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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He said "I'll miss you" Does that mean anything?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello , my name is jackie and i have this huge crush on this boy i been talking to for the last 3 years and yeah he asked me out many times before and also said he liked and loved me and wanted to be my boyfriend but i don't know he just not the same well his the... (225 words)

Husband having internet affair?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, My husband and I have known each other for 3 years and been married for a little over a year. We just welcomed our new baby into our family a few months ago. We have always had a great relationship and we only went through a small fighting phase back when we first me... (550 words)

Why would she want to have sex with me with a penis that size?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

13 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. I'm really embarrassed. Have been all my life. It's just i have a really small penis. Its 10cm erect, and I HATE myself because of it. I recently got my first girlfriend, and i have done 'stuff' for her, but she hasn't for me, because i keep putting her off. I know she will ... (116 words)

Fiance cheating with married man?

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13 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi,my finance of 2 months told me that she is going to help the orphans children in Africa and she told me that she is going a long with some other co workers then i found out the she was gone only with this male friend who she knows her for 10 years the were in the village in ... (114 words)

I'm 15 and addicted to porn

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi i'm a 15 year old girl and i am addicted to porn! i dont know what to do! everytime i am alone or someone is downstairs i always turn to porn! i always masturbate while doing it. i am really afraid that i will grow up to be one of those bad nasty people and i dont want ... (135 words)

I thought I was over her till I looked at her picture

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13 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i thought i was over her but when i spoke to her on msn i looked at her picture and all those feelings came rushing back what should i now? ... (30 words)

Bad skin help?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am a 13 year old girl who has bad skin.i have mild acne but i am looking for ways to clear it up.any advice?... (25 words)

Is this one of the tsigns of my relationship falling apart?

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13 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, guys. I'm an Asian gay man, 37 year old who's been living in the states for 3 years. And my partner is American guy who's 60 year old, divorced and has 4 grown-up children. I posted some question here about my relationship before. It was about me feeling being treated as... (434 words)

I don't want him back but want him to be their for our child

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My exboyfriend and I separated, it was not on good terms either, but it was an on off relationsip so I wasn't concerned as I thought this was for the best. However three months later I found out I was pregnant with his child. He does not care for it has not answered my calls ... (170 words)

He won't sleep over with me because of his mother

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have known my man for about two years. it is a serious relationship but the problem is he wont even spend the weekend with me or spend the night at my home. One time he spend the weekend his mother get upset and call him, saying she disapprove him sleeping out because ... (231 words)

How long does nuva ring work after being removed?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How long does the nuva ring work after it has been removed? I always take it out during sex because the guys say they can feel it, then put it back in after. Last night I forgot to put it back in after sex and fell asleep. In the morning we had sex again. Both times he pulled ... (79 words)

How can I get her back she won't even talk to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

13 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - it started out i was working for a golf course with a couple of friends of mine, and there was this girl i found quite attractive so i would see how it went through the year. a few weeks in, my friends were telling me "man you should really go for this girl she is really into ... (201 words)

Do women wax their stomach hair?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Do women have to wax their stomachs? I have never had this problem before but ever since I turned 16 my stomach hair has become so much more noticeable. I've been told to wax it or shave it and that it's normal but none of my friends have this problem and I may be the oldest ... (96 words)

Will this regret ever fade away?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

13 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I’m 28 and newly married. I love my wife and the life that I have with her except that I am riddled with regret over missed opportunities. I can’t go a minute without wishing I had sowed my oats before getting married. I never had the desire to sleep around until I met my w... (473 words)

I don't want to cheat so I go back and forth between guys

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok well...i've been going bac in forth between this guy Jon and this other guy Tyler but right now im in a pretty steady relationship with Jon and b4 i started dating Jon again he called me a slut bcuz i always go bac and forth but i only do that bcuz i would rather go bac and ... (131 words)

Was he just playing with my feelings?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so I met this one guy he had a hf wen i met hi. He told his relationship was going down the drain, becasue his gf was treating him bad and he was tired of it. We were suppose to meet tomorrow. He started calling me his lover.He broke up with his gf yesterday so he said that ... (99 words)

At what point should you give up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

13 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Everyone goes through heart breaks-it's part of life. Many recover and move on and each takes their own time and healing process. OK that's the theory but in real life, with each heart break comes another layer of protection. Any new relationship becomes more diffic... (195 words)

Do I have a problem or my hormones running rampant or what?

