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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

We have dated others but were always having sex with each other!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am 23 yrs old and I've been dating this guy for 5yrs on and off again. Well, in that time he have had other girlfriends and I have had other boyfriends, but we never stopped having sex with each other. We always been there for each other no matter what, even if we are ... (151 words)

Will he go back to having an affair when he feels comfortable again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - A married guy had an affair but was so much wrecked with guilt when he felt that his wife was cheating on him. (It turned out that his wife was not having an affair) that he ended his affair very abruptly as the situation was an eye opener for him and he realised how much he ... (107 words)

How can I make him realize he wants me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex and i broke up a few months ago after being together for two years. weve texted occasionally, but nothing serious. i want him to be in my life like he was before and don't know how to get to the point where he would realize that i'm the person he loves. help! ... (59 words)

Unlocking the mystery of the g spot

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So, I think all males are kind of consumed in this inferiority complex when it comes to sex. I am no exception to that rule. My fiance is absolutely incredible, but I am unable to make her orgasm... There has been a few fluke instances, but nothing regular. Somebody help me... (77 words)

Married but in touch with the ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Alright so,I am married... and i've been chatting, texting and talking on the phone with my ex boyfriend. i haven't seen him in 10 years. When we talk he makes me feel so special, he said he never forgot about me and that he has feeling towards me again. I really enjoy talking ... (144 words)

Am I being "hoeish?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - 0k.. I just started high school and i want an boyfriend but its too many Boys trying to talk to me at once. I am currently talking to 3 boys and i wanted to know if i am being "HOEISH" because i dont know who i want?... (47 words)

I think she loves her boyfriend and me too and I can't make sense of this!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

25 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - This is really complicated and hard to do as missing important details might get me the wrong advice but here goes. . . . Well I started seeing a girl that I was working with we were both involved with other people at first we were just great friends we made each other laugh... (770 words)

Mixed signals or something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I need help!! I went to college with a guy for 2 yrs we've left now but I liked him for 2 yrs and I told him several times. Christmas 08 and i gave him a xmas pressie when dropping him home one night after college he thanked me and hugged me and we shared a hug for a fe... (341 words)

After b/f found out I'd been sexually abused, he no longer wanted to have sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - soo, im 18 years old and my boyfriend and i are ready to have sex. the thing is when i was younger i was sexually abused. ive have years of therapy and ive come to terms with what happened to me. ive accepted it and im ok, and even with what happened to me i still consider ... (95 words)

He can't provide a stable environment for us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years and have a son together. i love him with all of my heart but he is very lazy and demanding. i want to be with him but he cant provide a stable enviornment for me and my son. i been talking to an old friend and he says that i ... (98 words)

I'm worried about sex as fingering hurts a lot

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hii i was just wondering, me and boyfriend are going to have sex but im a virgin and even him putting one finger inside me hurts, so i have no idea how i'm ment to fit anything else in there? is this normal? am i just naturally tight? or is it going in the wrong angle mayb... (77 words)

Recently divorced: will I be able to move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was married for 3 years I got divorced recently because I caught my husband cheating on me........ and ever since the divorce my friends are pushing me to go on dates but I just can see myself with anyone right now, I am still hurt from the divorce and I just feel depressed ... (65 words)

Getting over my soulmate

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, My situation is rather complex, or perhaps it is not,but it feels it as been over a number of years. I am giving you the shortest version possible. I met a wonderful man 10 years ago, when I was 19 and I have to say was love at first sight. From then on, each day I ... (1163 words)

How do I get attention from women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 25 years old every women i try to ask out either doesnt seem interested in me or seems to always have a boyfriend what is the best way to get a womens attention i have tryed the dress yourself up thing, the be friends thing, dancing seen i am horrible at it but i'll give ... (71 words)

Obsessing about a dream, and I don't leave the house

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

25 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - first off im 18 and male . i feel hopeless. i was perfectly fine 2 months ago. i cant stop feeling like this. it started in 9th grade, when my HOCD started. i thought i could be gay. it was so scary n depressing. now everything is better about that. but i didnt tell anyone. it ... (193 words)

Is my girlfriend a player?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My question is about if I am being played by a woman or not. I am 36 and have been dating a 42 year old for over 13 months. When we met, she said she was divorced, a mother of 3, and just got out of a relationship with a younger man of an unknown time frame. All she did was ... (240 words)

