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anonymous
writes:i have no one. i have fallen out with all my friends because of this boy i am seeing. i do not drive and only have a part time job which i only work 3 days a week. all i do is wake up and mop around the house and wait untill the weekend to see my bf as i only see him twice a week. i have been thinking and now think that my bf may be with someone else besides me. i think this as when i see him we never leave my house and he doesnt tell anyone that he is in a realtionship, he always says he is dating someone. went i have confronted him about this he says its because i dont want the mother of his baby knowing he is with anyone and her thinking hes taking his child to see another girl. i believed this but recently have been thinking and think he is with her. i think this as he has been seen with her and she have been writing on facebook how she and him had a great day. again i confronted him about this and he says its because he doesnt want anyother girl getting involved with her child. she has now changed her profile pic to her and him. im so fed up i have lost all my friends beacuse of this boy already and now he is breaking my heart slowly by what i think is lies. i dont know what to do i want to end it with him but i do love him and if i end it with him i have no one at all. latley iv been crying myself to sleep every night. i do feel so alone and really dont know what to do. i dont want to messed about but if i end it with him i will have no one at all. im so confused what should i do ???
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reader, ball3rbby  +, writes (8 March 2011):
Girl, you've got a bad boyfriend. It's about time that you start valuing yourself. Value yourself more than to waste your time with someone who doesn't know what you are worth. It's time to stop feeling like it's YOUR fault he treats you like crap. It's time to stop thinking this is the only life meant for you. You are too young and amazing to let something that hurts you consume you. Fill your life with positivity. If that means being alone. BE ALONE. Many of us girls tend to just take what we can get and stick with it. Start loving yourself. Start being picky. Start taking control of your life. Let those dumb guys be alone. Let them be in pain. Most of the assholes out there wont even care if you leave them. They're just keeping you around because they know they can. Show him who's boss. I don't mean to ruin relationships... but i'd rather do that than not say anything while you let someone ruin your life .Also, get back in touch with your friends! It's not healthy to lose contact with friends while in a relationship. You always want to keep them around. Ultimately it is up to YOU to decide if you want to spend the energy keeping this relationship alive, but I'd recommend always keeping your friends close for extra backup and support when your man isn't doing his job!
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reader, AlwaysHereToHelp! +, writes (8 March 2011):
 Hello :) i know exactly how you feel so your not the only one its horrible feeling lonely and when you have only got one person left even if you dont love them you cling onto them for fear of being alone. But this guy just doesnt seem good for you and it must be soo boreing just having to sit indoors and not go out and have fun with him. You need to tell him that you cant have a relotionship with him like this tell him that you want to go out and have fun and be seen together. And his ex girlfrined is going to have to find out sooner or later. If he rufuses then let him go it may be hard but do it it will be the best thing for you. You can make new friends goo to clubs go out have some fun :) meet some new people im sure you will havve no trouble :)
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