - ive been liking this girl for a couple of months and when i starting like her she wasnt single but now she is and she sed she like likes me a little but still loves another boy what should i do should i ask her out or any thing what i should do ?... (54 words)

Debate over if this is a good idea, or if I'm missing out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, im totally in love with my boyfriend. the thing is, im torn between wanting to spend the res tof my life with him and thinking im too young to be serious with someone. we got together when i was 16 and hes the only guy ive ever slept with. that's fine, i dont want to sleep ... (144 words)

My fiance is talking to his ex on facebook....Am I being paranoid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a little concerned with my fiance and him talking to his ex. We have been together for over 2 years now and are getting married next year. I recently saw his ex (from a while ago) start sending him messages through facebook. I saw them come through his email which is... (237 words)

My mother dissapproves because I'm 20 and want to date someone who's 46. Is this really such a bad thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I'm a 20 year old lesbian. I just recently met a 46 year old woman and we get along great. Most girls my age don't work, don't want to attend college and believe in anything but lies. We share what seems like a million a 10 things in common, we compliment each other quite ... (85 words)

Pregnant with my cousin's child.. please advise

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5580 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have this hot cousin who i love alot and he loves me too but we have family standing between our love.We hav been dating for 3years and things are great between us,we want to tell our parents but we are both scared they might hate on us and the story gets worse i am 2monts ... (88 words)

Worried Ex is getting the wrong impression!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend broke up with me in July and at first I tried so hard to get him back and to make things work. Then I read a lot of advice that told me to cut contact with him and get out of his life so he could miss me and that way I would stand a better chance of getting him ... (116 words)

If he believes in "no contact rule", why doesn't he pay me what he owes and be gone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex is a smart person who was always practical and thought about things in a logical way. When we first broke up he asked me to stop texting him as cutting contact will help us recover fast. I respected that, but eventually we got back. He said he realized how much i mean ... (299 words)

I really need to know what he's thinking..and need advice from guys!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I REALLY need advice!! My boyfriend and I finished in June and I was very upset. However for about a month afterwards we were still talking every day, meeting up and generally trying to fix things. He believed that the break up was down to me not loving him as much as he loved ... (454 words)

Golden Shower Problem, Please Help!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my fella have been together for 6 months now, and both are adventurous in the bedroom. he recently told me about a fetish he has, of being peed on (his stomach, penis and basically lower body) being a fantastic girlfriend (and quite curious too) i told him id give it a... (273 words)

Masturbating and it seems my period started early! Should I be concerned?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Lets cut to the chase. Basically I was masturbating because I was horny - I'm 14 - and basically I took my hand out and I was bleeding, (I started my period 2 years ago so its not my first time) but my problem is - i dont normally start until around the 30th of the month - ... (75 words)

Taking the pill, but should I still ask him to wear a condom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I'm in a bit of muddle at the moment and not sure what to do. Basically I've been with my boyfriend for a year and I genuinely love him and feel comfortable in the relationship in every way. However, since going on the contraceptive pill, I've starting getting really w... (391 words)

Feeling guilty about dating the ex of an acquaintance. Am I doing anything wrong??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I've recently become involved with a guy who has broken up with his gf of 2.5 years, I really like him and he seems really into me but there is a slight problem. His ex-gf is an acquaintance of mine, not a friend but a good friend of a friend of mine. She doesn't know I a... (141 words)

Would she accept being my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Theres this girl I like but on facebook it says she single and only looking for 'random play'. But I want to ask her out to be my gf! Does this mean she will say no?... (39 words)

I'm 19: is someone 4 years younger too young for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i like this guy. he is four years younger than me but he is very mature and he looks mature as well.. i know that if i were to date him many people would start judging and i'm really afraid of what they might say.... (46 words)

Revenge of the ex..what to do to get him gone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is it possible for my ex to know when im happy? because it seems like he has a radar that goes off when im happy with another man. you see i live in new york and he is from new mexico. i have a boyfriend ish kinda guy. were not techanically together but we are involved and i ... (225 words)

Can you live without sexual intimacy in a relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) age - How do I know if my husband sexual problem is medical, or something else? He has ed and low sexal desire, but the DOCTOR NEVER FOUND ANYTHING WRONG. His health is k, so it is not medical so far ,unless they didn't find out why. I would fully except this if I would know he is... (136 words)

