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female
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36-40,
*awonder
writes:we have known each other for three years and kept relationship for four months. Everything is perfect, but when he asked if I had ever someone else in mouth, I said yes, and it was 8 years ago with ex bf. He shows upset though he tried to control. And the past experience made me suffered a lot as it happened when I was not ready for sex. And for the 8 years I hardly accept any man til met him. He is kind, patient and bright. So when he suggested a relationship I agreed and gave him virginity. Once I thought we had connect to each other and I can feel him any time I miss him. But now seems the connection is losing. I come back to the period critising myself and feel guilty to him. He asked me take time to recover and said he would wait for me. But I am not sure if it is just the way he make me comfortable and in fact he feels I'm not qualified for him.Everyday in depression and hurt....... feel so sad.....
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reader, aawonder +, writes (8 March 2011):
aawonder is verified as being by the original poster of the questionphhh, it's not bcz of giving virginity to him, but for the experience before....
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (7 March 2011):
 Your boyfriend knows your going through something and instead of calling it off he just wants to give you time. If Im reading this correctly he does have feelings for you but you feel guilty that you gave him your virgintity. Giving a person our virginity is the ultimate proof of love we can give, and many times we feel guitly for giving it up because we are not sure if we are going stay with this person. All I can tell you is go day by day and stop feeling bad because whats done is done and as long as your boyfriend is not pushing you aside, and you love him than continue to work forward in this relationship.
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