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13 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Why is it so hard to stay faithful? It's almost as if I can't control it. Is it because I'm young maybe? I'm in a new relationship (I just got divorced after a year if that matters, so I was tied down) with a wonderful woman, she has everything I want in a partner and she is ... (267 words)

How should I go about letting this guy know I'm interested, if it was his friend who invited me over?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So last night my friend and I met 3 guys at a bar. After the bar closed, we agreed to meet them at one of their houses. Everything was cool, my friend has a bf and I had no intentions of hooking up with anyone or doing anything of that nature, just hang out, that's all. Well ... (331 words)

Does this mean he doesn't want to talk to me?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so a couple of nights ago i added this kid i liked for a while on myspace, we started talking and then he said to text him. So we were chatting and he asked me if i was new at our school, and i said no i'm a sophomore. Then he said "o.. im a senior, i gotta go, text you ... (83 words)

I don't want to just live with him, I want some sort of commitment.

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend wants me and my kids to move out of my house and move in with him. I have 3 children and he has two. One is an adult and the other never stays with him during the week. I don't want to just live with him, I want some sort of commitment. We've been together 2 1/2 ... (98 words)

Dating 6 months how do I approach b/f to tell him I want to have a baby?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well this is my first post here so I am not sure how I should ask this and I also know peoples opinions differ but what I am wanting to ask is how would I go about asking my bf how he would feel if I said I wanted a baby.....weve only been together 6 months but it feels like ... (203 words)

Since we moved in together, he's spending less time with me, what's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5552 days ago

13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. me and my boyfriend riley of 2 years have just moved in together about 3 months ago now. ever since then at LEAST each week ive been in tears. he goes out ALL the time and when he says he will be back he is always hours late to the point where he stays out till stupids ... (186 words)

What is the difference between a long distance boyfriend and a friend with benefits?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Just wondered...What is the difference between a long distance boyfriend and a friend with benefits? - I see a guy from time to time, am in love with him and we sleep together when we can. But we only see each other as and when (as he lives long distance) so is he a fwb or b... (59 words)

Since I bought my girlfriend a vibrator, my needs have been neglected! How can I sort this out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

13 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend of about a year and 3 months has recently been, well, pressuring me into buying her a vibrator so we can experiment. I thought i was good in bed, I always make sure she's fully satisfied and am always open for experimentation. So i finally gave in and got her a... (244 words)

Trying to conceive since last year and havent. Very depressed about it. Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello my name is Christina, i am in so a depressing place. I am 20 yrs old and i want to have a baby. I recently got married 11/16/08 and since then been trying to conceive, but cant. Its really depressing and i feel like im in a dark blocked room. Just wanna know if some one... (74 words)

I love my boyfriend, but I need to leave him. How do I hurt him as little as possible?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been with my boyfriend for three years and we've lived together for most of that time. We've had our ups and downs, but the biggest problems are that he's sterile (which I've known about but I'm starting to really want kids), he can be overly possessive (not violent, but ... (263 words)

What can I do to bring the ball into my court?

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13 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hey everyone ...i had been going on with this girl for a year...she had put all her heart in this love and loved me from all her heart ...she was damn possessive about me and had been very supportive and a responsible gf ...but i dumped her for some reasons because it realy had ... (322 words)

Am I being paranoid/clingy? Or is something going on?!

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so there's this guy that i met from a friend and i really like him and he's 2 yrs younger than me. ive been hiding this feelings from him for almost a year and the only people who knows about it is my brother and our common friend. then one time, i heard them talki... (509 words)

Sex has lost its "umphhh" over time!

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13 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend and i have been dating for a year and 3 months now and the sex was great at the start of the relationship because i was a virgin. She brought a few kinky night dresses about 4 months in. It all fell apart about 8 months in. I found i had a much higher sex drive ... (242 words)

Will the pill she took the day before still work on today?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Quick question,, Friend had unprotected sex on day 13 of my cycle, ( been with her partner over 3 years and they have a house together ). No judgements for her please. She went to get the morning after pill the next day and took that. just under two hours later she was si... (97 words)

My man is going out of town with a female friend!

