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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Been together for 9 years and have a 6 year old child together and he still won't commit!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age - I have just paid thousands of pounds to be on holiday at the same time as my boyfriend. Out of 14 days we spent three days together. Most of the time was fun but some of the time he just kept picking at me and trying to humiliate me. I have returned home nearly two weeks... (276 words)

It's just been in the past six months, but I cum waaay too soon! Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 18 and I cum far too quickly. I cant understand why as its only been for the past 6 months. why is this?... (26 words)

I found out he's an Escort! What should I do here???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5475 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a very strange situation and although i have my own opinions and views, others would be appreciated. To summarise, i met a guy who was involved with someone else and told him he could only be with me if he left her, and so he did, he left their joint home and other ... (558 words)

What can I say to my parents so they will let me go on this date??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5599 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I met a really cute guy 12 days ago, but I never thought he liked me. He is very polite and pretty shy. But today we spent a lot of time together, talked a lot and started to get to know each other. I gave him my phone number,my messenger ID and he gave me his number so we can ... (171 words)

If I'm so "hot", why don't I have many boyfriends, or even offers!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5579 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey lads, new question. Iam a bit confused at the mo. I am 17 right. I have only had two boyfriends, they lasted a good while, 7 months and 1 year! I always thought I wasnt really pretty, but recently, talking to my sister, she has said that her friends (girls) all sai... (143 words)

They were just kids! Do you think the kiss was wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Back in 2000 I saw my niece who was 11 years old kiss a 6 year old boy. It was mutual but she has recently come to me and said that she cant believe that she did it. She is 21 now she and said she has never been with anyone younger than her and always had boyfriends 4 to 5 ... (111 words)

I love my wife but I don't think I want her to be my wife anymore. Need some advice...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

21 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - What to do... I married my highschool sweetheart after ten fun-filled years together. We had an awesome destination wedding and have been together as husband and wife for an just over four years now. We are only 31 years old, so we have basically been together almost ... (413 words)

I need ideas for a special, romantic night with my busy boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5474 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend has been having his exams for two months and he's finishing soon! I never see him! What could I do him (as a special night) when I see him? What could be done nice? As in,sex and in cuddling and any other thing?????????... (45 words)

Do I tell her how I feel, or do I just wait for her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

21 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 20 year old guy, and i think i am in love with a 17 year old girl, I have known her all my life but just realised how beautiful and how nice her personality is. I sent her a message the other day telling her how i felt but the next day i sent one telling her it was the ... (104 words)

I thought we were getting back together, then he texted 'it ain't gonna happen'!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my ex split up just over a month ago and its killin me. im so upset and cant stop thinkin about him. a week after we broke up he was with a new girl so that just hurt even more. feel like i ment nothing to him after over 2 years. but we decided to meet up one day and ... (229 words)

He proposed the 'no contact' rule but he violates it

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex when we broke up asked me to stop texting him so we would both recover fast. I agreed to this and tried my best. The thing is, we still remained in contact because there were things we needed to return to each other. I told him, if indeed he wanted no contact, then we... (209 words)

I get so frustrated with the way his daughter treats me! And all I'm trying to do is help take care of her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok well I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half...he has a 5 yr old daughter from previous relationship and i have a 3 yr old son from a previous relationship. We all live together and his brother stays with us too. His daughter rarely sees her mom bc her mother ... (369 words)

Hubby looking at transvestite porn!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I discovered a few days ago that my husband has been looking at transvestite pornography. Not just looking at it, but magazines, and even a series of emails arranging to meet with a transvestite! The emails were rather mundane to say the least. I tried finding out wh... (168 words)

Too big of a distance to overcome?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Im a girl from Europe and I really need help. I have been talking to a guy through msn and we got to love each other, though we have never met, because he lives in the USA. He told me to ask him anything I dont know and anything I want to know, but I am too shy to ask him ... (378 words)

I have many health-related questions, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have rather large thighs and am wondering what is the best excercise to lose some fat? ----------- I am a virgin but have had oral sex done on me. I tend to bleed. I thought for the first time it was my hymen breaking, but it happens every time. What is going on? ---------... (141 words)

Trust is gone and I don't know if I can forgive him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. I have a question about my current relationship with my boyfriend. We have been together for 2 1/2 years, and I recently found out that he had been sending and receiving x-rated pictures to and from other women roughly a year ago. He also sent very perverted ... (286 words)

