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writes:My boyfriend has lived in my house 3.5 years. At first I paid his way, then in the last 1.5 years he paid mine. I own the house and he pays all the bills. At first I had money, now I don't and he has money.When I got tired of his daily emails and abuse saying I don't make enough money (55k/year) I took off to Florida for five days to be with a friend and give him room to leave. He didn't leave, When I got back he tearfully said he realized how bad he wanted me. While I was in Florida he slept with his co-worker Stacey. Anyway, I really want to never see him again and want him out of my house. I'm tired of him being a liar and player and just want to be on my own.Any ideas?
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (5 August 2009):
 Pack his shit and put it on the curb. Tell him to call Stacey to pick him up. Don't let him use your phone to do it though.
Get all the bills put back in your name and move the hell on from this cheating loser.
Better luck next time.
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (5 August 2009):
I have a great Idea, being that he has been living there, I would draw up a eviction notice and have him served pack his stuff and put his sorry ass out. I don't care what he pay's he is using you and to go off and cheat is just ridiculous. I don't understand why he wouldn't leave. All you have to do is legally evict him and send him packing he doesn't deserve anything good. He is lucky you aren't tearing up his stuff and doing stuff to get you locked up. I don't think anyone would blame you for wanting him gone. If it is case of you not working then you need to get financially straight then let him go. He has no respect for you or your house. It is funny how easy it is to get into a relationship but how hard it is to get out. Girl let him go now.
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reader, Charlpop  +, writes (5 August 2009):
 I would tell him straight how you feel.
He cheated on you, which is pretty unforgivable in my eyes, and he's been saying awful things to you.
If you're sick of his behaviour, you should tell him so.
It's your life, your house and your career, so it's your choice.
Good luck!
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