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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Is he using me to get to my friends and meet new people?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i know this sounds ridiculous but i dont have trouble finding men at all. but i recently tried a dating website just for the heck of it and i ended up meeting someone. on our first date i didnt really care because its internet.. "it wouldnt work" but apparently i left for ... (230 words)

Unprotected sex, the morning after pill and what if my period starts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i had unprotected sex with my boyfriend tonight. where can i get the pill and if i get my period tomorrow does that mean that i am not pregnan? ... (32 words)

Don't know where we stand!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5520 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - At the beginning of this year I admitted I had feelings for one of my best friends, we're both female and have known eachother for about 3 years. She told me that she felt the same way and since then things have developed. At first she was always really sweet, like sending me ... (158 words)

I'm suspecting my fiance's loyalty to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Everyone, I recently found out that my fiance is a member of an online dating site which really upset me.I glimpsed at the lap top and his e-mail box was open and there it was.I hope I am overreacting but he always told me how he doesn't ever want to create any kind ... (407 words)

G/f had been in a MMF threesome..how do I compete with that?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5541 days ago

29 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Found out that in her past my girlfriend had been in a MMF threesome and thought it was pretty hot. Makes me uncomfortable. I mean, how could I EVER compete with that? (that's a rhetorical question). I want to believe that all the best sexual experiences my woman has had have ... (137 words)

B/f says I don't open up to him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend keeps telling me I don't open up to him. I know I have a problem with this..I have to get councled for this and a few other problems I've encountered. He dosen't understand how hard it is for me, considering the fact that I don't even like to cry in front of others ... (159 words)

LDR going sour

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a girlfriend, long distance relatinship, who i really love. She is amazing. But we have been fighting for past 3 months, got thru all of the fights, and we love eachother, but recently, she dumped me becos she cudnt take the fighting stuff anymore. But then a couple of ... (198 words)

My friend likes the same guy that I do, and I don't want to give up either of them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Aunts, I've liked this guy for a year now and i think he likes me to because every time i speak to him he has a big smile on his face hes always looking at me in class,his brother is my brothers friend and according to his brother he never stops talking about me... (193 words)

Can you be friends with someone who doesn't talk to you much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can you be friends with someone who doesn't talk to you much? My friend ignores me a lot and doesn't talk to me but were always ok with each other! Its like a distant relationship! We see each other at school and when we talk he jokes around with me and its nice but it only ... (61 words)

I have feelings for another co-worker, and I'm scared of giving it a go because it happened before and blew up in my face! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have this male friend at work who I've hung out with outside of work a few times before. We could both tell there was definitely an attraction there, so one night after a few drinks, we ended up in bed together. I wasn't sure if it was a one time thing or not, but a few ... (321 words)

I lied about losing my virginity to a girl I met over the Internet, and when we meet she wants to have sex with me! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

29 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I am dating this girl that i met online...yes i know a long distance relationship blah blah blah. She told me she has a sexual past and just so she wouldn't think I was a loser I told her I wasn't a virgin. I really love her and we have been talking almost all day everyday ... (150 words)

Does anyone else use this method of masturbation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5106 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a 40y/o divorced woman and I love to grind my vagina along the edge of my bed. It is the way I began masturbating as a very young girl and since my separation and my divorce, I have resorted to this method as a sure fire way to orgasm and in a hurry. I usually leave my ... (153 words)

Is it possible to be in love with someone even though you're not in a relationship with them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

29 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - is it possible to be in love with someone even though you"re not in a relationship with them?! ... (18 words)

How can I casually start talking to a guy I really like?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Theres this boy i like at my school, Im a freshman in highschool, his locker is 2 dowwn from mine, we stare at eachother alot, i always come close to talking to him but i dont have the guts, whenever where in the hallway walking past eachother he'll look at me and look soo ... (85 words)

What does it mean when your ex wants to sleep with you still, even though he has a new girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What does it mean when ur ex wants to shag u and always takes the piss and speaks to u still on the phone? Mates say that there is still something there between us but im not so sure he has a new girlfriend now Any advice sammie. xxxxx... (60 words)

