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anonymous
writes:I met this guy a few weeks back and we really hit it off, we swapped numbers and we've been texting, he asked me out on a date and telling me how much he would love to take me out and spoil me, he was rally nice, i text me all the time non stop. We arranged to go on a date at a weekend so everything was planned and it was comming up to the date, but i had a problem i was told i had to work that weekend, when i told him he was gutted, so i tried my hardest to get it off, anyway i managed to get the weekend back off again but when i told him that i had managed to do this he went all cold on me! saying he thought we should wait til he takes me out, i havent heard from him he days now, i dont understand why he just went all cold on me like that? when he was the keen one to start off with and after everything he had said to me? whats going on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks loves! I have decided i dont need someone like that and i'm not going to give him a chance! I know i can do better and get treated better! And there is someone out there for me!
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reader, Pizzicato +, writes (6 August 2009):
Wow, that sounds like a similar experience I've been having. I'm not sure what to do myself. I'm backing off to see if anything changes. Continue being friendly.The only thing I can think of is that many men do this sort of thing on purpose quite often so when something like this happens, they don't believe us.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (5 August 2009):
 Maybe he has backed out a little because he may think you may have tried to get out of meeting him the first time round.
why dont u casually text him and ask how he's doing?
if he truly likes you and he's a decent guy he will definately get in touch and take you out.
if he is still behaving like this for another week i'd probably just move on from the experience because there's not much you can do.
good luck!
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