My best friend might be pregnant! Her boyfriend is 21. How can I help her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello. I am 15 yrs old and my bestfriend is my same age she is very cool to be around, me and her have been friends for almost 5 years. and recently she started going out with a guy who is 21 which means they are 6 years apart. is that illegal? I guess they are really ... (188 words)

Did my girlfriend plan this baby? Can I trust her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. Im really not sure how to put this really but my gf and i are expecting a baby in early feb, but the thing is im becoming more worried about this as when we both found out i didn't want a child as really we havent been out that long, and i asked her to get an a... (225 words)

Why does he always pull away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - It's a bit long but i'll try and be brief. About 2 yrs ago I met a guy, he was very shy but the more I got to know him (indirectly through work) the more I liked him. Anyway he started to offer to do little jobs for me and after 8 months asked me out, so on our 1st proper ... (400 words)

Men: Do you like clingy women?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5600 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've read a lot of advice from females, but i really want to know what males think. Apparently, males don't like clingy girlfriends. That true? What if the male was clingy, wouldn't he want a clingy girlfriend? What do you think about clingy girlfriends? What would ... (51 words)

If we got together, would he expect me to have sex straight away and think I'm frigid if I don't? He's had 8 people and I'm a virgin!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well theres this guy and he has just turned 20 wheras im 16. Anyway I've known him for ages through family but we didnt really talk much, I usually hung out with his younger brothers. Anyway it was exams this year and he tutored me and hes a great guy! It became clear to me he ... (242 words)

During our split we dated other people. I got pregnant but had an abortion, and since then he always brings it up!! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When I was 13 years old I met this Special someone, we both feel in love the minute we saw each other. And now we are all grown up ages 19 and 20 and we just got married this year. But there is a big problem... Last year we broke up for about 6 months, and in those 6 months we ... (197 words)

I have just found out my boyfriend cheated on me for 8 months!! What shall I say or do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5591 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend (Daniel) for 16 months (since April 2008). The relationship was quite serious from the start as we had know eachother for a while already, we fell in love quite quickly. Around October 2008 to December 2008, we drifted apart due to career ... (581 words)

My new husband has never introduced me to his parents/siblings/family ...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently married my husband in his country of residence, and although we married in the same city as my spouse's parents live in, he did not invite them nor did he ever introduce me to them. He claims it was because he was "on the outs" with them at the time, but later I ... (341 words)

He kisses weird and I don't know how to go about it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay well i started dating this guy and its the best thing that ever happened to me. But i have a problem. when we kiss and he goes to make out with me, i can't think straight! and plus he makes out so different than the other guys i have made out with so i don't know what ... (108 words)

What can I do to not get worked up over little things that he does?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 months..I love him a lot and he helps me through everything. He treats me well and lets me do everything I want to do. Just he annoys me and since I have really bad aniexty it drives me nuts like if he sings, or is all clingy, ... (104 words)

I feel like I just woke up and can't beleive I married him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 28 years old and I was married March of this year. My husband and I had only known each other 8 months before the wedding and only 2 before we got engaged. In January my grandmother passed away and then in February my father unexpectedly passed away as well. Then 2 ... (255 words)

I'm having some very serious sleep deprivation issues and could use some advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) age 30-35 - i have delayed sleep syndrome it is hereditary in my family and means that my natural bio clock is from 4 am to 12am, even as a kid i couldn't sleep before this time. i've managed with this at uni and things. but i havent been able to properly sleep now for two weeks. i fee... (260 words)

I'm married and believe that God hates divorce, but I am drawn to another Christian. What should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi all... I am married to my hubby now for almost 3 years, I am and have never been sexually attracted to him. One thing that really gets to me is that he is not circumsized, I have never been with a guy that has not been circumsized before. Don't get me wrong, he is very clean ... (197 words)

Is being fingered considered as losing your virginity?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - is being fingered considered losing virgin? please answr me,i really need the answer... (13 words)

I'm scared! How can he fit inside me if he is so big? His sexual past also bothers me.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has slept with 71 girls. And i have slept with only 2 boys. We have together for nearly 6 months and we feel we are ready to sleep together. However Im scared at the fact he has slept with 71 girls and way more experienced than me and he is 10.5 inches!!! Im no he ... (93 words)

I can't pee!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i woke up this morning as usual an i went to the bathroom an found i couldnt pee ? im on my period and im dieing to go to pee but i physically cant im not even getting a burning sensation becasue im not even lucky enough to get a drop of pee out to feel a burning sensatio... (70 words)

