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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I forgive my wife for being a prostitute?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

1 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - We have now been married for 7 months. I met her at a bar and we started dating. She is a very good looking girl and 26 years old. Im 25 and hansome. I feel for her very quickly and we got married in 4 months. When we were dating i asked her what she did for work and she said ... (341 words)

Do I just need to 'buck up' and take it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help. I am 19 and have been with my boyfriend for over 2 and a half years. I've never had intercourse, but he is 23 and has since he was 18... We've done oral mostly, and I've only been fingered a couple of times, with a ton of pain. I really want to have sex with... (183 words)

Is it wrong to want a long engagement?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

1 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it wrong to want to have a long engagement? I have been dating my girlfriend for about 2.5 years and yesterday I proposed. This is something that she's wanted for a very long time and its something that I really wanted to do when I did. I want our engagement to last close to ... (96 words)

Romantic love or glorified crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

1 August 2009 (M)

age - Dear All, I have a problem in that I simply do not know whether I have romantic love for a particular lady or whether it is just a glorified "adult crush". I feel "romantically fond" of her and, to be honest, I am starting to feel slightly "smitten" as well. I wonder whe... (112 words)

I'm developing a weird superstition....

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1 August 2009 (M) age 41-50 - I 'm developing a weird superstation,I feel, if I really really want to reach something I can't, but if I give it up, and I don't care anymore it will just come to me.. Now this is happeneing over and over agai, and it is so much more the oposite I keep hearing from common s... (152 words)

Is it okay for him to keep letters and pictures of his ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband still keeps his ex-girlfriends letters and photos..Is it ok? My husband kept his ex-girlfriends photos and letters over 20 years. At first I want to burn those letters and photos. I asked him permission, i am not going to burn them..just throw them instead.... (140 words)

How can I stop being self-consious during sexual activity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well ive been with my boyfriend for a while now, and we are pretty sexually active. although we both would like to have sex, we want to do other things before that. so far i have tossed my lad off twice and he loves it to say the least. we want to move on to him fingering me... (187 words)

Do I have a chance with this relationship now hes single?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age - I met a guy at work four years ago, he had a girlfriend of about five years then, but we would see each other at work and away from work. he recently left that job and lives about an hour and a half from me now and three months ago he broke up with the girlfriend. we always ... (156 words)

I can't deal with the affair I'm having with my teacher knowing I will lose him one day

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 5608 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Am in emotional turmoil. Please don't pass moral judgment on me because I know that I will seem wrong. I lost my virginity the other day to my married former teacher. We have the most intense, intimate, amazing friendship I know I will ever experience, and I am totally besot... (523 words)

Sibling rivalry. What to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I'm at my wit's end, I don't know where else to go. I have a very strange issue of sibling rivalry that is not exactly sibling rivalry. I'll try to explain as succinctly as possible [warning: LONG] I live in a household where intelligence and marks are a ver... (962 words)

Masterbation and orgasm questions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - what are some new ways to finger myself that feel reeaallyy good? i am 13 and dnt have a vibrator. or a vibrating toothbrush. wht can i use. what are some new ways? and what does an orgasm feel like?... (40 words)

I can't stop thinking about her, how do I get over my shyess and make a move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

1 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - A girl I dated for a few months back during the end of senior year of high school is living in the same house as me. This house really belongs to mutual friends of ours. One of these friends happens to be her best friend whom lets her live there for half the rent everyone else ... (550 words)

How do I get in good physical shape to do basic combat trainning?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - this is not a relationship question but i get great advice from this website so i might as well see if anyone can help. well i'm 15 years old and i would like to join the army national guard when i turn 17. i would like to know if anyone can give me information on how to get ... (95 words)

Is 4 years too big of an age gap?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Im 16 and like a 20 year old man he's a cashier that always flirts with me. I was wondering if 20 is too old for me i'm not an immature person but i'm not really sure if it's okay for me to say something to him or ask him if he would like to go for coffee. I know it's... (178 words)

