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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I quit my job and teach these guys not to mess with me?

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15 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i have two questions i grew up in a crack infested hood and saw all kinds of crazy sht and got involved with alot of things as i got older, As a kid i was a crack addict before i got my first pair of pullups well i move from my home and broke my habit but starting running the ... (471 words)

Lost my sexual confidence after having a baby

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have recently had a baby,but during my pregnancy i lost my sex drive as i sufferd with sickness and problems the whole way through.My problem is now i have my sex drive back i am very nervous in the bedroom.I know my husband is happy with how i look but i feel like i cant ... (171 words)

I know this is abuse, so why do I stay?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Where do i start? What is the difference between being mentally abused and battered? My husband puts me down all the time. Anything i do is never good enough. He yells and me and calls me names. He embarrasses me in front of his guy friends and his family. He gets physical with ... (304 words)

Her Dad hates me -- is he just insecure?

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15 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 23, my girlfriend's 25, and her dad hates me for no reason. He just insists he hates me. My girlfriend's mum thinks I'm great and says I'd make a great son-in-law and has teased me about how I look like a young Pauly Shore! I don't know why her dad hates me, I have a g... (167 words)

An operation has left me infertile, and no one seems to care

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm writing this out of pain, frustration and sadness. In the last few days I've undergone an operation. The outcome is that its quite likely that I'm infertile. Obviously, this is a big deal, and I don't think it's quite sunk in yet. I'm only 24. I'm starting to wond... (393 words)

Ingrow hairs painful and expensive!

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - iv got a really big problem with ingrown hairs on my vagina i went to the doctor about two years ago with it and she basically said i cant do anything about it but change the way i remove my hair so i switched to waxing an this makes the hairs worse i was wondering if anybody ... (96 words)

How can I lose weight when I can't control myself?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 16 year old girl and I want to reduce my weight around 16 kgs but the problem is I can't control myself so what should i do? tell me some solution.and i can't even do yoga and excerise because in some days school will reopen so then there will be no time.and tell me some ... (60 words)

In the middle of two relationships and both are troublesome

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in a relationship with this girl whose a few years younger then me. I like her despite the fact that we are complete opposites and she's nothing but trouble. I just wanted to hang out with her and nothing really serious but I also didn't want to hurt. So I asked her what ... (415 words)

One night stand eaves me filled guilty and shamed

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

15 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - To begin with It was my birthday and I got totally drunk and me and my friend decided to hook up with these 2 guys we know and they were being really friendly and sweet, they took us to some random house where we waited for ages for his bro who didnt turn up to let him in so we ... (279 words)

Sister's family taking advantage of my parents and I

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Pls help my sister and her family been staying with my parents and i 4 a few months which has been hell her one kid sleeps in my room 16yr old her 9yr with my parents and her son in her room , i'm at home so i do all the house chores , i've been trying to do all spring cleaning ... (231 words)

My g/f's ex put raunchy photos of her on facebook

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15 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 29, my girlfriend's 26. She came to me in tears last night saying she'd found pictures of herself on Facebook on one of her friends photo albums. She said they were raunchy private ones she'd had taken by an ex-boyfriend of hers about 4 years ago, and she thought she'd di... (202 words)

My ex wants to be next in my life

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15 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Here's the deal, several years ago I was heartbroken by an ex that tore out my heart and threw it in the trash:(, so sad I know, but moving on I've moved on since then, I mean my God that was high school lol. But I think about her here and there still. She was my first love ... (197 words)

Does he want me to move in with him or doesn't he?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some man advice cuz my hormones are going nuts before my period and im pretty sure other than crying i dont have any other viable solutions to my little problem. Ive been dating my lovely bf for over a year and half and since like 3 months into the relationship he ... (570 words)

Three guys and I have feelings for all of them!

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with this guy for 3 and a half years and I'm happy. I have two best guy friends that are just friends. The more I talk to them and hang out with them the more I start having feelings for both of them. All three boys are best friends. What do I do. ... (55 words)

I love my cousin is it wrong to want to marry her?