How can I improve my self-confidence?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5554 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I believe that most of my problems are rooted in a low self-esteem...I just came out of a 2 day seminar about giving presentations where the teacher gave me a pretty deep feedback in saying I was overall an ok presenter but reminded him of a little girl, my body language... (138 words)

3 way relationship not working so well. Where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5531 days ago

25 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm having trouble deciding on what to do here. If anyone could help me with some suggestions it would be much appreciated. I recently started a 3 way relationship and I am the 3rd person to join into an already 2 way, but my intentions were not to do this 3 way thing but to ... (177 words)

Head over heels in love with my step-brother. Stop, or see where it leads?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my mother and step father married when I was 11 years old my mother has two children, my sister and myself. My step father has three, one older than I, and then two younger. My step brother is only six months younger than me. This past summer he went to basic training and ... (186 words)

Cheated just before we got married, and now he wants a threesome to even the score!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I cheated on my husband 2 years ago a few months before we got married. I had sex with another man one time (the biggest mistake of my life). Now he wants to make me feel the same way that I made him feel back then by having a threesome this weekend with another female. He ... (252 words)

I have no experience with men! How do I know what he wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I need some tips/help, I am a shy 26 year old who has no experience with guy, I always feel awkward around them but a guy I used to work with has asked me out and I really want to go but I am so shy, we had a kiss at the christmas night out and when he left he said he would ... (116 words)

Deeply in love with a married man and at an impass

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Almost a year ago I met this man. I was married, (unhappily) He was in the same boat. We both have kids as well. We got together. Not only did we become physical but we were actually bestfriends and talk everyday, had drinks and did stuff together. Then it happened, we fell ... (228 words)

Commitment phobia boyfriend

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What am I supposed to do when my boyfriend (been together for 3 years, lived together 2 years) tells me that: - in order to be fun a relationsip must be commitment-free - he's not sure he's gonna love me forever because he might not like me in the future -we're not buildi... (199 words)

Family hates my boyfriend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - 3 years ago my parents forbid me from seeing my bf. Weve been on and off since then. Hes 20 and Im about to be 18 in less than 6 months so theres really not much they can do about it.Im sick of sneaking around with him because I love him and I love my parents and I want them ... (195 words)

She told me I must get her pregnant in the next few weeks and we've never had sex!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5077 days ago

25 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 18, left college, going to university in September, my girlfriend's 17. She's told me I must get her pregnant in the next few weeks. I told her this is just not going to happen, and I said I will leave the relationship if she attempts this. We've never even had sex ... (266 words)

Is this an STD? Cancer? I'm scared!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 and about 3 months ago me and my boyfriend started having sex. The first time we didn't use a condom (I know it was stupid, please don't lecture me on it :/ And he withdrew before he was about to finish) We were both virgins and had never kissed or had intimate con... (298 words)

I'm 15, he's 20, is this ok?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5090 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i am 15 going to be 16 in 2 weeks and i have been dating a guy who is 20 we have been together 4 2 months now is that ok ??? cause sometimes it doesn't feel right when we first met we didn't talk much but we liked each other a lot from the moment we met but he tried not to ... (154 words)

I believe the other woman more than I believe my boyfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i found a girl's number in my bf phone. i asked who it was and he lied. couple days later i found out it was this same girl ive saw be4 on his page on the internet couple months ago. so i told him to call her and have a convo with her. ask her why is she calling and how she got ... (255 words)

Do I have the right to not want my wife to see naked men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife went to school for massage therapy. She was in childcare, but not certified, so not making much money,, and wasn't happy. She's now working in a massage place. Not a seedy place with oriental showers and the such you might think of, but supposedly a respectfull plac... (204 words)

What should I do if my girlfriend is having phone sex with another guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - She usually sends erotic messages to him right when he gets out of work. They are co-workers, so she knows his schedule. I found out she was sending him dirty stories about themselves and ones she would make up. How I found out was that she would be sending these while I was ... (211 words)

I've got a bumpy clit. What to do about it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Um, Hello. I Just realized I had a bump near where my clit is. and I dunno how it got there. When I went to lay back down, I noticed my underwear Rubs against that part a bit hard. Maybe that's why it's there? When I got back up and tried to fix my panties, it hurt more. I ... (107 words)