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13 August 2009 (F)

age - I have been in this on and again off again relationship with this man for nearly 4 years. I had made up my mind to end the relationship as he has lied to me about other women on several occasions. He came back to me, making promises to be right with me and prove to me he was ... (191 words)

If she wants her ex and has no feelings for me, then why is it complicated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Heres the low down. Was with my girlfriend for nearly a year, she was moving to australia and we still stayed together long distance. She split up with me around 6 weeks ago, completely out of the blue telling me she didnt love me anymore, then i find out shes gone back to her ... (505 words)

I've lost interest in my FWB but he doesn't want to end it! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a 24 yr old female and I have been in casual relationship with a guy older than i am for a little more than 3 years now. But during all this time, we never really shared any kind of bond except mindblowing sexual chemistry. Sex has always been awesome with him.. It allowed ... (299 words)

Pregant with my ex's child. Do I keep my hopes up that he'll eventually come around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

13 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I ended the relationship in 5/16, I found out two weeks ago I was 14 1/2 weeks pregnant, I am now 17 weeks. I made him aware and he has only contacted me to offer to pay for the abortion. Hes ben stationed out of town and will be returning by the end of September. ... (123 words)

What do you do if someone is giving you the silent treatment?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

13 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What do you do if someone is giving you the silent treatment? I have told them I will not contact them again as they obviously dont want to speak to me, and I know I must not break my word now that i have said that or i would look stupid. but what if they contact me after say a ... (107 words)

If I overdose on birth control pills will I be safe?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - before getting married i have indulged in sex wid some other guy and have takenpills to not get pregnant.so my question is that will i get pregnant after marriage because i have eaten so many pills to not get pregnant before marriage while doing sex???????????... (45 words)

We are so compatible and in love, but I am ashamed of his career. Should I still marry him?

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13 August 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I have been seeing this guy for a couple of months. We have alot in common and get along very well. We are so mcuh in love and he treats melike a goddess. He is handsome and charming. The problem is am not proud of his job. There is a very big status gap between his career and ... (143 words)

Why is he still watching porn? I don't get it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well I have been with my boyfriend for about 2 1/2 half years. Everything is going pretty well. We don't fight much, we still laugh and have fun, and we have sex regularily (and yes we are both very happy with it!). What I don't understand is that he still masturbates and ... (186 words)

Should I be bothered that he didn't tell me he was going out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

13 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I just talked to my boyfriend..as usual every morning before we both start our work day. He says, "yeah a buddy of mine called me to go out yesterday..(he's dating his sis/living together). Anyways, they went out and it ended up being 4 guys at a pool hall. He ... (143 words)

He caught me red-handed, cheating, I treated him badly and dumped him, but he still wants me!

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13 August 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I had a short lived relationship with this may, who has been a childhood friend. He wanted marriage and i agreed to it, though i wasnt realy sure. I hurt his feelings badly. I cheated on him several times and he cought me with condoms and hotel room bills from my lovers. I ... (134 words)

Cheating boyfriend: what do I do with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - If someone can help me now i'd be very gratefull! My BF and I are now together for about 3 and a half years now and about a month ago i caught him in bed with another woman, he admited that it happend twice since then we've gone on vacation for 3 weeks and have been back for... (455 words)

Broken heart due to move!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and my parents made me move a few weeks ago 20 hours away from my home. he came up with me for two weeks and hes been gone two days.. and im a mess i dont know wat to do with myself hes gone now and i miss him soo much..theres ... (93 words)

He's going to ask me out! The problem? Two of my friends like him too!

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have really liked this guy for a while now, and I've recently found out that he likes me too. All of his friends have told me that he's going to ask me out. The problem is though, I've discovered that two of my friends really like him too. Although they don't know that I know ... (79 words)

Why would his friend pull a prank like this?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was using our computer last night and shocked to receive an email from a Finnish guy with pictures of him in his underwear and his private parts - addressed to my husband! The pictures were, to say the least, rather raunchy. I asked my hubby what this was about, and he cl... (171 words)

Will I still pass as a virgin when I get married even though I've had sex 3 times?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - had sex 3 times not planing on having sex for 2-3 years will i still pass off as a virgin when i get married? (all 3 times bled)... (28 words)

He's very experienced but I'm bored of the same position during sex!