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15 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi friends I am frm India. For the past one year i am in love with my cousin that is my mom's elder sister daughter.In India we cant marry mom elder sisters daughter. but til this moment i love her to the core and DE same from her too.IS there any wrong in marrying her? Will ... (80 words)

What are the best ways to meet new people?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I would like to ask if anyone has any good ideas on how to meet new people. All of my friends are in relationships or are married and have very little time for me, I spend most weekends at home, I have joined a gym, a book club etc but I would love any ideas of ways to meet ... (81 words)

What's going on between my old teacher and me?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so just 2 days ago i saw my old science teacher who i had when i was in eighth grade. im really attracted to him and i know the feeling was mutual when he was my teacher. but i wonder if the feeling still is? Now I'm 17 and I believe he is 30 and i saw him at my best ... (477 words)

How can I feel better about my boyfriend smoking weed?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for the past two months. In the beginning, knowing he smoked weed, it didn't bother me at all. Just recently, he has began to smoke almost everyday. I have made it clear to him that i don't want to be near it and for him to be honest about it. ... (135 words)

Am I falling out of love with my boyfriend?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my current boyfriend for four years. When we first started dating, I found him to be extremely handsome, intelligent, and funny. However, from the beginning, I did notice that he had a slight drinking problem, was prone to random bursts of anger towards me, ... (335 words)

I love my b/f but really like someone else too

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend are both 19 and have been together for 4 years with about 2 months break with in them years. hes slept with a girl in one of the months we split what im getting over now. ive been talking to some other guy whos telling me that im really spechil to him and ... (235 words)

Did I need to pee? Or was that an orgasm?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I'm a 16 year old girl and this question is gals only because I'm fairly certain that guys can't answer it and if they can...well, I'll be a bit worried! Anyway, I turned 16 a couple of weeks ago and my bf and I had sex for the first time! Yay! But a week before h... (205 words)

Ex still wants to be friends but I have feelings for him

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys.. Right well i've been invited to this party by my ex and ever since he split up with me he invites me to all his parties and he has quite a few round at his... He thinks we can be friends...Well I guess we can but I do still have feelings for him... The thing is... (157 words)

Should I even try? She has a boyfriend!

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i knew this beautiful girl over the internet two years ago.. always has crush on her even after i knew she has a boyfriend. but i was "professional" enough to be just friendly.. as time passed by she sorta confessed that she has feelings for me, but it's her first time fallin ... (180 words)

I lost my virginity and its totally forbidden! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well...i live in the middle east in a country where sex before marriage is a sin worst then killing i've been with my bf for almost 6 months and we already had sex nobody knows about it...not even my best friend i'm so affraid of telling anyone because if my parents know the... (217 words)

How can I make our relationship develop in a very short time?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, guys, I have been liking the guy from my college, we are both draduates. After months, he asked me about my feeling and uncovered his interest, yet he is very shy and reserve by nature. He asked me not to take him wrong as he might need some time and that he is very shy. ... (158 words)

Found out boyfriend was cheating and now all I want to do is drink

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I hate my life. I have never felt so low, I found out my bf of 3 years has been cheating on me for a year and I feel so foolish! It was also with a girl i knew they are not together now but I feel so lonely. I find it hard to trust men after my dad. he was abusive (emotionally ... (367 words)

I want a child, he doesn't, get rid of him?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Everyone, I am a 37, about to turn 38 very young looking female. I have not met anyone special for almost 6 years. Finally I did! He is 30, has a 5 year old daughter. We spoke about me wanting to have a child. I would only like to give birth to one, and adopt a second. ... (150 words)

Is money the most important thing in life?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is money important? my mum says i should marry someone only for money, and basically im confused because my dad thinks the total opposite(that you should marry for love and money dosn't matter, and you should do anything you want to do and be who ever you want to be) . my... (210 words)

Have you eer been attracted to one of your friends ladies?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age - This is for the guys, have you ever been attracted to one of your male friends woman? Have you ever acted on it? Does it make a difference if they are married? If you had an attraction but were able to ignore it how did you do it? If you acted on it what happened?... (55 words)

How did an innocent conversation turn into talk of incest?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I need advice please, I raise my brother and sisters 5 and 8 and a step sister thats 15, how this came to be is long and tragic and i preffer sticking to my qestion. We where at a freinds house he has to afghan hounds male and female,my freind begans to tell the childre... (490 words)

Why would he say bad things about me?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so i am so depresed because of a stupiimmature thing like ''whos the best kisser'' but i need help coz it's hurting my feelings... almost every guy i kiss always wants more and we can make out all day long and they seem to like it so much that i thought at least i am go... (311 words)

How can I stop looking at other girls?