Do you know any married men that have managed to stay faithful?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5548 days ago

25 August 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Do you all know of any married guys who are faithful?... (11 words)

Is the vagina usually always warm or only when turned on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Pls is the virgina always warm in temperature or is it only when the lady is sexualy excited or wet.... (20 words)

Why can't I leave the married man I'm living with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age - I am living with a married man, who is not divorced, or seeking divorce, wife left 4 years ago, neither is legally separated, yet both are property owners of the house that this man lives in and which I reside with him at his request. Did not know about it until months after, ... (186 words)

Does this count as rape?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 20 year old male who has been screwing around with my 35 year old married neighbor for 5 years. She is a beautiful woman who has introduced me to many things sexually. She is very kinky and very persuasive. Over the years she has given me blow jobs, had sex with me, ... (246 words)

How do I go about finding someone that will accompany my sexual fettish for being treated like a baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - hi i'm not quite sure how to word this so i'll just spit it out. i have been looking for someone to to diaper me and treat me as a baby. but not having any luck. could you please help me? i suffer from acute infantilism disorder because of the trauma i went threw as a child ... (84 words)

My partner is away with work & always seems too tired to speak to me. Are these signs worrying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of five years is currently in another country to work on a company project. He will be away for two months. I am putting every effort possible to keep the communication between us however I somehow feel that he is not as enthusiastic as I am everytime we chat ... (242 words)

Too young to be engaged & in love with someone else, what do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5542 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old and engaged. I have also been in love with a different man for almost 6 years. Recently, the man that i've been in love with for 6 years confessed how he wants to be with me and has had mutual feelings for the same amount of time. I can't help but have strong ... (107 words)

I'm pregnant & he isn't taking it seriously & is even messing about in txt with my mate! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i need some advice. iv been with my fiance for a year, im pregnant with his baby and we moved into our own house 3weeks ago my bf has lied to me in the past and iv always been worried hes cheatin on me as he hides his phn and deletes msgs, one nite i decided to look at ... (403 words)

He threatened to hurt me, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - sorry-it's a bit of a long story.It started 3 years sgo-me and my boyfriend had a physical fight and I had bruises,a few days after that I started seeing him in places he should'nt have been-like near my mum's when I never took him there I kept seeing the same people on the ... (395 words)

He's questioning me all the time. I don't know what to do. Please help...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5553 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im seventeen years old and ive been going out with my boyfriend since i was fifteen, however we have been friends since i was twelve. By looking at our relationship from an outsiders perspective, you would think that it was perfect. Even my own mother thinks that my boyfriend ... (276 words)

I am 18, she is 13, can we get engaged?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5546 days ago

25 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i like a girl in Mansfield but she love me will it be ok to get engaged to her, they are 13 years and i am 18 years old ? ... (32 words)

How & where should I come out to my best friend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I'm an 18 year old girl and I've recently come to terms with the fact that i'm gay, or at least bi-sexual. But i can now acknowledge that I am attracted to females. I've realised that I'm in love with my female best friend, who is straight and has a boyfriend.(However she ... (409 words)

She slept with someone on holiday, within weeks of us getting together. Is that a bad sign for the future?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So, I’ve been seeing this girl for about a month (long distance) and we started having sex after 3 weeks. She had a preexisting trip to Europe she started calling me two weeks into the trip on a daily basis. Joking (not expecting that she would) I asked her if she hooked up ... (226 words)

Am I right to be angry over lack of contact in a long distance relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5151 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I just want to get something clarified in my head and would like some opinions. To cut a v.v. long story short, about 16 months ago i was in a very happy and loving relationship with someone for 2.5 years. Then 16 months ago, I decided to move to thailand for 6 m... (398 words)

Too far to love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey i am 16 and met this girl online shes gonna be 15 in november. we talk forever online and when its too late to use the computer we text up until 3:30. I have never really felt about this girl the way i did any other girl. were so much alike she understands everything im ... (101 words)

17 year old girl and 15 year old boy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 going on 18 in December. My boyfriend is 15. I live in Michigan and he lives in Wisconsin. When I turn 18, am I considered a pedophile? We love each other very much and would like to keep dating, but he's a little worried I might get in trouble for being with him w... (63 words)

