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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Dating for 3 years troubled the whole time

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well it all started about three years ago. we have been going out for three years and its just been so hard since day 1. Well first of all let me say he dont work he dont go to school and he is pratically like they say a bum. I work i am going to college. I loved him because he ... (511 words)

Why do men/women cheat on their husband/wife?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5421 days ago

14 August 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Why do men/women cheat on their husband/wife? Is it just because they can't resist a beautiful person? Is it because they aren't fully committed? Well then, why did they get married in the first place? Is it because their spouse changes? I love my husband, he's amazing. I ... (198 words)

Can marriage survive without sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I married 5years ago to my irish husband who is 23 years older than me. we have problemes in bed i tried to see sex expert and do few session. things are change for better. i dont feel intimacy during sex, my husband never make love before me and its very hard to do penetration ... (186 words)

Feelings for a co-worker

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have feelings for my co worker,i dont know can i tell him that i have feeling for him or not..but i feel bad when i see him or if i didn't see him... (34 words)

Yes baby! No baby! Yes baby, NO! Confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5585 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi so im in a pretty messed up situation, here is the story...im 19 years old my boyfriend is 30. we have only been together several months. he is in a lot of debt and i just graduated from school. i am pregnant i found out the end of may,i told him and he said we HAD to have ... (597 words)

What is causing my low sex drive? Has anyone else had this problem before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've had a low sex drive recently. Usually my desire for sex is very high, and whenever I go without sex for long periods it only increases. Recently I've gotten into a relationship with someone. We have had sex together, but it wasn't all that enjoyable due to the ... (176 words)

Is it normal for the semen to come back down and out?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have the implant, me and my boyfriend have both been for check-ups and we are both disease free! We have started having sex without a condom, I'm wondering if it's normal for the semen to come back down/out of me? It's abit messy sometimes and gets me down quite alot as I ... (104 words)

My long-distance girlfriend is sending love messages to other guys.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

14 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - am in a long dist relationship for a year n half.i love this girl and recently we had sex after waitin for a year. after she slept i went through her cellphone and i saw some luv text she has sent to some guys.she didnt deny but she didnt explain.she just said that she loves ... (74 words)

Are guys our there who like androgymous tomboy girls?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5130 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am not straight. I like women more but men sometimes too. I feel most comfortable being androgynous - shortish hair, confident manner, and a bit tomboyish: I like to open doors for my dates and generally naturally gravitate away from the feminine damsel role. I want to date ... (105 words)

Advice for a schizophrenic brother

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I am looking for help with my brother who has bee diagnosed with schizophrenia. My brother has been very sick for about three years, but was probably sick before that. I would love to hear practical solutions from anyone who has experience or might know about this illness. ... (214 words)

Would it be bad to wait a year before I get back together with me ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5539 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf broke up about 2 weeks ago. We have had contact since then. He is going to ucsd in about a month and im staying home (about 2 hrs away) to finish my last year of high school. He told me how he thinks that we are a great match for one another, but we are too ... (154 words)

Do I have to be popular to be happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - well i amm 22 m and cant socialise...lately i have entered the world where there are people having $hit loads of friends around me and having a ball! but i am struggling with myself and my personality and just dont have it in me to become popular like other guys...so cant i ... (104 words)

I'm so in love with my ex and she has blocked me on her phone for the 2nd time

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3331 days ago

14 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i need help. any advise? i am so crazy in love with my ex girlfriend it is sickening. we have been apart for about a month and a half now. i took the step and called her yesterday from a pay phone due to her blocking my cell phone number previously. i talked to her on the pay ... (326 words)

Perverts on the train!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Im 15 and everyday i go on this one crowded train to go to a main public place that me and my friends like to hang out. i am always on the train alone (because none of my friends live near me). One day i was wearing a skirt(it was a mini skirt but it was short) and i felt s... (204 words)