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15 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i am too much cupid. when i see the big brest and ass of other girls, i cant control.still i am unmarried. must of the night time i spend to see blue films n such as. n i spend all my day on work at office.my girl friend is also working with me at same office. we are happy ... (89 words)

I feel like I'm a tool she can throw away when she's done with me

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15 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so this is what's going on. I've been dating this female for a couple of months now and it seems that everything was going well until I noticed that I wasn't as special in her eyes as I thought. It seems that all she really wants is the bare her own children and she makes ... (150 words)

I got too obsessed with him and now he won't talk to me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what would u say to a guy who thinks u are crazy but he is a freak and sexy and u wanna come and see him on monday so u can work things out with him. but if he doesnt reply to the texts or emails but if he did yall would argue wat would u do knowing u really wanna work things ... (178 words)

Will my husband think I'm a slut if I say yes to all the things he wants me to do?

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15 August 2009 (F) age 51-59 - I have a question: My husband like porn. And certain things that the women there either do, or have done to them. He has mentioned to me stuff that "might be intersting" to do. (That he obviously got from watching this stuff.) Mild bondage and some anal experimentation. A... (248 words)

Twice he's said he needs to step back..so what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 August 2009 (F)

- Hi, se tisesion earlir didnt get any responses, so I'd really appreciate some help: i was seeing guy for 4 and a half months (not officially lke) 3weeks before he startd seeing me him n his gf of 3 n a halfyears broke up, about 1 month into things he asked to take a step bac... (165 words)

I wanted to kiss him, should I just have done it?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am lost... i really think i am in love with this boy. He is 3 years older than me. We have a connection. And he says he feels it too. Though he has just got out a big relationship... should that matter? We had this moment when i was with him... it was just us... and i really ... (124 words)

Ok with texting but don't know how to talk on the phone

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15 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay me and my girlfriend have known each other for a long time but never really talked to each other, and since we never gone to the same school we've never really seen each other. But latly we have been text messaging each other and it's Been great. I feel very strong for her ... (140 words)

Tried to stay friends with the ex but I get ignored, should I just forget it?

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15 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i was going along with this girl for a year and she was crazy about me ...we enjoyed each other's company and there was definately something special between us ..we shared whatnot and hanged around a lot ...then i dumped her for some reasons and she was devastated ...she got ... (448 words)

Dating someone who has been sexually abused..how do you go about it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

15 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, this might be on the edge of what this site is for but here it goes: There's this girl that really likes me and i really like her, i'm one of the very few people she has trusted enough to tell that she has been sexually abused by her uncle ever since she can remember. th... (253 words)

After strip club experience I can't think of being with women now

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15 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I got a question, whats so great about sex all my freinds talk about sex all the time that and how to get more money im so tired of hearing it they make it seem like its the best thing in the world basicaly they make it sound liek water or air. They go into great detail abo... (245 words)

Advice for meeting a girl I met online

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15 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I came across this girl a while ago on a dating site. A long while back. No, sorry that's wrong, she discovered my profile. We've been in contact intermittently since, and I know I want to meet her. I just worry that she might be put off by my being overweight. I am ... (135 words)

Give him a chance or listen to what I've heard?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello. i have been with my boyfriend for 3days now and people who have known him years and have past's with him say he will just use me for sex and that he will f**k me about and when he is out with his friends or drunk that he cant trust himself so he's likely to cheat on... (103 words)

Crushing on guy 10 years old than me and want to get over him!

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and crushing really hard on this guy, he is about 10 years older than me so we obv can't date. I'd appreciate all your tips, even the little ones, on getting over him. thanks :)... (41 words)

Have I done the right thing? I still like him

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, The first guy is 18years old, and the second guy is 17years old I am 16 years old I’ve kind of fell for this boy at this convention that I been to for 3 days ,He was staring at me all the way through when we both was waiting for this coach there was other people there t... (1090 words)

It's 4 times now - is he using me?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - the same guy who i was talkiing about in friends with benefits just asked be back out ...he broke up with me the frist time because people made fun of him cause i was 2 years younger than him second time was because hes to old and third time was because he doesnt want to h... (146 words)

Longer lasting way to relieve cramps?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Quite frankly, I hate period cramps. This is the worse I have gotten them in a long time. I had a warm bath earlier and it soothed them for a bit. But now they're back and they really hurt. Can anyone please recommened a longer-lasting way I can get rid of them? xo.... (62 words)

B/F having dinner with girl even though he knows how I feel about her!