Will my ex come back...I'm pregnant and alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been going out with a man now for a little over a year. We have had several breakups in the last 6 months, so very on and off but the most we were apart was 30 days. Anyway I really want things to work out with this guy. In the last breakup, I thought he was never coming ... (492 words)

Cheating by texting....I need advice

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5530 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for over 4 years, we were together for 4 years before we got married. Across our marriage we have the normal peeks and valleys but i have always trusted him 100% in regards to being faithful to me. We still have good sex not as much as we ... (691 words)

I think my girlfriend is cheating on me but she always manages to make me feel like I'm in the wrong!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5543 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I've been in a relationship with the same girl for over five years - off and on - more on than off, though. We've had ups and downs and have mostly worked through them. Problem as of late is that I think she's cheating on me, maybe she isn't but she's definitely actin... (869 words)

I want to block out my past and move on with my life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi im a 20 year old female and im always stressed out and always have been since i can remember, even at my boyfriend who doesnt even do anything really wrong. Im so upset and angry all the time i think sometimes its about my past, i always have nightmares and im scared to go ... (327 words)

Secretly in love with a girl who has a double personality!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my best girl friend which I love and adore has sort of a double personality. When she is with me she is sweet and adorable! However, whenever she is with her friend, which I think is a bad influence, she become this wild party girl who jump any hot guy in the area. Basically, ... (161 words)

I want my married boyfriend for myself

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5539 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i lost my virginity to my married boyfriend...as started out, i never had a boyfriend and was never "explored" by any male...with that, he told me that i should regard him as my husband as he's the first to explore me..his wife is not really a good person i would say and is ... (273 words)

My parents are so cruel! I really wish I wasn't their child

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is my pathetic, sorry life story. pls dont ignore i need friends now more than ever. My mother has not been the one i always hope to have. All my life, she never corrects me calmly instead she yells, beat or she ignores me for long. i have 5 siblings and am the third, my... (418 words)

Baby on the way..how do I stop freaking out about every little thing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my most recent ex are having a baby together, but we are not together anymore. we have discussed getting back together and want to make it work for the baby (plus we still love eachother). the thing is that i freak out on him about stupid stuff, and i dont know why i do ... (73 words)

What do men prefer thongs or knickers?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5544 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this is kind of two questions in one, but bare with me. First of all I'm in a relationship with a guy who's 4 years older than me (I'm 15, he's 19) but I met him because he's my best friend's brother, so I got to know him around his family, so I know he's genuine and I can ... (145 words)

She's a daddy's girl

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, please help me, I love a girl, Priya, I am a student of 10 standard. I m totally flirt on her. The problem with me is that she does not talks wid boyz, she does not know anything abt love, she is just her dad's girl. All of my classmates know that I love her too much, sh... (107 words)

Am I bench warmer or is this dude just too shy to make a move?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy comes over my house pretty much every nite. We have dinner together, watch movies, have a few wines and we talk about everything. I really really dig him but I am NOT a first mover!! Lately he has been sleeping in my bed with me and we cuddle all nite yet he never ... (268 words)

I want to break up with him for the final time and find real love!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with one guy for 10 years. but 5 years ago we breaked and we start again new love before three months but I couldn't continue with him. he is always come with negative thinking. he sent me bad text message every day. We don't have age difference. so now I want to ... (68 words)

I don't know how to make my girlfriend believe that I love her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I love my girlfriend and I told her this, but she and I got into an arguement of how we don't see each other enough, but we already discussed this and I told her it was because my parents are strict and she got mad and was hanging up on me, so I got mad because everytime I ... (198 words)

I'm stuck in a twisted love triangle with two of my best friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm stuck in some kind of twisted love triangle with 2 of my best friends and I feel it's going to ruin all of our friendships but I don't know what to do. Me and Leanne* have been best friends since birth and Ste* is our closest boy friend, we've both had soft spots for h... (337 words)

My boyfriend thinks it was ok for his friends to spike my drink!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

- My bf's friends spiked my drink with alcohol. This really upset me because I dont drink. He thinks its ok that they spiked my drink. He doesnt understand why its upsetting and completely wrong. Why doesnt he understand? I was sick for the next 3 days because of this. ... (53 words)

Difficulties with my step children, how should I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age - I have been remarried 5 years. I came to the marriage with 4 children and my husband has 2. His children are not involved in our family and very rarely come to see us. His daughter at one point( when kicked out of her bilogical mother's home) lived with us for 5 months.During ... (249 words)