I can't get girls to go on dates with me... what's the problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

1 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i hit it off when i meet any girl. i mean the initial impression that i leave on the girl is favourable. but i start to have doubts when the girl starts responding and start withdrawing. so, i cant get them to go on a date with me. this is inexplicable to me.. a bit weird too.. ... (67 words)

How can I make it look like I'm not a virgin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5613 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello everyone... okay so ill just get straight to the point. i REALLY like an older man and he REALLY likes me too and recently we have been talking about "hooking up" only problem is im a virgin but he thinks im not (x3) because one day i was with my bff and didnt feel li... (136 words)

Should I wait for my boyfriend of 7 years to propose to me or should I start looking for a new guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 years and though he has expressed that he wants to marry me, he says he can't marry me yet due to limited finances. The problem is, I know him well enough. Limited finances has never been a hindrance to him. If he wants something,... (119 words)

What's going on with this girl? She keeps letting me down at the last minute!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently pursued a relationship with a girl I met in a college class. I initially requested to go to a movie and she replied that she was busy. A day after I asked, she initiated two conversations on facebook that lasted around an hour each. I thought- great maybe she was ... (250 words)

I'm nine years older than her, and don't know what to do with my feelings for her. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

1 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I'm not sure if this is a question as much as me just wanting to get it out, but here's my situation. I'm 9 years older then a girl I've meet recently. I know her family well, her parents, little sister, and little brother I see as my own family. We flirt and talk a lot. I ... (425 words)

After every few dates the guy starts to ignore me! Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 20 year old female nad my problem is probably common but would like your opinions please. . . Ive never had a relationship which lasted more than 3 months and to be honest it was never really good, I'm a pretty decent looking girl with a good job and a really nice pers... (228 words)

Should I let my husband have sex with my best friend?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age - Is it wrong that my husband wants to sleep with my best friend and wants me to join with him we have been with another man but I don't like that fact he wants his turn with a female now we love her both very much she is very close to us like family what should I think about ... (99 words)

We've had threesome and now my husband wants to try swinging! But I get upset at the thought of him wanting another woman. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age - My husband wants to swing I thought I could try this but I didn't do so well I got mad and had a fight with him. He wants a little fun in our marriage so I thought I could do this I don't know If I can do this without getting mad and arguing with him. We have had a three some ... (86 words)

Update: We spent the whole day together, is this a good sign?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

1 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi i posted this question the other day and got lots of fantastic answers. since then we took the car to the garage yesterday and spent 14 hours driving to different places and got dinner together. whats everyones thought on this is it a good sign?? Hi, please help im get... (362 words)

Does he just want sex or does he want to see how things might develop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am not sure what to think, I have fancied this guy from work for a while, on a recent night out he asked me when we were going to hook up because he knew I fancied him and I said well that depends when you want to go out, he looked and smiled and just said you know what I ... (128 words)

Menstrual cramps, relief techniques that work? Help please!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I definately need some girl advice right about now. What do you do to relieve your menstrual cramps? It's so bad for me that it makes me throw up and all I can do is curl up in a ball with a hot water bottle until it goes away 3 hours later. I take Midol sometimes but even ... (110 words)

Sinister situation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok,this is really,really creepy-I just want some opinions on what this could be-sorry it's a bit long.I met my boyfriend 4 years ago and he didn't seem remotely obsessive-we didnt see each other very often either,but he always seemed to know things about my wereabouts that he ... (933 words)

Is it wrong to have a relationship with someone when you don't feel the same about them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - is it wrong to go out with a guy who loves you but you just like him? when you might also still have feelings for your teacher? xxx... (28 words)

Should I wait for him to make the first move?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi all ..... got a question for you or rather in need of help .. here it goes... I met a guy recently in a club abroad who used to be my childhood sweet heart at school i havnt seen him in ages... when i saw him i was gob smacked still schoked now! we danced, then we ... (194 words)

