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writes:Hey im 20 nearly 21 and me and my boyfriend are tryin for a baby. Iv come off the pill but just doesnt seem to happen for us as much as we try. I find after sex that half of the cum seems to leave me as soon as i get up from the bed.Its really gettin to the point where i feel something is wrong. We have been trying for about 4 month now. If anyone has any advice i would be really grateful. Thanks
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (6 August 2009):
 Doctors often say that it can take up to 6 months for the pill to be fully out of you system, so there is still a chance that some of the hormones from the pill are still in your body at the moment so just be patient, you still have 2 months before your system will be fully clear of the pill!
As all the other answers have said, 4 months isnt a very long time at all to be trying. You only need to start worrying when it gets to around 2 years with no joy. You are still really young so the chances of there being anything wrong are pretty slim, so try and relax and enjoy trying to make a baby!
And as for all of your boyfriends semen leaving you when you stand up - that is just gravity for you! Try putting a pillow underneath your hips (so that your hips are angled upwards) after you have finished having sex and stay like that for about 15 minutes. That should stop the effects of gravity and help the sperm on its way!
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, FountainOfIndifference  +, writes (6 August 2009):
 The reproductice process seems simple enough: See sperm swi. See sperm fertilize egg. See daughter ask for a pony on her fifth birthday. But conception is far from easy. Sometimes, the cause for infertility is simply: wrong place, wrong time. You could be having sex at a time where the egg is not ready to be fertilized.
Simply try again. And again. And again. You shouldn't worry; results will come in time.
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reader, jj.  +, writes (6 August 2009):
well you could lay upside down and stay that way after he provides the juice with in you. or you could go to a baby doctor and get some advise regarding this subject..just a shot in the dark but i think you could get a better answer than here..
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2009): Mmm i don't have experience with pills but i only can tell you that if you only think about the baby you want when having sex..maybe it will make you get frustrated and loose the desire..just enjoy it;)
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reader, Pizzicato +, writes (6 August 2009):
Just relax and keep on trying. Four months is not bad at all actually. Don't stress about it. If after a year nothing is still not happening then you can take a visit to the doc. In the meantime, check your ovulation times, eat healthily. But JUST HAVE FUN!
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