A
female
age
51-59,
*atrin
writes:I feel like I am in a one-sided relationship. I love my boyfriend, but he only has said he loves me when I found out he was on a fling site. Now I do not trust him, and he lied before so how do I know he is not lying now. he is going on a motorcycle trip by himself in a few weeks, this was always ok with me before, but I trusted him 100% before I found him on the gross cheating site. Now, I know that he can lie to my face and I don't even know it. I always felt that he kept me around just because we have a child together, now I feel that this has become a fact through his actions. Where do I find trust again, if I even should trust him again. And since I found his "just curious" "didn't act on it" cheating, I so long for a good man that will be true to me, love me and most of all be honest. I will not cheat because I love myself and I think that it is the lowest thing one person can do to another and I will not be that kind of person. However, I my heart longs for this unknown man that does not exist that was once my boyfriend.please advise, I have a big empty place in my heart and I do not know how to fill it Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (6 August 2009):
 "I so long for a good man that will be true to me, love me and most of all be honest."These are all things you deserve and that a good guy can give you. I think you need to leave this man, his half-ass attitude, his lies and deception and weak actions behind. If his actions are speaking louder than words and you don't think he's giving you the love that you deserve, leave. If you think this can not get better and you'll find happiness elsewhere, leave. It seems that you have already checked out of this relationship, so go the extra mile and do it for good.Good luck, sweetness!
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