How can I admit to being sexually assaulted to my friends and family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - how can I admit to being sexually assaulted to friends/family when I feel so embarrassed or ashamed to tell them? I also don't want them to worry about me or feel concerned about me so that I can't relax. I have reported it to the police and it is going to go to trial but I s... (91 words)

Why cant I get a boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey :) i really want a boyfrind to have that first kiss i mean why dont any boys like me ? whats the problem with me ? peaple say well i dont know wether they are actually telling the truth but they say i am : kind friendly easy to talk to funny bubbly stunni... (126 words)

It's both a turn on to me and sickening that my wife cheated on me.. what'd you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

1 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I found out about my wife cheating on me last week. The cheating happened 4 years ago November 2005... I am not sure what and how I should feel. It happened while we lived together, but before we got married. We lived together for about 7 years before we got married in 2006.... (318 words)

In her 6 year relationship, she never climaxed: Is this due to an inability or her tensness?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5605 days ago

1 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi. im not sure if this is the right type of question for this site but im gonna write it anyway. Ive started going out with a girl that ive been close to a long time. We had sex last night and she did not orgasm. I mentioned it after because I get gutted if my partner doesn... (764 words)

My low confidence convinces me I can't be liked.. so should I just not bother with this guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I reallly like this boy i met out a few nights ago. I gave him a lift home and he kissed me in the car before getting out and We swapped numbers. The problem is, he is way out of my league. There is a slim chance he may really like me, but probably, when he sees me properly... (134 words)

I feel like just an annoying little teenager to him, so how do I fall out of love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I'm falling for this family friend who happens to be like, 11 years my senior. He teaches at a local school, and was saying he's used to people having crushes non him on a daily basis practically. He's pretty friendly, but I'm sure he just sees me as an annoying little ... (122 words)

I've only let it get to a peck on the lips. I've no desire so should I really be with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 27 and I've never been in a proper, long-term relationship. First, work got in the way and then I had a few very short term relationships with guys who didn't treat me well. Recently I met a great guy. He's so nice, treats me really well, respects me and seems to want to... (344 words)

I worked a lot to provide for her and she left me because of it, and now is with someone she sees even less!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been split from my ex for 3 years and I'm still madly in lovwith her. When we were together I worked alot sometimes as much as 4 jobs at one time. I done this so I could ensure a good future for her and our 2 kids. When she split with me she told me that it was because I ... (357 words)

I've tried to be rational on my one, but I can't eat, I can't sleep I've got it so bad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently met this guy. He is a huge deal, because I used to run away from guys who approached me. I never saw myself getting married, never saw myself be with anyone before. But when I met him, there was like this instant rush of images. I could see myself eating lunch wi... (238 words)

Is she not orgasming because she is still not over her ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5620 days ago

1 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend is going through a divorce and she has a child with her soon to be ex-husband. She goes over to his house when it is time for her to get her daughter, and she goes into his house. She had him pick her up from the airport when I was unable to because I was sick ... (225 words)

Marrying a much older guy?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. Im 20 years old and im in a relationship with a man who is alot older than me. He is 53. I know it sounds rediculous but we really love each other and we are in seperable. He recently asked me if I wanted to marry him. I really want to marry him and I told him that but im ... (102 words)

He's married and said he doesn't want his wife!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5584 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am involved with this guy since last two yrs and by the end of one year of our relationship i came to know that he was already married to a girl abroad.now as he too has gone abroad to his wife last 7 months back but he still claims to come back soon to marry me after ... (125 words)

I have a deep fetish and can't stop thinking about sex...help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

1 August 2009 (M)

age - Hi Guys, I do not know why is this happening. I am always hungry for sex..always...i am committed and we do have sex..its great but we have sex only once a week due to her and my job and we stay separately and she stays with her parents. I am always thinking about her, going... (193 words)

Should I forget about him all together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5532 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am not sure about how to propose a guy who is very much studious and not in too much of girl friend boy friend matter. i dont understand should i continue with him as friends and forget about love and all that or should i try to speak to him.i even dont know if he is in for ... (85 words)