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, this is really embarrassing but i really need to ask!! My boyfriend has always gone on top when we have sex, he was my first and is very experienced so he knows what he is doing, its all good and everything, but to be honest i get a tad bored with him always being in ... (114 words)

I don't want to lose this guy but my parents are against us being together. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

13 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - im 15, hes 19. we've been talkn for a year and no we havent had sex and im not plannnin on having sex with him. my parents are against it. they decided to ground me until im out of high school. so i dont have a phone and i cant talk to him or see him. hes the type of guy i dont ... (146 words)

Pregnant and the father wont accept responsibility....will he come around when the baby is born?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - In a way I would like to make things work out between my ex boyfriend and I. I found out I was pregnant with his child at 14 1/2 weeks, after we were no longer together. It was always an on and off relationship so I did not expect him to have such a negative reaction. I had ... (656 words)

Should I tell him how I feel before he goes back to college?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys so i have this situation with my housemate i was renting my house for summer with other students and one of them is a guy who is 19 and im 21. I thought he was cute but i was like no way because of the age difference. Anyhow we got to be good friends and have aa lot in ... (206 words)

What am I supposed to do, fight or walk?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my best friend haven't spoken in months(please read my other questions) I emailed him and his entire family ( over a month ago) and asked them not to contact me again then a week ago out of the blue he emails me and says: How do you expect me to talk to you if you dele... (161 words)

Our lack of sex is making me want an open relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

13 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Question 1: its been almost 20 months now and my boyfriend has followed a partern of only have sex with me every one to three months what does this mean and why Question 2: if my boyfriend is not having sex with me should i ask to have an open relationship or should i just kee... (84 words)

Why doesn't he make love to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

13 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my boyfriend makes excuses to have sex with me he says we will but it never happens and every time i bring up the subject it causes an argument and he makes more excuses why we havent had sex its been 3 months now and still im waiting why is he doing this ... (58 words)

My girlfriend is great looking and I have spots!

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13 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so i have a girlfriend.....shes great looking, smart, the works. The only problem for me is that i have spots as most teenagers do. Anyone know some simple remedies. I mean i already shower regularly, wash everyday and even use a face wash thing. The only thing that seems... (77 words)

I don't want to live like this anymore but don't know what the alternative is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

13 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Could Somebody Please Help Me. I have been struggling with this issue for 2 years now and feel that despite trying to get help for my daughter and myself that there aren't any solutions and I feel that I cannot go on living like this anymore. I am the eldest child of ... (881 words)

If I'm getting into a serious relationship I don't want cigarretes to be part of it!

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have a good relationship, however when we first began dating he mentioned he smoked, i wasn't too happy about it (you might think i'm weird) but i don't like smokers, i hate cigarrets, the smell gets to me real bad that i feel like i'm suffacating inside and ... (605 words)

Seeing a younger guy who I want to be exclusive with but I think he's confused!

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13 August 2009 (F)

- Hia, Im 23 I got been seeing this guy on the quiet for over a month now. He is 20. He apprached me on facebook to meet up. I knew him from a club i am a member of and we just hit it off rly. But what i wasnt aware of is he has a girlfriend 300 miles away. I am completely d... (223 words)

I'm single and I hate being alone at night :(

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm single, and I know I am only 15, but recently I have come to hate being alone at night. When I'm trying to fall asleep, I wish I had a guy or even a girl next to me, with their arms around me, holding me tight. Maybe I'm just idealizing having a partner, but how do I stop ... (155 words)

What can I do to see my boyfriend and not get him into trouble?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

13 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months and have been talking about having sex for a little while as we wanted to make sure we were ready for it. So the other day we decided to have sex. But when I got home I had a text saying that his mum knows and is really angry ... (115 words)

I told my cousin I loved her now she hardly speaks to me. How do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

13 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I became very close to my cousin these last years! We would talk everyday and she would tell me everything. We would support each other through bad times, and laugh through the good. I was never really attracted to her, I was just seeing her as my cute little cousin. However, I ... (281 words)

Will she resent me for my stance on smoking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

13 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now. After several weeks of dating she left for winter break. At some point over the break she told me she had a confession - she was a smoker but was trying to quit. I am staunchly opposed to smoking and will not put up with ... (822 words)

Is my mother being paranoid?

