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writes:I met this girl last wednesday through a society and got to chatting with her on wednesday and thursday. I felt like we had a pretty fun time coss i was making her and her friends laugh alot (like I usually do). I think id say i was quite friendly and I teased her several times.Because ive started to have feelings for her and i would like to get to noe her betta, im thinking of asking her out this friday when we meet again as a society. Girls do you think its too soon for a guy uve just met to ask you out, even if he acts all confident and you feel comfortable around him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2011): As long as the society you are both members of is not the Hemlock society I say go for it.
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reader, BeSimplyTrue  +, writes (7 March 2011):
 In my opinion there's absolutely nothing wrong with asking out a girl after meeting her in a group once or twice and getting along really well. There's no harm in asking for her number the second time you meet. Actually the first time could have been fine too... I think the key is what kind of connection you've made. Have you had a "real" conversation with her (not just joking around in a group)? I think it helps for the girl to feel like she knows the "real you" a bit before accepting a date with you. Either way, though, it sounds like you're on the right track for asking her out on a first date!
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reader, TEM +, writes (7 March 2011):
 How else will you get to know her better? You are not asking her to marry you. You're just asking her out on a date. It's not too soon, and you have met her through a very good channel (she's not a stranger you met in a cafe, for example). It's warm where you are. Do you know her interests? Ask her to do something light and fun with you.
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