Tips on how to ask out girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

1 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok. I'm really shit at asking out girls. I need some tips. I'm planing on asking out a girl next week at my party, (next time i see her), but i'm so bad at it. I havnt been with anyone in 2 years, and i hate it. But im not letting this one go. Please help, i would prefer if ... (66 words)

Went to a massage parlor- how do I tell my wife about this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

1 August 2009 (M)

age - About a week ago I had a massage and didn't know it was a brothel until it was too late. I generally a massage every 4 weeks at a reputable place but recently they were not available so I went to one that was advertised near my home. I checked it out and it seemed ok, the ... (260 words)

I want to enjoy lovemaking with him but my body gets in the way...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - It started with me gaining a couple of stone in weight, really. With that, my confidence hit the floor and for a while I didn't do anything about my weight. Then - about a month and a half ago, I started a diet and fitness regime ... lower calorie intake teamed with a 30... (236 words)

We'd like to have a baby, but we're not sure if we're doing this right. Can anyone help?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am virgin till now, and me and my boyfriend decided to have a baby, but both of us dont know how it can be possible. he is not able to ejaculate in me, and all of his sperm just went out. he tries to do so but..........is there symptom that shows that yes it went in or ... (88 words)

He says he likes me only as a friend, but he flirts with other girls who are only friends! So why not me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hola :D So one of my best guy friends is a REAL BIG flirt. He flirts with every single girl 24/7. Although he doesn't flirt with me, he told me he thought I was cute once and on occasions he pinches my cheeks and tells me I'm funny, but he does it very rarely. He will flirt ... (143 words)

Should I leave my husband and go it alone, or should I stay and risk being unhappy for the rest of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5524 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - thinking of leaving my husband of 7 years. He is a kind caring consdierate person who would do anything for anyone but there are a few issues i just cannot live with. they are : he hits and verbally abuses our children calling them stupid, he swears all the time so now our ... (244 words)

I'm finding it hard to trust him since what happened before...and his friends aren't a good influence on him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my fiance since high school...we had our ups and downs but were going strong for a while...we had our first child 3 1/2 yrs ago. When my son was 4 months old I found out that he was messing with someone that he was working with. Well we worked thru that and got ... (167 words)

What can I do to overcome these feelings of loss? I miss my ex so much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Basically guys... My girlfriend and I broke up. I know it's nothing... But I loved her. It really was the best 7 1/2 months of my life... It feels like everything that could make me happy went away with her. Every song I have listend to makes me cry thinking of her. I can't ... (263 words)

Me and my boyfriend are having lots of issues around sex. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 1/2 years now. we have quite a few issues when it comes to sex. we were 16 when we started having sex, and i was self concious because he couldnt make me orgasm...so i faked it because he hated that he couldnt make me come. but i never ... (387 words)

Whatever the cost, I'm prepared to pay it to get my ex back. Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi i'm new to this but would appreciate any advice. I met my ex nearly three years ago and we clicked straight away but it took me 9 months to ask her out. We had been together just over two yeras when she told me it was over. things had been hard since i had to take a ... (237 words)

1 1/2 year later and my periods are back. Not sure how to feel about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

1 August 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I feel I actually need some advice myself for a change! Well, maybe just support and encouragement... The thing is, I have discovered today that I am having a period. Those of you who know a bit about me, or have read my articles, will probably know what I mean... (275 words)

Why was I rejected after my job interview? I thought it had gone well! And what should I do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, I am 19 and on summer break from university. Last year I was fairly lazy/depressed and didn't get a summer job. The year before that I worked for two months at my fathers work on weekends. So this year, after having done very little as I don't have a social life anym... (512 words)

In an environment like this, how can I find Mr. Right?