He wants to go on a date with my cousin to see which one of us he prefers!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys i need your advice please.... i worked as a customer service and i met this guy wich he gave me his cell number. by all means,i never thought to call him because i wasn't really interested on him or on dating anybody anyway due to bad past relationship. T... (579 words)

Is it normal for a guy to want a body like a FEMALE celebrity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were watching an old James Bond film recently - one that had Rosamund Pike in (well, Die Another Day actually!) I commented on how hot Pierce Brosnan was, and my boyfriend agreed, which I found unusual. However, it was when he saw Rosamund Pike's body... (101 words)

Is he telling me the truth about his education?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for three years and although I am a student, my partner works with an estate agency and just two weeks ago he told me he'd like to get married in three years but the problem is my parents would want me to get married to a university degree holder ... (158 words)

How much money should I give my friend as a wedding gift?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was wondering how much money to give to a friend/colleague for her wedding. I have known her for nearly 2 years and have been invited to her wedding for the whole day. She struggles with money and said she prefers cash to vouchers which im happy to give but dont know how mu... (59 words)

Time is running out - is he being selfish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 33 and really, really, really want a baby. My issue is my husband keeps putting this off. His excuses are always, you are still smoking (true), you are recovering from surgery (true), you are going on a holiday with girlfriends soon (true). However this has been go... (153 words)

I don't understand it - why he won't talk to me now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey guys, some really good advice would be great right now :) I had been seeing a guy for about 5 months, but it was always off and on. One week I would hear from him every day, then I wouldn't see or hear from him for maybe a couple of weeks. We really do get along so well, ... (354 words)

My 2nd ex husband left me financially helpless!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4954 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age - Dear Cupid:i was with a man for 9 years: he was my night in shining armour. He was married for 24 years prior to meeting me. His first wife left him because he brought her to financial bankruptcy. He told me it was not his fault for loosing their houses and everything, it was ... (312 words)

Have I lost my virginity? The hymen is so important in my culture and I'm worried I broke it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - sos!! I am Indian girl..i just fingered myself yesterday..n bleeded..have i lost my virginity? is it possible to loose virginity with just using middle finger to masturbate? how deep is the hymen? please help me as hymen is of astronomical importance in our culture..please ... (88 words)

Guy likes girl, best friend says don't get involved with her! What reasons could there be?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - if a guy liked a girl but then his best friend told him that he shouldn't go for her, what reasons could there be behind this if the friend was dating and the girl wasn't that pretty but had a nice personality? ... (42 words)

What makes a girl love someone despite there being lots of better men out there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - what makes a girl love someone though there are tons of better men.better in terms of physic, money and work. dont you think she will leave him if she realises all he can offer her is love?i am a student and i think it might happen to me.my girl is so pretty with lots of ... (79 words)

I have no enthusiasm to see my girlfriend! What's wrong with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I no longer feel enthusiastic about seeing my girlfriend. We haven't been together all that long, but in the early stages she was a lot of fun. Unfortunately, she's gotten very clingy. She wants to see me every day. I'm flattered, but if I say no, she gets moody. I want to ... (72 words)

I found out my boyfriend has been looking at pre-teen porn, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is so hard and I have no one else that I can talk to about this. I am 20 and my I guess you can call him boyfriend(I am rethinking that) have been together almost 5 years. We have been arguing and I have been losing trust in him because he was talking to a girl online. ... (270 words)

Hairy Female!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I'm a 18 year old female with a very hairy stomach! I even have hair all around my nipples. I feel so embarrassed when I go swimming at the beach. I always have to wear a rash shirt or a full piece bathing suit to cover up. I feel too embarrassed to wear a bikini. ... (171 words)

I am attracted to a 16 year old! How do I stop thinking about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My little brother has a friend that he grew up. I watched both of them grow up. Now my little brother is on his way to becoming a career criminal. Always in and out of jail. While my brother has been away, I've been spending a lot of time with his friend. I see him on a daily ... (166 words)

Sex with another

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21 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - dear sir, i got married recently 10 months completed. once also we didn't had sex becoz my husband won't show interest he is not interested, we consulted doctor he told he is having problem, we are planning to divorce, becoz everyday we will shout each other, i have curiosity ... (112 words)