Its been 18 months and I can't bear the thought of letting go completely

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I fell in love with C when i was 18, we were together for 2 years then went our sperate ways, i never stopped loving him compared everyone i met to him ect, he moved on had kids ect. So 20 years later we get together i am over the moon got what i wanted and it was all great... (144 words)

I put alot of effort into this relationship but it is never acknowledged!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I have been in a relationship with someone I adore for just under a year. Against better judgment I decided to move in with my boyfriend after being given the ultimatum to move in or we stop seeing each other. I feel as though I have put sincere efforts into thi... (259 words)

Is this consider masturbation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Heyy im really confused about something i need someone who actually knows the answer .... I dont wanna ask anyone i know cuz its embaressing.... So here it goes What i like to do is watch a good sex scene on youtube and when i do this i cross my legs and kida move them around t... (149 words)

He broke up with me, I backslid, now what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5538 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was seeing a guy for nearly 6 months, he found me through this social sites because we had mutual friends. He e-mailed me out of the blue and became friendly and eventually asked me out on a date. While we were dating he's been really sweet, always in contact and we s... (514 words)

In a relationshio, but have developed a crush on a younger guy. What should I do?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am feeling very guilty and rather lost as I have developed a typical teenage crush (at 26!!) on a male friend 5 years younger than me but am in a serious relationship (have been living together for 3 years). My new feelings don't stop me loving my partner but I find myself ... (82 words)

Who should I be with...my ex or my fiance? I love them both!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a major problem. I have been together with my fiance for just over 3 years. We have our ups and downs. I always find myself yelling at him but he will do everything from my laundry to rubbing my feet. However he has also hurt me in the past but hasn't since.. So I have ... (207 words)

My boyfriend thinks I'm the one ruining our sex life, when it's him that's bringing the porn dvd's to bed with us!! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age - Porn Wars :My boyfriend is telling me i am sabbotoging our sex life and our relationship. I feel it is he that is. We just made up over a 4 day battle cuz last week he was busy messin w/his tools, so i got in the bath. When i got out of the tub i was struck with him ... (216 words)

Since I moved in and found my girlfriends sex toys, I feel like less of a man! What can I do about this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi i recently moved in with my girlfriend and have discoverd that she masterbates with sex toys, that she haves hidden that i have found. knowing when she does it makes me feel depressed and less of a man that i cant take care of my duty with her and she runs to her toys! its ... (78 words)

He makes me feel like an aweful person!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - For a long time my partner has told me i talk down to him, he has never specified how, or what i say, or how i say it, he just insists i make him feel unhappy. There are plenty of things going on in his life which make him unhappy, a bad relationship between him and his ex ... (394 words)

I'm heartbroken. I feel lonely, forgotten, unloved, sad...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I've only been dating this guy for less than a month (today would have been a month, sigh) and we're still teenagers. He's three years older than I am. Well, the age didn't affect us at all, we were the perfect little teenage couple everyone loved to see walking around ... (983 words)

I need help with hair styles!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello =) My boyfriend suggested I do my hair the next time we go out since all I really do is have my hair straight, parted down the middle at all times mostly because that is all I know how to do! Does anybody have any suggestions with simple, sexy ways to use hairspray and do ... (71 words)

Did you ever tell your bestfriend you were in love with him/her, and what reaction did you get?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

18 August 2009 (?) age 36-40 - hi this is a question going out to the guys out there (and girls) Was just wondering what sort of reaction you got after you told your g/f or freind that u were "in love" with them, (not just love them) im in love with this girl that i have been seing for the pass yea... (163 words)

Help me understand this guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all, there is someone i really like, and we were about to become a bf/gf but, 3 months ago a problem happened, he stopped talking to me for a month, the worst month of my life actually, after this month he came back and said he is ready to open a new page and i was happy ... (183 words)

He doesn't take time out of his day to text or call me, is he interested in me or not?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok So I have been seeing this guy for a month and a few weeks, I met him down the shore and he is a fun and outgoing person like myself. He has taken me on a few dates and now I been staying over his house… we recently had sex after the month of course which make’s it more ... (360 words)

