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female
age
26-29,
*sian!
writes:This guy says he loves me but I don't know if I believe him. We went out and then just out of nowhere he ended it cause he 'just found someone else' and after three months of us not talking he texted me out of the blue. We started talking and I have never stopped loving him after two weeks of us talking again he told me he loves me, I said it back but I don't know if I should believe that he really means it. I don't want to get hurt by him again but I still love him so much. Please help.
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reader, xAx  +, writes (5 August 2009):
 From what you have written, it doesn't sound like he loves you truely as he left you in the first place. If i were you, i'd make him chase you to test exactly how much he likes you. E.g. Take longer to answer text messages, if he wants to meet up, say your busy and that he should ask again another time. If he gives up eventually, you have your answer. If he doesn't, then i'd give it a another try. Incase, he does like you and leaves you again for the second time, please do not go back to him. He shall hurt you more and use you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): hey there, ok so uf your ex tells you he loves you, thenleft you because he "found someone else", then comes backto you and says "i love you", the pretty obvious choice is that he doesn't love you. maybe he's just saying that because he doesn't want to be single and alone, and maybe he's thinking if he tells you he loves you, then maybe you'll get back with him. he's a jerk and if i were yousweetie, i would not believe that. there are plenty of fish in the sea and i think you caught the wrong one. it'sup to you, but personally i would not believe him or get back with him, because like i said he's gonna think that he can leave you, then come back, then leave you, then come back and no matter what your always gonna forgive him.just forget about him honey, you'll find someone soon enough. hope this helped and good luck =]
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