With my wife for our daughter but I'm in love with someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have a wife who i have been married to for 12 years and we have a daughter that is 9 this year, before we had our daughter things between us were ok, we then decided to try for a baby and she didnt become pregnant straight away she then got depressed and she eventual... (498 words)

My boyrfriend never seems intersted and I'm getting bored.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, right I really need ur help, but I would appreciate it if u wud answer this as if u were me so put urselves in my shoes. Ok basically its about my bf of 3 months, I fancied the pants of him from the moment I saw him then eventually we got together and everythi... (192 words)

Should I break it off to be fair to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in the middle of going separate ways with my ex-partner (it is a guy)we are not together as a couple but still live in the same house until our things are sorted. We still get on well and I still care for him, but I came out as gay a while ago. Becuase of this I don't ... (902 words)

He doesn't want to lose me but says I'm not what he's looking for

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I started being friends with my next door neighbor about seven months after I moved in. We quickly began having sex, talking on the phone and seeing each other practically everyday. He says that I am the closest person to him other than his family. He also says that when he ... (195 words)

How do I tell parents that my fiance and I split up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my fiance split up 3 weeks ago after being together for just over 6 and a half years. all my family know apart from my sister and my parents, all his family know. My parents are away and have been since the middle of April and do not know a thing. everyone is tell... (208 words)

How do I get her back after she thought I was cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi cupid.am nicolas.i broke up with with my girlfriend,she suspected me that i was cheating on her.i have tried to apologize in vain.what can i do to bring her back?.i love her.... (32 words)

Sometimes he stares at me so much I want him to stop!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5606 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i recently met a really cute guy,but i'm not sure if he really likes me.when he first saw me he kept staring at me like mad,showed me to his friend and tried in differnt ways to stay as close as possible to me.a few days later he started a conversation with me on a very random ... (177 words)

Used just for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - why are relationships so hard to maintain? how can you tell when a guy is only using you for sex? can a boy be to good to be true? -help? xxxx... (54 words)

Why do I find it so difficult to have a relationship? Am I too picky?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 23 year old female, postgraduate student (will be graduating this year), working part-time and looking for a full time job. I have plenty of male friends and they all tell me that I'm very attractive, smart, confident and mature for my young age. most of them have asked ... (237 words)

I want the REAL deal!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so my boyfriend (6 months dating) is talking about us moving out together in the near future. Us buying a home is a huge deal and commitment!! All this talk gets me ancy. But what about a ring on this finger?? I haven't told him yet, but I'm not moving in without assurance ... (175 words)

Can a friends with benefits turn back into a successful relationshIp?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, So is it possible? My ex and I were once really in love. He broke it off more or less because we started to argue (once it was long-distance for a few months). We then took a few months away from each other. I thought I'd lost him for good, but in the last little ... (319 words)

Help!!! I'm worried!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend cheated on me along time ago with the guy she lost her virginity. No sex, they just kissed then she walked away. The same thing happened at the beginning of our relationship. She was quite the party animal and used to drink a lot. We hve been together for a long ... (312 words)

He said he needs "time to sort out his head"... how much TIME should I give him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - When a man says he needs 'time to sort out his head' after an argument, How long do you consider is appropriate? ! I feel almost foolish to ask but I havent contacted Its 3 days now and a slight panic is setting in Would appreciate some advice Oh and its a b/f and he ... (69 words)

I don't get why he's like this, anyone able to help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now, I'm 26, he's 29. We've been engaged for 2 years now. In the last few weeks he's become very interested in signing us up as members of AARP, lost interest in sex and spends all his time on the Internet looking up finance and p... (210 words)

Why text me when he was with his new girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I was with someone for a couple of months and i split up with im i was simply to busy doing my house up he was fine with this and carried on txtin i met up with im a couple of times, then he started seeing someone else, but kept texting me no just friendly ones asking me if i ... (191 words)

My husband seems to have taken a vacation from work just to sit around all day eating and watching porn!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has taken 6 weeks off work. Nothing odd about that you may think, after all we all have to have a holiday, don't we? Well, it's his behaviour that's worrying me. He just sits in front of the television eating nachos, corn chips, chocolate and drinking Diet Coke... (263 words)

