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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Please help me decide which one I should pick... in 48 hours!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Please help me decide now, which path I choose, between two men who love me and want to marry me? I need to work this out in next 48 hours as I have been given an ultimatum by the second: Boyfriend of 10 years Good, solid, kind, my age, wants children, good job, has be... (268 words)

My boyfriend's parents just got divorced, and I don't have a clue what to say!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) age 36-40 - my boyfriend's paretns just got divorced . i have no idea what to do or say to him i am cluless . i'll meet him tomorrow please any advice on what to do cause i\m normally the one who runs out when something like this happens cause i never know what to do . ... (54 words)

He is always saying other girls are cute and hot!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - he says he loves me but he will say that other girls are hot and cute when he posts a picture of someone famous he will say shes cute or hot and he does skype with another girl and and he says that im all he wants but idk it makes me feel bad bout myself cuz he says that any ... (92 words)

Our relationship is ending soon... but should we break things off earlier?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm having a rough time just now. I'm in a relationship that is going to finish in a few weeks time, because we are both going off to Universities and neither of us want a long distance relationship. But for the past couple of weeks, I've found my partner to be quite a lot of ... (371 words)

She wants me to break off all contact with my parents until they apologize to her and her parents!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

20 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Both my wife and I are in our mid-twenties and have been having this problem since the very beginning. We are of indian / pak descent so please keep that in mind when reading this post. My parents are very traditional - traditional beliefs, etc. Her parents are very westernized ... (773 words)

I'm worried that our relationship could be considered cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi ya'll. there's this new guy at work, really cute and really nice + we clicked almost immediately. well we've gotten quite close over the past few weeks and i've really enjoyed getting to know him better. his marriage seems to have hit the rocks and he's thinking of getting a ... (122 words)

Was this a miscarriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Near enough last year, my boyfriend and I were messing around and his penis (which was wet from pre ejaculation) touched the inside tip of my vagina for like, 2 seconds; 2 months ago in October. Before then, my periods were pretty regular arriving on the 12th, and quite he... (171 words)

Why this sudden change in his behavior? Personally AND professionally?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, Please I need your advice and opinion about what I have been through in the last 2 weeks. It is about me and a guy at work. I am so confused it's making me ill. So I have to get this off my chest so prepare your self for lots of details. We met a month ago as a w... (1005 words)

Should I claim my child or just let them alone to raise it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

20 August 2009 (M)

age - Im in a relationship with a woman who is 28 an im 49,we just found out she is pregnant,the catch shes married an i have been seeing her for over a year,my question,i want the baby more then anything if its mine,but i dont see much chance of us being together,should i just wal... (71 words)

I Just Can't Seem To Understand Her!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, to put it this way, I proposed to my Girlfriend, She said no, but she says she still wants to be lovers, I want to take it to a next level, and she's rejecting, we've been dating for 7 years, this isn't the first time I proposed and not the first time she said no, I'm ... (140 words)

The ex or the new lover?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have recently split from a relationship that i have a disabled child with of 4years. i met someone else and rushed into things quite quickly.i love my new lover to pieces and am happy with him, my son loves him too. my new lover recently proposed to me and i accepted, when my ... (222 words)

I was bullied and doubt myself...Does she like me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

20 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - okay I'm 25 years old 6'3 brown hair not fat and workout and I have low self esteem due to being made fun of in school for being russian or whatever but when I was like 16 and walked around the streets girls always honked or yelled hey baby or something almost whenever I wlked ... (249 words)

I'm trying to do the best for her and she's distancing herself from me

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

20 August 2009 (M)

age - Should I admit to seeing my partners writings and how can I deal with this? Recently my partner made a list of things she wanted. 1. To visit her family. (500 miles away) 2. To go on holiday abroad to the sea. 3. To move in to a larger house in the country with ... (1646 words)