Should I have broken up with him? And should I try and get back with him now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had been dating him for 3 months, not that long for many people, but it is for me. I have never been dumped before, why? Because in all truth I'm afraid of getting attached and suddenly finding myself needing him every second, but at the same time I need to be loved. Now ... (418 words)

Should I leave my ex a message to let him know I'm still thinking of him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - i was with someone for over 3 years...rather than rehash all the tiny things that made me insecure, jealous, just didn't feel right etc...i can admit i was wrong on some of those things and reacted too jealous at times and should have been more relaxed..alot of my friends and ... (431 words)

Husband hasn't done anything wrong but I want to leave him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age - We have been married 22 years, and have three children 20, 17, and 14. I have always wondered if he was the right choice, even before we got married. I was an alcoholic in recovery when we met (I'm still struggling), and it seemed like the right thing to do at the time. We ... (327 words)

Attracted to teacher way more than I should be

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16, and I have always had an issue with falling for the wrong guy. I've never had an issue called 'True Love' until my freshmen year when I fell for a jr, ever since then I haven't been able to stop thinking about him even though I moved away from that highscho... (485 words)

Is it possible for a guy to not look at other women when he's in love with his girlfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of three years has been telling me all along that he never looks at other women, and has no interest in anyone but me. I never asked him not to, or expressed a desire either way but he believes it is so fundamental in his beliefs that there is no way he could ever ... (281 words)

Is being with a drunk better than being alone?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been in a relationship w/ a man off and on for 9 years. He's cheated in the past, been very emotionally and verbally abusive. Recently, he's been trying to make up for the past, however, he expects me to trust him again overnight. Our communication is non-exis... (325 words)

I want to break off with this jerk!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, Please help me to stop being angry and more importantly- to stop caring. I have known this man for nearly five years. We went out for two and a half, one of which we lived together. I found out in 2007 that he was cheating and lying the whole time we were tog... (177 words)

Husband said "you don't understand me, I don't understand you..I want out!"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 26, my husband's 28, I'm originally from Ontario, he's from Michigan. I met him when I was working in Michigan centre over 4 years ago, we got into a relationship and it was mostly good. Like all relationships it had its ups and downs. We've been married for 2 years... (463 words)

Why does my friend have to borrow everything from me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5347 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i know this isnt a love question but im hoping for some advice. i have a very clingly friend..we have been mates about 6 months.The issue i have is whenever we go out she always asks to borrow my things whether its a dress or jeans or jewellery...she does always give them... (246 words)

Do you ever forget your first love? Your ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi! do people ever forget their first love? is anyone still in love with their ex? is anyone still friends with their ex? please share your stories on this post! Id love to hear it an it would help to know im not the only one whose lost their first love!... (52 words)

I'm confused! I don't want to be gay!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5251 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear ppl, Lately I've been thinking about my sexual orientation, I used to watch porn and I stopped because I hated it and I felt disgusted every time I do it. I watched lesbian porn and It turned me on but I HATED it afterwards. Straight pornography turns me on too and I pre... (396 words)

He keeps getting into these little moods all the time and I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, so here's the deal.. My boyfriend and I have been dating for around 2 1/2 years. But he gets in these little moods all the time.. Like he just ignores me and is mean to me for no reason at all... For example, Last night He told me he was going somewhere with his friends.. ... (135 words)

Knowing whether to use advice or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have asked a e few questions on here now and always got mixed answers though I think its a great site just to air your feelings. . . . . My question is with the fact you get so many mixed messages is a case your just getting what people are telling you from there emoti... (124 words)

Husband gave me an ultimatium to either move with him or get out

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age - my husband and I have been together for 16 years. I have no family of my own, but he comes from a large family. His family is now back east and my children are here in the pacific northwest. Hes always disliked my kids, so its hard when he says things that are horrible. But ... (438 words)

