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writes: hi all,i just want to talk about my mom and what happened to me.nearly a month ago I came home and i found out that my mom is cheating on my dad.i saw her having sex with a youngester and i can say she was really enjoying it. i didn't know what to do, even though i wanted to beat the shit out of that boy but i think he has nothing to do with this, it's all my moms fault, cheating.i waited and after they finished and the lad was gone i rush to her and started to shout at her and insulted her so bad.she say just one thing: i need it.what should i have to do?and the wierdest thing is i liked what i saw, it was an old fantasy which came out. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): Confront her!If you don´t do it, soon or later, your doubts it will eat you alive!Make the 10 milion question:Why?
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reader, baddogbj +, writes (5 August 2009):
Tell her that you are sorry that you shouted at her, that she has every right to be happy and that it is none of your business but that you think that it would be a good idea for her to take a hotel room when she needs to have sex so not to risk hurting your dad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): Maybe you should move out, if you're 30-35. (Though your age may be registered incorrectly.)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): Woops, Just saw you were male, not female :) So I'll correct what I said and I'm going to assume you mean sleeping with an older women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): Tell her she needs to sort out her marriage if she 'needs' to get sex elsewhere. I don't think you should tell your dad but you should warn your mum of the consequences of getting caught, it's better for her to come clean and stop now. Next time it might be your dad that walks in on them.
Also if this is some kind of fantasy of yours : sleeping with a younger man, then by all means go ahead if you've got the opportunity to, just don't do it if you're attached.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2009): there is nothing wrong of liking it aslong as it stayed in your head and stayed as a fantasy only !!,but you should speak to your mom,and find out what is she missing in her life woth your dad,try to get your dad to therapist and try to fix things quietly,and finally never let your father or any one else knows what happened..Remeber she is stil you mother..
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