I've lost 5 stone but my vagina still seems fat!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i think ive got a problem with my vagina the thing is it sticks out!! the mound of it really sticks out. i dont no if it is because i was really overweight ive lost 5 stone but that part of me still seems fat. no joking when i lie down flat my stomach is flat and then my ... (82 words)

How do you know if a guy is using you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5575 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, How do you know if a guy is using you? Like i know this really hot guy, hes very confident, hes the lead singer in a local band. Hes always going around introducing me as his girlfriend! I he trying to tell me something?? I know he likes me, but I have been told ... (124 words)

Choosing between 2 men - if I could roll them together then that would be the perfect man.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I am in love with 2 guys and both have asked me to marry them. How on earth do I choose? I was dating guy 1 but we broke up and I started dating guy 2. I have only dated guy 2 for 4 months where as I dated guy 1 for 1 1/2 years. The break up with guy 1 was my decision,... (279 words)

I'm fed up of this relationship but I'm scared no-one else will want me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - im stuck in a rut my partner can be very abusive verbally and im gettin fed up of it, at the weekend an aqaintance of mine was flirting like mad with me and iv thought of nothing else but him since, am i looking for a way out? my relationship is not getting any better but been ... (73 words)

Troubled in Texas

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age - I've been in a relationship with a man for almost four years..starting off in the relationship he was very loving and supportive mentally ,physically, financially...I was not working when we met...though he knew that I were off work due to an on the job injury...he were ... (247 words)

Since we hugged things have become awkward between us!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok theres this guy i like and we met up the other day and this is going to sound really stupid but we hugged and i hugged him for about 10 minutes and now things have started to get really awkward but he normally hugs me loads anyway so i thought it wouldnt be a problem...how ... (63 words)

I feel like a slave :( Please help me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help, this has nothing to do with love or anything like that but I really need help and don't know who to turn to. My mum got out of a abusive relationship after 7years, during those 7years the only person I could tell was my Anty that was suffering with a illness ... (814 words)

Should I let go of this relationship or is there a way for both of us to be happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi to all, i'm eighteen and my boyfriend's twenty. we had a number of quarrels always over the same old problem; girls. everything was so perfect in our relationship, no flaws, nothing at all. that's when it aroused my suspicion. i decided to check his facebook and to my ... (383 words)

How do I let her know that I have some self-respect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a gay girl- I met this other girl about a year ago. We had sex then were planning to go for a date again but it didn't work out until novemeber. We went for a drink and were about to go for a more formal date later, but I wasn't really ready for dating at that ... (433 words)

If you have Chlamydia, how long before you become infertile?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I recently read that Chlamydia is sometimes a possible cause of infertility. What i want to know though is, how long should one have this silent disease for them to be medically declared infertile?... (35 words)

Did dad cheat on mom?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was browsing through my dad's phone and found a message from someone (lady) talking about a child that my dad isn't supporting. My parents have been married for 23 years and i've never heard anything about that child. I've never talked to anyone about this and it bothers me. ... (86 words)

How do I help my girlfriend enjoy sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my Gf of 2 and a half years have just started having sex, we are both 16. And we decied that after 2 years we were ready. But after having sex a hand full of times (safely of course) including alot of foreplay, she doesnt feel anything during inter course or feels ... (169 words)

My family thinks that I could do better than my boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What can i do to overcome what my family think? My family just met the guy ive been dating for quite some time, particular circumstances prevented me from introducing him to my family earlier. My boyfriend is amazing treats me like gold however he is of a different nation... (231 words)

Is it normal to think of the past when you are grieving?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

- Hoping some of the great people on here can help. It has been a tough summer. I lost two friends, one to lou gherigs disease and one to breast cancer. My mom is deteriorating as well. I thought I was doing ok with it but it seems that I am now thinking over every loss I have ... (113 words)

Boyfriend's depressed and I'm wondering how I can help him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, ive been going out with my my bf for about four months and as we were housemates and friends first we live together. hes just started full time work a few weeks ago and is often really tired and stressed out by the time he comes home. i know that he's had anxiety and depr... (186 words)

I'm not sure I'm brave enough to break up with him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a dilemma. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years now...long time! I do love him and most of the time everything is perfect...however every few weeks we have arguments about random things and I get so many doubts about our relationship and want to break up but ... (405 words)