I think my boyfriend is cheating with his employee

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I think that my boyfriend of nine years has been sleeping with one of his female employees. He has been driving her around to and from the workplace for over a year. I can see that they have become close. I have told him that i cannot cope with this situation anymore as i am ... (462 words)

How can she like him after he held a knife to her throat?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey i like this girl and we get along rly well we went out a couple of times and than her ex bf comes back along and she now only wants to be friends now that doesnt rly bother me as shit happens what i want to know is how can she still like him after he had a knife to her ... (88 words)

Is 2 weeks of dating too soon to express my concerns about his facebook?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age - I am seeing a guy i met on the internet, he has many female friends on facebook who are younger and prettier than me. I am jelous of this, and wonder why he needs to flirt with them? I dont know if hes met any of them. We have only been together for 2 weeks. He says he wants me ... (88 words)

Married & upset that younger lover has someone else

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5561 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my husband Jack about 15 years ago, he was my first love and first relationship, I loved him for years, but he could not take a decision about us, being afraid of comitment and financial pressure. we were young by then, early or mid 20s. I broke up several times wi... (1059 words)

I don't want to be with b/f any longer but can't make it without him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years now and we have a 3 year old son together. He tells me he loves me all the time but he gets mad so easy and yells at me and calls me a bitch. We argue alot and i dont like my son to see us argue. Everytime i try to tell my bf ... (181 words)

What can I do to help my girlfriend get in the mood for sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend seems to be loosing the need for sex. these last few months, i haven't been able to turn her on and i don't know why? we used to do it all the time but she just isn't in the mood. Is there anything i can do to get her in the mood?... (54 words)

My girlfriend often stops me during sex because she feels like she needs to pee...is she actually close to orgasm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been reading alot about girls orgasms. My girlfriend quite often stops me during sex cause she feels like she needs to pee... What are the chances of this being conected to her having an orgasm?... (36 words)

He won't let me break up with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4425 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for five years and we have lived together for the last two years. He is generally a nice guy, but I am certain that I want to break up with him. I am not really enjoying the relationship as I feel I should be, we are too different and this has ... (775 words)

My wife is childish, I want her to be more mature!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

29 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am getting only little sex in marriage because 1. When we have sex, my wife would complaint bout pain and would ask me to slow down and other cues which discourage me from having sex next time for the fear that it would repeat 2. At times I think of other girls w... (114 words)

How can I overcome this regret?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - You know how everyone goes through life saying...no regrets....well i was like that until i was dealt a regret that im not sure I'll ever be able to live down.. long story short... I became addicted to drugs 6 months after i married the girl i never imagined life without ... (234 words)

How do I tell my dad that I'm pregnant? I don't want him to be disgusted with me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

- Im 26 and just found out im pregnant. Its a suprise but im overjoyed. The father is a guy who I was seeing for a short while casually but im no longer with him. However I have told him and hes happy and says he will support me all the way. My next problem is telling my dad. He ... (169 words)

If he is sent to prison, should I go and visit him? I still love him and feel bad about all of this...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i have just won a criminal court case, against my ex for stealing fraud and driving offences whilst banned. he was an alcoholic, he pleaed guilty to all 5 charges against me. at first he tried to blame my by pleading not guilty, but come court day he changed his plea... (175 words)

I am getting so sick of this guy...should I let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so sick of this dude ive been talking too he pisses me off all the time but i just cant let him go,even tho we aint togather i think i fell in love with him i just dony know what to do....like today we were supposed to go watch a movie togather because hes laving sunday ... (153 words)

I really like this man, but I can't help feeling disappointed that he is impotent

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive recently started dating a new man. He is 5 years older than me. After a couple of months I have discovered he is impotent and I don't know what to do. He didn't tell me when we first met and I can understand that, but after ending my long abusive marriage, I had hoped to ... (171 words)

When we try to change positions during sex, I lose my erection and can't get it back! Help!