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13 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok im 17 and my girlfriend is 15 the legal age for sex in WA is 16.. just to explain and make it easier for people to understand even though my girlfriend and i havnt even had sex and dont intend to until she is 16, also we have been together for almost 5 months now Ok my mum... (704 words)

Is she messing around on me or am I just being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

13 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with this girl for about a year and a half. We have broken up a couple of times and have always gotten back together. She has always seemed just soooo into me, I know she is/was. Well the past few months I have just been suspicious of her so yesterday I looked a... (323 words)

I love two guys and it doesn't feel good!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - At the beginning of this year I got into a relationship with a boy i'd liked for ages, we lasted five months and througought that he cheated on me three times and put us on a break for two weeks, i broke up with him in june and the only reason i didn't do it earlier was because ... (492 words)

I havent been able to talk to my girlfriend for 3 months, I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

13 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a girlfriend of a relationship of 1 and 1/2years .i love her but for 3 months now she has been out of network and we don't communicate ,at first she started ignoring my calls later she switch off her phone.i don't know what to do coz i promised myself never to seduce ... (60 words)

I'm straight but I like to read erotic stories about girls!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 16 Recently ive been thinking and i really dont understand what i think. Im straight, i always date boys, and fancy one in particular at the moment. Im always flirting with boys and i have sex with boys. But for some reason when im masturbating i like to read erot... (139 words)

I'm seriously attracted to my female friend but none of my friends know I'm bi-sexual!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to kiss one of my best friends but can't what should I do? Basically I am Bi but none of my friends know. Because I didnt really realise until years after I met them, I never thought I should say anything. They would just think 'well where did this come from we have ... (76 words)

Confused about what happens when a girl has sex for the first time!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

13 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, Basically a straight forward question. I'm confused about what happens when a girl has sex for the first time. I've heard it loads of times about 'breaking in' etc but still don't get it, is it messy like a mate of mine said years ago? what exactly do I/we need to for this ... (56 words)

Just how insulting to men with erection troubles can women be?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

13 August 2009 (M)

age - I lost my erection about a month ago and my wife is just on my back all the time about it. Why can't she just leave me alone while I work this out? She's got a damn' vibrator, is it too much to ask that she backs off? And for that matter, why do women think ED is no big issue ... (116 words)

Is it considered cheating when you don't disclose that you talk to others online?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it okay to talk to different guys online while you are not committed to any of them yet? Do you consider it cheating when each of these guys doesn't know you talk to others as well? I know for sure these guys talk to other ladies on dating sites and its ok with me, but ... (80 words)

I want bigger boobs so I look sexy in front of my husband!

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear all, Im 24 and married since a year, I want to increase my boobs size without cosmetic stuffs. I need 32 size bra. I dont know the cup size. Please suggest some medicines or something that make my boobs bigger and attractive... I want to look sexy in front of my husband.... (53 words)

To the men out there - do you get excited by the idea of seeing your wife having sex with another man?

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13 August 2009 (M)

age - I would like to see my wife having sex with another man, the thought excites me. Does any other male have this feeling.... (23 words)

I really like her but she is still hung up on her ex, what should I do?

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13 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys im new so dont know if this is the right place to put this but yeah this is a huge story but i can shorten it... basically went on a few dates with this girl like coffee etc, then she met up wth her ex on his birthday, shes crazy about him still i know it (hes a... (133 words)

My boyfriend cheated on me with my best friend, but I still don't feel ready to move on

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently found out my boyfriend of six months was doing "stuff" with my best mate. I was devistated. But as he is away on holiday, it made it hard to get to the understanding behind it all. I told him it was over because i was so hurt and all of my other friends said I could ... (130 words)

I love my girlfriend but I have feelings for a male friend!

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13 August 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I have a girlfriend and I love her to bits but I also have feelings for one of my male friends who I think is gay, what should I do... (30 words)

I'm scared that I might have miscarried

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am 14 years old and 24 weeks pregnant and i have just woke up this morning with about half the amount that i get when i am on my period, i feel empty and my stomach is killing me i darent tell my mum as she didnt even no i was pregnant i was going to tell her this weekend ... (90 words)

I'm really upset about our breakup, but my ex doesn't seem to care!

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently split up with my girlfriend and whilst I'm really upset about it, she doesn't seem to care. We were together for a year so it was obviously an important relationship. She just goes out partying all the time and hasn't even called me to see how I am or anything. She ... (116 words)

Does kissing someone equal a relationship?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was just reading someone else's question where the girl had kissed him and he thought that meant they should be in a relationship afterwards...is that how many other people think also? Because I've been seeing a guy over the last few months, we've had around 5 or so kissing ... (132 words)

Is this a normal relationship? I think he might just love my body!