We're arguing and not seeing each other as much

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3/4 years now and we both love each other very much. but recently we have been arguing about not seeing each other as much as id like to see him more than once a week. he works nights as a cleaner and i used to go round at the ... (190 words)

Boyfriend cheating on me and having girls send me messages

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have boyfriend so he cheating on me, the worse thing that girls has my he send me sms and insult me tell me that he does'snt love me and that thing hurt me so bad and my boyfriend he still busy with this girl and i love him so much. What should I do?... (55 words)

Do I just move on? He doesn't want to lose me he says

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am dating a guy who is 10 years younger than me. He's never been married he has no kids. I am divorced with three kids. I look amazing for my age, not that I'm old, but whenever I go out I get carded and everyone thinks I'm in my early 20's when I'm really in my 30's. My guy ... (368 words)

Was it right for him to give me gifts after what he did to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i Dont kno what to do. When I was 14 this guy who used to come and fix things around the house when my mom called him .I knew this guy my whole life and he came around alot i was kinda poor and didnt have alot of friends but this guy was always nice to me. He comes over one d... (816 words)

Will women be put off by man who's only had one sexual partner?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Hi, Im wondering do women think its a turn off if aguy who is in his early 30s has had only one sexual partner in the past. It was a long term relationship that didnt work out and I now wonder if women will be put off by it? Thanks.... (53 words)

I'm afraid to tell him of the abuse in my past in case I'll be seen as "too much work"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just started seeing a guy that I like so much, but i'm held back by two things. I was sexually abused for years as a kid which made me really shy and scared about sex. My last boyfriend -the first I had truly slept with - complained about my shyness. When I told him... (163 words)

How do I stop the fighting all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been dating my boyfriend for a year in two weeks and we love eachother and have a great sex life and are very happy but, we fight a lot. I get angry when he sits on the computer for hours and ignores me or leaves and comes back 4 hours later when he says he's going to ... (160 words)

Guys: How do you forget your girls so easily?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - It's getting really hard to forget him, here i am, at 7 in the morning crying over him, yet again. not the first time i'll admit. it's been 4 months since i spoke to him, and i came on myspace just now (what i'm about to say is really stupid) and i saw a comment from some girl ... (188 words)

He seems insensitive - should I dump him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi - I have been with my boyfriend 3 years but I am worrying we are just not compatible because every now and then he says the most insensitive things. Just one example which plays on my mind and still upsets me was before Xmas my 92 year old Grandmother was terribly ill in ... (246 words)

Should I continue to confide in my sister?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I think my sister has seriously thought about killing my husband. My husband is not a good person, and the more i confide in her, i think it just makes her angerier, and if he was gone it really would be better for me and the children. He isn't phsyical with me and the ... (148 words)

People think I"m gay but I"m not!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5376 days ago

18 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I got a qestion i like women alot and im completly attracted to them, i consider my self to be pretty masculine im not into sports much but i like MMA and working out and video games. I dont watch football or basket ball i like sports i can play. My thing is why do alot of p... (475 words)

My mom is trying to guilt me into breaking up with my boyfriend- help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 7 months. We have known each other for four years. We get along well, although we have our ups and downs- as most everyone does. But we have one huge problem with our relationship- my mom. She gets so involved in my ... (294 words)

Will using a vibrator make it harder for me to orgasm during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i use a back masager or idk but it just vibrates but anyways i use that to have orgasms i put it right on my clit i dont move it around or anything i jus set it there..im just wondering can that make it harder for me to hav an orgasm during sex cuz theres no vibration ... (121 words)

Am I out of order for not wanting him to be around these strippers all the time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So, My boyfriend owns a strip club. It may sound sleazy but he actually took it over after his brother that owned it died and it does make a lot of money so I would not want to ask him not to give that up. and I actually met him working as a stripper there. Before I knew him, ... (340 words)

Are we more than friends? He puts me before his girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok this is prolly the same question you hear all the time. ok here goes,i have been best friends with this guy for 3 years..we party together, hang together and even talk or see each other everyday,we are close we hangout in the same group of friends and all our friends say we ... (413 words)