I'm 15 and in love with my 33 year old teacher

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5572 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I am 15 years old and am madly in love with my 33 year old teacher, and i know most of you will probably say it’s just a stupid crush, to stop being so stupid and move on, but honestly i know for sure it isn’t a stupid crush, and believe me i cant move on. I started to ... (818 words)

Why am I so vain in the beginning of relationships?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - In the beginning of relationships, after the initial attraction, I always try really hard to look really good in front of the guy. Like if we go on a date or if we are just hanging out, I always want to look good.. and I hate it! It's like a reflex now. I spend hours fixing, ... (157 words)

Bi curious and want to experiement with women but don't know how or where to look

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've always dated men but have often fantasised about having sex with a woman...I know this will sound dumb but how would you go about instigating something like this?... (29 words)

Flirting in the work-place. Is touching allowed or would this send out the wrong message to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello. Just a very quick question about how to interpret a co-worker's behaviour. I teased her about something the other day and she reached out as if to touch me on the arm but then withdrew at the very last second. Can I read anything into this? Surely she would either touch ... (103 words)

He's 18 I'm 14, can he go to jail?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am currently talking to a 18year old and i am 14 and i would like to know if He could go to Jail??... (24 words)

My life is going downhill

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (?) age 41-50 - hello, my problem is that im doubting my reason to live, latley my sex life has just gone downhill. my husband is ignoreing my signs that i want to say that im attractive. i have no idea what to do and on top of that my children are out of control they wont listen to me ive to ... (92 words)

What do guys want girls to do sexually?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I lost my virginity in Feb this year, to my boyfriend of 3 years. So i'm really clueless about sex : / Could any guys give me pointers about how to make my bf happy in bed? Btw don't tell me rim job because he won't go for that... I would but he won't lol All I know about ... (78 words)

My ex got married and I'm in bits

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - please dont think me a bad person but i need to write this. my ex fiance got married recently-i have to admit i was completely gutted. i made a huge mistake losing him-although we were both to blame for the split and now i dont know what to do. recently he did try to conta... (153 words)

She's having a baby with a man who looks almost identical to her brother - Is this weird?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend's sister is pregnant at 17, and it's with one of his friends - drunken one night stand with a consequence. The thing I am finding weird is that the father of the baby is almsot identical to my boyfriend - her brother! Even his family mix them up sometimes in pho... (74 words)

Why won't my fiance sleep with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i dont know what to do with my fiancee and our sex life i ask for sex in a nice way and not just oh i want sex and i still get turned away, it getts me realy frustrated and most time so angry because i dont want to argue with her but more so that i dont know what is ... (253 words)

Does anyone have any experience dating an Italian man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4558 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 26 year old and dating a 29 year old Italian man. Does anyone have experience with Italians? Are the stereotypes of the men actually a reality in most cases? The relationship is not yet to a point of where I can't emotionally get out if I need to, although there a... (311 words)

I'm 22 and don't know if I am a virgin yet I've had sex

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22, and I had sex alot with my boyfriend and i never had blood coming out of me and i'm supposed to be virgin! and sometimes in certain positions there's pain inside me ! i wanna know how to know if am virgin or not ! and is it possible to have sex more than 30 times for ... (78 words)

Why does he stare me in the eyes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - when im with my boyfriend alone, he would lay down with his head in my lap and stare at me in the eyes. how does he feel when he does this and why does he do it?... (37 words)

Is it okay if a 24 year old has a crush on a girl that just turn 16 years old?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it okay if a 24 year old has a crush on a girl that just turn 16 years old? Is it wrong for a 24 year old to masturbate to pictures of a 16 year old? There this neighbor that I know that is 16 years old and I am 24 years old. I can’t help but being attracted to her... (157 words)

Do I contact the married man I had an affair with or leave it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok here goes,im worried about asking this question to my friends as im frightened of there reaction. Three years ago i had an affair with a married man,i was married too and not long given birth,my husband was an alcoholic,i was suffering with postnatal depression and he was t... (161 words)