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I meet my boyfriend more than 1 year.At first he was being the best boyfriend,he treated me nicely and friendly to my friends...etc...very awesome.Then after 1 year,he start being a nasty boy which is what he thinks is sexy.He has asked me too much for boobies and then... (178 words)

How do I tell him he's hurting my feelings without hurting his feelings?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - At the end of my current boyfriends last relationship, his ex told him that he had destroyed her life by taking all of her confidence and making her believe she was stupid, which really made him hyper-sensitive about being some kind of destroyer-of-women. The problem is... (225 words)

My boyfriend is lovely and I have everything I want, so why cant I stop thinking about this other guy?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A while back, I was getting close to this guy. He finally told me that he was falling for me, and I was really happy. I missed him when he wasn't around etc. Then someone else came along and asked me out, and I said yes. I've been with my boyfriend almost a month now, but I st... (171 words)

I was dating a 30 year old and got my heart broken

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay i was dating someone and hes 12 years older then me and before we got together he had a girlfriend but he says he broke up with her for me but because hes a good guy he was taking her back to her home in IL and is gonna stay 6 months to 24 months and im worried that he ... (277 words)

In love with a tenth class girl...how can I impress her?

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13 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am loving tenth class girl . how she can love me. how to impress her... (18 words)

I want my brother put away before he can abuse his own kids like he did to me

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13 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My brother has assaulted me when i was a child In front of a few of his high school friends and he tore my underwear off and threw them in the middle of the street and made me get them while i was naked and a few years later my brother was very drunk and thought i was his "Girl ... (272 words)

What is wrong with me? I cannot commit to anything, even my amazing girlfriend!

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13 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm 19 years old and i'm completely lost with what im doing with my relationship life. I've been dating a woman who is in my eyes a very unique "one-of-a-kind" person that i admire very much. She doesn't believe in hooking up with people unless they are in a relationship ... (518 words)

I have decided an abortion is the right thing for me, but I'm worried what my boyfriend's family will do when they find out!

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I found out I was pregnant about two weeks ago. I am now about seven weeks pregnant. During these two weeks I have been forced to face some tough desicions. I am fifteen and my boyfriend is sixteen. At first my boyfriend was supportive, but then he turned around and said ... (261 words)

Problems with my ex bf, he isnt over me

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I was going out with this guy for a around 7 months and i was mad about him at the start but things got a little boring near the end. I wanted to move on and I deciding to break up with him and he was heartbroken as I was his first love. But I didnt want to be trapped in a ... (586 words)

Is my boyfriend's penis too big? It will be my first time and I'm scared of the pain!

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 19 virgin and ready to lost my virginity to my bf. When we want to have sex last night and found that his penis is too big. I don't think he able to fit inside me without hurting me a lot. I ask him to measure it for me and is 8.5" long and 2.3" thick. I am too scare and ... (178 words)

Shy girl seeks shy guy......but too scared to make the first move!

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm pretty shy and I'm usually attracted to shy guys too...this poses the obvious problem of neither of us making a move! It's always the very confident, very good looking guys who chase after me, and who I end up dating with mutually mediocre results. When I'm single, like ... (99 words)

Am I doing the right thing? I thought she wanted a relationship and then got with her friend, so I cut her out of my life!

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13 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey it's me again guys after alot of months haha. Anyway I need help with something I need to know if I made the right decision. Anyway there was this girl who liked me and we flirted and even kissed! but then soon after she tells me she wasn't seeing it that way. I told her ... (233 words)

Fighting my feelings for my ex....I cant seem to let go of him!

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex broke up about a month ago. i broke up with him because i couldnt take the stress that was constantly going on between us, he agreed that its probably the best thing for us and we decided to remain good friends. lately i've been fighting my feelings towards missing ... (153 words)

I feel wrong for seeing him when he has a girlfriend but they are both miserable together!

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, so I was training this guy I worked with and the first time I saw him I connected with him. I asked a few of our mutual co-workers if he was single and they said yes and he told me he was one day as we were walking around our job site. Any way we connected on a very high ... (614 words)

Can't tell the difference between loving sex and loving the guy!

