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writes:i recenetly borke up with my boyfriend who i had been with for 2 1/2 years. he was my first everything and i also lost my verginity with him. i spilt up with him because he was talking about my mam in a horrible way(shes disabled) so i broke up with him on the 3/8.09 and i just carnt get over him. i told my mam what he said because me and my mam are like bst friends, and my mam also told my nanna. but they wont let me get back with him because of previous reasons and with him dissing my mam. but i love him and they wont let me see him evan as a friend anywhere but its killing me inside and i need to see him i mean we are talking at the moment because i dont think either one of us want to let go. i dunno weather to get over him and stay mates coz i dont want to go back into the arguments we had or go back to him as he says he wil do anything for me and that he will change. please give me some adivise on what to do without taking sides like everyone else. thank youuu
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): well you were with him for a while, so its going to be hard. either talk to him and sort it out.. or - i know it will be extremely hard - but make a descision and dont look back. if you really cant do either flip a coin and go by it, i know it sounds sad but im contimplating it myself to be honest, fate has a way of guiding you down the right path =P
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (6 August 2009):
 If he really wants you back, then he'll personally apologize to your Mother. Face to face. Sincerely. If he refuses, then he won't "do anything" for you and I would leave him for good. Any guy who cracks jokes about your Mom, disabled or no - is a jerk, period. End of story!!!
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reader, xAx +, writes (5 August 2009):
 I think this boy of yours should personally apologise to your mum. It was not right what he did but hopefully you're mum should see that he is trying and forgive him. If she doesn't forgive him, talk to her about it.
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