16 and pregnant

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know wat 2 do should i tell my mom and dad who do i tell help me... (20 words)

Why won't he even remove his ex's from the social networking site?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiance and I have know each other for nearly ten years. We've been in a relationship for nearly five. Before me he only had three serious relationships. One we filed a restraining order against, and has no bearing here. The other two were bad relationships. Both he and the ... (323 words)

Why do I burn after sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and ii been haveing sex with my boyfriend WITHOUT a condom and we have sex 10 times a day so i was wondering why my pravit part burns after we finish ???... (34 words)

I'm in a new relationship and worried I may have gotten an STD! I don't want this to ruin things!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I recently became involved in a relationship with the most incredible woman and things have been going very well. However, lat week I began not feeling so well downstairs and became concerned that I might have contracted and STD. I have held off voicing my concerns to her ... (179 words)

A wonderful b/f, vs. first love recovered?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so this is long, but I need help. April 2006. I met someone - I didn't know then that he would change my entire life. How could I have possibly known? It started out easily enough, that much was true. We just talked online at first. It was sort of similar to You've Got Ma... (1339 words)

He's intelligent but judgemental, and resents my independent thinking

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I have been together more than two years. He is willing to do almost anything for me, pick up bits of shopping, help me out if I'm not feeling well, looks after my cat when I'm on vacation, etc. I try to assist him in many ways, too, with a gift of money fo... (401 words)

I gave my friend a flower, and now she's avoiding me

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

18 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 16 yrs old and my dad lives in a different state than I do. I went to my dads for the summer and met this amazing girl. When we first met she was flirting with me alot. So I went by her house one morning before she went to school and gave her a rose. After that she ... (135 words)

What are the odds I'm pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right before my boyfriend came, he pulled out and as he was doing so, the condom popped and he had (i hope all) the pre-cum in his hand. what are the odds that I'm pregnant?... (36 words)

Need closure for a fling

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey! I just have to get this out of my chest and maybe some of you can help me also. Here's my story. A couple of years ago, I was living in a different city and I met a guy. Our time together was really brief (we had a fling for four days) because we got involved a couple o... (397 words)

Why Do People Act This Way When They See A Couple(friends)?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Whenever my guy friends and me are talking...like one on one...people always act funny around us. For example like today, I was talking to one of my friends (Im a woman btw) and just about every girl that walked by was staring, switching and flipping their hair passed us. ... (156 words)

How would a girl know when a guy really likes her or just has a fleeting crush on her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - We don't know each other and during some college events over the vacation were thrown together. And he looks at me quite abit. When he thinks i'm unaware, when he leaves a place i'm at, he would look at me for some time. Upclose eye contact, he looks away quickly though. He ... (226 words)

14, pregnant, what do I say to my mom?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well hi everyone. Im really scarred to tell my parents im 14 and pregnant. I has sex for the first time with my boyfriend of 6 months and the condom broke on August 8th, today which is 9 days later I had implantation bleeding. The past few days my breasts have hurt, been ... (161 words)

He said he doesn't feel the same, but he's still talking about getting engaged

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5605 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i started dating last june. we became very close very fast, yet we took things slow at first. after 2 months we both said we loved each other. he applied for school 2 hours away, and before he left, he got me a ring to let me know he'll always love me. he moved ... (340 words)

We broke up, but he still comes to my place for sex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5147 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - so my boyfriend and i broke up about two weeks ago.. but he still comes over my house once in a while and we have sex.. we know we still love each other but i dont think its rite wat we r doing.. wat do you guys think?!... (48 words)

What's really going on with men over 40?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) age - This is a question to man over 40...Do you beleive in andropause? That your sex life dies, and you don't feel like having sex, and your erections are gone? If its true, how common is that? Is this just in long term marriages? I'm just really confused, what is going on for rea... (61 words)

We don't spend enough time together, and I want to break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i'm having a hard time understanding how come i can't break up with my boyfriend. He's hasn't done anything wrong I just wish we spent more time together, i'm trying to be understanding because he's a firefighter plus he runs a 24 hour business.i ask him if we should split he ... (64 words)