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a long history with my boyfriend say like a three year relationship, but we had an issue,, because we once brokeup because of another girl i found in his appartment she tried so many times breaking us apart she talks bad behind my back and etc,,eventually i stopped ... (175 words)

Unsatisfied sex with husband has me thinking of a member of the family

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Wondering if you could give me some advice, my husband and I love each other but the problem comes with sex. He has never really been able to get an erection in the last 10 years and if he does get one it is not a complete one and dont last long. Because of this I have ... (389 words)

I'm 24, she's 14 but she loves me and I don't want to hurt her

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15 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi i was looking for advice and found this site, I wrote my whole question out and it got deleted some how. So I have to write again, Basically this girl who is a close family friend came onto me while i was at a Summer BBQ at her house, asked me if i had a Gf i told her no... (1462 words)

My father in law stinks and we don't like to visit anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me and my husband visit my parents some weekends, his others, alternating in between with a weekend for our own quality time together. Whenever we go down to my husbands' parents, it's my husband's dad that causes concern - he emits a foul odor. At least though, he's not... (251 words)

He doesn't want a relationship but I want to know if he likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Erm... what are the signs of a guy liking you who right now doesnt want a relationship and wants to be single? The reason i say this is this guy in my class seemed to really like me, the way he looked at me, the tensionn between us and everything. Trust me there were big s... (432 words)

Tips on how to get my girl back

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15 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I've previously asked advice on how to get the girl i want to spend the rest of my life with back. I know the spark has gone for now but I believe I can reignite it. Has anybody any advice I dont want people to say move on etc I would appreciate advice on how to go about ... (109 words)

Me and the ex are playing mind games

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15 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - im friends with my ex now ...she left the town 2 months back and has come for 2 days ...we both are like playing mind games with each other since we broke up and showing we dont care ....i feel she has started taking me for granted because everytime i have been calling her and ... (172 words)

While we had broken up she slept with someone else....and I can't stop thinking about it. Help!

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15 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I had a bad break up with no intent to get back together. While we were broken up, she thought I did not care about her and I thought the same as she did. we became started talking to each other between our break up, but very brief. Now it's been 6 months ... (286 words)

Is it better to break up with my boyfriend, or push my feelings for this other guy aside?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Back in April I started meeting up with this guy. We would end up kissing, and I'd stay the night, but we didn't go any further than kissing. He eventually told me that he was falling for me, and made it clear he might want a relationship in the near future. I didn't see him ... (273 words)

How can I make my boyfriend last longer in bed so both of us are satisfied?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to ask this but everytime my boyfriend and i see each other he can't go longer than about 1 minute and most of the time it's when i am on top. How can i make it so he lasts longer so both of us can be satisfied?... (51 words)

I like her so much that I'm worried I have somehow messed things up!

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15 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, i'll try to keep this short, so i met this girl the other week and got her number, the following week we met up in the afternoon and spent basically the rest of the day just hanging out, we got on great. So we end up at her place and just hang out, now we was constantl... (468 words)

I'm having serious problems with my kids, and now I don't know if I wish to see anyone in my family again. Please help

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15 August 2009 (?) age 51-59 - [MOD NOTE: Two questions posted together] I know my children will be fine, son of 17 and daughter of 14. They went into independence early and their social skills are advanced. Knowledge has been fed into them. I studied psychology etc... But what about me? My kids have aba... (464 words)

Separated from husband because I cheated... should I visit him when I'm next in his area?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear All, I have separated from my husband six months ago. And we are living in different cities. I am going to the city where he lives next week. I still have feelings for him. But I have hurt him very badly in the past. I have a lot of guilt regarding that because I was ha... (134 words)

My parents won't allow me to hang out with my friends because of the things they do, but I'm not like that! What can I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hai. Well..Obviously i have a problem..Its not that big i think..But i need to know yr opinion..I have this group of people i call them 'friends'..they have really bad habits.They drink,they smoke and others are doing drugs i think.But it kinda surprised me that they are smart ... (134 words)

Am I being out of line for saying he can't talk to girls he used to sleep with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok.... well.... I've been dating my fiancee for a year now... before that I was in a very serious, long term, relationship of 7+ years... now, I am only 25, so thats a long time... Any way, It almost seems the weekend that my boyfriend of 7+ years and I broke up, I started ... (256 words)

My teenagers have no time for me!