Should I break it off with her despite her current loyalty

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

20 August 2009 (?) age 41-50 - breaking up is hard to do, ive learned, however ive never seriously done so. My girlfriend and i have been together for almost 10months, before that another 4months, and before that about a week. We met while highschoolishly young and naive, briefly dated, then parted. ... (370 words)

Boy on Msn says pick me or your boyfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) age 30-35 - i have been talking to this guy for about 4years on msn and a really do like him like actually soo much but he lives soo far away and he wants us to be more than friends but i just cant see it working because of the distance and hes away on holiday right now and says that i h... (144 words)

How could I win her back or should I let sleeping dogs lie?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I recently split up with a girl I was going out with for about 3 months. I guess the main reason was that I wasn't sure if we had enough common interests. She kind of agreed but we were both a bit upset. I'm still in touch and have met, just the two of us, a few times ... (202 words)

Bi or Bi-curious? Not sure how to take the next step

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently i have become much more open about things with my best friend,for example, I told her I have a vibrator and I masturbate. Also, we both admitted to watching lesbian porn. We've kissed once or twice just a simple peck on the lips and we sleep naked in the same bed ... (138 words)

We've been going out for 6 months, is it to early to be in love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok well basically I am in love with this girl who is also my age, I have been in love with her for around 3 months going out for 6 months. I was just wondering is it to early to be in love? I personally think i have matured enough to understand what love is and exactly how ... (101 words)

He constantly lies and seems to be cheating, should I get a divorce?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am almost 8 months pregnant and am having serious marriage problems. We have been married for just over a year and our arguments are more and more serious. This time we have separated for over ten days now and have been talking about divorce. The main reason is that he const... (312 words)

Is it normal for girls to check out other guys and talk about it with the guy theyre having a relationship with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was on the phone with this girl that i have a relationship with. the reason why i didnt say that she my girl friend though is that she has a problem with officially being girlfriend and boyfriends. she always says she doesnt think that the title is necessary. shes still okay ... (568 words)

My partner broke up with me because her daughter doesn't approve! Should I stick around to see if things change or let go?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5587 days ago

20 August 2009 (M)

age - I've been seeing a wonderful woman for almost 7 years. We are in love. Her teenage daughter has broken us up as a couple, and says she doesn't want her mom seeing me anymore. My girlfriend basically told me that has to make sure that her daughter is "emotionally sta... (277 words)

Although it seems unlikely my girlfriend is cheating, it doesn't seem right that there's info regarding dating on her Facebook! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

20 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for 7 years and I think that she may be cheating. The other day she was checking something on her e-mail while I was in the room and i noticed there were all these messages from some kind of online-dating thing. She didn't say anything but she... (234 words)

I asked her out and told her to think about it. It's been a day since, shall I phone her or wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - i left another post saying about a girl well she told me friend that she really likes me and she dont love this other boy. So last night i asked her out and she said i dont know and i said ok can u think about it and she said ok. I havent spoke to her yet so what should i do ... (85 words)

It's been 8 months since my lover and I parted so we could work things out with our spouses, but he told he he still loves me and thinks of me, what does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My lover and I split in January 2009. It broke my heart.we told our spouses that we were in love and they both wanted to work it out. so we decided to try one more time. it was hard to let go for the both of us. It has been 8 months, we spoke briefly the other day when I ... (91 words)

He seemed very interested but since the 2nd date when we had sex, he's been ignoring me. Did I get played?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I am 31 years old and the mother of a 14 year old daughter, and 8 year old son. I am single. Anyhow, I decided to go back to school to advance my degree. I am always being hit on by younger guys, on campus, but never really thought much of it. They don't believe my age and ... (396 words)

Should I be worried about the email I found implying he may have had a casual hook up while he was away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi there, my problem is, well for starters, to me and everyone who knows me, i have a fantastic relationship, i have an brilliant boyfriend who i have been with for apprpx 18 mths, we have lived together the last 9 mths. i have 2 children, one is 6 and youngest is 2. Im 24 yrs ... (330 words)