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1 August 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Well, I broke up with my ex a few months ago. Right now, I am trying to fight the urge to get back with him but I really do want to because of one reason that I know is not reasonable. Because I am ALONE and LONELY. Sometimes, I feel he wants me back too coz he replies withi... (319 words)

Would shorter nails make me less of a man-magnet?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This may sound a bit silly but it's causing tension. I love wearing long nails. I always have, especially (but not just) french manicured nails. My boyfriend, who's 29, always said that they're very sexy, but the problem is he's got unbelievably small hands for a man (17cm ... (239 words)

Do I have lesbian tendencies due to the way I was raised?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am struggling to come to terms with how i feel about other women. I have known how i have felt since the age of 11 and my family have often joked about me being a lesbian, when i was 16 and at college i developed a huge crush on a female lecturer and thought it would be okay ... (228 words)

I can't get him out of my mind. How do I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im so in love with my ex still its so upsetting and making me ill.we were together 3 yrs on/off! Off cos he just cant do commitment. He trys but when were getting close or talking bout marriage or moving in he backs away. Weve talked bout this and he admits hes messed up in the ... (385 words)

My boyfriend never makes time for me! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5593 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years now and im in a situation where im not exactly sure what to do anymore. i was diagnosed with depression around 6 months after we started going out and have recently ( 3 months ago) stopped taking my medication and feel ... (382 words)

He said 'this is our new room', but I haven't moved in with him! What does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

- My bf just moved into to a new house. I didnt move in with him and have never lived with him before. When he showed me around his new house, when he showed me his new bedroom he said "this is our new room" and he even has a place for me to put my things when i stay over. What ... (64 words)

I want to do something for my girlfriend that shows I really care about her, any ideas?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5013 days ago

1 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My girlfriend and I have been together for three months now. I want to do something for her to show her I really care, but it has to be something really thoughtful and sensitive...you know...something that she'll know I had to put a load of thought into. Co... (61 words)

I want to leave him, but I don't want to take our son away from him either! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years now we live together and have a 13month old son...problem is we constantly arguing and fighting because if always thinks i am lying and hiding things away from him when infact he is the one who is keeping things from me his ... (194 words)

My boyfriend has sex with me at the weekend, then goes back to porn during the week! I don't know how to handle this, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - MY boyfriend and i have been togeather since Dec. 2008 and he ive caught him watching porn and he admits to it but when im talking to him at night and he gets off the phone early i ask him if he is really going to bed and tells me yes. but today i got on his computer and went ... (207 words)

Why am I hurting so much down there after masturbating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - ok um i am 13 and i used my hairbrush to masterbate i do this evry night and this time i was masterbaiting my left overy started hurting then the pain moved to my vagina it never hurted like this before pls help idk why its hurting and im a virgin pls answer... (53 words)

How can I tell my ex's friend that I like her without my ex getting hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - So I really like this girl but I dated her friend a couple years ago and she still has feelings for me because of this her friend won't go out with me. If I hurt her friend her and everyother girl in my school will hate me. How can i tell her i dont like her and then go out ... (66 words)

Should I trust my instincts, or give this guy more time to grow on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Should I trust my instincts or is that unfair? I used to always trust my instincts when it came to relationships, what would work and what wouldn't, and it always turned out well. Until my last boyfriend, when I ignored my doubts and went for it anyway. That turned into a 3 ... (165 words)

Me and my friend like the same guy! What should we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - we need help!!!! me and one of my best friends like the same guy. what should we do?here it goes. my best friend lives right by him and i don't. we need to think of a fair way to c who should get him. i only c him when i'm at her house. can u plz help us and fast!! sincere... (72 words)

What should I do if I run back into my crush?

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1 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi every one i got a problem i have hade thes huge crush on a girl for years ever sence 3rd grade we would play at recesse and i moved away in 6th grade and moved back at the end of 8th i was there for two weeks and i thought she moved away and i finaly saw her at the last day ... (163 words)

Is there something wrong with me for liking older men?

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1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years old and always find older men (maybe old enough to be my grandpa) very attractive. Is there somthing wrong with me, or is this just my personal taste for men?... (35 words)

Keep smoking? Or quit?