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29 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - During sex with my girlfriend, it takes us a little while to execute position changes. Missionary is easy, but when we try to move to "Doggy style", or any position where I enter from behind her, I can't find a way in. She insists on sex with the light off, but this doesn't ... (113 words)

She cut contact with me because she thinks the distance is too much. How can I get her back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

29 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so here we go. I've a rough life. im not gonna get too much into it but in short I've been thru it all when it comes to relationships, and I havnt been in one in years ever since my ex died. so I met this girl in the most unlikely of places. over a computer game. we started ... (472 words)

What can I do to drop hints that I'm ready for marriage, without making it obvious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heres the thing ive been dating this guy for acouple years now we live together and have a daughter together. our relationship is good but i want to make then next step in our relationship, i wanna get married. i thinks its the right time we baught a house, he has a awsome full ... (112 words)

Me and this man started dating, and then he broke it off by saying he wasn't ready for a relationship, but wants to be friends. Where should I go from here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5540 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had a great date with a guy and he asked me out on a second date. We didn't kiss after the first date. The second date however was to take three weeks later as he was going away on business. He said he'd keep in touch but I didn't think he would. He in fact did. He first ... (712 words)

It seems as though my boyfriend is falling for his ex again. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can someone help me with my trust issues? Or just .. At all? My boyfriend and i have been together for over a year. His ex-girlfriend has been adamant about staying friends but earlier in our relationship, he told me he wanted nothing to do with her, she wasn't a true fr... (207 words)

Does my coach have a crush on me, or is it all in my head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a very weird thing for me. I am about 16-17 and this is actually my first teacher crush. Technically, he is not my teacher but my coach for the sport I play in. He is a teacher though at the school I attend. My coach is also very young and some where around his ... (700 words)

Why do guys always make comments about your friends when you're dating them?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A couple of months ago I was seeing this guy who used to always comment on my girl friends. He never called anyone ugly, but he would always say something if my friend was gorgeous. He would say: Wow, she's so hot. After he did this a bunch of times, I asked him: If you think ... (138 words)

It's been 12 years, I still love and want my ex boyfriend and still regret breaking up with him. How can I make peace with myself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5554 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I was in love with a boyfriend 12 years ago, we dated for 6 years and were best friends. He was lovely, caring, everything I wanted in a life partner. However, I was young and naive and thought that the beginnings of a relationship (when it's exciting, butterflies in the ... (434 words)

This guy has been showing signs he likes me...but I found out he has a girlfriend! What's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay i like this guy named nolen and he has been giving me sings but i can't put them together. well first in class he wonld not stop lookin at me then wen i noticed he waved at me. rhen the next day he found a pipe cleaner and he made into a braclet and gave it to me and told... (254 words)

I love two people...and I can't have either of them! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, what should I do if I love someone but have great feelings for someone else, The person I love I can't have cause they left me after a good relationship., and the one I have great feelings for has moved on. Like It feels like I love them both and I can't have either one. ... (60 words)

What can I do to stop my girlfriend drifting futher away from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5483 days ago

29 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im 15 my girlfriend my girlfriend who is 14 seems to be getting further and further away we used to talk a couple times a day on the phone and online now we barely talk once a day shes just starting high school and shes meeting new people and making new friends and guys ... (126 words)

How should I find out if she feels the same way about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

29 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi am a 21 year old boy. i met a girl about 3 weeks back. and v became friends. she's really sweet and i like her. i think am in love with her, but am not sure. i want to know she's haveing d same feeling for me or not. what should i do?... (54 words)

Is this FWB turning into something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend with benefits suddenly doesn't want sex now but is even more loving and affectionate and attentive.acts like my boyfriend its nice Is the relationship changing to be something more?... (32 words)

I broke off the friendship because she doesn't feel the same way about it, but I'm having second thoughts! Will she get annoyed if I tell her I want to be friends again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

29 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my ex have been broke nup for about 2 months. we have a always been very close and very very good friends for the past 4 years weve dated before if you could call a 1 day thing a relationship. the last one ended after a week with her telling she loved me in a text and ... (147 words)

Should we move in together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for a week. But we have known each other for 15 years. Well we want to move in together. But im not sure if its the right time. Its not gonna just be me and him it will also be his bestfriend which is also my nephew... What should I do?... (58 words)

Why can't I get hard for my wife?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

29 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I am not able to sex with my wife but with any other girl I am able to ..please help me...my pennis dont get erracte when I tries to have sex with my wife....? please help me...... (38 words)

Could this online relationship ever work in real life?