This guy I've been talking to on msn has told me to choose between him or my boyfriend! What should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

I can't stand being with him when I don't love him...so how do I break up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi So I've been going out with this boy for about a month now. He asked me out a few times and he really likes me eventualy I said yes as I thought I liked him but I have found out that I only like him as a friend. To add to this I was already in love with another guy... (167 words)

Dating insecurities & not feeling good enough for him. Anyone have any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I just started hanging out with a guy. He is really really cute and really nice. And though he does not send out this vibe, I feel like I am not good enough for him. My last relationship lasted for six years off and on. It was a terrible relationship. This ... (159 words)

How do women gain confidence in themselves?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

- How do women gain more confidence in themselves? I always thought if you got a good education, found a good job, made decent money, were fairly happy with your appearance, you would have confidence. But I don't. It's almost like, your either born with it or you're not. I know ... (149 words)

Being friends with an ex. Why is everyone against it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - im friends with my ex ...i am genuine about my friendship and she matters to me a lot as a friend ...but her friends and wellwishers are against this friendship and tell her to break it off because they dont believe in it ...she says she is on my side come what may but i really ... (145 words)

Big age gap & it seems he doesn't love me like I love him..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm a 39 yr old female and I've been seeing a 22 yr old guy! I have fallen in love with him, but have been trying to hide it!! I'm crying as I write this, because last night, we talked, and we've decided to stop the intimate part of our relationship. I told him how I felt ... (286 words)

My girldfriend wasn't upfront with me about her past. How do I get over it?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

20 August 2009 (?) age 36-40 - how do i get over the fact that my girlfriend kissed another guy and he felt all over her before we started dating and she told me way after we've been dating for 4 to 5 months? i checked and didnt find the question at all please post thanks.... (52 words)

Feel down, was angry, and I called the other girl. Was I wrong???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend had seen two other girls while we were together, i lost trust in him, and i noticed he started calling me less, and i always made all the plans, so we were on and off. just recently a new girl that i knew showed up and i found out they were dancing all nite at ... (245 words)

My ex is an unreliable father to our son, should I cut him out of his life or continue to allow access?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex boyfriend of 4 years is so unreliable. I have a two year old son by him, before i got pregnant we were really inlove however when i was pregnant his brother came out of jail and my ex started going out without me, not seeing me as much, not having sex as much, letting me ... (207 words)

Is it possible that my attraction for guys who treat me horribly stems from being sexually abused?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First of I'll start with a bit of history about me; I've dealt with depression, anxiety, paranoia, self-harm and a near miss with an eating disorder. It's all happened together and it was hell. At the same time I was dealing with feelings for my bestfriend who found out a ... (385 words)

What are the chances of being pregnant if he came inside of me 3 times?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what are the chances of me being pregnant if the guy came inside me 3times? ... (17 words)

I am so lost without her, any advice on how to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - HI all, Very briefly, I am not your reader or poster, in fact I am in my thirty's so I do apologise. But I am so confused it's making me ill. So I have to get this off my chest and any ideas, advice etc would be greatly appreciated. I am was with a girl for a year and a ha... (1133 words)

My ex is too involved with my pregnancy and my current boyfriend doesn't understand my mood swings! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - [Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been combined] 1. my ex boyfriend (father to my child of 2yrs) keeps asking me if i am pregnant with my current boyfriend. I cannot understand why he would be so interested, i mean he even said when i have a scan he ... (199 words)

Girlfriend wants to get serious, but are her words and actions too inconsistent?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. I met my girlfriend online on a game program a few months ago. About 2 months after meeting online and talking everyday, all day (we still do it) we met in person (I was supposed to see her, something came up and she came to see me!) none of us have cars so we use g... (758 words)