Do I try again... or do I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Five years ago I met the love of my life, the girl of my dreams. It was not a stress free relationship, she was still married but seperated from her husband who was addicted to drugs and a loose cannon. She has twin girls who my son and I also got very close to. I loved her ... (711 words)

Is it ok to go out with someone you really like even though they might not be "the one"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year old girl and haven't had a boyfriend yet. I'm not particularly worried about that...but I'm just a little confused at the moment. I've always thought that people should go out to build a steady and loving relationship rather than just for a bit of fun...but I'm... (176 words)

Is 5 inches enough?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

14 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend are totally in love. We are thinking of having sex but I don't think I would be good. I have a pretty little 5 inch penis. Is that enough??... (33 words)

How can I get over my boyfriends mistakes in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 years, and we have been really serious. When he moved out of his parents house and into a friends place, things started getting rough. He was living with two other guys, so I was also concerned about other girls being there, and ... (418 words)

I am considering losing my virginity to a prostitute. What do you think?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

14 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Should I sleep with a prostitute? Well I’m new to this site and thought it might be able to help me with my problem: you see I’m 23 and still a virgin. The thing is, I don’t mind that so much because I’ve always valued my virginity and sex as something special; that wh... (248 words)

He's being short with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5583 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a long distance relationship for about a year. We have only seen each other a couple of times but I love him so much and I felt the same. We talk about me moving out there because he cant leave his son. At first I did not like the idea, but Ive learned to live ... (218 words)

How do I support my wife after she had a miscarriage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my wife have been married for 4 years and a couple of months back, when the home phone line bill came through it was huge, i didn't have a problem paying it but it was weird we hardly use it, it's just for business, family or friends just encase they can't reach us on ... (1061 words)

We want to be together but she's got a boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi my relations with girls is a mess i like this girl but i think she just wants to be freinds and i kinda like this other girl who i pulled last saturday but has a boyfreind whos my best freind we both dont want to hurt hit but we cant stay away from each other please help ... (68 words)

Kissing with the tongue and can't get it right

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello, i am a 15 year old girl. ive had a few boyfriends andwe do kiss (but they only stick their tounge in my mouth). recently(yesterday) i had a new boyfriend and i really want to stick my tounge into his mouth and "snog" but my tounge just wont go, he puts his in but i cant ... (81 words)

Does looking at gay porn me I'm bisexual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

14 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 23, and was in a relationship with a girl for 3 months until I broke up with her of my own volition 4 weeks ago. In the past few weeks I've been looking at gay porn (like Mr. Gay UK, Gay Times) and then I feel dirty afterwards, as I'm normally attracted to girls. I... (187 words)

Does a man know when his mate has had sex with another?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Does my man feel it when I've just had sex with someone else,maybe a day or two ago?... (18 words)

Squeezing during sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I normally squeeze my vagina during sex,is it safe for me and does my patner feel it.... (17 words)

My husband was seen with a male dominator, how do I resolve this? I don't want to give up on my marriage!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband told me he had to go to an important work party, and I believed him. He put on one of his nicest business suits. I got a phone call that same night from a friend of mine who was at a fancy dress party, who said she'd seen my husband (dressed as usual in his bus... (239 words)

How do I stop being so shy around the guy I really like?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i met a guy and i really like him but i tend to be shy around people i like and it stops me from being myself and want to be myself because i beleive its workin against me and i dont to loose him what do i do?... (49 words)

He said he used to pretend his ex wife was me in bed, what does that mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been together for a long time now. our relationship has been kind of complex. we dated when we were younger for several years. then it ended and he married someone else. through a series of events we got back together after ten years. in a ... (95 words)