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29 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My question(s): Have you ever been in a serious relationship with someone you had (originally) met online? What tips would you give for making one work? My story (Note: You don't have to read this. its kinda long, sorry) : I'm 15, my girlfriend is 13 and 1/2. We've been ... (379 words)

How do I forgive myself and let go of the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 4 months pregnant and my babys daddy and i decided to take a break. not because of the baby, but because of the last 4 months we were together. 5 months ago i had family problems and all those bottled up emotions i took out on him. after i moved in with him a month late... (230 words)

Nervous during gym class!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5563 days ago

29 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im 15 and i get nervous during gym class because im shy i don't like to play in front of people adn i get so nervous to play i be wanting to play but i get nervous and back out i try to calm myself down all the time but know help.....what can i do... (55 words)

Why is he making me jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age - Dated a guy for about six months and then broke up. We are trying to remain friends and have had a few coffee dates. I do see him because we would travel in the same circles. He would end up showing up at events and would sit where he would see me (I would not always see him). ... (92 words)

We can't see each other outside of school!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5561 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so my problem is that me and my bf have been dating for the past 4 months and we have yet to see eachother outside school except at like football games and non private stuff. We can't really form a good connection without some alone time you know? My parents will not let ... (141 words)

Why does he push me away but seem interested in our previous relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5517 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - *sorry if your replied to me beore*Ive written before but it seems my story never ends and he's hard to fig out.Im summin it up, so u know my deal.My ex and I broke up almost 2 mo ago.He wanted 2 see/talk to me daily.Had me meet the fam/friends =they liked me.Hypothetically ... (466 words)

He has lied and cheated..and yet can be so good to me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5560 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with my fiance for about 9 months. I am a 22 year old college student and he is a 26 year old with a job, never went to college. This relationship has had a lot of problems, let me just say that to start with. When we got together, we were both just out of ... (1603 words)

Boyfriend hides phone when he gets a text!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my bf hides his phone from me when he gets a text. it's not like im there looking over his shoulder to see who's texting him. i just happen to notice that he does it all the time! i mean, is he hiding something or someone from me? or what? i trust him, but he does this kin... (90 words)

Can I just delete him off facebook, its hard to get over him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5562 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was seeing this guy over summer. I didnt want to just come across as an easy to get with girl, even though i was sexually active with him. So ive talked to him about taking it more seriously, or we're done. he said he needed more time very time. i waited all summer and broke ... (265 words)

Size and ability to maintain erections

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

29 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question, what make a man's penis "small"? and should a man blame his girl friend or wife for loosing his erections or not being able to get one when he's with her? If he looses his erections with his "hot" wife, is it possible that he is loosing it with other women ... (56 words)

Confused and reluctant to let go in California

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29 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 31 year old single mother and I was dating my first love after him finding me after 13 years for 2 1/2 years. I recently listened to my woman's intution and looked through is cell phone. Of course I found evidence he was texting and speaking with your women. Being the ... (189 words)

In love with my best friend's brother!

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29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have ever fallen this hard so fast. theres this guy ]and i really like him. i have for about...3-4 months. we are friends...and his sister is my best friend. She thinks that its gross and cute at the same time. He doesnt know i like him (thank god) But it usually takes... (196 words)

I'm young, in great shape and fiance still won't stop looking at porn!

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29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am having a lot of problems with my fiance CONSTANTLY looking at porn. I can't understand why anymore because I am still young, I am in great shape and I always say yes when he wants to try new things. I mean, not just new posistions but any fantasy he asks I always give it a ... (224 words)

We've broken up but I can't get over her!

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29 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear, Reader I come to you asking, nay pleading that some kind soul out there whether male or female help me through that time were you cant stop thinking of your betrothed. I really miss her...I loved her with All my will but, She came to the conclusion that we never spent e... (244 words)

Is there still a point in saving it?