I feel like I'm turning lesbian!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay im 13 and i feel like im turning lesbian i have a boy friend but i really really want a girl friend ive been feeling this way for a very long time and i love kissing girls so please help me... (44 words)

Questions about sex and dating from a lovesick virgin...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have 3 questions. first say there is a girl who wants to have sex with me and i want to also, how do we consent i'm 15 male but i want to be ready when the situiaion comes up. second there is this girl i've know since i was 9 and i like her and we've dated but never done a... (154 words)

Is there any chance of us getting back together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok,, So i was 13 in the 8th grade, and it was almost the end of the school year... and i started to go out with this boy... and at first i wasnt too sure about the whole thing.. but as we started to hang out and talk,, and get to know each other, i started to actually feel lik... (476 words)

If I have an abortion,will I go to hell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Mod note] Two questions condensed. Hi,im 23 and a single mom,been seeing this lad for 5months now and his treated me better than anybody ever has,an i really am happy with him,the only thing is his only 20,i have my own house with my 2year old son,and iv the other day i was of... (206 words)

How do I get out of something I don't really want to be in?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

20 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I met my girlfriend about six years ago and we've been together coming up 5 years now I think, but I feel like I've lost interest in the relationship. I don't know, cause she's a nice and lovely person. But things just keep coming up, like you know how negative things ... (186 words)

Should I get divorced?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (M)

age - I've been married for over fifteen years and unhappy with my wife for most of that time. After our son was born she developed depression, and to this day she is a changed person - she's nervous, irritable, she shouts and swears, and she hates kissing me and goes for months ... (269 words)

Does he love me if he doesn't tell me so?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age - I have been seeing this guy for 11 months now he calls me at least 2-3 times per day and texts me the same. He tells me I am very special,and he loves spending time with me, we get on very well together. We plan future things like going away for the weekend and day trips.He ... (91 words)

How do we get around the lack of intimacy?

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20 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 21 and have been with my fiance, 26, for over three years now. We have a loving, open relationship and are generally very happy together. We've been through a lot together and it's made us stronger. However, we don't live together, and it is tricky for us both to have sex ... (113 words)

Are they just friends or is he cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive been with my fiance for 6months. He's worked with a woman for the last 5years and i was under the impression that they were just good friends. She left his workplace approx 3 months ago. I looked at his text messages last week to find that he'd been texting her and ... (124 words)

He acted he cared about my pregnancy then bailed out on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5515 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex has 3 daughters of his own from a previous relationship. We often discussed a future together, he said he didnt want anymore children being he already had his own, but many times he said he wanted a child from me. One night he even said he wanted to start trying to have a ... (120 words)

How do you deal with someone who only seems interested when you back off from them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - how do you deal with someone who constantly makes excuses for their behaviour as though they are trying to test just how far they can push you? Example, they didnt email you back for a week as they said they didnt check their emails, or they dont turn up when they say they ... (99 words)

My partner decided to end our relationship but she cant afford to move out, what is the best thing to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

20 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - After 12 years with her she out of the blue said she didnt love me and wanted to split up.She said she can't afford to move out of our house and i can't afford any money to buy her out or move out myself ( i pay all the utility , mortgage etc). I feel depressed and don't know ... (65 words)

Why does my boyfriend always masturbate before sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend likes to see me masterbate before we have sex.. I was just wondering why? Also he always looks me in the eye while having sex what does this mean..... (31 words)

Why does his family call me his "secret lover"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been dating a boy for 5 months now. his family call me his "secret lover". ( i never met his family in person) what does this exactly mean?... (30 words)

Toxic relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have an online male friend that tells me he loves me. I love him as well but not quite the way I think he wants me to. Any time I try to put some distance between us he goes of his nut and acuses me of using him and not loving him anymore. I speak to him almost every day ... (136 words)

Is our marriage going to work or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5603 days ago

20 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and I both were both raised in the same tiny religious community. We got married when we were 18 and 19 and got pregnant right away because we were told that birth control was murder. We've changed a lot of our beliefs since our son was born; we don't go to church ... (443 words)

Did he play me or what? He had g/f he never told me about

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20 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy in a dating site. I am from the Philippines, he is from USA. We have lots of things in common… we agreed to no commitment with anyone, just stay as pals and someday meet in person. He kept telling me that he will not commit, he can’t love online, coz he wouldn’t ... (415 words)

I get embarassed and don't know what to say to guys that approach me! What can I do?