Is it possible that she just fell out of love with me overnight? Or is there another reason why she ended things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, time to tell you the story. Right, im 20 years old, and my ex is 18. We meat in college last september, and from day 1 I knew she was special. Within a week of college me and her had become great friends, bestfriends, but i was to afraid to ask her would she like to go ou... (683 words)

My boyfriend has gone travelling for a year, I'm not sure if I want to wait around that long for him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im 21 years old and my boyfriend has chosen to take a gap year in australia. he has been gone for 7 weeks and im missin him so much but wondering if it is worth it? he had already booked to go away before we got together so everytime i try and talk to him he said u knew this ... (84 words)

How do I show him I want to do stuff with him when we are alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy that I dont know if i like or not.. Its so frustrating.. Like he always wants to do stuff in public like when I hug him he always lifts up my shirt and grabs my ass and I just laugh and move his hand. But when we're alone in his car we just sit there.. I ... (111 words)

My ex boyfriend makes my life living hell

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5607 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok my ex boyfriend is really mean .he is going around telling every one i have a mustache and im fat.and i cry at school and stuff cause everyone makes fun of me and after he says it he ask me back out and i always say yes i dont know why i just cant let go of him.what should i ... (65 words)

My ex says that he loves me and wants to marry me oneday but for now all we can be is friends with benefits!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex boyfriend said he still loves me and wants to be with me but cant.he said me and him should be friends with benefits,he said he will wait for me so i can be his first he has sex with and he is gonna ask me to marry him when where older what should i do wait for him or ... (79 words)

I want a baby at 13

This question has 36 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - the thing is i am 13 (14 on october the 26th) and i want a baby so much i cannot explain my feelings i know i am ready i have tryed to put it off by babysitting but that makes my feelings stronger i have looked it up on the internet and told my mum but i dont know where to turn ... (212 words)

Implanon trouble! Is this normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - On the 9th of April 09 I had the implant inserted, since then I've had a dark brown discharge almost everyday from then, which is said to be normal. Some days I'd have nothing at all, some days it would come back. Last week I had blood instead of dark brown discharge which I ... (151 words)

Past is the past right? I'm concerned by the number of her sexual partners!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi Ive been seeing a new partner for a few months now.. i did the old fashioned courting, but eventually the moment came to have sex. The night was fab..no problems there, but while lying there chatting.. the topic of how many partners we have had in the past came up. ... (151 words)

I've been told I am a little feminine, do women find this attractive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey, does girls find a guy who behave little like a woman attractive? Well its just that some of my girl friends usually drop a joking statement that i behave like a lady. But not the way i walk cos i walk like guy. But they say its the way i laugh, smile, talk and sometime... (87 words)

How can I make things better? My lies are making a mess of our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So today my girlfriend and I were sitting on the computers. She was at her house and of course me at mine. Were both 16 and we have been in the relationship 6months now. We were sitting just after watching a couple of anime episodes and then she said she wanted to talk to me ... (264 words)

One of my ex-girlfriends keeps trying to get back with me because she thinks I took her virginity, but did I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

14 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - One of my ex-girlfriends keeps trying to get back into my life because she keeps claiming that we are destined to be together because I took her virginity. But I really don't think that what I did with her really counted. Sure, we had all sorts of sexual fun, but we only ... (204 words)

He said he was falling for me and then started flirting with my friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey Everyone!..I need Help i have some boy troubles.. Okay,so i have been talking to this guy for the past month now, We are really close he tells me everything and i tell him everything too..He lives in America =/ and i live in ireland.. Well,one night while we were flir... (323 words)

Can I get pregnant if my boyfriend touches me after he has touched himself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i and my bf didnt had sex,we were on bed just fooling and touching each others p parts,but just want to ask one thing will i get pregnant if he touches his discharge and with the same finger he touches my vagina.?... (42 words)

Please help me solve this relationship-friend problem! I don't know why they're against me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been dating almost two years. He is really close to his group of friends. His best friends wife recently launched an attack against me. She's made up all these lies about things I didn't say. She's had help from my boyfriends ex. So, now, the girls in ... (237 words)