The hardest decision I've ever made

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Kind of a long story but I really need some objective advice...I was dating a guy for almost 2 years and then we got engaged and moved in together everything was fine for about 6 months then sort of fell apart. He ended up leaving me and I was so hurt I didn't want to see him ... (181 words)

I have an interview tomorrow, should I take the job or hang out for more offers?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I normally only post relationship questions but I am desperate for help right now and I don't have anywhere to turn. I am currently looking for a new job and I sent a number of resumes out today. I also got a response from one company and have an interview set up for ... (168 words)

My girlfriend is attracted to her friend's boyfriend. How would you deal with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey folks, could you help me out? I think it's a common thing to sense that your girlfriend (or significant other) is attracted to someone other than yourself, that's just normal, but how do you deal with it when the guy she's attracted to is her friends boyfriend? Of... (246 words)

Confused - he hasn't called.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy on a matrimonial website (a little different than a regular dating website as the intention is for long-term relationships from the get-go eventually leading to marriage). We’re from different provinces. Anyway me and this guy exchanged pics, and liked what we saw ... (291 words)

I thought when she turned 30 sex would be better... it's worse, emotionless... Advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married for just over 9 years. My wife is my best friend and we are still madly in love, so much so it’s almost embarrassing. HOWEVER, sex is still a bit of a mystery. As time goes on, she slowly gives me hints of what she likes/dislikes, but she just won't totally ... (554 words)

I'm having trouble trusting him and it hurts me to see that he has a kid with another girl! Help please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am having trouble forgetting about my boyfriends past?. well its kinda long story we went out 3 years ago, and he had a girl pregnant but I didn't kno till like days later, but he kept telling me that they weren't going out so we were still together. I fell in love with him ... (347 words)

Does looking at porn make me a pervert?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't understand it, I use to watch porn every single day 2 hours a day blah blah. After I lost my virginity things changed.. I don't even remember the last time I watched porno besides today o.0 I mean I waited till my bf's roommate went to bed and went to my favorite porn ... (95 words)

Did I make a mistake?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

- I was seeing a guy (not officially) for 4 and a half months. For the past month I'd been arranging everything, initiating most contact, whereas before he did everything. Last friday he told me he wanted to take a step back and he didnt know if "this" would go anywhere. We ... (176 words)

How or what can I do to help my friend or show support in his family problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend who I sense is having family issues right now. I know this might be out of my business, but he is someone I care a LOT. He is in his 2nd marriage and I think for what he has told me that he´s happy. The thing is he has 2 kids of 13 and 10 years old from h... (306 words)

Stuck between two guys who are cousins.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so im a cheerleader at the collge i attend.. and i cheer for the basket ball team.. over the last couple of months i have getten really close to sum of the guys from the team and i really like three guys #5,#22 but 5 n 22 r cousins n i like them both. they r 3 years ... (185 words)

Does this relationship have a chance to last forever?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5590 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 31 year old mother of 3 young children. I met a 23 year old single guy at my work and started dating him 6 months ago even though I am still married. I was having issues with my marriage, I'm just not in love with my husband anymore, who by the way is the father of all ... (131 words)

How to help someone who is a pathological liar?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How to help someone who is a pathological liar? He has many good qualities except that his weakness is women, he denies he has gf, he can't tell them the truth, just the ones these gals want to hear. He says he is a Christian, I want to help him be a better person, is that ... (57 words)

I want to leave my abusive household but I'm not sure.. please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - im 15 and i know i recently asked this question but i had a nother follow up question for my situations. i had a boyfriend who was 19 and im 15. we are not having sex. we've been together for about 6 months. my parents didnt know about us until they caught us the second time at ... (279 words)

I need tips on how to take care of my face please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my skin is very oily and i get lot of pimples i can t understand what to do and because of i don t like my face i am dark in colour so tell me some suggestion to reduce my darkness from my face. ... (44 words)

My boyfriend doesn't last long enough

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - help my boyfriend cums too soon. we have tried everything to slowing down to less foreplay he cums in less than 4 mins no joke. any ideas on how to help me? thanks... (33 words)

I feel like my parents might split up, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My parents are fighting all the time. My mom says she's mad because her mother in law is mean to her and may dad says he's mad because he feels unappreciated. I think they might split up and we might move. I have friends and I don't want to lose any more friends. I want to do ... (69 words)

Could the gunk on the comforter be semen? How can I get it tested?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5489 days ago