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20 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, i'm horrible around guys, sure i know two or three, but i just can't talk to them at all. some of them are nice but i get all red and confused and then they just walk off and think i'm weird. my friends say i'll get past it but how can i believe them if i can't ... (124 words)

Should I be this anxious going away from my g/f?

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20 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi looking for a bit of advice as to how to deal with a situation. I am going away shortly for 5 days to a festival with my friends. I made the decision to go which wasn’t easy cause I have trust issues with my Gf. Its not her fault cause as of yet she has done nothing t... (517 words)

I'm scared that when we meet he'll be put off by my weight... what do you think?

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20 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I became friends with someone online last year. The first 5 months, there was nothing at all overtly romantic or even flirty in our email communications. We just got along with each other very well. He surprised me by asking me out two months ago. Unfortunately, t... (495 words)

Since I stayed at my ex's house - which he approved of - my boyfriend has cut contact! What should I do?

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20 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a relationship for 7 months (long distance but we managed to spend at least half that time together in person). He was very into me and actually told me he loved me and that he thought I was the one. I was taking it more slowly because i was just getting out of a long ... (322 words)

My wife got a tattoo of my name on her... does this mean she's sorry and her love for me is stronger?

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20 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - ok, got a question if anyone can help shed some light on it. from my previous posts you can see my wife and l have a very messy separation for some time. since she has been back she has been a lot more loving towards me and that is great, im loving it. yesterday she supris... (142 words)

Is it too soon after getting back together to lose our virginity to each other?

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20 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im a virgin(17yr) and so is my bf and The thing here is ive been with my boyfriend for a month.i met him a yr ago on aug.2008 and he asked me to be his gf so i said yes then after 1 mon and a half i broke up with him because of some personal problems i had. since then we still ... (155 words)

In love with my straight friend... I don't know how to get past my feelings without letting him know.

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20 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay, so putting this out there: I am gay, and recently went through a pretty horrible breakup. In the midst of this, I developed feelings for a friend of mine. We have only known each other a few months, and though we have hung out a couple times one on one, primarily our ... (459 words)

Why do guys like to grab girls' behind?

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20 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i just started dating this guy and we have talked for about a month...the other day we were talking about how far we have been (i told him i had never kissed anyone before him) and he said that he wants to wait till marrage for sex...he went on about how all he is going ... (82 words)

My boyfriend always looks deeply into my eyes... does this mean he could be in love with me?

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20 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend and I can talk for hours...but sometimes it will get silent when he starts to glare into my eyes; for along time I might add, and without saying anything. What does that mean when a man does that? I think he is in love with me. Is that a pretty good sign he is? I ... (73 words)

Could our friendship ever turn into something more?

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20 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey everyone, i am 20 and in last year of my degree. I have fallen for a guy (overseas student) in my class and its not easy. I have known him before the start of uni because he is a regular and active member in our community gatherings,which is how he knows my family, ... (252 words)

How can I prepare myself for giving my boyfriend a blowjob?