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29 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I hope I don't get made fun of for this. I've only had one girlfriend ever, so not much relationship experience. Im 20 years old and I'm still a virgin; and I'm saving it for the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with. It's difficult though, to watch all my peers go out ... (277 words)

Will age decide for me?

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29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 16 years old and i am curently in a relationship with a 23 year old. most of my friends tell me to leav him becouse of the age differance, but him and i get along very well, our relationship isnt sexual but becouse of his age we bouth runn risk with the law. what should i... (60 words)

Only 14-25 year olds answer, please: I'm unsure about what to expect when it comes to handjobs and giving head.

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29 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hello, i am a 14 year old girl going into eight grade. this is the grade where girls start to give hand jobs. I am just unsure of what i should do if this comes upon me, and how it will come upon me. will he most likely ask me to do it, or will it be in the moment??? als... (134 words)

My girlfriend talks about her other guy friends who love her dearly!

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29 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Well this is the Issue. I have recently met a girl at work. She is just amazing, she is 20 but really has a good head on her shoulders. I am 28. We became very good friends pretty fast and then She came to know that I liked her more than a friend and she confronted me about it. ... (852 words)

How much "pocket money" should I give him while he doesn't have a job?

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29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone, I haven't been on his site for a long time but I hope all is well for everyone...my boyfriend of 2 years has just been let go from his job of a few years today and I just happened to just geta promotion...I don't know how to deal with it I know he's really down ... (183 words)

If we both somewhat cheated on each other could we ever have a relationship again?

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29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so Ive been dating this guy for a year and nine months, today we broke up. We have been having problems the last couple of months arguing over pointless things such as him not wanting to cuddle at night and why he was on his phone with his friends the entire time he was ... (384 words)

Every guy I meet has a girlfriend!

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29 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - im wondering if any other girls have been threw this? im in my early 30's single parent,working and renting my own home. Now...the prob is this...every guy i meet has a gf!! Ive been 'the other woman' for over 2yrs now to every man i meet....YES i know you'll say 'stop dating ... (126 words)

I'm a nerd, he's popular. I'm shy, we aren't friends. So how do I tell him I like him?

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29 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I am a very quiet girl at school, and am considered one of the nerds of 8th grade. But I really like this guy, and he is way more popular then me. I want to tell him how I feel, but I am VERY shy, and I'm too afraid to do it. We aren't really friends, because I only started ... (101 words)

He put us on a break, but still wants to hang out! Do I "take out the trash"?

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29 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so his friend changed him within a week of hanging with him, right? (No I'm not kidding), and now my boyfriend is so negative. He said he could never leave me because he loves me too much to do so, but as of yesterday, I realized that everything he said was a lie since he ... (210 words)

My gal says she has lost the spark ... and is now in love with another guy...

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29 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey... well I was in an intense relationship with a gal...with both of us in love with each other...she used to call me her soul mate...and she was the same for me... It was a spiritual connection for both of us and we both involved emotionally with each other...we... (552 words)

If someone withholds love because of pressure from others, isn't that a type of punishment?

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29 August 2009 (M)

age - If someone suddenly withholds love from you and intentionally becomes distant, because of pressure from other family members whom she loves, isn't that like a punishment? In religion, the definition of excommunication is: "A form of censure by a person is excluded ... (92 words)

Should I ask my best friend to have sex with me???

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29 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay. When I was in a part relationship with this girl we were having a bit of "play" on webcam and she ended up going completely naked for me. She is 2 years older than me but I have very strong emotions for her. Unfortunately, she now has to work a lot and we have lost c... (196 words)

I can't stop thinking about this girl I saw on youtube!

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29 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - llatelly ive been spenduling alot of tim on youtube and once i stumbled on this beautfull girl who i instantly fell in lve lwith. i think of her all the time . shes like my perfect match . we share alot of intresst and with alot i mean ALOT ! i just cant stop thinking of her ... (251 words)