Married co-worker wants to take me to dinner and a show?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5139 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay so I started interning at a newspaper after last month. A web designer guy stopped by the office once to meet my boss. Afterward he annoyed me for 30 minutes asking for advice about his mistress!!! He eventually left but he has been calling the office to speak to me since ... (187 words)

He keeps telling me he doesn't have a girlfriend but I KNOW he does!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok well about 3 months ago i started a new job in an office. I met loads of great new people and i loved it. i still love it. i met this one guy in particular, we'll call him robert. I didn't notice him at first, he's not particularly amazing looking or anything infact ... (425 words)

I have never actually kissed anybody, but I told her I had! Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

18 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there heres my situation: i really like this girl and we met through a mate and we have seen each other and like gone to the cinema and that like i think its about 5 times now and we are always texting each other and the other day she said she "likes" me. When we last saw... (164 words)

I need closure!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5532 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I NEED CLOSURE!! How do I go about gettin closure from a 'relationship' when the other person involved doesn't want anything to do with me and willpobably just laaugh at me??? I came out of a 'friends with benfits' situation about 4 years ago and was heartbroken since I thou... (531 words)

Women my age pay me no attention! I only get young girls liking me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

18 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My problem is young girls like me, women my age pay me no attention.Hs age girls flirt with me all the time they tell me im cute, This girl was probably six was just staring at me one day i looked at her and she said i was pretty seriously. Chilldren especially seem to like ... (324 words)

Do I confront him about his liking me as more than a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm engaged to an amazing girl and gay but my best friend is in love with me. Him and I do like everything together. People are telling me that it's obvious he likes me. My mom even told me it's obvious that he's in love with me. I just don't want to believe it. I don't want to ... (117 words)

Sex is just awful for me! Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 16.. iv been to the docter i have no diseases or infections, me and my boyfriend have had sex over maby 30 times.. pretty much every time we have intercourse it hurts its like a irretated feeling an alittle burning sumtimes it hurts really bad an somtimes its just alittle ... (132 words)

My worries of loving a younger man.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age - I'm 47 and I happen to be in love with a 28 year man and we are married now for 2yrs. My conscience bothers me all the time, because I have a son who is 24. I never intended on finding a much younger man to settle down with. Is matter of fact I was always against it women ... (192 words)

What do you think? Is he lying about watching porn?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Should I believe my boyfriend claiming he doesn't watch porn? He claims he hasn't watched porn the entire 3 years we have been together. I do send him nude pictures and videos everyday but I still think he must be tired of looking at the same woman over and over by herself. ... (59 words)

Torn between family and fiancee...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Aunties, Lately I have been an emotional wreck. I am torn between being closer to my family and starting a family with my soon to be husband. Right now I am 22 and he is 28. We met 3 years ago, at that time I just moved from California and now live in Philly with him ... (671 words)

Do I have the right to be angry with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5582 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for six months, which was on my birthday. Which was two days ago. All he did for my birthday was give me a five dollar headscratcher, which I'm pretty sure he didn't even buy (his mom wanted one, and gave me money to buy it, so I'M THE ONE WHO ... (199 words)

Why didn't he kiss me then?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

18 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy and I have been hanging out a lot and we are always flirting with each other. I am really attracted to him and I think he likes me too but I'm not sure, I know he is a really nice guy and a gentleman. Don't get me wrong, he isn't shy or anything, he is really outgoing ... (230 words)

I'm not the "hot chick" I want to be for my band or my boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) age 36-40 - This will sound like a very, veru vain question, but I really need to know. Ok, so I'm the front woman in a band; I play guitar and sing. My bandmates are all guys. One of them is my BF. Anyway, the thing is, our music is good, I don't mean to sound like I'm blowing my own ... (423 words)

I need help to cast off these feelings I have for my friend's daughter!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

18 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 35yrs old and I am scared that I am falling in love with my girlfriends 15yr old daughter. I adore her so much and I have no sexual intention towards her at all. I am so confused by these feelings because although it seems so wrong it does not feel that way. I intend this ... (93 words)

What does "I miss you more than you will ever know" mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

18 August 2009 (?)

- Okay so most of you know my story. I'm female and in love with my best female friend. She knows how I feel about her, you can read my other posts to get the whole story. Anyway I want to know why she would sign off on an email the following way? "I miss you more than you will ... (66 words)