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1 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey....... I am 23, I have started taking oral contraceptive pills. Got scared and stopped smoking after reading the booklet. I havent smoked from the day 1 of the pill beginning. Please advise if I can stil continue smoking or should quit.... I really feel like smokin... (57 words)

My husband and I are going through a period of limited contact. Is there anyone that can share similar stories?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5620 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - It seems like me and my hubby never get the amount of time together that we want. We live in two different cities in the same state that are about an hour and a half apart. We have been married now for one year. I thought he was going to be with me for three days, but then the ... (442 words)

My first wasn't a full experience can I share this again fully?

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1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am 16 years old goin on 17 and had sex for my first time at 14. We didn't really have sex he put it in and it hurt he only rotated in and out a couple of times we stopped after and did other things. I bleed for a about a week. I keep lookin back was this normal or not? ... (132 words)

I don't want to end things with my boyfriend, but what can I do about his immaturity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so I was pretty desperate one night and decided to browse the internet for some help and came across this website! My problem is my immature boyfriend. We have been going out for a little more than a year now, and I really really like him. We both want this to work out... (231 words)

When I am with a woman I care about, why do I let their sexual history bother me?

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1 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't think I'm alone, but why is it sex to me often seems like the great equalizer? I've been with women who have long and varied sexual histories and it's never bothered me. But on the few occasions when I was with a woman who I cared about, who I had feelings for, who I ... (87 words)

Should I just be satisfied with his friendship and forget about him later when we get out of touch?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5615 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a boy in my mind and think of proposing him but i cant imagine how he would react and i dont want to loose him since he may not like my idea or may be liking another girl and i think i even dont know how to get started and blurt out everything in my mind to him.should i ... (103 words)

My cousin makes fun of me because I'm afraid of sex. And now I like a guy who is engaged! Can anyone help me here?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5525 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! my name is cathy and i have 2 pieces of information i need help on im 16 i really like this man and he's 21 and engaged!!! whenever were around with eachother theres alot of flirting going on and its a bit obvious we like eachother but you see i reallly reallly ... (155 words)

Marriage without a wedding or rings? This isn't how I imagined it...and how do I tell my family?

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1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - As most women do I have always dreamt of a nice engagement and wedding once I found the man of my dreams. I never cared about the price of the ring or how elaborate the wedding would be I just expected to have something special and memorable. Now, my partner of 3 years doesn't ... (201 words)

I do want my ex back, but I don't want to put pressure on him while he is under financial stress. Opinions please?

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1 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been broken up w/ my ex for about 3 wks.I'm currently visiting fam in NY.B4 I left for ny,We watched a movie and ended up having sex 2x.We've txted occassionally since i've been here but i felt i was chasing him so i didnt contact him for a cpl days.He txted n said"so u ... (379 words)

When do vaginal openings start to exist?

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1 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am the mother of a 5 year old girl. Anatomists or doctors please clarify my following doubt. Do vigial opening exist in girls at the time of their birth or it opens/appears only at the time of first menstration. If such an opening is not there, should they undergo operation ... (56 words)

Jealous over walpaper?

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1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i came home from college today. i asked my mom to drop me off mu boyfriends house. he was excited to see me as i was to sew him. when we did see each other, we hugged and what not. not soon after, he found my cellphone wallpaper was of zac efron. i guess he got jealous. i ... (130 words)

Lost love and found?

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1 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have never done this before, but am in turmoil. I was reading some other chats on here and decided to tell my story. I am totally in love with my childhood sweetheart. He has been married about 15 years now. I am so ashamed about it, but cannot stop loving him. We ... (715 words)

Whats the difference between cum and sperm?

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1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there, ok so this is a simple question what is the difference between cum and sperm ?? i'm a girl so that's why i don't know. i also wanted to know what does ejaculated mean ??? thanks =]... (42 words)

A man's perspective on blow jobs....!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need a guy's opinion. Any tips on how to give a great blowjob? What feels best for you when recieving a blowjob. What does she do that really drives you nuts? A man's perspective :D... (36 words)

Was it the scene or was is something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I just wanted to ask something that may seem simple to some people but is confusing me. I have always identified as bisexual and have had 2 serious relationships with women. I am currently single. I am involved in a play at the moment with some friends and have to ... (227 words)

Is it love bypolar?

