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female
age
41-50,
*lainn
writes: I'll start by explaining I am an extremely shy person.I have decided i am going to message my crush (of almost 9 years)and ask him if he'd like go climbing sometime (we both rock climb). I am extremely nervous about this i get nauseous. I used to see him every day and blatantly just ignored him cause i didn't have the courage to talk to him. I got over that and now were friendly but i rarely see him and want to get either over him and move on or see if anything can happen. I don't even know if he likes me and don't want him to think I'm some sort of weirdo.What I'm asking is what can i say/message to him, how can i ask him to hang out with out being to abrasive, desperate i don't want him to know i like him.
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reader, mirah :) +, writes (5 August 2009):
hmm. i think just ACT NORMALLY. talk to him like you're talking to a friend. don't overreact. i think its the best way. :]
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