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writes:Its kinda of been an on going cycle with my fiance and i. He continues to talk to his xwife. I had caught him one nite calling her at midnite after been drinking. I get very upset. they been divorce for 5 yrs and half his belongings still there. I dont get it. Also the weekends he has his 10 year old son he wont sleep in same bed with me wont talk to me all weekend and i get the cold shoulder. I try talking to him about it but that me being a nag in good terms. when we argue he will constantly tell his buddys our problems and when i try calling him he to busy laughing and joking with them. He is 42. I had to be in hospital for test friday and he had promised he woudd be there last mint he couldnt and i got upset and so i was the nag again.. nor did he call to see how test went. I keep telling myself that cant take it anymore but is it me being selfish and insucure? sincerily sad and lonely in ne
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011): your fiance is being disrespectful and sounds like he needs to grow up. His actions are shockingly rude and dismissive. He is a total idiot and you deserve better. Best of luck x
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (7 March 2011):
"calling her at midnite after been drinking"
He's not totally over her. And he's a jerk, so why don't you move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011): your fiance is a jerk. he doesn't care about you, or at least not enough to be married to you.
well he has to talk to his ex wife since they have a kid together, what did you expect?
but the other stuff shows that he's inconsiderate and doesn't care much about you.
when he calls you a nag, that's just a cop out to shut you up. Don't take it lying down, or this means that whenever he doesn't want to take responsibility for his behavior all he has to do is say you're a nag and you'll back off??
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