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1 August 2009 (F)

age - why would a chap i have known for years and at times been sexually involved with, suddenly tell me , he is frustrated in his present relationship and cannot commit? ... (32 words)

Blow job or no blow job?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so im tired or relationships and n i met this guy pretty eyes n hes lik i dnt want lady but we both like each other we have lik a no strings attach thing and we make ou n what not but he wants me to give him a blow job... i havent done that before and idnt know what to ... (117 words)

Unloved and Unhappy, what am I to do?

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1 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - HELP I am really unhappy. I have a BF who doesnt seem to love me. He never says it or hugs or does anything with me. When he wants sex he just asked for it. We have 3 kids and 1 on the way. I tried telling him over and over again how i feel. He doesnt even wnat to get marr... (132 words)

Sleeping with the enemy.

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1 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Sex with an enemy. Well sort off, I have fallen out with an ex friend after he ruined my chances of promotion by copying my proposal and sending it in at the same presentation to the board. I have always liked his wife and she used to really like me so I took advantage and when ... (129 words)

I love them both, how do I pick just one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5610 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Long story short, I love 2 great Men. I have made some bad decisions, and want to choose right this time! "A" and I met a year ago on dating site. After 2 phone calls, I booked a flight to meet him. 4 amazing months with him, and I fell hard. We were together almost ... (793 words)

I'm in love with my long lost brother

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1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im an 18 year old girl and im in love with my brother.. we grew up together until i was five.. we were separated for 13 years. hes 22 nn were imtimate, we dont use condoms we use withdrawl. i htink he knows that i like him,, but he doesnt say anything,,but i think hes in love ... (115 words)

Do you think I'm OK?

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1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey im 5'4" and im a size 00, is this a bad thing? also my bra size is only 34A. im pretty confident with my nody because im quite thin and habe a six pack. is this bad though?... (40 words)

I like him but where's the fireworks!

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1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - You're dating someone, a friend, you like and have liked for a while prior to the relationship starting. You're young and this is your first relationship. At the beginning, you like being held by him, you like being close to him, and you feel immensely comfortable with him. ... (101 words)

Head over heals for my BF

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5622 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my problem started when I fell for my best friend. It's the typical cliche story. Though, he treats me horribly and I can't seem to tell him where to go. The past two years I've been dealing with depression, paranoia, anxiety and going to couselling. He didn't really help ... (346 words)

Txt games with my heart

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i had this boyfriend since 2006 we been on and off since then. i gave him all my heart and i love him so much. i stood agains my family for him n he wouldnt do thhe same for me but i ignored it... for valentines day we went out for a romantic date we went to th pi... (437 words)

I'm so in love with him and he told me never to talk to him again. Why is he texting me NOW?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

How do I tell my wife that I want to see her with another man?

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1 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I want to watch my wife have sex with another man but I am not sure how to break the Ice? ... (23 words)

Telling the truth or excuses?

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1 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so me and this guy were suppose to hang out yesterday but his mom made him go to some family get together, and he couldnt get out of it so he asked me if i wanted to get together today, but apparently he got grounded so i said well then maybe when you get ungrounded ... (124 words)

I'm sick with worry that my parents will split!

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1 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My parents are starting to make me very nervous. They're going through a rough patch. I'm 20, and the idea of them breaking up terrifies me. They're currently in a long distance situation at the moment. My dad works away during the week, and is only home at weekends. This week ... (210 words)

He threatens to leave me, should I just let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

1 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some answers, recently me and my fiance of 2 yrs have been having problems a couple of months ago I found some text messages from his phone to a girl and when I confronted him about them he said that it wasnt him and that a friend from work was using his phone even ... (357 words)