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15 August 2009 (?) age 51-59 - I am a 37 year old mother and have a 17 year old son and a 15 year old daughter. They seem so wrapped up in their own lives, that right now, I'm not included. I have always ensured they getting the best out of life, and I try to set them on the right path, but I am talked back ... (248 words)

20 years old and think I have ED!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5604 days ago

15 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. I'm 20, and I think I have erectile dysfunction. I've had a low sex drive recently. Usually my desire for sex is very high, and whenever I go without sex for long periods it only increases. Recently I've gotten into a relationship with someone. We have had sex together... (215 words)

Fiance has profile on online dating website, does that mean he doesn't love me?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been together for three years. The other day, his mom called me and asked if I could have him reply to her e-mail she had sent him a few days ago. We know each others passwords to our e-mails, so I thought I would just check his e-mail for him since he was ... (262 words)

Present for 15 year old girlfriend?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What should I get my girlfriend of 4 months for her birthday? She will be 15. I want it to be something that doesn't bank off how much I spend, but reflects on how much thought I put into it...... (40 words)

My sister's a binge eating bulemic and it needs to stop!

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15 August 2009 (F)

- Hello all, I have a question and I hope I can find someone who's in a similar situation. My sister is a bindge-eating bulemic. She eats everything in the house besides the cat then throws it all up. Recently I went into her room and found more than 15 2 liter bottles of vomit. ... (311 words)

This guy I like sometimes stops talking to me for up to a month. Is he toying with my emotions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I met this guy at the mall about 3 months ago and we have been talking a lot but were not in a relationship. We have been talking about meeting again. But anyway, he like sometimes stops talking to me for periods of time ranging from like 1 week- 1 month. Then hell start ... (97 words)

Is not being sexually compatible enough reason to end a marriage?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been married for 3 years. When my husband and I first got together we had a great sexual relationship. and even more so because we both lost our virginity to one another. it is special and he pleased me and I like to think I did the same. well when we got married and I ... (363 words)

Should I continue with marriage counselling? Or divorce?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - It will be 14 years of marriage, this month. We have 3 kids together. We went to marriage counseling in January and in April, I kicked him out. It was my decision, due to serious mistrust issues that he had. He would check the caller I.d, email, check my pay check for the ... (319 words)

How can I make my friend tell me if she is hitting on me?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i have this friend in school.she is hitting on me without a doubt.she touches my legs at the lunch tables and when she gives me a hug she makes sure i am sitting down so she can snuggle me with her breasts.i ask her a try to drop hints to make her tell me.and i know i cant ... (91 words)

I think I'm bi, but when I make out with girls it doesn't feel completely right. How can I be sure?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey evrybody out there.i am actually fairly young but i think i am bi.i make out with girls and it doesnt feel right.i like doing it but half of my wants me to stop.is there anything i can do to find out for sure?... (44 words)

Please help me, I don't know if this is the end between us!

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15 August 2009 (F)

- i was seeing guy for 4 and a half months (not officially lke) 3weeks before he startd seeing me him n his gf of 3 n a halfyears broke up, about 1 month into things he asked to take a step back n things were going well but for the past month ive started arranging everything ... (154 words)

I'm 33 and have never been in a serious relationship. Am I doomed to be an old maid?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay. So I am 33 years old and have never been in a serious relationship. I feel like most men my age would not want to be with someone who has so little experience. I think I'm a great catch. I am a little overweight which tends to hold me back but I am working on that. I ... (77 words)

Struggling to cope with my husband led me to sleep with another man...but now he has gone distant. What should I do? Should I try to make my marriage work?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I do not know exactly what I am asking here, but let me just begin. I have been in a marriage to an addict ( alcohol/prescription meds) for almost 15 yrs.. I really don't even consider it a marriage since I am more of a mother or a nurse to him. Before you judge me and ask ... (378 words)

Why is my boyfriend of five years looking at shemale porn?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i just discovered my boyfriend of 5 years has been looking at, and jacking off to shemale porn. i discovered it while using his computer. i was on google, and the little "memory typing" came up and said transvestite dating sites. i called my boyfriend as soon as i saw this and ... (192 words)

She only has sex with me to "get it over with". I want to express my love for her, what can I do?

