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*oveitlongtime
writes:I live across the street from this cute guy, we were never really friends up until a couple months ago. The other day my phone rang, and it was my girlfriend telling me she slept with him, I ignored him, and tried to figure out what to do. The next morning my girlfriend texted me and told me it was all a joke, and so did he, he texted me explaining to me that it was a joke and he is sorry, and he told me everything they did together (as in that night)I forgot about it, believed it and moved on, but then yesterday I got a text from him asking me if I wanted to go to the gym, and hang afterward, I was really excited because this was his first time asking me out somewhere, after all the stupid fighting. I agreed, then an hour before we were supposed to leave I saw a text on my phone, saying he was not gonna go and that he was gonna skip, angered I made other plans, as I was getting ready, his home is across from mine, and I see him in the window sleeping with another girl!ANGERED I deleted him off of facebook, and he has not stopped trying to get in contact with me, poking me on facebook, sent me a text what is going on why did you delete me, what did I do, then he texted me again today and goes "when you stop acting like your three years old, I wanted to let you know I am going to the gym tomorrow" I didn't answer, and he keeps trying to get in contact with me, before all this stuff went down I thought he liked me, does he still like me, why is he acting all odd,sleeping with other girls then contacting me
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011): He just likes you as a friend and not anything more and you are carrying on like you are his girlfriend. Looks like he finds that mildly entertaining so he messes you about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2011): Actually it's you that is acting all odd. So what if he sleeps with girls and stuff like that?
It seems to me like you have a thing for him or you wouldn't take him blowing you off to have sex, get to you. Why are you looking in his window at him sleeping with another girl by the way?
What kind of creepy game are you playing?
This guy is a player and he's obviously no interest in you romantically, so you need you stop getting your hopes up and stop reading into his behaviour like he might be interested. He's not otherwise he'd pursue you but he's just acting like a friendly neighbour and you're getting all worked up over nothing.
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (7 March 2011):
 Because you and him are just friends. Of course he is going to ditch you to have sex with a girl he is attracted to. Unless you have started going out etc you cant get upset by him doing this. in fact you really have no right to be mad. but maybe you could ask him why he sends mixed messages or ditches you.
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reader, StarryEyes101  +, writes (7 March 2011):
 He probably has no idea that you know. So is acting all cocky as if he did nothing wrong. A good come back would be "When you stop F***ing about with random chicks. Then you can contact me." But i'd stick at what you are doing hun. Ignore the fool. Walk around with ur head proud. Go out with friends. Meet a guy. Make him jealous. He'll sooner or later realise that he did wrong to mess with you.
Hope this helps
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