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How can I ask him if he wants to hang out without making it obvious that I like him?

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Question - (5 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 5 August 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, *lainn writes:

I'll start by explaining I am an extremely shy person.

I have decided i am going to message my crush (of almost 9 years)and ask him if he'd like go climbing sometime (we both rock climb). I am extremely nervous about this i get nauseous. I used to see him every day and blatantly just ignored him cause i didn't have the courage to talk to him. I got over that and now were friendly but i rarely see him and want to get either over him and move on or see if anything can happen. I don't even know if he likes me and don't want him to think I'm some sort of weirdo.

What I'm asking is what can i say/message to him, how can i ask him to hang out with out being to abrasive, desperate i don't want him to know i like him.

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A female reader, mirah :) Philippines +, writes (5 August 2009):

hmm. i think just ACT NORMALLY. talk to him like you're talking to a friend. don't overreact. i think its the best way. :]

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