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I can't tell the difference between loving sex and loving the guy? I feel really unstable i don't know what's going on. This guy I've been seeing and spending time with has me feeling so confused. We do have sex, and I love it. However I don't know if he thinks I just love the... (283 words)

Am I obliged to look after my mother when she abused me as a child?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age - So, Do I have any obligation to take care of my aged Mother who was abusive to me? I very rarely have migraines now, but I had them regularly in my childhood and teenage years and later, whenever my parents came to visit. My mother was probably psychotic and made my childhoo... (624 words)

Pregnant and feeling extremely alone. Anyone been there?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex-boyfriend and I dated for almost a year on and off. I found out I was pregnant at 14 weeks, im now 17 weeks and he's offered several times to pay for me to get an abortion. That to me is not an option. Im having the child either way, however, I'm relatively by myself no ... (152 words)

Can't get over what happened at my BFS 21st

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a healthy relationship for four years. The person I am with is the one that I'm meant to be with. So his 21rst birthday just recently passed. First; I was not invited to come, his brother was adamant that it was a guys night out only. I am younger than 21 ... (331 words)

Do chicks like red pubic hair?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5589 days ago

13 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay, I am just wondering, do girls like red pubic hair? I mean, Im 18, just turned legal and want to know does it? I'm a natural red head. Just curious.... (31 words)

Am I pathetic for hoping? Or should I move on?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all, was hoping for some advice or suggestions on my recent break up and whether you think it is completely doomed or whether there's a chance and how i can possibly make the ex b/f come around... Basically i knew this guy for several yrs and lost touch for a yr or so. when... (537 words)

Should I have given it more time to regain trust in him?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated this guy for about 2 1/2 years and he broke up with me after a long night of fighting. We had a lot of problems with his drinking and anger. We recently started talking again after 7 months of being apart and we basically started right back where we ended it when I ... (183 words)

I want my ex BF back, should I wait for him?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, im really depressed because i didnt expect that we gonna turned like this. we spent two years. i am 20 years old now and now my ex bf is 18 years old now. i met him when he was 16 years old and i was 18 that time. i am his FIRST TRUE LOVE,I AM almost his first in ... (520 words)

I feel like he's playing me, should I let him go?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Should I stop dating this guy? Here's my story, I am single parent of three. I own my own house, have a career, and make a good amount of money. The guy I'm dating has no kids, and makes way less than I do. He currently is staying with me due to getting evicted from the plac... (126 words)

I just want to have sex to get it over with.

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13 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am jealous of sex because, I have not had sex yet. I am 17 years old and I never had a girlfriend before, or even kissed a girl. I am forced to lie to everyone that I have had sex so I will not be embarrassed of my virginity. I don't want to wait till marriage. What can ... (85 words)

He doesn't trust me after I repeatedly cheated on him

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with this guy for almost 3 years and he's the love of my life. When we were together for about 6 months I cheated on him with two different people. We worked it out between us, but I didn't have much of a life for a while. When I did start to have a life again we ... (196 words)

Is 15 too young to see a gynocologist ??

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Everyone, ok so umm this is hard for me to talk about but I'm pretty sure there is something wrong in my vagina, because i have these nasty bumps on the inside and the outside, and it's been itching ALOT, and it's been smelling really bad, and i want to see a gyno, but... (107 words)

How can we resolve the real issue instead of constantly bickering?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a relationship with a guy for the past 11 months. I love him very much and he loves me too. But he have a lot of issues with each other. We argue a lot and make up really soon too. But I think, we do not really address the problems we have. We somehow find a way to make ... (373 words)

I feel I have a right to call the woman's house where my son is staying, and maybe try to get to know her. So why is she so disrespectful to me?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My baby daddy just moved away and he took our son for the summer. All along I thought he was staying with his sister but until recently I found out he was staying with this woman. Everytime I tried to call his sister to talk to my son. Her reply would be oh he just stepped out ... (431 words)

It feels like my BF is humiliating me sometimes

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13 August 2009 (F)

age - I spent a fortune to be on holiday with my boyfriend and the kids. We were not on holiday together as such but spent sometime that I found beautiful and I really enjoyed his presence. It was the first time in over a year we became intimate. We laughed and joked. However, ... (142 words)

My boyfriend is talking behind my back, what do I do?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - well recently I browsed through his chatlogs, out of curiosity and after that, he confessed that he made me seem demanding behind my back to all of his friends, but not on purpose. I only read one of the conversations he had with a mutual friend(co-worker) of us. Me and my bo... (542 words)

I'm dating someone new but it's hard to forget my first love

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I have been dating my guy for about 10 months now and I love him very very much. But my ex who was my first love is still vaguely in the picture. He calls me sometimes just because he is bored and has no one else to talk to. I also check his myspace often just to see if ... (127 words)

My ex BF wants me to take his virginity

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, am ex-boyfriend of mine, who is a virgin, wants me to take his virginity. I wasn't a virgin when we were dating and we fooled around but never all the way. He's always told me that he should have lost it with me. The thing is now, I am not into him like I was. I just got ... (140 words)

My GFs parents abuse her, how can I help?

