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writes:Im 18 and still a virgin, my bf and I are getting very close and sex is on the horizon. Thats not my problem tho cause I know ive waited till the right time. But we were sitting talking one night in bed and the subject of giving head came up, I just let the subject die because never gave/received head before but I really want to with him, the problem is I dont know what to do, can someone please help me?? Thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice, yeah my boyfriend knows that he will be my first time, and he's cool with it. Its just nerves of doing something new reallyThanks =) xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2009): Well I have one problem with your question: "..because never gave/received head before.."Point being girls can't actually "receive" head. Oral sure, but not head. But I'm just picking at your question and that doesn't really help.An important thing that you could have mentioned would be: does he know you've never given it before?This is important because it not only tells him to not be too critical but most guys would also enjoy the knowledge that they're your first experience.Step one could be to tell him that you've never done it before but that you want to try, I guarantee the excitement of what you want to do for him will outweigh any nervousness he could have about it being your first time.Also, there really isn't any wrong way to do it. If you've ever seen it done(porn) or even have an idea how it works you can't really go wrong winging it. Just remember no teeth unless he asks you to(safe bet he wont, but I've heard some guys like just a little). And remember to try and enjoy it, that will make it better for him(but if things are beginning to take a little to long try to go faster). And don't be afraid to ask him for pointers,if he knows you wont be insulted for him saying anything than it's only for his benefit anyways.I hope that helped, sorry if it was lengthy
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): i think she brought up the subject because she wanted to give you head besides just lay back and let her do her job. just remember to stroke her when shes given it.
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