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20 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about three months. We've gotten more physical lately, and he's fingered me before. I'm thinking a blowjob or handjob is in the future, and I've read a million things online, but I'm just not comfortable yet. He hasn't asked for it, or ... (123 words)

He's lying about dating sites and porn

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20 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been with my boyf for nearly 2 years, we live together and it hasn't all been plain sailing! He had a problem with porn. not just any porn but wanting to do things with black guys (both me and him - we are white) I told him that i wasn't into that kinda thing and he ... (150 words)

I no longer trust my friend because of her promiscusous ways

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20 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - A very good friend of mine is very promiscous. She has a very high sex drive and does it like a guy. A few years ago, we were at a party and a guy who liked me was also there. He liked me and I didn't like him coz of his casanova ways. We all hung out and after the party my ... (128 words)

Husband gave me genital herpes and tries to say it came from his ex wife

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20 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been married for 21 years.but my husband loves to put objects up his rear end.this goes on ever other night.and i mean all kinds of things.i dont know if this means he is gay or not.but the things all came from the landfill that he works at.also a in 2006 he had to ... (215 words)

We broke up, he's going into the service soon, I'd like to try to at least be friends!

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20 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - To begin, I was in a serious relationship with this guy for about 5-months. It was the best relationship I ever had, he treated me with respect, we had fun together, shared a lot of the same interests and beliefs. I seriously thought he was "the one." Then out of the blue, ... (331 words)

Is there a ghost in the house?

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20 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok, yesterday (20 august 2009) my gran had to have her oldest dog put to sleep as she was old, and in a really bad way. it was upsetting :\. but all that day, my gran and my uncle was sitting downstairs watching tv, nobody else was in the house, all 4 dogs was in the front... (289 words)

His interest seems to have really dwindled, what does that mean?

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20 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So I have been dating this guy for 3 weeks. At first he called,text, etc all the time. We went on a date almost every night and he has even told his family about me (he wanted to invite me to a family function...but we had only been on one date at the time). The next week I ... (228 words)

What does he mean "what happens in Las Vegas stays in Las Vegas"

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20 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So my boyrfiend is on vacation whom is traveling all over Cali with some of his cousions, and from his social network status he wrote "what happens in vegas stays in vegas and his lips will be sealed". Now, this has made me insecure cause I know that he wouldnt do anything ... (211 words)

Do men ever step up after leaving pregnant girlfriends?

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20 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do men leave their girlfriends when they're pregnant? Do men ever man up? has anyone experienced this? I'm interested in hearing from males.... (24 words)

Does anyone have tips on minding unruly children?

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20 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello this isn’t a romantic question but im hoping someone out there might have the answer! I am going to be babysitting my boyfriends brothers for a week. My boyfriends lives somewhere else and will be there if I need him but not all the time. The problem is that one of his ... (199 words)

Does he want to see me or is he just trying to be nice

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20 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - so me and my friend have a really screwed up relationship we slept together and then he didn't speak to me for 3 months i emailed him and asked for no contact a month later he mails me out the blue and starts talking to me. He found out i was getting evicted and said. where yo... (148 words)

My BF and I have trouble communicating about our relationship

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20 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone I wanted to ask for some relationship advice. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. Although he is a fantastic person he is not such a good boyfriend. He NEVER wants to talk about our relationship as I can tell he thinks those conversations are cheesy and he ... (220 words)

Distance was the problem but I have my license now, should we try again?

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20 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay well I was going out with this girl for about 8 months and then we broke up because we didn't get to see each other enough. I do still like her however. We still hook up at the discos and stuff but sometimes I just get jealous when I see or hear about her with other guys. ... (90 words)

The man I met online hasn't contacted me

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20 August 2009 (F)

age - I met a man through an Internet dating site and we had a wonderful meeting. Afterwards he sent me an email saying he had a great and was looking forward to doing it again. This was a week ago and I haven't heard from him since. We are both in our late 40s and he is a widower of ... (104 words)

I've dated him for 3 days and I think I'm in love!

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20 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i think i am in love... i've dated him for 3 days, and known him for 3 days. so i dont think i am. but i CANNOT stop thinking about him!! when i am with him its like nobody else is there. and i just feel really happy. i want to talk about him non-stop but i dont want to annoy ... (387 words)