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13 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend gets abused by her parents, a lot. We live a million miles away from each other and there is nothing I can do to help her. I can only tell her things will be okay. and sometimes I don't know if I'm right. How can I help her more? I wanna be there for her as much ... (92 words)

I want to have sex but I fear getting pregnant

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am currently seeing a guy who is great. the problem is my parents don't know I've been seeing him. I am 20 years old and currently live with my parents who feel that i should just be friends with this guy. i have done things with him but we haven't actually had sex yet ... (160 words)

Why is this guy embarrassed of me?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I met this guy about my age a couple of weeks ago. He seemed and acted so interested in me. He took me out a couple of times and told me he cared deeply for me, and just was so goo goo gaa gaa over me. Now he has become hidden, and ignores my calls. He is embarrassed to be with ... (121 words)

Living with a boyfriend in a dorm room: good idea?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone! My situation is that I have been dating my boyfriend for ten months now. We have pretty much decided that we will get married one day and that we are soulmates. He just finished college and I have one year left. The school that I go to has an open guest p... (226 words)

Why does unbelievable sex not drive a man to pursue it again and again?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've known this guy for a few months and he called me out of the blue. I go over to his house, we hang out all night and day, and have sex 11 times, I repeat, 11 times!!! He goes on to tell me he thinks that this is the best sex he has ever had. I have to say that I may have ... (199 words)

I really like him, but he's sending mixed signals and I don't know how to deal with it!

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really like this guy but I am not really sure how he feels about me? he would say all the right stuff and get me all excited about having a relationship with him then he would withdraw it all by saying something to take it all back i.e he would start to talk about us having a ... (107 words)

If a guy says he only wants to 'CHILL' with you and nothing else..what does this mean??

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - If a guy says he only wants to 'CHILL' with you and nothing else..what does this mean?? I REALLY like this guy and was hoping for a relationship but he says he only wants to "chill for now".... (38 words)

Am I meant to shave or what if we have sex?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - This is a weird question I know I'm 15 yr old female currently in a relationship I've done things to him but I won't let him do anything to me because I'm worried.. Am I meant to shave or what if we have sex? It's worrying me if I do it wrong? ... (52 words)

Apart from watching , what else could he be doing on a porn site? And what does BDSM stand for?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why would a seemingly 'Godfearing' guy resort to using an adult dating porno website to meet women??? He is not ugly( about a 5) is EXTREMELY successful, can get almost ANY woman he wants to date him - and he goes on an awful lot of dates - drives a very expensive car, is well... (99 words)

Why do some guys like to stay 'friends' with a former 'friend with benefits'?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do some guys like to stay 'friends' with a former 'friend with benefits'??? I know some of you will say this is for 'back up' but not in all cases. There's this guy who i was friends with and slept with ONCE. He wants to be friends on the telephone but never wants to meet ... (65 words)

I just don’t get why I would still want someone who could be so mean!

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Can any guys out there help me? How can guys be so nice, loving and affectionate to someone they don’t even care about!!?? I was friends with a guy for a few years. We would hang out but never really did anything even though he always wanted to! I finally slept with him just... (610 words)

I'm bleeding when I shouldn't be!

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so I'm not supposed to have my period until August 20th or somewhere around there. Friday I started feeling a little nauseas and my throat started hurting and my ear as well. I thought that I could possibly be pregnant and that was what was causing all the nausea. but i ... (220 words)

He wants every girl but me, yet he spends all his spare time with me!

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy just over a year ago i was 25 and he was 22 and it was great at first, there was lots of physical stuff and affection everything seemed like it was going well. Gradually over the course of about 2 months the sex almost completely stopped except when we were drunk so ... (264 words)

How do I insert a Diva Cup?

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am going on a camping trip next week and I am supposed to have my period so I decided that I would try out the Diva Cup... So that I could reuse it instead of having to change tampons. But I decided I should try it out to make sure I can insert it correctly before I get ... (149 words)

I like him, but I think I hurt his feelings, and I don't know how to fix it!

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13 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I have quite a long question but, well its been going on for a while so here I go... I met someone on holiday last year and I knew he liked me and I liked him but we never really spoke properly and when I left I was really sad...I practically thought about him cons... (479 words)