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5 years, a child, no marriage because he isn't sure he can be faithful

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Question - (7 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 March 2011)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid i am a 29yr old female i have been in this relationship for 5yrs and we share a son together but he has not ask me to marry him yet because he says that he not sure if he can be faithful and he don't want to hurt me. He says that he wants these feelings to go away so we could get marry and also says that he thinks he has a problem. what should i do? And do you think this a problem he has? Confused

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2011):

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2011):

Be grateful that he is being honest with you....At least you know what your expectations with him are...Why are you confused??

He has told you he does not want to make promises and vows to be faithful without meaning those words or knowing that he is unlikely to be able to fulfill the promise on being faithfull to you...No confusion there

It's left for you do decide with the information and knowledge that you have,what you do with it...Stop trying to deceive yourself saying you are confused because he did not tell you what you want to hear...

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