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*yntaxrage
writes:my husband of late has been distant we don t talk as we used to. he seems to think i m trying to run his life especially with Female friends issue.He works all the time leaving no time for his family when he is home he is too tired to do anything of late he just disregards my feelings towards everything. Our sex life wnet from great to only when ever he wants sex which is like once a month!!!!! He says he loves his daughter but yet still he does things that hampers our relationship and harms our family. Am I the nagging wife what did I ever do to him ???
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2009): he has outside interest and it is sexual. you are not a nagging wife, just someone who has been observant and noticed the change in him. i think you need to confron his working late theory and check out the competition. also ask him if he is getting it elsewhere. sometimes we have to be brutally candid about out questions if we want the truth. and you need to be prepared for some shocks coming your way. i think he is getting it outside of your marriage therefore he is not interested.
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reader, syntaxrage +, writes (5 August 2009):
syntaxrage is verified as being by the original poster of the questionfemale he talks too onthe phone and he keeps them a secret. His extra work is not necessary finacially we are ok for now
But yet still he feels the need to work than stay home with his child. What pissed me off is when i asked who his friend was ...the she is a lawyer am i not good enough for him now??
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): I'm not sure what to say here, i'm sorry. Would you care to rant on a little more about what things he's doing to hamper your relationship? Does he put you down? Tell you you're not good enough? What is with these female friends issues? DO you argue wiht him a lot about being tired, working, and haveing sex? If so, are these things that he can really control, and you shold really be argueing about?
~Sy.
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