My crush likes my best friend, how do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i really like this guy but he likes my best friend. i thought he liked me because he kept giving me signals and telling me stuff that no one else knows. how do i get over him? he asked me if she liked him and said that he didnt really like her but would consider dating her. how ... (64 words)

My boyfriend answered his phone during sex! Why is he acting so weird?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My guy never answers his phone for me when he is with his friends, but, When we are together he is texting and he has even answered the phone in the middle of sex! He has been acting really weird lately. He also just told me a few hours ago that "He can't be himself around me." ... (185 words)

Are my periods just irregular or could I be pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, i need help. And before anyone judges me, i know i shouldn't have done this, but i'm on her for help not to be patronised. I went to the doctors for the birth control pill and i got told i was to start it on the first day of my next period. Now my periods aren't alw... (148 words)

Girls - Is a 6 inch penis big enough?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

25 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I just turned 17 and currently have a penis size of 6 inches erect. girls is that good? also will my penis grow over the next couple of years as i continue to grow?... (34 words)

I don't think girls find me attractive!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5566 days ago

25 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm a typical 16 year old boy in a situation I bet everyone has been in, so I'm hoping you guys can help me :) Basically I've getting quite depressed recently because I like a girl but I don't think she finds me attractive, its been like that all my life, I always ... (131 words)

The only issue in our relationship is that he never says "I Love You"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, I know I may not hear what I want to hear, but I'd like to get some perspective on my situation. I'm sorry if it's a bit long, but bear with me. I'm just about 23 and my boyfriend is 24. We will have been together 18 months as of September 2009. After 4 month... (282 words)

I don't want to make him choose between me and the mother of his baby but I don't want to be the other woman either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

25 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I Have been friends with a guy "R" for almost 9 years. We Met in school. We had plan on dating the summer after we met but are life's got complicated so we decided not to add more drama. We stayed friends but never brought it up again. We never stopped flirting. He started ... (317 words)

My girlfriend doesn't know if she's in love with me anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

25 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my gf have been together for almost 2 years now. We were having problems a while back because I wasn't doing anything with my life and I wasn't making any effort in attempting to fix it. We broke up for a good 2 months or so and just recently got back together. I used ... (163 words)

Our relationship has turned sour because I put on weight!

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Iv been seeing this guy for quite a while now, everything was going so perfect! He was just the sweetest. I never thought it would last as he really wasnt my type but he really went out of his way to win me over and i ended up falling in love with him. This summer he had to ... (588 words)

Can you have a relationship without doing oral?

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - can you have a relationship without going into other stuff like oral? just wondering...... (14 words)

We used to have a great relationship but now we have a son he doesn't want to see him!

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, and we have a baby together. We had a great relationship,but now that we have our son he dont call he doesnt see him. So i was wondering does he still want to be in the relationship and be there for his son or just do his own life?... (58 words)

One part of me wants to leave and the other part has fallen hard for him, what do I do?

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been friends with a man for about a year before i had any sensual relationship that lasted 2 months when he then decided to go back to his x, the mother of his 2 children.she wanted him back When she found out that he was moving on. Well she forbade us to even talk ... (171 words)

I'm in love with a married man!

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - for the first time i am opening up my problem .. here it is i met a guy in my office and somehow i liked him at the beginning and slowly we became good friends and i came to know that he is married. then many a times i decided that i shud nt talk to him neither he shud. b... (329 words)

I want to be sexual with him, are his morals holding him back?

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I love my guy to death even though it's ling distance. We are both from good Christian families and have the same morals and beliefs. However I went through a slump a few months before I met him and lost my virginity and had occasional sex. We were on a camping trip and it ... (167 words)

If hymen is broken, why do I still bleed?

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So my guy and I haven't had sex yet, but we do do stuff. I'm pretty sure, he's broken my hymen. So why is it that when he fingers me, I still bleed sometimes??... (34 words)

His ex is a manipulator but he wishes that her and I were friends!

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been going with my guy for over a year to this day, but yet, I still feel worried about his crazy ex. Yes I know my guy would never cheat on me, but this "bitch" has tried everything in her power to break us up, and gain him back. The worst part is that whenever she does ... (122 words)

She doesn't believe a word I say

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25 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok... I have a question im so in love with this one girl and me and her have dated before and our relationship went downhill simply cuz she lost trust in me and now she claims she doesnt like me anymore but there have been signs to show that she still has feelings for me deep ... (117 words)

Threesome with her virgin friend?