Naked photos of women on my boyfriends phone and lack of sex are making me think he is just not that into me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - about 6 months ago I found a naked photo of my boyfriends ex wife in his phone. We had been together about 6 years at this stage. He told me it was an old photo from years ago but his phone was only new - so either it was a new photo or he had recently uploaded it. Today I ... (179 words)

After sex there was a clear slimy liquid but the condom didn't break! What was it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So I need your guys is help. ok well I was having sex with my boyfriend but we where using a condom so when we finish and when to the bathroom I clean my self and I saw a clear liquid but it was kind of slimy and dont know what's that? can someone help me? oh and well I check ... (81 words)

Can yeast or Candida lead to infertility? Which STI's have this effect?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I've read somewhere that some STIs may result to infertility. I don't know the truth in this but i just wanna know, can yeast do this or is it Candida? Again, which of the STI can do this? Thank you!... (41 words)

Any advice for teen relationship, and a possible breakup at hand?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Before you begin to read, I must warn you the following might sound childish, and I may even sound stupid. I just ask you put that aside and just try and help my regardless. I'm fourteen, and almost four months ago, I started dating this boy. It's been amazing since, I mean, th... (335 words)

Should I believe him? Or think hes a liar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

14 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. Soo basically I was just lied to and fuckd with by a good friend of mine. He told me he's bi. Which I'm ok with. But someone... so my friend says txtd me from his phone telling me that he really like me and would've said yes if I asked him out. But the next day I talked to ... (97 words)

I have done something I could regret for the rest of my life. Please help me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know there are a million of these questions out there but i just want some advice for my situation. see I met this guy at a school dance 5 years ago in yr 8. It turned out that he caught my bus home from school every day and we got talking and i started to really like him.(i ... (418 words)

She doesn't love me because she's lost hope in love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5544 days ago

14 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - am in love with my friend. she likes me. but doesn't love me coz she has lost hope in love. wat should i do?... (24 words)

This guy is giving me mixed signals

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I swear the guy I've been seeing for the past few months is giving me mixed signals! He acts like no guy I've ever known before. Some of the time, I'd think from the way he acted, he was only with me for sex...only we haven't actually had sex yet. On the one hand: - he's tol... (357 words)

GUYS: what do you do when a platonic friend confesses she likes you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what do u do when a platonic friend confesses that she likes u more than just a friend? - do u tell her that ud like to stay friends? - do u feel awkward and avoid her? i am especially interested in knowing why the guy would avoid his good friend after hed found out that ... (84 words)

What are some activities we could do in bed for the weekend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

14 August 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I have been seeing a great guy. he asked me to a bed and breakfast for a few nights to get away. Is he inviting me to staying in bed all weekend? what are some activities we could do in bed for weekend? ... (51 words)

Should I stay with my ex or bf?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex is still in the picture, even though I have a new bf who I live with, My bf is nice, but does not help me out economically, we share expenses, but if I am going to the doctor, he does not even ask me if I have money or not. My ex did supported me economically and now ... (241 words)

Would we be good together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5609 days ago

14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this guy named Zack :) he and i have known each other for about 3 or 4 years and we're pretty good friends. hes always been there for me. Hes a PK so if i need help he'll give me bible verses and help me. and I used to call him brother because, well, he was like a ... (201 words)

We arrange to meet, and she always cancels. How can I make this date happen?

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14 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - thanks for reading! I have meet this really amazing Girl on the internet and she seems to be very shy.We have had some great conversations on the phone for hours at a time and when we talk its natural and nothing is forced and there isnt any odd moments really.We have webcamed ... (284 words)

My husband keeps suggesting that I find a boyfriend to have sex with. Is this normal in a marriage?

