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writes:Hello everybody!I live with my bf right now,he is 41 years old.My ex whoe is 57, is now chasing me again and sent me and engagement ring. My ex is a wealthy man, my bf does not even have a job. My bf gets $ from his parents. My bf wants to marry me and I told him NO! for all these reasons, do you think I should saty with him or go back to my ex? I loved my ex deeply, and maybe things can get better in time. Please helppp
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know, I am desperate. My bf is nice and treats me right, but he has never bought me anything, except for my b-day and Christmas, my ex would surprise me with little cheap things any time of the year. On the other hand, I have seen my ex lately and he broke the dish with food he was giving me because I told him we would see each other at a certain time, (I walked up to my best friend) gave her a ride to the bus station, so I wAS LATE, so he did not believe on my words. Besides he has told my sister we have seen each other to talk and I told him not to say a word. I broke a glass too and I think that is not healthy, but I feel I want him for me, but I see my bf has better qualities, he trust me even though I have been talking personally to my ex, I am desperate!!!! Please more advice pls. I feel bad doing what I am doing, but it is the only way I have to figure out my life
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondo you mean age is not an obstacle? we have been fighting somuch lately, for the same reason, I blame him for not wnating to marry before, and he blames me for not believing he wants to do it now. My new bf which I was going to marry, live on his parents and I think that is bad, what can you tell me now?
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (6 August 2009):
 I'm confused... are you still in love with your ex... or do you have ulterior motives and you're trying to rationalize it? I don't mean to be mean, and I'm not accusing you of having ulterior motives: I have no idea what's in your heart. However, you need to do some soul searching, and discover that for yourself. Then, you need to marry for love, IF you marry. Don't rush into it if you are not sure.
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