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15 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been with my wife since I was 18, for 20 years. I still can't figure out how to relate to her. She wants sex about once a month, maybe less. I want sex every day. The only time it is rewarding for me is if she enjoys it and wants to be there. And this never seems to h... (248 words)

He likes me, so why doesn't he want to make me his girlfriend?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me n this guy liked each other over a year, but he told me he doesn't want a gf right now. Me n him had a relationship w/o da title but ppl knew we were "together" n we never cheated on each other. a) should I just give up completely b)should I wait c)should i wait bu... (124 words)

Am I not good enough for him if he wants to look at other girls?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in a 3 month relationship, with this guy i really do love. i am having jealousy problems, i think. when i first got together with him, i knew he had playboys. but it did not bother me at the time. well later on in the relationship, i would get jealous if he starred to long ... (177 words)

We've talked about me being with another woman...but why has he picked her? Is he attracted to her?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so my fiance of 4 years and i have been discussing myself beining with another women which im kinda interested in if its the right person, so we talked about this for 3-4 ,months non stop then he just let go for awhile. last nite he walks in from work and his exact words ... (148 words)

How do I break up with my girlfriend without breaking her heart?

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15 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my girl been together for about 6months. 3months into the relationship i moved away and we kept going as an LDR. For some wierd reason After I moved away we started talking on the phone for like 12hours straight everyday and got really close. The problem is I have no ... (178 words)

I need help! My fiance won't go down on me, and I also want to please him more!

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a fiance that wont go down on me and I need my sex pleasures to be meant please help me out and also I want to please my man more How can I do that and in what positions. please help me... (44 words)

How do I let go of the only person in my life that matters?

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15 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my gf for about a year and a half and we live together. I love her very much and I know she loves me back. I've known her for many years as we had met in high school through mutual friends, but we never really progressed into anything as I was never at school and ... (527 words)

Could my husband be gay?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a serious problem! My husband of many years spends most of his time and makes excuses to invite male friends to our house a little too often. He seels to enjoy their company more than mines and keeps away from me unless he wants to have sex with me. He does not look ... (395 words)

My ex boyfriend screws up all my new affairs, what to do?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear readers, Im having problems with my emotional love life. It started a couple years ago when I broke up with the perfect guy, and i'm not overreacting about this, he was really the love of my life. After that, i've been with other guys but i just can't forget him! and wh... (135 words)

How do we deal with problems before they get out of hand?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are dating since a yr and half almost. we have our ups and downs and we've come across a lot of big and small problems that most relationships have and then ultimately everything gets fine after the fight when we both realise that its us after all and we ... (212 words)

Is hair on boobs common? Does it turn guys off?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this part of the question is for girls - ok well do u guys have hair on ur boobs? And if u do, do u guys shave it and is there just a little bit of hair or a lot? Is it normal to have hair there? Ok boy ur turn! - okay well on girls the hair on their boobs and in between t... (90 words)

Watching him masturbate was hot, but now I'm obsessing and feeling useless at sex.

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I would like to start out this question by saying I think masturbation is healthy and I never used to have problems with it. Now the question. I never even bothered to think about whether my boyfriend masturbated, because I really didn't care if he did. We have always had a ... (370 words)

How else can I meet new people?

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15 August 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Ok so I am a single 26 year old, I have been single for soooooo long. All of my friends are in long-term relationships, getting married, are already married and having children, I am really happy for them because they have found good men that are making them happy. Ever so ... (183 words)

Ex runs hot and cold and I can't figure out what's going on in her head

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15 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Im not even sure where to start with this one, this is a problem im having with an ex im having who i still very much have feelings for but i just cant bring myself to be honest with her about it anymore. But i just cant figure out whats going on in her head, shes so confusin... (703 words)

Stange lump something to worry about?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Warning you now this is going to sound gross but I just wanted to ask on here incase its nothing because I'd rather not have to show this to a doctor or anyone. A random sort of pea sized lump has grown in my anus, most of the time I can't feel it but its not painful but sort... (156 words)

One minute we're fine, the next we hardly talk. What's going on in this friendship?

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey...erm if you read this your a saint! And if u even attempt to try and think about it and reply to me....well your offically the best! You see, im very confused about one of my friends...hes male, we went to college together but we have now left. Thing is i seem to feel w... (815 words)

Want to be with my stepsister how do I get her?

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15 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay i know it may sound a little sick, but i want to be with may sister... Granted she's my STEP sister, but still, i know she would be against it if i told her that i secretly love her and want to be with her because she considers us siblings even though our parents aren't ... (123 words)

He has pics of his ex everywhere!

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15 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - HOKAY.. so im nineteen years of age and im dating this guy who is twenty five. So he just broke up with his ex five months ago and they were together like seven years, and have a kid together. He has pictures of her everywhere!! like his facebook myspace computer everywhere. ... (91 words)