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14 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm not sure if I am in the minority or not but here goes. I am a sexually frustrated wife. I have been married for over 17 yrs. with kids. My husband has suggested to me over many years that I find a boyfriend that can keep up with me. Is there anybody out there that thinks ... (161 words)

I'm not in love with my wife anymore

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14 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello, Ive been married for a few years now and i care for my wife and i love my daughter. But im not in love with my wife, i feel so unhappy and depressed i dont know what to do, my wife loves me and i dont like see her unhappy but im afraid to tell her how i really fee... (131 words)

Is the guy from my past the reason I don't feel strongly for this new one?

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14 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Does anyone know much about attraction and how it works? I'm dating a model, have been for a few months and I just saw a new poster of him advertising something and it hit me that I don't really feel anything for him, no driving attraction. I guess I do sometimes, like when he ... (340 words)

I'm falling for him again, but he's still with the baby mother

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14 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Need some advice. About 10 years ago right after high school I was seeing this guy...we will call him John. Everything was great between us until right after John's high school graduation. See I bought him a present which happened to be a gold ring with his initial on it. ... (321 words)

I love her but our circumstances prevent us from being together

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14 August 2009 (M)

age - This one is long so I will try and be brief. I am a male, 50 years old. I have been married 21 years. My marriage was wonderful the first two years and then suddenly my wife had terrible brain seizures. She was diagnosed initially with schizophrenia and suffering from c... (1436 words)

How do you juggle dating and work?

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14 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I got out of a 4 year relationship just under a year ago and now that I'm dating again, I'm wondering how people cope with 1) the uncertainty of it all, getting to know different guys at the same time and not knowing if there could be a future with one or any of them and 2) ... (125 words)

My girlfriend says "You would try if you wanted it" way too much..

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14 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so it's perfectly fair to play hard to get, it's a real turn on in the bedroom and can make the average romp become a wild night to remember. This is NOT the case when she says it every time you want to do something, holding hands is a prime example or even a simple ki... (210 words)

Will he think I'm not interested if I can't talk to him on the phone?

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14 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I started talking to a great guy online, flirting and joking around, then after a while, we moved on to texting each other. Now he wants to call me and I keep making excuses not to because I'm worried it won't go well. My ex, who I broke up with at the end of last year after a ... (203 words)

Negative sexual experiences affecting current relationship

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14 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I won't go into details, but a few years ago I had some really bad sexual experiences. I've been with my current boyfriend for a little over 5 months now and things are fantastic between us. We also have amazing sex, and a lot of it. Recently, however, I have come into contact ... (363 words)

Please help walk me through my next steps!

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14 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, ive just turned 18 and im in abit of a difficult situation. Im not the most confident guy in the world, i suppose when it comes to my friends though im pretty confident and just generally friendly. Thing theres 4 of us who are the best of friends we;re together all the ... (549 words)

It's a constant struggle trying to lose my tummy fat and it won't go away! What can I do?

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14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there =) I have struggled with weight maintenance for as long as I can remember and I have pretty bad genetics. Everyone is obese with diabetes in my adult family (aunts, uncles, grandparents) and an aunt on both my mother and fathers side have had gastric bypass surgery. I ... (167 words)

I want to pleasure him, I just don't know how! Any advice...

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14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok ok ok, Im 16 and I've never gave a handjob, nor a blowjob. I want to give my boyfriend one soooo bad. The only thing thats stopping me of course is me not knowing how. Im willing to try, im just a tad lost. If im givnig him a handjob or blowjob, will it still feel good to ... (135 words)

Vaginal sex just isnt what it used to be for me. What could be wrong?

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14 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have a sex question about a problem I haven't heard about before. I used to be able to do kegels and feel my gspot intensely tingle and become extremely aroused and wet within seconds, this no longer happens. In fact, where I used to feel my gspot now feels numb even ... (174 words)

Six months ago I was warm and affectionate but now I'm cold. How can I change back?

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14 August 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Ok hi. So, my whole life i've never had anger in me. I would feel sadness and joy but it was almost impossible to make me angry. I have always forgiven easily and quickly, and truely forgotten. I had hope in people and saw the good in them. I was insecure, I admit, painfuly... (271 words)