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25 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have have been dating this girl for about a year that i care strongly for and she cares for me the same but i was wondering if it would be okay if we had a threesome with her friend? there is only one thing her friend is a virgin what should i do? i dont want to end p hurting ... (63 words)

I want him to be more romantic!

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in this relationship for 8months and a bit and i feel like i do so much stuff for him. latly i have felt so unappreciated and like i dont exist around his friends. its not like him to do this. so i asked him if he could treat me better and be more romantic(like his ... (81 words)

Is she showing me she's still free? Or just trying to make me jealous?

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25 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I met this girl. Amazing. I met her on tour with my group and flew her out to stay with me a month after returning home. She was sweet to me in a way that I can say she is unequivocally the best girlfriend I've ever had. And this qualification I can make after her being ... (402 words)

Sex, sperm and condoms!

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I went to my friends house and me and my boyfriend slept together and we use a condem, when we were done he dropped it on the table. When i went to grabb it i had sperm on my hands but when i wiped it off i ran my hand down it to make sure that there wasnt any more on it ... (161 words)

I want him to know I'm inviting him over sex. How should I say it?

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - If you ask a man you have started dating over to your house for dinner , will he think that's a euphamism for come on over and we'll have sex? I'm kind of hoping it will because I've been on two dates with a guy but they were just coffee/ movie and we've just kissed and I wan... (68 words)

Is this inconsiderate of him or do you think I'm overreacting?

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has no problem telling me that other women he comes accross or sees on TV are better looking then me. I would prefer believing that in his eyes I am the most beautiful woman in the world. I know there are women more attractive then me, but I don't need him to tell ... (103 words)

Boys say I'm pretty but then they're not interested. Is there something wrong with me? I really want a boyfriend.

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok i know im only 14 and lots of people would say im to young to have a boyfriend but i dont think so. lots of my friends have had boyfriends and stuff but not me. there plenty of nice fella around but none of them seem 2 b intressed in me. is there something wrong? i dont ... (141 words)

I don't want to seem like a hermit but I really hate partying. Any ideas?

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25 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am about to start uni and I have a problem. I hate partying, clubbing, and drinking. When friends invite me to things in the past I usually try to come up with an excuse not to go. I force myself to go to really important occasions like birthdays. It drives me crazy ... (344 words)

She made a joke but it's left me feeling really hurt. I really need advice.

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25 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys I need help here.. I mean I been with my gf for like a month and a half I know it's not a long time but I been friends with her for a year. Anyway u know me and her play alot and joke around alot. But there's one specific joke I didn't like her legs we're hurting and ... (349 words)

Are his excuses true or do you think he just doesn't want to live with me?

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya can anyone offer any advice? im 19yrs old and my bf is 23, iv been with him for 13months, im 5months pregnant and we moved into our own house 2weeks ago, all the stuff in the house (tvs, comp n tables, wardrobe, draws, pots n pans etc) is mine what iv brought up frm my m... (277 words)

My best friend and I had our first arguement in five years.. but I'm in love with him and don't know what to do

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm young I will admit, I have been best friends with this guy as long as I can remember, I never really focused on it as anything other than a great friendship. One of my friends said " you 2 will be married one day". At the time I just smirked thinking how dumb she was for ... (222 words)

My girlfriend wants to break uo with me. How can I stop her?

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25 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of 7 months wants to break-up, because I love her, but she doesn't love me. She says she, "wants to stop hurting me". What can I do!?... (29 words)

How do I stop freaking out on my baby's daddy?

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am an 18 year old girl that is pregnant and single. my babys daddy is there for me through this thing, but the fact is i still love him. we went through a hard time and we are no longer together. me as a woman im beginning to grow up for my baby, but in the back of my head i ... (86 words)

Porn makes me feel insecure and not good enough, so how do I get over that my boyfriend was watching?

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my bf have been together 2 yrs and I recently had a baby.well 4 weeks after the baby my bf started looking at porn cuz I was recovering from labor and tearing. Well he got addicted to it and I didn't even kno he was doing it in the 1st place. I found out by looking on ... (179 words)

My mother-in-law is too clingy. Please help?