21 August 2009 (M)

age - Dear Cupid, I have found white, milky hard gunk all over my comforter. I suspect my spouse and cleaning lady had oral sex. You see my spouse and I have had no sex of any kind -not even oral sex for 3 years or more. When he drinks alcohol, he blanks out afterward and claims ... (160 words)

Can this 15 year old girl get this 19 year old boy put in jail?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

21 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - what will happen to a 19 year old guy, when a 15yeard girl decide to talk to him, but from the website name mocospace,they started to talk, then she give her number to him, then they started texting each other for a little while, then he stop texting her, then he waited few ... (296 words)

Why can't we just give it a go? Or is this relationship already doomed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing a girl my age for a few weeks now. At nineteen, it's my first relationship. After a prolonged courtship in which neither of us seemed able to tell the other party how we felt and in which she made most of the (rather drunken) moves, I mustered the cou... (436 words)

I want to break up with him, I feel trapped, he's clingy but I've never done this before!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I need to break up with my boyfriend but I don't know how. I've never done it before. I've been thinking about it for some time but when we're together he is so lovely and kind and would do anything for me. Sometimes I think it can work if we just talked our problems ... (652 words)

What do I do when my daughters are being sexually molested!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i dont know what to do when a father is sexually molesting my two daughters. [Moderator note: more information would be helpful for the aunts to give advice.]... (28 words)

How do I tell my parents he's going to be living with me! They scare me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been seeing my boyfriend for 7 months now. It would be an understatement to say that we moved way too fast. He moved in with me, and we weren't even seeing each other for a month. Before that, I spent every day and every night with him. He moved in with me because his ... (489 words)

Should I confront him and ask why he cut contact?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy and I went in several dates together. We go to the same school. we are both in college. We kissed twice and did not have sex. Everything was fine until he just completely stopped calling me or texting me. I tried to text him once only, he replied and we texted for a ... (292 words)

Does this supplement have any bad side effects?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

21 August 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey guys! You have helped me with different things for quite sometime=]. I have a new question for you all. I have been trying to get big mucles. I dropped by GNC one today and they introduced me to a TEST BOOSTER that is 100% Natural, its name is ARIMATEST. Thoug... (179 words)

What do you think they want and what would you do?

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21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, this is really weird-my boyfriend didn't seem like the obsessive type, he didn't txt me every 5 seconds or anything like that, but about 3 years ago we had this fight and he hit me and left marks-a few days after that I noticed him standing across the road from my ... (491 words)

Ladies, how much does your man spend on you each month?

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21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ladies, how much does your boyfriend/fiance/husband generally spend on you each month? I feel like my fiance spends way too much money on me and I feel really guilty. Any advice or input is appreciated =)... (36 words)

Should I try to prove to him I'm not moody?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 1 year and 4 months has recently dumped me as he didnt think i was emotionally ready, this was my "1st love" and have been very upset and finding it difficult to live on as his best friend when i still love him, i miss his company very much too. Im not sure whe... (90 words)

He keeps asking me out, I'm not attracted to him, but I don't like hurting his feelings!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

21 August 2009 (F)

age - I am on an internet dating site. There is a guy who has emailed me about 30 times. He has asked me out on several occasions, i have almost run out of excuses for not accepting. I am not attracted to him but he seems to be obsessed by me. Should i go on a date with him just to ... (87 words)

I like my cousin's wife's half-sister and she likes me, but I don't kno what to do!

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21 August 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi Im confused my cousins wifes half sister really like and I really like her but I don't want to make things uncomfertable in are freindship? What I'm trying to say is what should I do so that we can go out but not make a big deal out of it? Thanks! ... (55 words)

My ex hasn't responded to my invitation to hang out!

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21 August 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey.. So I recently reconnected with an ex boyfriend of mine who I let go two years under stupid circumstances. Well in my heart I feet he is the one. So I contacted him through face book recently and we have been having great conversations, we actually even hung out. So here’s ... (150 words)

Which of these two men is my better choice?

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21 August 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Pls someone should tell me which of these two men is my better choice? Note: i kinda like both of them. pls dont ignore it isnt sooo long. Man A: physically, Taller than i am and moderately built. He is not handsome and not ugly. He is not working but has some sources of ... (296 words)

How do I get her comfortable receiving oral sex?

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21 August 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - my gf is not comfortable with receiving oral sex. how do i get her to become comfortable with it?... (20 words)