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my boyfriend have been together for a year now and i know that he's the one. i love his family and they have much love and respect for me, however there is a lil bit of a problem lately. his father passed away a year ago right after we got together, and his mother is ... (217 words)

I don't want to scare him off, how can I let him know I like him?

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Theres this guy that I really like. I mean butterflies, the whole 9 yards. I dont think I've ever felt this way about anyone to be honest. Heres my problem. First of all, he lives in another state. Secondly he is in a band [but not a typical rock band...no groupies and stu... (216 words)

I can't think of why my friend is acting differently toward me. Can anyone help?

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25 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so I have this friend that I like a lot. We've been friends for a couple years but I never wanted to ask her out because of our friendship. In the past couple months we've been talking a lot more. Over the summer I asked her if she wanted to go on a date but she said that ... (299 words)

He's paying for everything for his ex -- is he playing me for a fool?

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. at first he was paying everthing for his and his ex wife house because he has a 16 year old daughter. She is now almost 20 years old and living with her boyfriend. My boyfriend is still paying everthing for his ex wife beca... (193 words)

I'm willing to forgive his faults: can this marriage be saved?

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have myself in a bit of a predicament. I have three children and have been married for 14 years. Like all marriages ours have had its ups and downs. We were married young. I was 18 and he was 19. Neither of us had been in a serious relationship before. After being ... (804 words)

Can anyone explain these verses?

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - [Moderator note: these verses were written by Horace.] My boyfriend wrote give me this poem but i dont really understand what it means. Can anyone explain to me this poem by stanza? Painters and poets our indulgence claim, Their daring equal, and their art the same." I ... (771 words)

Is it possible to have a strong teenage relationship without sex?

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my bf have been dating for 5 months now i don't think thats relevent but anyways, I was just wondering if it's possible to have a real strong relationship without sex? Ask questions and give me answers and opinions please. =].... (46 words)

Why would they be stalking me?

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - has anyone ever heard of someone stalking someone purely for the fun of it-proper stalking, not just checking someones myspace or whatever. I am being stalked by my so called boyfriend and his friends-the boyfriend is NOT obsessed with me-we only see each other once every ... (226 words)

Can Jewish guys be in relationships with Christian girls?

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked this guy for a long time. He's Jewish and I'm a Christian, but that really never bothered me in any way. Today we were rehearsing for our school musical, we have a scene where two people are trying to find their perfect matches. The guy wanted a Christian girl who ... (267 words)

I'm 16, what is the oldest man I could date without being frowned upon?

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What is the oldest partner a 16 year old girl in the UK can date without it without frowned upon socially?... (21 words)

My heart cannot survive this hurt!

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend off and on for 16yrs... in this time i found out i cannot carry a child. he left me 8 yrs ago...got a girl pregnant and i took him back i felt i could not give this to him so i accepted his child as my own. well low and behold the same girl got... (115 words)

I'm 15, pregnant and scared of having an abortion

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm fifteen years old and I am two months pregnant. I've been in a rocky relationship with my boyfriend for the past nine months. My boyfriend doesn't come from a stable enviroment. Has yet to get a job, and ever since I found out I was pregnant, we have been fighting mo... (219 words)

I'm not a monogamous guy - will there ever be another woman like her?

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25 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My ex-girlfriend and I broke up just over ten years ago after a seven year relationship. I'll admit, I wasn't the nicest guy in the world. I did cheat on her and left her for other women several times throughout our relationship. Well, now I'm 42 and have become a bit of an ... (225 words)

Is it selfish to go off to uni when you're in a serious relationship?

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for 18 months now. I'm 18 and he's 22, every things great. we love each other so much and i am so happy with him. Anyway the problem is, he's a plumber/electrician and still lives with his parent. Whereas i have just finished my A levels ... (246 words)

My girlfriend rarely shows me affection. Help!

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25 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So i've been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years now and she finds it hard to show me affection. We have pet names for each other (Muffin/Puffin) And I call her Muffin all the time and she rarely calls me Puffin. Point being is that she finds it hard to show affection (in ... (119 words)

How do I get over being in love and get on with my life?

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25 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Hey. So I'm fifteen years young and crazy in love with this guy.. let's call him Bob. The thing is my parents made me break up with him (he's in college) and I havn't seen him for months or heard from him. I missed him so much. Then put of the blue he called m... (178 words)